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Is Money Killing Us?

Is Money Killing Us?

Sitting down at my desk today, all was doom and gloom. I find out that my childhood hero, Robin Williams, had committed suicide. I then read on to find out yet another lady had hung herself in a festival toilet, then, finally, one story that really struck me as most disturbing, a lady taking her own life because of financial pressures.

Here we have two very different ends of the spectrum. On the one hand we have Robin Williams, estimated net worth of US$50,000,000, then on the other hand, a lady who lived in a three-bedroom house in the UK who couldn’t cope and took her own life after government changes in her benefits meant she lost £20 per week (US$33).

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These stories left me totally dumbfounded and provoked me to thinking about how money, no matter how much or how little you have, essentially can either make or fundamentally break people.

Money can’t buy happiness.

Robin Williams, although rich he was, had suffered with depression for many years, adding a truthful tone to the statement, “Money can’t buy happiness.” Yet a feeling seems to resonate of, “But it can save someone from taking their own life if they are in financial turmoil.”

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As the economy struggles to revive and as jobs become sparser, how many more of these incidents are we going to see? I myself feel privileged to be that ‘middle class’ citizen, with the luck of being able to afford some nice things here and there – luxury items, things I probably don’t (in fact, definitely don’t) need. Yet today, I really can’t help but think about people who are less fortunate, people actually willing to take their own life because of financial difficulty.

$17 trillion in debt and, it’s still growing.

I know it’s not a new concept, people have taken their lives over financial troubles numerous times in the past, but then the question to ponder would be, is it going to get worse? Let’s turn our attention to the US economy, which currently has debts of over $17 trillion dollars. That number, to me, is incomprehensible and probably is to many others. I’ll put that into context: if the US were to pay back a dollar per second, their debt would take 184,000 years to pay off – and the scary thing is it’s growing and it’s not slowing down.

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Job hunting is becoming futile.

This has meant though, that the ‘good’ jobs are now being moved overseas, meaning that Americans are fighting for jobs and the same can be said for the UK. The impact of the ‘good’ jobs being outsourced overseas, of course, is that the ever increasing costs and overheads for the average American and Brit are becoming more and more daunting because the jobs aren’t there. So could this mean we see a dramatically increased rate of ‘financial crisis suicides’?

Alarming statistics not ringing a bell?

The answer to my question, horrifyingly, is yes, we will see an increased rate. In fact, it’s already happened. After a little research I had found that during the recession from 2008–2010, 10,000 people took their own lives in Europe and North America. Research published by the British Journal of Psychiatry shows that suicide rates rose significantly after the 2007 financial crash. Suicide rates that have been financially motivated have risen 6.5% in Europe and 4.5% in America, which is just a colossal increase if you do the number crunching.

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With job loss, home repossessions and generalized debt, shouldn’t we be looking at more effective programs for people in financial turmoil? In the UK, even prescriptions of anti-depressant drugs soared by 19% during the period of 2007–2010; again, an exponential rise that should have sent off huge alarm bells to the big bods in the government.

I have searched for programs that can help and they are genuinely few and far between. Those that have used some type of program have reviewed them as being ‘a way to fob them off.’ Definitely not the answer to ease the ever increasing number of financially motivated suicides.

The reality is …

Sadly, the answer to the title of this article is yes, money is killing us, and the worst and most thought-provoking of it all is that it is getting worse. Maybe it’s time we acknowledged this fact and started physically giving people the guidance they desperately need to get their lives back on track. We can’t magic jobs out of thin air, but we can definitely lend a helping hand to those who evidently need us.

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Last Updated on August 20, 2018

30 Fun Things To Do With Your Friends Without Spending Much

30 Fun Things To Do With Your Friends Without Spending Much

Spending time with friends is, in and of itself, a great way to pass the time without spending a lot of money. But if you and your friends are used to going out to clubs, pubs or eateries together as your way of hanging out, then you can change it up a bit and save some money too.

No matter where you live, there are plenty of places to go and do fun things that don’t cost a lot.

If you are having trouble convincing your friends to do things on the cheap, then be upfront with them. Tell them straight out that you can’t spend that kind of money right now — and don’t let them pay for you either. But here are some great alternatives you can offer.

30 Fun Things To Do With Friends Without Spending Much

1. A potluck dinner party. Host a dinner party and ask everyone to bring a dish to share. If you are not comfortable with cooking, maybe try and learn how to cook a new dish together with your friends.

2. Host a spa day. Give each other manicures. Try out new hairstyles. Make some facial masks or exfoliates using natural, at-home ingredients. Then drink mimosas.

3. Movie marathon. Log into Netflix and watch every episode of “Stranger Things” Or do an ’80s movie marathon, watching “Pretty in Pink,” “The Breakfast Club” and all of our old favorites. Don’t have a Netflix membership? Get the free trial just for the marathon!

4. Pinterest party! You know all of those cool Pinterest crafts you say you’re going to do? Do them. At home one night with friends. Then make up some of those bacon-wrapped whatevers you’ve been dying to try!

5. Go to the park. Pack a picnic. Hang out. Watch people. Play on the swings.

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    6. Have an organization party. Set up a day of each weekend where you go to each of your friends’ houses and help them clean out a closet, a room, a garage, whatever. Serve drinks and food and trade stuff among yourselves.

    7. Hold a yard sale. After all of that cleaning, why not hang out together and make some extra cash too?

    8. Concerts in the park. All summer long, many parks host free concerts. Go with your friends. Hang out, bring a picnic dinner. This is a very relaxing way to chill out on a hot summer night after work.

    9. Volunteer together. Offer to do the yard work for the local senior center or hang out with the kids at the YMCA. After a few hours of volunteering together, you will have new respect for each other and something new to chat about.

    10. Play board games. Drag out the Scrabble or the Yahtzee. You can hang out and play all sorts of games with large groups or small ones. Hold a tournament and compete against each other. Here’re some board games ideas.

    11. Video game tournament. Not into board games? OK. Well, how about a video game tournament? Whether it’s the latest dancing game or “Call of Duty,” play against each other and award prizes (or food) to the winners.

    12. Grab a ball and a bat and go play baseball at the local park. Grab a basketball or a tennis racket. Most parks have courts and fields you can use for free as long as there isn’t an organized event going on.

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    13. Go to the school play. This might cost a little for admission, but it’s a great way to support your community and have a fun time.

    14. Iron Chef night. Bring your friends over and have an Iron Chef night where you cook dinner out of only the items in your pantry. No buying anything!

    15. Go dumpster diving. Yup. I said it. Check out the dumpsters in your area and see what you can find. You might even find dinner! Here are some tips for respectful diving.

      16. Go to yard sales. Take all that money you made at your yard sale and cruise around your town together looking for cool stuff. Maybe you could even fix something up and resell it.

      17. Go fishing.

      18. Go camping.

      19. Find some cool trails around your town and go hiking. Here’re some of the best hiking trails you should try.

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      20. Get out the bikes and bike everywhere for a weekend.

        21. Dig out the old croquet set — or borrow your Mom’s — and play croquet. Do it! Totally fun.

        22. Swap movies and music. Have everyone bring over a box of old movies and CDs they don’t want anymore — or don’t watch anymore. Then swap with abandon.

        23. Go on a walking tour of your town. Most towns or cities have a historic district. Find out if there is a walking tour available. If not, make one up!

        24. Scavenger hunt. Put your friends to the test — yes, this is for grown-ups — to find different things in your city…like a certain bike rack, a vintage sign, that sort of thing. The winner gets a dinner cooked by the losers.

        25. Find out when the free days are at your local museum or zoo. Most have them and they can be great fun to visit with friends.

        26. Hold a quilting bee. No, you don’t have to be fancy — or old — for this. Grab some old T-shirts that you love, old jeans, whatever. Cut them into squares and sew them together. Who knows? Maybe it will become a regular thing?

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        27. Go to Open Mic night. Your town is likely harboring some great talent at an open mic night that has no cover and cheap drinks!

        28. Go to a religious service. Even if you’re not religious, going to a service in an unfamiliar religion can be enlightening and a great way to meet new people.

        29. Find a swimming hole. Head to the old town swimming hole — or find a new one. What a great way to spend a lazy afternoon with friends.

          30. Start a book club, card club (canasta anyone?), sewing club or scrapbooking club. Something you and your friends like. My parents used to belong to a cooking club where once a month all of their friends gathered at one house and the host family cooked a meal from a different country. I learned a lot about food that year.

          You don’t really need to spend much to have lots of fun with your friends! Pick a few of these ideas and start trying them out this weekend with your friends!

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