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40 Small Things Couples Find Great Happiness In

40 Small Things Couples Find Great Happiness In

What makes you happy in a relationship? While large gestures can be sweet and romantic, many couples find true happiness in the little, day-to-day things that their partner does. Happiness is simple, and it is easy to make your partner feel happy and loved.

These little gestures can cheer you up and make you feel loved and appreciated, and can even change a bad day into a great day.

Often these gestures are free and take only a few minutes – check out 40 small things that couples often find great joy in.

1. Dancing around the house together when you’re both in a great mood.

2. Your partner covering you in a blanket if you fall asleep on the sofa because they don’t want you to get cold.

3. Having someone who will sing loudly around the house with you when you’re in a good mood.

4. Waking up during the night and rolling over to hug your partner.

5. Watching your favorite TV shows with each other and sharing some snacks.

6. Enjoying a goodbye kiss before you leave for work.

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7. Leaving notes with each other’s lunch, saying how much you love each other.

8. Cooking your favorite meals together, and playing around in the kitchen together.

9. Bringing your partner a hot drink when they are too busy to make one themselves.

10. Receiving an unexpected hug from your partner.

11. Holding each other’s hands whenever you go out together.

12. Falling asleep in each other’s arms on the sofa during a film after a long day.

13. Taking silly pictures with each other, which you will later cherish.

14. Having someone to carry you to bed if you accidentally fall asleep.

15. Surprising your partner by cooking their favorite meal for them.

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16. Hanging out together in a relaxed, comfortable silence.

17. Buying each other little treats, like ice cream, chips or sweets.

18. Taking long naps together during time off from work.

19. Their smile making you feel genuinely happy.

20. Having someone to hold you close when you are feeling down.

21. Going to the store late at night together to buy tasty snacks for late night cravings.

22. Long, meaningful hugs when one of you is feeling down.

23. Surprising each other by treating each other to occasional breakfast in bed.

24. Staying up laughing all night when you should really be sleeping.

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25. Doing the weekly food shop together, while joking your way around the supermarket.

26. Unexpected kisses that take your breath away and put a smile on your face.

27. Receiving a phone call or text from them when you are not together, saying they are thinking of you.

28. Waking your partner up to give them a hug before you leave for work.

29. Visiting beautiful places together, like local parks and museums.

30. Doing jobs together to make them easier, like moving in or putting up Christmas decorations.

31. Listening to your favorite bands together and introducing each other to new music.

32. Sneaking a glance at your partner and admiring them.

33. Hanging out together doing separate things, but enjoying each other’s company.

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34. Enjoying a beautiful sunset together.

35. Giving your partner your coat or scarf when they look a little chilly.

36. Play fighting with each other in bed. You don’t care about winning – just playing with each other puts big smiles on your faces.

37. Doing silly things together that you would do with no one else, like building a pillow fort or drawing on each other’s faces.

38. Doing the jobs your partner hates for them, like loading the dishwasher or tidying the bedroom.

39. Running your partner a bath after they have had a long, hard day.

40. Waking you up in the mornings with a hot drink and a smile on their face.

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Amy Johnson

Amy is a writer who blogs about relationships and lifestyle advice.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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