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7 Common Mistakes On The Journey To Being Wealthy

7 Common Mistakes On The Journey To Being Wealthy

Wealth has often been used synonymously with being rich. However, the two are not the same. Being rich is only a small element of your overall wealth. When we talk of wealth in this context, we are speaking about the passions, freedoms, experiences, relationships, desires and actions that money can’t buy.

There are so many people in our society today who die in the pursuit of riches, never realizing that they were some of the wealthiest men on the planet. It is obvious that money should be saved, invested and not wasted. However, there is also a certain degree of self-awareness that must be reached to attain wealth.Below are seven mistakes many individuals make in their pursuit of wealth.

1. They spend time on things that don’t align with their true wealth.

According to author Bronnie Ware, one of the top five regrets of the dying is, “I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.” It’s easy to get caught up in what society defines as wealth: successful businesses, money, power, prestige etc.

In reality, wealth is whatever you value most. That could be family, travel, solitude, adventure etc. However, you have to be self-aware enough to understand what your true wealth is and prioritize that over the labels and definitions of popular culture. No two people will have exactly the same wealth, because not everyone wants the same things out of life. The wealthy will not spend so much time, money and resources on something that is not an absolute passion.

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To redirect your life and focus, take a few minutes to actually write down your wealth like you would a budget. Make sure you are writing down thing you love to do (ACTIONS) and not material things like boats, planes, fancy cars etc. that most people put on their vision boards.

2. They have too many goals.

One major money mistake people make on the road to wealth is having too many goals. In other words, having too many things you want to accomplish is actually a distraction. Mike flint, is a pilot who has flown four United States presidents. He was also the personal pilot of Warren Buffet for ten years.

He asked Buffet for tips on prioritizing his career and building wealth. Buffet told Flint to write down his top 25 goals and then circle his top 5. As flint confirmed that he would start working on his top-five list right away, Buffet inquired about the second list. “It’s not as urgent, so I ll get to it later” He said. To which Buffet replied, “No Mike, you have got it all wrong. Everything you didn’t circle just became your avoid it at all cost list.”

Take a few more minutes and clean up the distractions that you have created for yourself by setting to many goals. Write down your top 25 life goals and circle your top 5. The remaining twenty just became your distraction list. They should be set aside without attention until your top 5 have been accomplished. If not, your lack of focus will cost you in the long term.

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3. They don’t know how to live “Sophrosyne”

To live Sophrosyne is to have a healthy state of mind, characterized by self-control, moderation, knowledge and balance with a deep awareness of one’s true self, resulting in true happiness. Sophrosyne is simply living simply, knowing the difference between wants and need. It can also be reflected in the two most famous saying by the philosopher Plato; “Know thy self” and “Nothing in excess.”

Spending too much on wants is a money mistake seen in the poor and middle class. Most people chase wealth as an excuse to live in excess. They display their insecurities in lavish homes and cars. These things aren’t wrong, but they shouldn’t be the driving force. Sophrosyne should not be confused with self-denial. Make a goal to set aside some money for a splurge in moderation.

4. They don’t pay themselves first

When trying to create monetary wealth, the obvious first step is to create a budget. However, most people don’t truly understand how to write and follow a budget that will create wealth. Most people create a budget either by calculating how much they need to pay for all their needs, wants and bills and still make it to next month, or, they figure out how much money they have to spend that month and budget to spend it all on their bills, needs and wants.

This budget ensures survival, not wealth. To really get ahead you have to create a budget that pays you before it even considers paying a bill or buying a want. You must then pretend that money doesn’t exist. It’s not vacation money or new car money. This is your nest egg and you are going to have to sit on it awhile and watch it grow before it is ready to hatch.

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5. They don’t take risks

So, you have saved a hefty sum and your nest egg is ready to hatch. This is where you are going to have to be very strategic in trying to turn your rainy day savings into a stockpile you could retire on. While saving and not overspending are good habits to have, they can become money mistakes if you don’t eventually put your money to work for you.

Any great capitalist will tell you that the key to creating great wealth is being willing to take a risk. Men like Vanderbilt, Rockefeller and Carnegie are perfect examples of risk-takers. They saw the possibility of a need and even though they knew it came with great risk, they had the vision to know that the reward was greater. These men were driven by a resolution greater than money. For them, creating wealth meant creating a legacy. Money was only a consequence of the actions they took in the pursuit of purpose and passion.

Any investment you make is going to be a risk. However, you can offset some of that risk by learning and gaining knowledge.
“Risk comes from not knowing what you are doing” – Warren Buffett.

6. They don’t understand the value of a reputation.

The dynamics of commerce in our culture today is quickly changing and the wealthy are quickly beginning to realize that your reputation and integrity is legal tender. Gone are the days of stomping on the little guy or back stabbing people on your way to the top. This old way of thinking is a big money mistake.

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In today’s online world, individuals and Businesses rely on reviews and rating when choosing a product or service. When people want to know about the services you provide, they automatically take to the internet to find out what people say about you. In this sense, your reputation is legal tender. One bad review could mean ten lost customers. Two bad reviews could mean twenty lost customers, etc. This means you have to consciously work to develop and sustain good relationships if you want your business or brand to succeed. While you must focus on your daily task to deliver quality products, do not forget that people will go where they feel the most valued. Take some time to build great reviews for your brand or business. Also take the time to work on mending broken relationships.

7. They don’t know how to delegate.

Many people open businesses to make money and be rich. However they never learn how to delegate work. This mistake can tend to be very costly. The wealth that is the freedom of owning your own business is replaced with the stress of thinking that the business cannot run well or smoothly without you.

This way of thinking will ensure that you burn out from stress. Do not confuse delegating work with micromanaging your employees. You must be able to trust their abilities to lead. Find out what the passions of your team are and see if there are any problems within the business that they are inspired to take action and lead change. This system helps you delegate work without ever having to delegate it. You will begin to see more work being done and accomplished around you.
If not addressed, the sum of these mistakes will begin to add up in cost. Take this moment to reflect on your perceptions .Are you on a path to wealth, or have you just trying to be rich.

“The joy and fulfillment found in the process of achieving your dreams and living with passion is often confused with the result of being rich. Do not measure your life’s journey to success with the fickle accompaniment of monetary and riches. Your journey should be measured by the memories gathered, not the receipts; the moments spent in passion, not cash; and happiness shared, not bought.”

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Last Updated on June 26, 2020

25 Easy Tips on How to Save Money Fast

25 Easy Tips on How to Save Money Fast

“How to save money fast?” This is the question asked by all of us not in the top 1% of rich people.

If you are looking for ways to drastically reduce your expenses immediately, first look at what you need to spend money on every week. And I mean really need.

You don’t really need to order in food. You don’t really need to buy expensive perfume.

Building from that, you can work out how your regular expenses can be reduced.

As for irregular expenses, they can also be deceptively costly in the long run. Once-off buys can also be tackled with some prudent planning and a little extra research.

And remember: a budgeted lifestyle does not mean a bad or boring one!

But first, understand what budget you can cut down on daily:

  • Regular expenses for the average adult (can be trimmed but not eliminated):
    • food
    • rent/mortgage
    • cell phone
    • insurance
    • socializing/entertainment
    • transportation
    • hygiene products
    • household bills
  • Irregular expenses for the average adult (can be eliminated or cut down a lot):
    • travel
    • clothing
    • medication (*depends)
    • grooming (hair, nails etc.)
    • gifts

Now, let’s dive right into the 25 ways to save money fast:

Save Money on Food

1. Bring a stock of food to the office/work

Instead of popping out for an overpriced salad and a smoothie, leave a set of basic utensils at the office as well as a stock of non-perishable goods such as tinned fruit, tuna, rice crackers and so on (try to avoid the junk food and this can turn into a pretty great diet!).

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Stocking up means you won’t forget or say “I didn’t have the time” when you rushed out to work in the morning.

2. Buy the store-brand version

Many basic foods, such as bread and milk, will taste exactly the same as their branded alternatives. Go for stuff with minimal additives and preservatives. Meat in a tube is probably insanely unhealthy!

3. Eat cheaper cuts of meat

Learn how to tenderize and flavour cheaper meat and fish, and save on the (typically) most expensive item on your grocery bill.

4. Have group dinners

If 10 friends put $5 each in the kitty, it’s pretty easy to make a giant lasagne and get refreshments, as well as hang out with your favourite people.

Save Money in Transport

5. Get a bicycle

Save on gas money and bus/metro fares with this underrated mode of transport.

6. Use public transport and/or don’t get taxis

Some places can only be reached by car. But as a good practise, check your public transport website and see if any routes pass nearby where you need to get to. Walk as much as you can.

7. Find the cheapest gas

Regularly check out where the cheapest gas can be bought.

Save Money in General Shopping

8. Shop online

Not only will you save on the gas or transport fares from going to the shopping mall but you will also find better deals

9. Sell your old stuff

Get your unwanted belongings up on eBay ASAP and earn a few dollars.

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Here’re more ideas for you: 25 Things to Sell to Make a Lot of Money

10. Bulk buying stores

For regular non-perishable/slow perishable purchases such as toilet paper, cat food, pasta, washing powder and so on, do an epic stocking-up trip to a co-op or equivalent (my mum used to go to a place that restaurants buy from).

Be wary of supermarket “deals”, as some have been found to be fraudulent after working out a simple calculation.

11. Become a flea market/car boot sale/street market guru

You can find original gifts and develop good negotiation skills at these places.

12. Generic brand medication

More often than not, the generic version of paracetamol and other basics work the same as the branded version.

13. Choose deodorant, not perfume

It blows my mind when someone drops $70 on a bottle of spray. Stick with a nice deodorant, and not only will you smell just fine but you’ll be sweat-free as well!

Cut Down on Household Expenses

14. Printing

Ink is one of the most expensive substances in the office and coloured ink is doubly so. B

e more efficient and choose black and white, and if your printer doesn’t have a print-both-sides options, just print odd pages first, re-insert the paper and print even pages.

Expand the margins of what you are printing as often as you can to save on paper.

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15. Minimize SMS and phone calls

A combination of a free chat service such as WhatsApp and a free call service such as Skype can reduce your bill to nothing (so long as you have a decent Wifi connection).

16. Shop around for insurance

Most people don’t spend enough time searching for the best insurance deal.

Keep a watchful eye out for deals and new competitors in the market.

17. Try re-negotiating your rent/mortgage

If you have built up a good credit history or a good rapport with your landlord, then chances are a frank chat about needing to tighten your spending could result in lowering your payments. You’ve nothing to lose from trying.

18. Don’t get a TV

Invest in a computer/laptop and an internet-only package. You can watch more (and often better) entertainment on the web, and skip the advertisements as well.

19. Pool your internet bill with a neighbour

My apartment building is basically a big old house split into three apartments. There are five of us in total. We pool the internet bill, making it crazy cheap.

Save Money in Socializing, Entertainment And Travel

20. Have house parties

Instead of paying for overpriced drinks, set up a series of in-house get-togethers with your friends. Everyone takes a turn, so it’s not always your house that needs cleaning.

For sound insulation, hang heavy drapes on the walls and windows. For music, invest in a good second-hand set of speakers which you can connect to your computer. Let Spotify or Grooveshark playlists do the rest.

21. Open festivals, meetups and events

It never fails to surprise me how much underground stuff goes on around me for free or for very cheap. Find out who runs the blogs and websites that list all the less well-known cultural activities.

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22. Volunteer

If you can’t pay for a ticket, volunteer and get to be there anyway.

23. Housesit

There are multiple housesitting websites offering you the possibility to avoid paying hotels and skip the discomfort of crummy hostels.

Save Money on Hygiene and Beauty

24. DIY beauty

French manicures, pedicures, waxing, eyebrows… pretty much all of these can be achieved at home (and done well) with some practise. There are plenty excellent blogs and YouTube tutorials to help.

25. Fewer haircuts/volunteer at a trainee hairdresser

If you can’t bear the risk of a trainee touching your locks, learn more ways to manipulate your hair as it grows and get haircuts sparingly. Women’s haircuts are outrageously priced in many cities.

Bonus: Effective Money-Saving Tips for Everything

Here’s a summary of what you can generally do to save more money:

  • Share/pool resources. Organize a neighbourhood sharing scheme, common resources for your apartment block or with your friends. Not everybody needs an individual lawnmower.
  • Buy energy-saving everything. The easiest way to lower your bills – replace those lightbulbs!
  • Buy in bulk. Be sensible about it (i.e. make sure you have space!), and drastically reduce weekly expenditure.
  • DIY. Skill up using YouTube tutorials on plumbing and many other essential services so you never have to pay for simple problems again.
  • Research a lot before making a decision. Most money-wasting is the result of poor preparation and planning. Don’t shirk this part just because you don’t like it!
  • Use your network. Your network is full of resources that can ease the pain of budgeting. Ask for help.
  • Stop and think. Do I really need it?

Unfortunately, there are some things that require plain ol’ giving up for the time being. This can include high-cost sports such as skiing, the latest versions of some technologies, the finest brands of food/drinks, premier seats at the opera and most other indulgences.

What is important to remember during lean times is that when you look back on your life, it will be the experiences that stand out, not the extra comforts.

Living on a budget can teach you a lot about how much you can really get out of your paycheck. We only live one life, so make the most of every penny you earn!

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