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How You Should Deliver Bad News To The Boss

How You Should Deliver Bad News To The Boss

Nobody likes to present bad news. Delivering bad news to a supervisor or your boss is always a scary situation. Even if you have a very good relationship with your boss, there are going to be some situations you probably feel uncomfortable with, such as disclosing bad news or any a mistake you have made.

By learning a few tips on how to present bad work-related news to your boss, you can save your work relationships rather than damage them. Giving someone bad news is never easy, but there are better and worse ways to do it.

Here are some ways to approach your boss with bad news.

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1. Prepare yourself emotionally.

Bad news can be stressful for anyone who is involved in the conversation. To manage this stress, it is important to prepare yourself .Take some time to calm your mind and think about what you want to say. If you do this, your emotions will be controlled. By speaking in a calm and clear manner, you will demonstrate that you are prepared and professional. As such, you are less likely to make the situation worse.  Avoid getting overly emotional or acting overly sympathetic. The news might be bad, but you are still at work and dealing with a superior, so conduct yourself accordingly. Remember that your attitude and the clarity of your message are two very important components in this conversation.

2. Tell only your boss.

Don’t deliver bad news casually or in passing. In other words, establish a situation and a context for the conversation, instead of just throwing it at someone. Don’t share the bad work news with your colleagues. It might make you feel better to rehearse how to tell your supervisor with someone else first, but the news should go to your boss directly. Leave it to the boss to decide whether the whole office needs to know.

3. Bring the whole story to the table.

When you tell your boss bad news, give him all the information. Skipping some details might seem like a good way to soften the blow, but your boss will need all the information in order to handle the situation properly and will appreciate your honesty.

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After you deliver bad news, you can explain reasons and causes. Precisely, you should explain what happened as well as the steps you took to minimize the risk. Your supervisor or boss would want to know this information, and he has a right to know it. Avoid including your opinion or advice when you deliver bad news, unless you are asked to share your thoughts or views. Without permission, adding your personal views is unprofessional and will not be helpful to your boss at this stage.

4. Get ready to answer the questions.

Get yourself prepared for the queries your boss could ask about the bad news you’re sharing or about potential solutions to the problematic situation. Make sure you are already aware of all the facts associated with the news, causes and possible techniques to correct the situation.

5. Stand unbiased and be an objective party.

Being biased and passing liability to others will not solve the problem. Instead, it will portray you as a negative and selfish person—the opposite of what you want.

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Identifying the responsible person behind the any bad situation isn’t necessary to solve the problem immediately. The best way to handle the situation is this: you should forget the reason until a solution has been found. Avoiding any allegations on the spot will helps you to avoid looking like you’re stabbing another employee in the back to save face.

6. Provide solutions.

Before you deliver bad news to your boss, contemplate possible ways to solve the problem. Try to discuss with your boss the specific steps you have already taken and express your ideas for getting fruitful results.

Remember, delivering bad news in a better way can certainly strengthen your relationship with colleagues. Hence, it’s certainly worth learning how to do it effectively! Don’t take the reaction of your supervisor or boss personally and remember that you’re just doing your job.

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Tayyab Babar

Tayyab is a PR/Marketing consultant. He writes about work, productivity and tech tips at Lifehack.

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How to Find Your Entrepreneurial Passion and Purpose

How to Find Your Entrepreneurial Passion and Purpose

I wrote a few articles about starting a business based on something you love doing and are passionate about. I received several responses from people saying they weren’t sure how to go about figuring out what they were most passionate about or how to find their true purpose. So I’m dedicating this article to these issues — how to find your entrepreneurial passion and purpose.

When I work with a new client, the first thing we talk about is lifestyle design. I ask each client, “What do you want your life to look like?” If you designed a business without answering this question, you could create a nice, profitable business that is completely incompatible with your goals in life. You’d be making money, but you’d probably be miserable.

When you’re looking for your life purpose, lifestyle design isn’t a crucial component. However, since we’re talking about entrepreneurial purpose, lifestyle design is indeed crucial to building a business that you’ll enjoy and truly be passionate about.

For example, say you want to spend more time at home with your family. Would you be happy with a business that kept you in an office or out of town much of the time? On the flip side, if you wanted to travel and see the world, how well could you accomplish that goal if your business required your presence, day in and day out, to survive? So start by getting some clarity on your personal goals and spend some time working on designing your life.

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At this point, you may need a little prodding, and you may want to hire a coach or mentor to work with you through this process. Many people are very used to the idea that there is a particular way a life “should” be. There are certain milestones most people tend to live by, and if you don’t meet those markers when or in the manner you’re “supposed” to meet them, that can cause some anxiety.

Here’s how to find your passion and purpose:

Give Yourself Permission to Dream a Little

Remember that this is your life and you can live it however you choose. Call it meditation or fantasy, but let your imagination run here. And answer this question:

“If you had no fears or financial limitations, what would your ideal life, one in which you could be totally content and happy, look like?”

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Once you’ve figured out your lifestyle design, it’s time to do a little more soul-searching to figure out what you’re truly passionate about. This is a time to really look within and look back.

Specifically, look back over your life history. When were you the happiest? What did you enjoy doing the most? Remember that what you’re looking for doesn’t necessarily have to be an entire job, but can actually be aspects of your past jobs or hobbies that you’ve really enjoyed.

Think About a Larger Life Purpose

Many successful entrepreneurs have earned their place in history by setting out to make a difference in the world. Is there a specific issue or cause that is important to you or that you’re particularly passionate about?

For some, this process of discovery may come easily. You may go through these questions and thought experiments and find the answers quickly. For others, it may be more difficult. In some cases, you may suffer from a generalized lack of passion and purpose in your life.

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Sometimes, this can come from having suppressed passion in your life for too long. Sometimes, it can come from eating poorly and lack of exercise. But occasionally, it may have something to do with your internal chemistry or programming. If the latter applies to you, it may be useful for you to seek help in the form of a coach, mentor, or counselor.

In other cases, not knowing your true purpose may be a matter of having not discovered it yet: you may not have found anything that makes your heart beat faster. If this is the case, now is the time to explore!

The Internet is a fantastic tool for learning and exploration. Search hobbies and careers and learn as much as you can about any topic that triggers your interest, then follow up at the library on the things that really intrigue you. Again, remember that this is your life and only you can give yourself permission to explore all that the world has available to you.

How Do You Know When You’ve Found Your True Entrepreneurial Purpose?

I can only tell you how I knew when I had discovered my own — it didn’t hit me like a ton of bricks. Rather, it settled over me, bringing a deep sense of peace and commitment. It felt like I had arrived home and knew exactly what to do and how to proceed.

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Everything flowed easily from that point forward. That’s not to say that I found success immediately after that moment. But rather, the path ahead of me was clear, so I knew what to do.

Decisions were easier and came faster to me. And success has come on MY terms, according to my own definitions of what success means to me in my own lifestyle design.

Dig deep, look within, and seek whatever help you need. Once you find that purpose and passion, your life — not just your entrepreneurial life, but your entire life — will never be the same.

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