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12 Habits Of Highly Ineffective People

12 Habits Of Highly Ineffective People

Highly ineffective people develop some pretty bad habits. When they engage in these bad habits, it sets their life up for failure.

1. Not Taking Responsibilities Seriously

Ineffective people don’t take life’s responsibilities seriously.They’re likely to show up late for work or not show up at all for a meeting with friends. They may cancel at the last minute or frequently forget about appointments.

2. Overanalyzing Everything

Ineffective people spend too much time thinking and not enough time doing. They think about the same things over and over again. They may re-play past events in their mind or may worry about what others think of them. Instead of taking time to plan, prepare, and set themselves up for success, ineffective people spend time thinking too much.

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3.  Not Prioritizing What to Do First

Ineffective people don’t properly prioritize their to-do lists. They may focus on things that don’t need to be done for weeks or allow small tasks to take up the majority of their time. As a result, they may not get the important things done on time.

4. Looking for the Bad News

Ineffective people look for the downside in everything. They overlook the positive things that happen and instead, only notice the negative. They dwell on all the things that have gone wrong and often magnify their problems.

5. Refusing to Accept Advice

Ineffective people refuse to accept sound advice from loving and caring friends and family. They also refuse advice from professionals and experts. They often think that what works for others won’t work for them because their situation is so much different.

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6. Wasting Time Unknowingly

Ineffective people often have no idea where their time goes. They often waste a lot of time looking for misplaced objects, starting and stopping projects, or engaging in useless activities. Ineffective people are more likely to watch endless hours of TV, sleep longer hours, and get less accomplished.

7. Not Setting Goals

Ineffective people often lack direction in life. They don’t establish goals and often say they aren’t sure what they want. Instead of trying to develop a plan for what they could do next, they often just stop doing anything. As a result, they remain stagnant and don’t achieve success with their relationships, career, or finances.

8. Lacking Basic Organization

Ineffective people often spend a lot of time looking for misplaced objects because they lack basic organizational skills. Their paperwork is often a mess, and they usually suffer consequences, such as late paid bills. They may waste a lot of time hunting for online passwords and may waste money buying things they already own but can’t find.

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9. Expecting the Worst

They always expect the worst to happen. They often imagine disastrous results. Often, their pessimistic outlook can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

10. Giving Up When the Going Gets Rough

Ineffective people often give up easily when things get tough. They take the approach of saying, “See, I told you that wouldn’t work,” when something goes wrong. Instead of problem-solving strategies to overcome obstacles, they often view barriers as impossible hurdles to overcome.

11. Expecting Others to Help Them

Ineffective people don’t tend to ask for help appropriately. They do, however, expect that others should just drop everything they’re doing and help them at all costs. They may become angry when a friend refuses to miss work to help them move or may become angry when a sibling won’t loan them money again.

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12. Doing Everything at the Last Minute

Ineffective people area always a day late and a dollar short. They’re often scrambling to pay bills at the last and are running out the door at the last second to get somewhere. As a result of their last minute approach, they may become overwhelmed by small every day stressors, such as heavy traffic.

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Amy Morin

A psychotherapist, psychology instructor, keynote speaker, and the author of the bestselling book 13 Things Mentally Strong People Don't Do

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Last Updated on December 7, 2018

10 Steps For Success: Applying The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind

10 Steps For Success: Applying The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind

How big is the gap between you and your success?

What is the difference between successful people and unsuccessful people?

It is as simple as this: successful people think and talk about what they are creating, and unsuccessful people focus on and talk about what they’re lacking.

So how do you bridge that gap between wanting success and having your success? Let’s make an important distinction. You see, there is a big difference between “Wanting” and “Having” something.

Wanting: means lacking or absent. Deficient in some part, thing or aspect.

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Having: means to possess, to hold, to get, to receive, to experience.

You can have one OR the other, but not both at the same time with any particular object of your desire. You either have it or you don’t.

When it comes to your subconscious, if you’re focusing on the “wanting”, i.e. the not having, guess what, you will build stronger neural networks in your brain around the “wanting.” However, through the power of your subconscious mind, you can focus on the “having” as if it has already happened. Research has shown that your brain doesn’t know the difference between what you’re visualizing inside your mind versus what is happening out there in your reality.

This is a regular practice of elite athletes. They spend as much timing creating the internal mental imagery of their success playing out as they do actually physically practicing. This helps create both the neural pathways in their brain and the muscle memory to consistently deliver on that success.

Here are 10 “brain hack” steps for success that you can take to create your version of a happy life. Make these steps a regular habit, and you will be astonished at the results.

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Step 1: Decide exactly what you want to create and have

This is usually the biggest problem that people have. They don’t know what they want and then they’re surprised when they don’t get it.

Step 2: Write down your goal clearly in every technicolor detail

A goal that is not written down is merely a wish. When you write it down in full detail, you signal to your subconscious mind that you really want to accomplish this particular goal.

Step 3: Write your goal in simple, present tense words

…that a three year old can understand on a three-by-five index card and carry it with you. Read it each morning after you awake and just before you go to sleep.

Step 4: Backwards planning

See your goal achieved and identify all the steps required that it took to bring it to life. Making a list of all these steps intensifies your desire and deepens your belief that the attainment of the goal is already happening.

Step 5: Resolve to take at least one step every day from one of the items on your list

Do something every day, even if it is just one baby step, that moves you toward your goal so you can maintain your momentum.

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Step 6: Visualize your goal repeatedly

See it in your mind’s eye as though it were already a reality. The more clear and vivid your mental picture of your goal, the faster it will come into your life.

Step 7: Feel the feeling of success as if your goal were realized at this very moment

Feel the emotion of happiness, satisfaction, and pleasure that you would have once you have achieved your goal. Visualize and feel this success for at least 20 seconds at a time.

Step 8: “Fake it till you make it!”

Confidently behave as if your subconscious mind was already bringing your goal into reality. Accept that you are moving toward your goal and it is moving toward you.

Step 9: Relax your mind

Take time to breathe, pray or mediate each day. Disengage the stress response and engage the relaxation response. A quiet state of mind allows your brain to access newly formed neural pathways.

Step 10: Release your goal to your subconscious mind

When you turn your goal over to the power of the universe and just get out of the way, you will always know the right actions to take at the right time.

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Starting today, try tapping into the incredible power of your subconscious mind.Start with just one goal or idea, and practice it continually until you succeed in achieving that goal. Make it a game and have fun with it! The more lightly you hold it, the easier it will be to achieve. By doing so, you will move from the “positive thinking” of the hopeful person to the “positive knowing” of the totally successful person.

Hit reply and let me know what you’re creating!

To your success!

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