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20 Invaluable Keys to Success That You’ve Been Ignoring

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20 Invaluable Keys to Success That You’ve Been Ignoring

You’re not ordinary. You’ve known it for quite some time.

You’re talented, clever, charismatic when necessary, passionate, and driven. People are impressed by you.

You’ve always been able to figure how to get things done, and you’re not afraid of hard work.

Why, then, does success seem to elude you?

Not that you’re unaccomplished. But you never actually feel successful. You look at others who seem happy, and something just doesn’t seem right in your world

Plus, it exhausts you to imagine that you’ll have to keep this up for another 40 years.

So, what are you missing? Could it be that you’ve been ignoring what’s been under your nose?

Could any of these keys to success unlock the door you’ve bloodied your knuckles on for too long?

1. Are you not delivering what people really need?

It’s actually quite simple: successful people meet other people’s needs.

Everything people need boils down to one of these six things.

  • A sense of safety and predictability
  • A sense of fun and adventure
  • A sense of significance and worthiness
  • A sense of connection and acceptance
  • A sense of learning and growing
  • A sense of contributing and giving back

If you aren’t meeting one of those things or you aren’t communicating effectively that you meet one of those things, success will elude you.

Key: Make sure you are meeting people’s needs.

2. Are you undervaluing yourself?

I once had a remarkable conversation with an incredibly well-paid consultant. I asked, “What gives you the guts to charge as much as you do?”

This was the answer. “Companies come to me to solve a problem they haven’t been able to solve on their own. I do my research to find out who will be in the room with me. Then I find out how much the highest paid person in the room makes per hour. I charge 20% more.”

“And people pay you that?”

“What’s the alternative? Keep your problem or keep your money. If a problem is going to be solved, the biggest power-player in the room must buy-in to what I’m saying. In this world, money is tied to authority. The one making the most money is believed to have the most authority. When everyone in the room trusts my authority, we can stop playing games and start solving problems.”

Can you solve problems? Then you should never be broke.

Key: Insist on adequate compensation for your time, skills & the value you create.

3. Are you in an unsustainable cycle?

Confession: I am a recovering super-achiever. It is an addiction that came close to costing me my life, and it definitely cost me precious years of my life.

Trying to prove how special and important I could be, I would binge on work and meetings, thinking I was so clever by burning the candle at both ends.

I led a double-life. Safe where no one could see me, I would collapse into my bed. After sleeping for 22 hours, I’d wake up to eat something and crawl in bed again.  Not Sleeping Beauty, I was Sleeping Ugly. I felt like a failure and a fraud. Nothing I ever did felt good enough.

Eventually, I found a gifted therapist who helped me see what was going on. I thought my problem was depression; she showed me the problem was my completely out-of-whack concept of success.  Super-achievement is not sustainable, and my body was screaming at me to slow down.  I ignored its screams, so it had no other choice but to shut down.

I had to re-train my brain to normalize, to stop functioning on super-high or super-low. I had to learn how to coast. I had to learn how to be human again.

Achieving only feels successful when you accept that you don’t have to prove yourself, but you choose to achieve because you are capable of it.

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Key: End polarizing cycles to develop sustainable activity levels.

4. Are you trying to fulfill someone else’s definition of success?

Have you convinced yourself that you need to be the astronaut your mom always dreamed of becoming, while you long to crank out perfect French macarons?

Does the Kool-Aid have you thinking that your life isn’t good enough? You don’t earn enough, spend enough, or look slick enough?

You’ll never feel enduring success if you’re fulfilling someone else’s definition of success. Ask yourself, “What do I really want? What do I need to do, see, experience, and know to feel successful, no matter what anyone else thinks?”

Key: Define success on your terms.

5. Are you following the rules of a no-win game?

What do these statements have in common?

  • “I’ll be successful when my students reach the benchmarks on their tests.”
  • “I’ll be successful when I’ve found the woman I want to marry.”
  • “I’ll be successful when I’m tenured at an R-1 university.”

They all make your success dependent upon others or an outcome beyond your control, not your effort or experience.

Here’s a re-frame of each one:

  • “I’ll feel successful when I have delivered a structured curriculum that supports my students with engaging learning activities.”
  • “I’ll be successful when I see myself as a man who has integrity and the desire to commit to a passionate relationship with a equally genuine woman.”
  • “I’ll be successful when I consistently conduct research that is inline with my passions and intellectual rigor.”

Key: Make your success dependent upon you and no one else.

6. Are you unable to recognize success?

What if you’ve already hit the jackpot, but you don’t even know it? That happens when you have mistaken beliefs about what success means.

Success doesn’t mean that problems go away, that life gets easier, or the things that tripped you up before will never trip you up again.

Being successful means that you have achieved a goal you set.

There is a Zen saying,

“Before Enlightenment, chop wood, carry water. After Enlightenment, chop wood, carry water.”

It means that once you reach a goal, life still goes on.

Key: Celebrate your victories, big AND small.

7. Are you chasing your tail?

You have plenty of drive, but you’re getting nowhere. You know what you want and you take action, but your method is all wrong.

Get an outsider’s opinion.  Everyone knows the dog is chasing its tail, except the dog.

Stop action. Survey what’s not working. Get an expert to show you the way. Then get after it.

Key: Follow a proven action plan that gets results.

8. Are you chasing anything that moves?

When you first start off, you can feel so desperate to get going that you jump at anything that looks like it might lead to success.

This can lead you on a wild goose chase that zaps your resources and leave you disillusioned, at best.

Additionally, when you begin to experience success, people will begin knocking at your door. They may present “opportunities” that could actually lead you away from your vision, causing you to lose ground.

If either of these situations seem familiar, you’ve got to go back to the drawing board. Re-evaluate what you really want to accomplish. Do some research and ask advice from the people who have achieved what you want. Seek opportunities that are in-line with your goals, and graciously decline everything else.

Key: Clarify your mission and evaluate possible opportunities with it in mind.

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9. Are you too afraid to say ‘no’?

You start off the day with your to-do list when the phone rings. Suddenly you’re derailed by someone needing a favor. You’re picking up dry cleaning, making cupcakes for birthday parties, and proofreading articles because you are too afraid to say, “No.”

Dr. Brenè Brown advises: “Choose discomfort over resentment.” She means that while it you may feel uncomfortable to saying, “I’m not going to be able to help you,” it will save you from feeling resentful, stressed, and unaccomplished later.

If you have the time and energy for other things later, then pitch-in when you can. But not because you “should” out of a sense of guilt.

Key: Make your priorities top priority.

10. Are you trying to remember it all?

Keeping up with your empire without keeping notes?

Maybe it seems rather elementary, but that’s the point. It’s so simple that you could be forgetting it. What else are you forgetting?

Have a system for writing everything down and organizing it. There are plenty of apps you can use on your phone, like Evernote. Or go with the old reliable: keep it in a small notebook that goes with you wherever you go.

You can use your notes later to write your book on how you became so brilliantly successful.

Key: Write down your success story.

11. Are you trying to do it all on your own?

“It’s ok. I got this.” This is the mantra of doom.

You think that people will think you can’t handle it or that it’s just easier for you to do it.

You spend your valuable time doing the minutia that someone else could do. Meanwhile, you don’t have the time or the energy to make the final steps to carry the ball over the line for the big touchdown.

Success is so close, but you can’t see it because you’re licking envelopes.

Key: Suck it up and ask for help.

12. Are you trying to re-invent the wheel?

You’ve been inspired by a master to pursuit your passion.  You’ve read the books, attended the seminars, and earned the certifications. You’ve even built yourself a nice little website and printed business cards. But you’ve produced nothing of your own. You’re paralyzed by the thought of creating original content. “It’s all been said. I have nothing original to say.”

Guess what? It’s all been said. You have nothing original to say.

Say it anyway. If it’s the truth, it’s the truth. You have as much right to say it as anyone else. Even if it’s not The Truth; it’s your truth.

You aren’t going to take other people’s stuff and put your name on it. That is cheating.

Think of yourself as a collage artist, picking amongst all the bits to find the ones you want and arranging them in a way that is uniquely you. Show how you see the world. No one else can offer that.

Key: Unashamedly copy the masters.

13. Are you not taking decisive action consistently?

Ideation is no problem for you.  You’ve got more inventions and schemes than Rube Goldberg.

Your problem is that you aren’t taking action, or if you do it’s too intermittent.

Consistency is the key to excellence. You need to get into daily routines of action. Alternately, team up with someone who takes the action, but is short on ideas.

No matter who takes the action, make it a habit to accomplish one critical action step each day.

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Key: Take intentional action daily.

14. Are you biting off more than you can chew?

Do you have three major deadlines hitting in a week but find yourself binge-watching episodes of Dexter? The pressure feels too much so you avoid it.

It’s the same feeling when your room was a “total disaster” and your mom said you couldn’t meet up with your friends until it was clean. How many Saturdays did I spend huffing around the house? “It’s too hard! This’ll take forever!”

Thankfully I had a mom who didn’t rescue me. Instead, she patiently brought me back to my room. “Take one corner at a time, Leslie. Don’t think about everything. Just deal with one thing. It will get done.” An hour or so later, I’d be smiling with pride.

Go ahead. Bite off more than you can chew. Then spit it out, and nibble away.

Key: Break intimidating projects into small tasks to do one at a time.

15. Are you working from your weaknesses instead of your strengths?

When things come easy to us, we tend to think that they’re no big deal.  Surely, everybody could do it if it’s so simple for me, right?

Wrong.

They are called gifts because they are valuable. When something comes easily to you, accept it humbly as a gift.  Don’t blow it off.  By using these gifts as frequently as possible, you are able to achieve so much more.

Can you be more successful if you enlist someone with the gifts you don’t have to tackle those challenges?  How much more can you produce when you are free to do the things you are really good at?

Key: Honor your gifts to increase your productivity.

16. Are you missing opportunities to team-up?

Are you a dentist who sees other dentists as your archenemies? You think you’ve gotta beat those other whitecoats to a bloody pulp and have all the dirty mouths for yourself?

What if instead of beating the competition you could find a way of joining them?

What are cooperative strategies that can help you achieve more while sharing the spoils?  Like bicyclists drafting each other in a group, you can work less and achieve more by working together.

You can check out Blue Ocean Strategy for specific ideas.  Here’s the idea in a nut shell: you can fight to the death against your competition to make a bloody red ocean, but that makes a mess and limits gains. With smart strategies, you can create powerful teams with your competitors to deliver greater experiences for your customers and dramatically increase gains for everyone involved.

Key: Create strategic partnerships with your competition to achieve more.

17. Is your fear of mediocrity is making you mediocre?

Anyone with high standards has a natural-born abhorrence for mediocrity. It’s what drives you towards excellence. This drives you to take your work seriously and to see the small details others overlook.  It is your gift.

Don’t let it be your curse. Studies show that academics with perfectionistic tendencies significantly under-perform their counter-parts, publishing significantly less and in less-prestigious journals.

Train yourself to aim for great, but to still release your “good” to the world. Choose to feel the cringe from typos in your New York Times Best Seller than to have your grandchildren find your long-forgotten manuscript after you’ve died.

Key: Launch your products when they are “good enough.”

18. Are you letting your standards slip?

At the other extreme, it could be that you’re letting yourself off the hook way too easily. Going through the motions with little thought or concern about making a product of value to anyone.

Your work could have a “Made in China” sticker and come wrapped in cellophane. No offense to China.

Well, “no duh” you don’t feel successful! There’s only one reason people play the game this way: they’re afraid of putting in real effort that people might reject, so they just pretend.

Hey, we see your game, and we don’t feel sorry for you. You have gifts and resources; use them! To feel successful, you have to invest your whole self, just like the hokey-pokey.

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Key: Get skin in the game and play to win.

19. Are you not asking questions because you are afraid to look like you don’t know something?

When you become the designated leader, your ego can shoot you in the foot. It lies to you, whispering, “You’re supposed to know this stuff already. Everyone will think you’re a fraud if you ask that question. Just keep your mouth shut, and everything will be ok.”

But think about it.  Haven’t you worked for someone who acted like they knew it all, while even the interns could see problems and offer solutions that the boss seemed oblivious to? Do you respect people like that?  Did you feel valued by them? Did you want them to succeed? No, you only come to work in the hopes you could witness them do an epic slip in a mess of their own business.

Be brave enough to ask questions. Be humble enough to let others take their turn as the expert. Be the leader others choose to follow.

Key: Check your ego and ask questions when you don’t know something.

20. Are you blaming others for your scheisse?

Somewhere along the line, our society got off the responsibility train.  We convinced ourselves that integrity, honor, trust, and bravery were acceptable sacrifices in the battle for greater success.

What we’ve created is a papier-mâché world where everyone’s pointing fingers. Entire industries are built on complaining and blaming.

You can choose to wake up. The instant you take total responsibility for everything that happens in your life is the moment you take a major step toward success – true success.

Dare to see the truth. It won’t hurt you. It’s the only thing that will help you.

If you are dissatisfied with your business, your health, your relationships, your income, take 100% responsibility for it. No one is to blame but you. No one has more power to change it than you!

Key: Take 100% responsibility for everything you do.

A few years ago I read the biography of Mahatma Gandhi, trying to understand what made him a great person. I kept reading for the part where he became great, and guess what? I never found it.

I think Gandhi would agree with me. He didn’t see himself as “A Great Leader.” He simply did tend to the problems that were in front of him to the best of his abilities.

Our world is rife with problems. We need you to solve them.  Not all of them, but the ones you are uniquely capable of solving.

You are not ordinary. You are flipping brilliant. You have gifts that could revolutionize the world as we know it.

It’s time to get out of your own way. It’s time to play to win. It’s time to dare greatly.

In the end, your success is not about you. Your success may never win you an award. It may never lead to a fancy house. It may never get you interviewed by Oprah. Don’t confuse the two.

People may never even realize how deeply you affected their lives.

If you’re truly successful, you just might inspire your co-workers to gossip less and help each other more. You might inspire the other nurses on your floor to see their patients as people more often. You may find the patience to listen to your son and finally understand why he feels so angry.

Your success is about much more than you.

Just like Gandhi, your humble success will change the world. All you need to do is tend to the problems in front of you to the best of your abilities.

The keys to success are here.

Are you ready to unlock the door?

Featured photo credit: old keys on a old book, antique wood background via shutterstock.com

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Last Updated on October 7, 2021

Are You Addicted to Productivity?

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Are You Addicted to Productivity?

“It’s great to be productive. It really is. But sometimes, we chase productivity so much that it makes us, well, unproductive. It’s easy to read a lot about how to be more productive, but don’t forget that you have to make that time up.”

Matt Cutts wrote that back in 2013,[1]

“Today, search for ‘productivity’ and Google will come back with about 663,000,000 results. If you decide to go down this rabbit hole, you’ll be bombarded by a seemingly endless amount of content. I’m talking about books, blogs, videos, apps, podcasts, scientific studies, and subreddits all dedicated to productivity.”

Like so many other people, I’ve also fallen into this trap. For years I’ve been on the lookout for trends and hacks that will help me work faster and more efficiently — and also trends that help me help others to be faster. I’ve experimented with various strategies and tools . And, while some of these strategies and solutions have been extremely useful — without parsing out what you need quickly — it’s counterproductive.

Sometimes you end up spending more time focusing on how to be productive instead of actually being productive.

“The most productive people I know don’t read these books, they don’t watch these videos, they don’t try a new app every month,” James Bedell wrote in a Medium post.[2] “They are far too busy getting things done to read about Getting Things Done.”

This is my mantra:

I proudly say, “I am addicted to productivity — I want to be addicted to productivity — productivity is my life and my mission — and I also want to find the best way to lead others through productivity to their best selves.

But most of the time productivity means putting your head down and working until the job’s done.” –John Rampton

Addiction to Productivity is Real

Dr. Sandra Chapman, director of the University of Texas at Dallas Center for BrainHealth points out that the brain can get addicted to productivity just as it can to more common sources of addiction, such as drugs, gambling, eating, and shopping.

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“A person might crave the recognition their work gives them or the salary increases they get,” Chapman told the BBC.[3] “The problem is that just like all addictions, over time, a person needs more and more to be satisfied, and then it starts to work against you. Withdrawal symptoms include increased anxiety, depression, and fear.”

Despite the harmful consequences, addiction is considered by some experts as a brain disease that affects the brain’s reward system and ends in compulsive behavior. Regardless, society tends to reward productivity — or at least to treat it positively. As a result, this makes the problem even worse.

“It’s seen like a good thing: the more you work, the better,” adds Chapman. “Many people don’t realize the harm it causes until a divorce occurs and a family is broken apart, or the toll it takes on mental health.”

Because of the occasional negative issues with productivity, it’s no surprise that it is considered a “mixed-blessing addiction.”

“A workaholic might be earning a lot of money, just as an exercise addict is very fit,” explains Dr. Mark Griffiths, distinguished professor of behavioral addiction at Nottingham Trent University. “But the thing about any addiction is that in the long run, the detrimental effects outweigh any short-term benefits.”

“There may be an initial period where the individual who is developing a work addiction is more productive than someone who isn’t addicted to work, but it will get to a point when they are no longer productive, and their health and relationships are affected,” Griffiths writes in Psychology Today.[4] “It could be after one year or more, but if the individual doesn’t do anything about it, they could end up having serious health consequences.”

“For instance, I speculated that the consequences of work addiction may be reclassified as something else: If someone ends up dying of a work-related heart attack, it isn’t necessarily seen as having anything to do with an addiction per se – it might be attributed to something like burnout,” he adds.

There Are Three “Distinct Extreme Productivity Types

Cyril Peupion, a Sydney-based productivity expert, has observed extreme productivity among clients at both large and medium-sized companies. “Most people who come to me are high performers and very successful. But often, the word they use to describe their work style is ‘unsustainable,’ and they need help getting it back on track.”

By changing their work habits, Peupion assists teams and individuals improve their performance and ensure that their efforts are aligned with the overarching strategy of the business, rather than focusing on work as a means to an end. He has distinguished three types of extreme productivity in his classification: efficiency obsessive, selfishly productive, and quantity-obsessed.

Efficiency obsessive. “Their desks are super tidy and their pens are probably color-coded. They are the master of ‘inbox zero.’ But they have lost sight of the big picture, and don’t know the difference between efficiency and effectiveness.”

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Selfishly productive. “They are so focused on their own world that if they are asked to do something outside of it, they aren’t interested. They do have the big picture in mind, but the picture is too much about them.”

Quantity-obsessed. “They think; ‘The more emails I respond to, the more meetings I attend, the more tasks I do, the higher my performance.’ As a result, they face a real risk of burnout.”

Peupion believes that “quantity obsessed” individuals are the most common type “because there is a pervasive belief that ‘more’ means ‘better’ at work.”

The Warning Signs of Productivity Addiction

Here are a few questions you should ask yourself if you think you may be succumbing to productivity addiction. After all, most of us aren’t aware of this until it’s too late.

  • Can you tell when you’re “wasting” time? If so, have you ever felt guilty about it?
  • Does technology play a big part in optimizing your time management?
  • Do you talk about how busy you are most of the time? In your opinion, is hustling better than doing less?
  • What is your relationship with your email inbox? Are you constantly checking it or experience phantom notifications?
  • When you only check one item off your list, do you feel guilty?
  • Does stress from work interfere with your sleep?
  • Have you been putting things off, like a vacation or side project, because you’re “too swamped?

The first step toward turning around your productivity obsession is to recognize it. If you answered “yes” to any of the above questions, then it’s time to make a plan to overcome your addiction to productivity.

Overcoming Your Productivity Addiction

Thankfully, there are ways to curb your productivity addiction. And, here are 9 such ways to achieve that goal.

1. Set Limits

Just because you’re hooked on productivity doesn’t mean you have to completely abstain from it. Instead, you need to establish boundaries.

For example, there are a lot of amazing productivity podcasts out there. But, that doesn’t mean you have to listen to them all in the course of a day. Instead, you could listen to one or two podcasts, like The Productivity Podcast or Before Breakfast, during your commute. And, that would be your only time of the day to get your productivity fix.

2. Create a Not-to-Do List

Essentially, the idea of a not-to-do list is to eliminate the need to practice self-discipline. Getting rid of low-value tasks and bad habits will allow you to focus on what you really want to do as opposed to weighing the pros and cons or declining time requests. More importantly, this prevents you from feeling guilty about not crossing everything off an unrealistic to-do list.

3. Be Vulnerable

By this, I mean admitting where you could improve. For example, if you’re new to remote work and are struggling with thi s, you would only focus on topics in this area. Suggestions would be how to create a workspace at home, not getting distracted when the kids aren’t in school, or improving remote communication and collaboration with others.

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4. Understand Why You Procrastinate

Often, we procrastinate to minimize negative emotions like boredom or stress. Other times it could be because it’s a learned trait, underestimating how long it takes you to complete something or having a bias towards a task.

Regardless of the exact reason, we end up doing busy work, scrolling social media, or just watching one more episode of our favorite TV series. And, even though we know that it’s not for the best, we do things that make us feel better than the work we should do to restore our mood.[5]

There are a lot of ways to overcome procrastination. But, the first step is to be aware of it so that you can take action. For example, if you’re dreading a difficult task, don’t just watch Netflix. Instead, procrastinate more efficiently,y like returning a phone call or working on a client pitch.

5. Don’t Be a Copycat

Let’s keep this short and sweet. When you find a productivity app or technique that works for you, stick with it.

That’s not to say that you can’t make adjustments along the way or try new tools or hacks. However, the main takeaway should be that just because someone swears by the Pomodoro Technique doesn’t mean it’s a good fit for you.

6. Say Yes to Less

Across the board, your philosophy should be less is more.

That means only download the apps you actually use and want to keep (after you try them out) and uninstall the ones you don’t use. For example, are you currently reading a book on productivity? Don’t buy your next book until you’ve finished the one you’re currently reading (or permit yourself to toss a book that isn’t doing you any good). — and if you really want to finish a book more quickly, listen to the book on your way to work and back.

Already have plans this weekend? Don’t commit to a birthday party. And, if you’re day is booked, decline that last-minute meeting request.

7. Stop Focusing on What’s Next

“In the age when purchasing a thing from overseas is just one click and talking to another person is one swipe right, acquiring new objects or experiences can be addictive like anything else,” writes Patrick Banks for Lifehack .

“That doesn’t need to be you,” he adds. “You can stop your addition to ‘the next thing’ starting today.” After all, “there will always be this next thing if you don’t make a conscious decision to get your life back together and be the one in charge.”

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  • Think about your current lifestyle and the person you’re at this stage to help you identify what you aren’t satisfied with.
  • By setting clear goals for yourself in the future, you will be able to overcome your addiction.
  • Establish realistic goals.
  • To combat addiction, you must be aware of what is going on around you, as well as inside your head, at any given time.
  • Don’t spend time with people who have unhealthy behaviors.
  • Hold yourself accountable.
  • Keep a journal and write out what you want to overcome.
  • Appreciate no longer being addicted to what’s next.

8. Simplify

Each day, pick one priority task. That’s it. As long as you concentrate on one task at a time, you will be less likely to get distracted or overwhelmed by an endless list of tasks. A simple mantra to live by is: work smarter, not harder.

The same is also accurate with productivity hacks and tools. Bullet journaling is a great example. Unfortunately, for many, a bullet journal is way more time-consuming and overwhelming than a traditional planner.

9. Learn How to Relax

“Sure, we need to produce sometimes, especially if we have to pay the bills, but, banning obsession with productivity is unhealthy,” writes Leo Babauta. “When you can’t get yourself to be productive, relax.” Don’t worry about being hyper-efficient. And, don’t beat yourself up about having fun.

“But what if you can’t motivate yourself … ever?” he asks. “Sure, that can be a problem. But if you relax and enjoy yourself, you’ll be happier.”

“And if you work when you get excited, on things you’re excited about, and create amazing things, that’s motivation,” Leo states. “Not forcing yourself to work when you don’t want to, on things you don’t want to work on — motivation is doing things you love when you get excited.”

But, how exactly can you relax? Here are some tips from Leo;

  • Spend 5 minutes walking outside and breathe in the fresh air.
  • Give yourself more time to accomplish things. Less rushing means less stress.
  • If you can, get outside after work to enjoy nature.
  • Play like a child. Even better? Play with your kids. And, have fun at work — maybe give gamification a try .
  • Take the day off, rest, and do something non-work-related.
  • Allow yourself an hour of time off. Try not to be productive during that time. Just relax.
  • You should work with someone who is exciting. Make your project exciting.
  • Don’t work in the evenings. Seriously.
  • Visit a massage therapist.
  • Just breathe.

“Step by step, learn to relax,” he suggests. “Learn that productivity isn’t everything.” For that statement, sorry Leo, I say productivity isn’t everything — it’s the only thing.” However, if you can’t cut loose, relax, do fun things, and do the living part of your life — you’ll crack in a big way — you really will.

It’s great to create and push forward — just remember it doesn’t mean that every minute must be spent working or obsessing over productivity issues. Instead, invest your time in meaningful, high-impact work, get into it, focus, put in big time and then relax.

Are You Addicted to Productivity? was originally published on Calendar by John Rampton.

Featured photo credit: Christina @ wocintechchat.com via unsplash.com

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