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12 Habits Of Highly Ineffective People

12 Habits Of Highly Ineffective People

Highly ineffective people develop some pretty bad habits. When they engage in these bad habits, it sets their life up for failure.

1. Not Taking Responsibilities Seriously

Ineffective people don’t take life’s responsibilities seriously.They’re likely to show up late for work or not show up at all for a meeting with friends. They may cancel at the last minute or frequently forget about appointments.

2. Overanalyzing Everything

Ineffective people spend too much time thinking and not enough time doing. They think about the same things over and over again. They may re-play past events in their mind or may worry about what others think of them. Instead of taking time to plan, prepare, and set themselves up for success, ineffective people spend time thinking too much.

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3.  Not Prioritizing What to Do First

Ineffective people don’t properly prioritize their to-do lists. They may focus on things that don’t need to be done for weeks or allow small tasks to take up the majority of their time. As a result, they may not get the important things done on time.

4. Looking for the Bad News

Ineffective people look for the downside in everything. They overlook the positive things that happen and instead, only notice the negative. They dwell on all the things that have gone wrong and often magnify their problems.

5. Refusing to Accept Advice

Ineffective people refuse to accept sound advice from loving and caring friends and family. They also refuse advice from professionals and experts. They often think that what works for others won’t work for them because their situation is so much different.

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6. Wasting Time Unknowingly

Ineffective people often have no idea where their time goes. They often waste a lot of time looking for misplaced objects, starting and stopping projects, or engaging in useless activities. Ineffective people are more likely to watch endless hours of TV, sleep longer hours, and get less accomplished.

7. Not Setting Goals

Ineffective people often lack direction in life. They don’t establish goals and often say they aren’t sure what they want. Instead of trying to develop a plan for what they could do next, they often just stop doing anything. As a result, they remain stagnant and don’t achieve success with their relationships, career, or finances.

8. Lacking Basic Organization

Ineffective people often spend a lot of time looking for misplaced objects because they lack basic organizational skills. Their paperwork is often a mess, and they usually suffer consequences, such as late paid bills. They may waste a lot of time hunting for online passwords and may waste money buying things they already own but can’t find.

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9. Expecting the Worst

They always expect the worst to happen. They often imagine disastrous results. Often, their pessimistic outlook can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

10. Giving Up When the Going Gets Rough

Ineffective people often give up easily when things get tough. They take the approach of saying, “See, I told you that wouldn’t work,” when something goes wrong. Instead of problem-solving strategies to overcome obstacles, they often view barriers as impossible hurdles to overcome.

11. Expecting Others to Help Them

Ineffective people don’t tend to ask for help appropriately. They do, however, expect that others should just drop everything they’re doing and help them at all costs. They may become angry when a friend refuses to miss work to help them move or may become angry when a sibling won’t loan them money again.

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12. Doing Everything at the Last Minute

Ineffective people area always a day late and a dollar short. They’re often scrambling to pay bills at the last and are running out the door at the last second to get somewhere. As a result of their last minute approach, they may become overwhelmed by small every day stressors, such as heavy traffic.

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Amy Morin

A psychotherapist, psychology instructor, keynote speaker, and the author of the bestselling book 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do

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10 Best Success Books You Need to Read to Be Great at Business

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Take a minute and think about some of the most successful people you know.

I’d bet they’re great with people, are super-productive, and think differently than most. After all, that’s how they got to be where they are today.

Jealous of them? You don’t have to be.

You can learn these same skills by studying some of the best business and success books that can help you take your game to the next level. Here’re 10 of my favorites:

1. How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie

    Dale Carnegie’s best-selling book that helped to launch a personal growth empire should be required reading for everyone who wants to learn how to build and nurture relationships for a lifetime.

    Read this book and you’ll learn some simple advice than can help you build popularity points within your current network and just as important, expand it to others.

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    2. Focal Point by Brian Tracy

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      Sounds simple in theory, but this can be extremely difficult in practice. In Focal Point Brian Tracy offers tips to help build discipline and organization into your day so you can get more stuff done.

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      3. Purple Cow by Seth Godin

        Creating a “me-too” product can be easy at the start but can doom you to business failure. That’s why marketing maverick Seth Godin recommends creating a product that is truly different from anything already available in the marketplace.

        In essence by making the product different you’ll be building the marketing into the actual product development…which just makes your actual marketing a helluva lot easier.

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        4. The Magic of Thinking Big by David Schwartz

          If you’ve struggled with procrastination or small thinking, this is the book for you. In it Schwartz offers practical advice that can help you get inspired and motivated to create a bigger life for yourself. And with it can be a more lucrative and rewarding career.

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          5. Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankel

            It can be difficult for lots of people to keep things in perspective, especially when working on high priority and urgent projects at work.

            Man’s Search for Meaning can be a life-changing book in the sense that it can open your eyes to a first-hand experience of one of the greatest atrocities in the history of mankind, while also teaching a valuable lesson about having purpose.

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            6. The 4-Hour Work Week by Tim Ferriss

              Solo-entrepreneurs can learn a ton from the guy who made lifestyle design popular. But guess what? The 4HWW isn’t just for guys and girls who want to start a small online business.

              Smart moves like outsourcing, following the 80/20 rule, and automating processes should be made by entry-level workers and established executives alike.

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              7. Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill

                I remember sitting on a couch and opening this book on a Saturday morning, thinking I’d get through a chapter and then get on with my day. Instead, about 12 hours later, I was finished with the book. The concepts in it were mind-blowing to me.

                To think that thoughts can create your reality sounded a little far-fetched at first. But after going through the book and understanding that your thoughts create your beliefs, which lead to actions, which then lead to habits….well you can get where I’m going with this.

                If you focus your thoughts on success, achieving it will be much more likely than thinking about obstacles, failures and everything else that can get in your way.

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