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40 Small Things Couples Find Great Happiness In

40 Small Things Couples Find Great Happiness In

What makes you happy in a relationship? While large gestures can be sweet and romantic, many couples find true happiness in the little, day-to-day things that their partner does. Happiness is simple, and it is easy to make your partner feel happy and loved.

These little gestures can cheer you up and make you feel loved and appreciated, and can even change a bad day into a great day.

Often these gestures are free and take only a few minutes – check out 40 small things that couples often find great joy in.

1. Dancing around the house together when you’re both in a great mood.

2. Your partner covering you in a blanket if you fall asleep on the sofa because they don’t want you to get cold.

3. Having someone who will sing loudly around the house with you when you’re in a good mood.

4. Waking up during the night and rolling over to hug your partner.

5. Watching your favorite TV shows with each other and sharing some snacks.

6. Enjoying a goodbye kiss before you leave for work.

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7. Leaving notes with each other’s lunch, saying how much you love each other.

8. Cooking your favorite meals together, and playing around in the kitchen together.

9. Bringing your partner a hot drink when they are too busy to make one themselves.

10. Receiving an unexpected hug from your partner.

11. Holding each other’s hands whenever you go out together.

12. Falling asleep in each other’s arms on the sofa during a film after a long day.

13. Taking silly pictures with each other, which you will later cherish.

14. Having someone to carry you to bed if you accidentally fall asleep.

15. Surprising your partner by cooking their favorite meal for them.

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16. Hanging out together in a relaxed, comfortable silence.

17. Buying each other little treats, like ice cream, chips or sweets.

18. Taking long naps together during time off from work.

19. Their smile making you feel genuinely happy.

20. Having someone to hold you close when you are feeling down.

21. Going to the store late at night together to buy tasty snacks for late night cravings.

22. Long, meaningful hugs when one of you is feeling down.

23. Surprising each other by treating each other to occasional breakfast in bed.

24. Staying up laughing all night when you should really be sleeping.

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25. Doing the weekly food shop together, while joking your way around the supermarket.

26. Unexpected kisses that take your breath away and put a smile on your face.

27. Receiving a phone call or text from them when you are not together, saying they are thinking of you.

28. Waking your partner up to give them a hug before you leave for work.

29. Visiting beautiful places together, like local parks and museums.

30. Doing jobs together to make them easier, like moving in or putting up Christmas decorations.

31. Listening to your favorite bands together and introducing each other to new music.

32. Sneaking a glance at your partner and admiring them.

33. Hanging out together doing separate things, but enjoying each other’s company.

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34. Enjoying a beautiful sunset together.

35. Giving your partner your coat or scarf when they look a little chilly.

36. Play fighting with each other in bed. You don’t care about winning – just playing with each other puts big smiles on your faces.

37. Doing silly things together that you would do with no one else, like building a pillow fort or drawing on each other’s faces.

38. Doing the jobs your partner hates for them, like loading the dishwasher or tidying the bedroom.

39. Running your partner a bath after they have had a long, hard day.

40. Waking you up in the mornings with a hot drink and a smile on their face.

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Amy is a writer who blogs about relationships and lifestyle advice.

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Last Updated on September 12, 2019

12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

12 Things You Should Remember When Feeling Lost in Life

Even the most charismatic people you know, whether in person or celebrities of some sort, experience days where they feel lost in life and isolated from everyone else.

While it’s good to know we aren’t alone in this feeling, the question still remains:

What should we do when we feel lost and lonely?

Here are 12 things to remember:

1. Recognize That It’s Okay!

The truth is, there are times you need to be alone. If you’ve always been accustomed to being in contact with people, this may prove difficult.

However, learning how to be alone and comfortable in your own skin will give you confidence and a sense of self reliance.

We cheat ourselves out of the opportunity to become self reliant when we look for constant companionship.

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2. Use Your Lost and Loneliness as a Self-Directing Guide

You’ve most likely heard the expression: “You have to know where you’ve been to know where you’re going.”

Loneliness also serves as a life signal to indicate you’re in search of something. It’s when we’re in the midst of solitude that answers come from true soul searching.

Remember, there is more to life than what you’re feeling.

3. Realize Loneliness Helps You Face the Truth

Being in the constant company of others, although comforting sometimes, can often serve as a distraction when we need to face the reality of a situation.

Solitude cuts straight to the chase and forces you to deal with the problem at hand. See it as a blessing that can serve as a catalyst to set things right!

4. Be Aware That You Have More Control Than You Think

Typically, when we see ourselves as being lost or lonely, it gives us an excuse to view everything we come in contact with in a negative light. It lends itself to putting ourselves in the victim mode, when the truth of the matter is that you choose your attitude in every situation.

No one can force a feeling upon you! It is YOU who has the ultimate say as to how you choose to react.

5. Embrace the Freedom That the Feeling of Being Alone Can Offer

Instead of wallowing in self pity, which many are prone to do because of loneliness, try looking at your circumstance as a new-found freedom.

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Most people are in constant need of approval of their viewpoints. Try enjoying the fact that  you don’t need everyone you care about to support your decisions.

6. Acknowledge the Person You Are Now

Perhaps you feel a sense of loneliness and confusion because your life circumstances have taken you away from the persona that others know to be you.

Perhaps the new you differs radically from the old. Realize that life is about change and how we react to that change. It’s okay that you’re not who you used to be.

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7. Keep Striving to Do Your Best

Often those who are feeling isolated and unto themselves will develop a defeatist attitude. They’ll do substandard work because their self esteem is low and they don’t care.

Never let this feeling take away your sense of worth! Do your best always and when you come through this dark time, others will admire how you stayed determined in spite of the obstacles you had to overcome.

And to live your best life, you must do this ONE thing: step out of your comfort zone.

8. Don’t Forget That Time Is Precious

When we’re lost in a sea of loneliness and depression, it’s all too easy to reflect on regrets of past life events. This does nothing but feed negativity and perpetuate the situation.

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Instead of falling prey to this common pitfall, put one foot in front of the other and acknowledge every positive step you take. By doing this, you can celebrate the struggles you overcome at the end of the day.

9. Remember, Things Happen for a Reason

Every circumstance we encounter in our life is designed to teach us and that lesson is in turn passed on to others.

Sometimes we’re fortunate enough to figure out the lesson to be learned, while other times, we simply need to have faith that if the lesson wasn’t meant directly for us to learn from, how we handled it was observed by someone who needed to learn.

Your solitude and feeling of lost, in this instance, although painful possibly, may be teaching someone else.

10. Journal During This Time

Record your thoughts when you’re at the height of loneliness and feeling lost. You’ll be amazed when you reflect back at how you viewed things at the time and how far you’ve come later.

This time (if recorded) can give you a keen insight into who you are and what makes you feel the way you feel.

11. Remember You Aren’t the First to Feel This Way

It’s quite common to feel as if we’re alone and no one else has ever felt this way before. We think this because at the time of our distress, we’re silently observing others around us who are seemingly fine in every way.

The truth is, we can’t possibly know the struggles of those around us unless they elect to share them. We ALL have known this pain!

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Try confiding in someone you trust and ask them how they deal with these feelings when they experienced it. You may be surprised at what you learn.

12. Ask for Help If the Problem Persists

The feeling of being lost and lonely is common to everyone, but typically it will last for a relatively short period of time.

Most people will confess to, at one time or another, being in a “funk.” But if the problem persists longer than you feel it should, don’t ignore it.

When your ability to reason and consider things rationally becomes impaired, do not poo poo the problem away and think it isn’t worthy of attention. Seek medical help.

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Final Thoughts

Loneliness and a sense of feeling lost can in many ways be extremely painful and difficult to deal with at best. However, these feelings can also serve as a catalyst for change in our lives if we acknowledge them and act.

Above anything, cherish your mental well being and don’t underestimate its worth. Seek professional guidance if you’re unable to distinguish between a sense of freedom for yourself and a sense of despair.

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