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Find Out Your Life Purpose By Doing These 10 Small Things

Find Out Your Life Purpose By Doing These 10 Small Things

Humans have one thing in common: at one point or another, we all wonder to ourselves, “Why are we here?” It’s a profound question, indeed. One theory is that the purpose of life is for each of us to make the world a better place. But how do we do this?

Here’s a good place to start. If you’re searching for your life purpose, doing these 10 small things will help you uncover it.

1. Write it down (or type it out).

Try this simple exercise to help you uncover your life’s purpose. Grab a piece of paper and a pen. Or fire up your computer and open a blank document. Next, write at the top, “What are my goals in life?” Write or type the first things that come to mind. Which items on the list are most important to you? Which are you most drawn to? Which well up emotions inside you and make you actually feel something? These are the things you should be focusing most of your time on.

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2. Start a new hobby.

Get out and experience something new. Whether you’ve been thinking about joining a basketball league, trying yoga, writing poetry, or working on your improv skills, stop thinking about starting a new hobby and do it.

3. Give back to your community.

There are few things more fulfilling in life than giving back. Find a cause you’re passionate about and put your heart and soul into it. Donating money is awesome. Donating your time is even better.

4. Read something inspiring every day.

Words are powerful. They inspire us to action, and can give us great insight into our life purpose. So make it a point to read something inspiring every day. Buy books, read websites like this one, and start keeping a journal of quotes that inspire you.

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5. Reflect on your life regularly.

Take some time several days a week to quietly reflect or meditate. Clearing your mind of other thoughts can help your life’s purpose come into clarity for you. So stop what you’re doing and just breathe. You’ll be amazed at how good you feel when you sit back and reflect.

6. Simplify your life.

Don’t get caught up in the trivial, day-to-day details of daily life. Spend most of your time focusing on the things that matter most: family, friends, health, and doing work you’re passionate about. This will help you uncover your purpose in life. Remember, there’s true beauty in simplicity.

7. Do work that you love.

Answer this question: What type of work do you love to do so much that you would do it without getting paid for it?

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For most of us, work is just a way to pay the bills. But it doesn’t have to be. Focus on doing the things you’re most passionate about. This doesn’t mean you have to quit your job. But it does mean you should seek work that fulfills you … even if it’s in addition to your current career. If you love to write, do freelance writing on the side. If there’s a cause you’re particularly passionate about, inquire about volunteer opportunities or even start your own non-profit. Don’t sell yourself short. You can do whatever you want in life if you refuse to accept limits.

8. Ask your friends what your best qualities are.

It may sound weird but try this: sit down with your best friend over a beer and ask him/her to honestly tell you what they love about you. Explain to them why you want to know. They’ll appreciate your honesty and will be happy to help you. You can use this information to gain insight into your life’s purpose.

9. Make a bucket list.

If you found out you had a year to live, how would you choose to spend your life? Where would you go? Who would you spend time with? How would you cement your legacy? Making a bucket list of things you want to do before you leave this world is a great way to gain perspective on the things that are important to you. It frees your mind up and gives you things to aspire to in your life.

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10. Give thanks for what you have.

Your actions more than anything dictate how you will be remembered. Be thankful, kind, patient, and humble. Do nice things for others without expecting the favor to be returned. Show your appreciation for living through how you live your life every day.

And then you may just realize that you’re already living your dream life.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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