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10 Things Extraordinary People Don’t Do

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10 Things Extraordinary People Don’t Do

We all observe astonishing things happening around us, and the people behind them. We want to know how we can follow them. Sometimes we think this success is unattainable, yet some people seem to get ahead, no matter what. They aren’t certainly cleverer, more creative or hard working than many others. Still, they accomplish bigger things than their peers.

I would say there are lessons here that have the power to radically change your life over a period of time. These extraordinary successes become extraordinary by avoiding, escaping and neglecting a few unusual things. Here are some of the things extraordinary people don’t do habitually:

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1. They don’t look at short-term goals

Extraordinary people foresee not what is attainable, possible or feasible, but rather what is impossible. Achieving something extraordinary is not a short-term project. So, it’s important to look at the big picture, thinking about where you’d like to be in one, five or even ten years from now.

2. They don’t forget to examine daily plans

Extraordinary people write down their aims, they make plans and strategize to accomplish them every day.  They pay attention to a daily routine of goal setting and focus on reaching them.

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3. They don’t hesitate to compliment

A courageous, extraordinary person knows the strength of others.  He passes honest admiration whenever possible.  To be a successful and respected person, start observing what you like and admire about others. By doing this, you will be actually making an investment that doesn’t cost you anything but in return you will get astonishing results.

4. They don’t quit something worthwhile

Sometimes, there are things that are worth the chance and when you find them, nothing can match your success. Successful people can identify what is worth to have and visualize the perfect path to success. In fact, more or less all extraordinary people we know in business, sport and entertainment have failed. A lot of them have failed many times but they never gave up. Effective people are able to pick worth things in a project, they recognize them and carry on trying.

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5. They don’t stop sharing something great

Extraordinary people unconditionally share their success, knowledge and information that could be beneficial to the individual associated with them. They engage with and help each other, suggesting books, videos for motivation, answering questions and providing support, no matter how distinctive the goals of each person are.

6. They don’t go against their values

Extraordinary people know who they are and stay true to their values.  They choose goals that are lined up with themselves and recognize that their values influence their principles and their principles influence their expectations and their expectations influence their approach and their approach influences their movements and actions.

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7. They don’t hesitate to help

Exceptional leaders know the difference between “I want to help” and “How can I help?” Many people hesitate to ask for help and take it as a sign of weakness. Great people find ways to help others. They offer help in such way that gives an impression of cooperation, not superior or complimentary. They portray the behavior they want their employees to display.

8. They don’t waste their time

Effective people manage the use of their time.  They give a specific time to work on accomplishing goals and they protect themselves against time wasting activities.  Rather than live a life of continuous interruption, they apply time management, ordering and prioritize their most valuable asset – Time

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9. They don’t focus on themselves

Extraordinary people don’t focus on themselves, but they leave a legacy. They set examples to be remembered for something positive. So, to be a successful and extraordinary person who’s remembered, leave a positive impression during all interactions.

10. They don’t undervalue small things

Extraordinary people learn to delegate themselves effectively. They find success in life by paying attention to the small things rather than to the larger things.  Getting organized to finish little projects in progress is an important first step toward realizing larger goals. If you can’t handle small things, you can never focus on the big things.

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Tayyab Babar

Tayyab is a PR/Marketing consultant. He writes about work, productivity and tech tips at Lifehack.

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Last Updated on October 21, 2021

How to Create Your Own Ritual to Conquer Time Wasters and Laziness

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How to Create Your Own Ritual to Conquer Time Wasters and Laziness

Life is wasted in the in-between times. The time between when your alarm first rings and when you finally decide to get out of bed. The time between when you sit at your desk and when productive work begins. The time between making a decision and doing something about it.

Slowly, your day is whittled away from all the unused in-between moments. Eventually, time wasters, laziness, and procrastination get the better of you.

The solution to reclaim these lost middle moments is by creating rituals. Every culture on earth uses rituals to transfer information and encode behaviors that are deemed important. Personal rituals can help you build a better pattern for handling everything from how you wake up to how you work.

Unfortunately, when most people see rituals, they see pointless superstitions. Indeed, many rituals are based on a primitive understanding of the world. But by building personal rituals, you get to encode the behaviors you feel are important and cut out the wasted middle moments.

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Program Your Own Algorithms

Another way of viewing rituals is by seeing them as computer algorithms. An algorithm is a set of instructions that is repeated to get a result.

Some algorithms are highly efficient, sorting or searching millions of pieces of data in a few seconds. Other algorithms are bulky and awkward, taking hours to do the same task.

By forming rituals, you are building algorithms for your behavior. Take the delayed and painful pattern of waking up, debating whether to sleep in for another two minutes, hitting the snooze button, repeat until almost late for work. This could be reprogrammed to get out of bed immediately, without debating your decision.

How to Form a Ritual

I’ve set up personal rituals for myself for handling e-mail, waking up each morning, writing articles, and reading books. Far from making me inflexible, these rituals give me a useful default pattern that works best 99% of the time. Whenever my current ritual won’t work, I’m always free to stop using it.

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Forming a ritual isn’t too difficult, and the same principles for changing habits apply:

  1. Write out your sequence of behavior. I suggest starting with a simple ritual of only 3-4 steps maximum. Wait until you’ve established a ritual before you try to add new steps.
  2. Commit to following your ritual for thirty days. This step will take the idea and condition it into your nervous system as a habit.
  3. Define a clear trigger. When does your ritual start? A ritual to wake up is easy—the sound of your alarm clock will work. As for what triggers you to go to the gym, read a book or answer e-mail—you’ll have to decide.
  4. Tweak the Pattern. Your algorithm probably won’t be perfectly efficient the first time. Making a few tweaks after the first 30-day trial can make your ritual more useful.

Ways to Use a Ritual

Based on the above ideas, here are some ways you could implement your own rituals:

1. Waking Up

Set up a morning ritual for when you wake up and the next few things you do immediately afterward. To combat the grogginess after immediately waking up, my solution is to do a few pushups right after getting out of bed. After that, I sneak in ninety minutes of reading before getting ready for morning classes.

2. Web Usage

How often do you answer e-mail, look at Google Reader, or check Facebook each day? I found by taking all my daily internet needs and compressing them into one, highly-efficient ritual, I was able to cut off 75% of my web time without losing any communication.

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3. Reading

How much time do you get to read books? If your library isn’t as large as you’d like, you might want to consider the rituals you use for reading. Programming a few steps to trigger yourself to read instead of watching television or during a break in your day can chew through dozens of books each year.

4. Friendliness

Rituals can also help with communication. Set up a ritual of starting a conversation when you have opportunities to meet people.

5. Working

One of the hardest barriers when overcoming procrastination is building up a concentrated flow. Building those steps into a ritual can allow you to quickly start working or continue working after an interruption.

6. Going to the gym

If exercising is a struggle, encoding a ritual can remove a lot of the difficulty. Set up a quick ritual for going to exercise right after work or when you wake up.

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7. Exercise

Even within your workouts, you can have rituals. Spacing the time between runs or reps with a certain number of breaths can remove the guesswork. Forming a ritual of doing certain exercises in a particular order can save time.

8. Sleeping

Form a calming ritual in the last 30-60 minutes of your day before you go to bed. This will help slow yourself down and make falling asleep much easier. Especially if you plan to get up full of energy in the morning, it will help if you remove insomnia.

8. Weekly Reviews

The weekly review is a big part of the GTD system. By making a simple ritual checklist for my weekly review, I can get the most out of this exercise in less time. Originally, I did holistic reviews where I wrote my thoughts on the week and progress as a whole. Now, I narrow my focus toward specific plans, ideas, and measurements.

Final Thoughts

We all want to be productive. But time wasters, procrastination, and laziness sometimes get the better of us. If you’re facing such difficulties, don’t be afraid to make use of these rituals to help you conquer them.

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