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9 Lessons from Movies that Will Change your Life

9 Lessons from Movies that Will Change your Life

For many of us, modern cinema and life in general are quite heavily connected. Whilst it’s delusional to think that life works just like the movies, there are plenty of little lessons that you can take from the world of cinema into your own life. If you aren’t sure what we mean by this, we have compiled a list of events from movies that will effectively change your life once you see them and understand them. Here are just nine of the finest lessons from movies that will change your life, giving you a whole new grasp on the future;

1. Bruce Almighty

The first one our list is the popular Jim Carrey movie whereby he believes that God is punishing him with a raft of bad luck. He complains about God and, in typical movie style, ends up becoming God for the day to try and deal with all the problems. It’s a nice little lesson to remember from a movie, albeit a rather silly one.  How would you deal with things if you were God? And do you REALLY think that some entity in the sky is firing down bad luck rays at you? Life’s tough, but not personal.

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2. Me Again

This gets a shot on the list as it always shows you that the mantra of “you don’t know what you‘ve got ‘til it’s gone” comes into play. We always want something different to what we have, and this will give you an idea to see just how this can actually work out – you might just realize that life really isn’t all that bad for you at the moment.

3. Peaceful Warrior

Many of us believe that thinking with the heart over the head is a silly endeavor and will usually just lead to silly mistakes and regrets. This movie, though, totally changes that narrative into showing you what will happen when we just go for what we want and don’t look at the spreadsheet equivalent decision.

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4. The Family Man

Another good movie for learning a lesson from is The Family Man. It shows you a world whereby a rich investment banker gets to see the alternate reality, where he chose his girlfriend over the big career. It’s a nice way to show us just how different our lives can potentially be. Just take the time that you need to watch this film and understand the message – it might help you make the same decision one day.

5. Yes Man

Yes Man is hugely popular, too. This shows you what happens when you just decide to go the other way and say yes to everything. We usually deny anything we didn’t actively set out to get, so it’s nice to see what can happen if you change the rhetoric and see how life would treat you if you just simply followed the positive feeling of just saying yes!

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6. Rise of the Guardians

A film all about overcoming fear through faith, this can show us that being able to believe in your own decisions and the path you are on is more powerful than any other suggestion or realistic appraisal that you can turn to. If you’re losing faith in your own ability to change things up and make your life better, you need to watch this absolutely outstanding movie.

7. August Rush

Another hugely popular movie is August Rush because it reminds us that there are many things on this planet we can connect with that haven’t been invented in the last 20 years. It’s a great way to remind ourselves of the world that lies out there, just waiting for us to appear.

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8. The Ultimate Gift

This movie will give you a real appreciation for what it’s like to just have a dream, and have the ability to push those boundaries a little bit further back. It’s the perfect way to teach you about character and what it stands for.

9. Fireproof

Fireproof teaches us to be able to always keep learning and to never stop looking for new things in our lives that can empower us, make us better people. It’s a great way to realize that the person you are with, for example, is better than you think.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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