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10 Important Habits You Need to Be A Better Person This Year

10 Important Habits You Need to Be A Better Person This Year

Ben Franklin once said, “Your net worth to the world is usually determined by what remains after your bad habits are subtracted from your good ones.”

Whether you want to be a better person, get healthier, or find fulfillment in your work, there are a number of habits you need to develop that are common to all of these goals. In this article, we’ll explore 10 of the most important ones.

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1. Socialize with people with similar interests.

There’s one thing all successful people are good at: networking. It’s a simple premise: find people with similar interests and spend time with them. Use social media to form connections and network with these people as much as possible. Spend more time with your friends who share your interests too. They can be a great source of inspiration.

2. Stop multitasking.

When you multitask, you’re not putting 100 percent of your mental effort into whatever you’re working on. If you want to be a better person, you need to develop a more singular focus so you can put in your best effort. This is what leads to improvement. So close those 10 browser windows you have open. Put your phone on silent. And just focus on one thing at a time.

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3. Copy the habits of successful people.

One of the most important habits to develop if you want to improve is to spend more time with successful people. Want to lose weight? Then hang out with people who have done it. Want to start a new business? Surround yourself with entrepreneurs and folks who have been there, done that.

4. Make a to-do list every day.

An infographic published by Entrepreneur Magazine showed the habits of the world’s wealthiest people. One of the more interesting habits was this: 81 percent of wealthy people keep to-do lists. You should do the same. Write down the tasks you want to complete before you start each day, and then evaluate at the end of the day to see what you accomplished. Prioritize the big-ticket items that are going to get you closer to your end goals.

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5. Don’t leave things unfinished.

One habit you need to develop to experience more successful outcomes is finishing what you started. We’ve all been guilty of starting something important to us and then giving up before it’s done. Try a different approach: see things through no matter what the outcome. If you fail, the valuable lessons you will have learned will be worth the effort. A lot of times we don’t realize how close we actually are to accomplishing something great.

6. Spend some alone time every day.

Humans are social creatures by nature, but making a habit of spending time alone is important too. Spend time every day reflecting, pondering, and visualizing what you want to happen in your life.

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7. Set one or two big goals.

Your desire to work hard usually matches the size of your goals. Set small goals, and you can expect small results. Set big goals, however, and the sky is the limit. You may not (and probably won’t) accomplish them right away. But it will help you form a mindset of aspiring for bigger and better things for your life.

8. Focus on the process of achieving your goals.

Big goals are important. But what’s even more important is developing habits and routines. These are what will ultimately determine your success or failure. Those seemingly insignificant, day-to-day tasks compound into great achievements over time. Once you set your goals, forget about them and focus on the process. Plant a seed, water it every day, then sit back and watch it grow.

9. Eat real food.

What does eating healthy have to do with becoming a better person? A lot, actually. Following a healthy diet can help your brain function at a higher level, is good for your heart and can help you live longer. So get into the habit of eating better by making a commitment.

10. Be productive with your downtime.

There’s a big difference between being productive and being busy. Busywork is meaningless if it doesn’t make you a better person or get you closer to your goals. Take a long, hard look at what you consider “productive” work. Hint: checking emails every 5 minutes won’t make you more productive—it will just distract you from getting work done.

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Scott Christ

Scott Christ is a writer, entrepreneur, and founder of Pure Food Company.

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Last Updated on October 16, 2019

Invaluable Lessons You Can Learn From Your Mistakes

Invaluable Lessons You Can Learn From Your Mistakes

Do you like making mistakes?

I certainly don’t.

Making mistakes is inevitable. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could be at ease with them?

Perhaps there is a way to think of them differently and see their benefits.

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Why Mistakes Feel Dangerous

Mistakes often feel dangerous. Throughout human history, our errors have often been treated as dangerous for a variety of reasons:

  • Our vulnerability. We have limited and fragile support systems. When those systems fail, people often lose their lives.
  • Real dangers. Nature can be dangerous, and making mistakes can put us at the mercy of nature and its animal residents seeking a meal.
  • Ignorance. Many cultures scapegoats someone whenever there is a failure of some kind. Scapegoating can be serious and deadly.
  • Order. Many societies punish those who do not conform to the prevailing orthodoxy and treat difference and non-conformity as a mistake. Even our brains flash an error message whenever we go against prevailing social norms.

We have a history of handling mistakes and failure in an unpleasant way. Since each of us carries our human history with us, it can be a challenge to overcome the fear of making mistakes.

If we can embrace the reality of mistakes, we can free ourselves to be more creative in our lives and dig up some interesting insights.

Why We Can’t Avoid Making Mistakes

Many people operate under the notion that making mistakes is an aberration, a mistake if you will. You can call it perfectionism but it is a more substantial problem. It is really a demand for order and continuity.

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When we think we can eliminate mistakes, we are often working from a perspective that sees the world as a fixed place. The world, however, is not so obliging. Like it or not, the world, and everything in it, is constantly changing.

Change is more constant and pervasive than we can see with our own eyes which is why we often miss it. Our bodies are constantly changing. The natural conditions of the earth change constantly as well. Everything, including economic and cultural systems have life cycles. Everything is in a constant state of flux.

We cannot see all of the changes going on around us since rates of change vary. Unfortunately, when we try to create a feeling of certainty and solidity in our lives or operate from the illusion of stability and order, we are fighting reality and our natural evolution which is built on adapting to change.

It is better to continually bend into this reality rather than fight every change we experience. Fighting it can cause us to make more mistakes. Finding the benefits in change can be useful and help us minimize unnecessary mistakes.

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Lessons Learned from Making Mistakes

Life has so many uncertainties and variables that mistakes are inevitable. Fortunately, there are many things you can learn from making mistakes.

Here is a list of ways to harness the mistakes you make for your benefit.

  1. Point us to something we did not know.
  2. Reveal a nuance we missed.
  3. Deepen our knowledge.
  4. Tell us something about our skill levels.
  5. Help us see what matters and what does not.
  6. Inform us more about our values.
  7. Teach us more about others.
  8. Let us recognize changing circumstances.
  9. Show us when someone else has changed.
  10. Keep us connected to what works and what doesn’t work.
  11. Remind us of our humanity.
  12. Spur us to want to better work which helps us all.
  13. Promote compassion for ourselves and others.
  14. Teach us to value forgiveness.
  15. Help us to pace ourselves better.
  16. Invite us to better choices.
  17. Can teach us how to experiment.
  18. Can reveal a new insight.
  19. Can suggest new options we had not considered.
  20. Can serve as a warning.
  21. Show us hidden fault lines in our lives which can lead us to more productive arrangements.
  22. Point out structural problems in our lives.
  23. Prompt us to learn more about ourselves.
  24. Remind us how we are like others.
  25. Make us more humble.
  26. Help us rectify injustices in our lives.
  27. Show us where to create more balance in our lives.
  28. Tell us when the time to move on has occurred.
  29. Reveal where our passion is and where it is not.
  30. Expose our true feelings.
  31. Bring out problems in a relationship.
  32. Can be a red flag for our misjudgments.
  33. Point us in a more creative direction.
  34. Show us when we are not listening.
  35. Wake us up to our authentic selves.
  36. Can create distance with someone else.
  37. Slow us down when we need to.
  38. Can hasten change.
  39. Reveal our blind spots.
  40. Are the invisible made visible.

Reframe Reality to Handle Mistakes More Easily

The secret to handling mistakes is to:

  • Expect them as part of the process of growth and development.
  • Have an experimental mindset.
  • Think in evolutional rather than fixed terms.

When we accept change as the natural structure of the world, our vulnerability and humanness lets us work with the ebb and flow of life.

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When we recognize the inevitability of mistakes as part of the ongoing experiment which life is, then we can relax more. In doing so we may make fewer of them.

It also helps to keep in mind that trial and error is an organic natural way of living. It is how we have evolved over time. It is better to be with our natural evolution than to fight it and make life harder.

When we adopt an evolutional mindset and see ourselves as part of the ongoing human experiment, we can appreciate that all that has been built up over time which includes the many mistakes our ancestors have made over thousands of years. Each one of us today is a part of that human tradition of learning and experimenting,

Mistakes are part of the trial and error, experimental nature of life. The more you adopt the experimental, evolutional frame, the easier it becomes to handle mistakes.

Handling mistakes well can help you relax and enjoy all aspects of life more.

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