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5 Steps that Will Help You Cope with Your Debt

5 Steps that Will Help You Cope with Your Debt

There is an old saying that goes something like this “He who goes borrowing, goes sorrowing”, and I couldn’t agree more. In the good old days, borrowing was considered the last resort for a person in need, but nowadays it seems that everybody has some sort of debt, no matter how small. Our society is built upon the idea of credits and loans and the more you take, the more you need. The more you have, the more you want. And no matter what we do, we end up paying the price, sometimes for years. Chances are that at some point, some fancy guy in a suit will knock on your door and take everything you have. Luckily, all problems have solutions. So in order to get out of debt, or at least limit your debt, there are 5 steps that must be taken.

Step #1: Make Your Problems Your Priorities

It doesn’t matter if you work for a minimum wage or earn a decent living. With all these temptations, it is hard to stop getting loans and credits. The truth is that debts have become a normal part of our lives according to recent studies, and we are more often than not tempted to take on more than we can handle.

And although there is nothing more rewarding than standing on your own two feet, it is hard to do it with no debt whatsoever. College life is expensive, so you choose a student loan. Then, you want your own apartment or house, you get married, you have kids, you need cars and a change into the household appliances every now and then. And many people don’t get rich overnight, nor do they win the lottery or land on a gold mine. So credits and loans are the only solution to lead a normal life, like everyone else. But unless you want to spend the rest of your life paying interest, and worrying about your overdo payment, you have to take steps to dissolving your debt. Make the clearing of all your unresolved financial issues a top priority, and no matter what interference might occur, stick to your plan.

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Step #2: Stop Spending Your Money on Useless Stuff

It isn’t easy to embrace the frugal lifestyle, but nowadays there are so many resources and living examples of people who did it and who are living a care-free life, that you can’t be scared of trying it yourself. You know the saying “less is more”, so try applying it in your own life. Do you really need to buy all the junk you find in stores? I know you love chocolate, and you’re craving for a dinner out in the town, but you should focus on things that actually matter if you ever want to start moving forward. And it’s not a matter of giving up, it is a matter of simply clearing that cloudy sky and making a difference in your lifestyle, by creating balance. Balance leads to well-being.

Plus, you’d be amazed at how much money you can save if you put a little effort into it. Here is an idea to experiment: every time you go into the supermarket, try to think if you really need a certain item, and if you don’t, put the amount of money you would have spent on it somewhere else. Check that little deposit in a few weeks. And smile.

Step #3: Dealing with the Reality of Debt

If you accepted the fact that you have a debt problem and that you have to stop spending money on things that lack importance, the next step is to actually deal with the reality of debt. This means understanding the fact that although the bank may be offering you loans and credits for personal needs or for business needs, it certainly does not hold back from taking it all away when payments are not made in time. You go from wanting it all to losing even the little you had.

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There are many online resources and finance blogs that can advise you how exactly to deal with your debt in your country and which debt tools to make use of. In Australia, for example, debtconsolidation.com.au shows us that consolidation tools such are repayment are the most preferred ones. A repayment plan of your home loan would look like this:

    In other countries, people prefer to make one big loan, so they can cover all the other small ones.The most important focus of this strategy is that you will no longer risk missing payments and getting into more problems, because there is only one big problem that you have to worry about. It might sound a bit harsh, but having just one problem to deal with can be a life saver.

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    Step #4: Write Everything Down, Keep a Check List and Open a Savings Account

    It may not sound like the best advice, but writing down all your costs and profits will significantly help you manage your money. How exactly, you might wonder? It is simple: if you are diligent, and never forget to write everything in a notebook, you will be able to make a grand total at the end of the month/week, and see exactly what it is that is burning a hole through your pockets. To add more, try keeping things organized in a check list, so that you know what is a must and what can be saved for later. Organizing your spending budget is a key part in preventing new unwanted debts.

    Remember, we want to deal with each problem at a time, so preventing unwanted problems is also a smart way of living. Each time you managed to do something, even if it is just a simple action as to giving back some borrowed money, check list it. But what about holidays and expenses? Well, open up a savings account. Be it for Easter, Christmas, or other holidays and birthdays. It’s better to plan ahead. So if you want to spend some money, but not over do it, then this is the answer. Wondering what to do and where to “cut” from, so you can save money? Scroll up to Step 1 and read the experiment suggestion again and then come back to Step 5. Now you know where to start.

    Additional Pieces of Advice

    1. Never Give Up

    It takes a few weeks to get into serious debts, but you might be paying for this mistake your entire life. Nevertheless, if you have found yourself in a truly dire situation, where everything looks as though it could come crashing down in the blink of an eye, try to remain calm. Put your patience hat on, stay strong, and try to make the best out of what you have.

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    2. Stay Positive

    Optimism is the key to give peace to our minds. Nothing good will come out of stressing yourself. Remember that important lesson in math class: every problem has a solution. Stay focused and find it through creative realistic ways. But before that, keep your mind sane, so that it functions to its full potential.

    3. Carefully Choose Your Words and Your Actions

    Think, before talking and acting. Your actions can have side effects on your happiness and on the happiness of your dear ones. There are so many people who are consumed by their financial issues and still fail to understand that money does not bring happiness and luckily, there still are plenty of things money can’t buy.

    Word of advice: never joke around or say “I am forever in your debt” to a bank representative. He might take your word on that one.

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    Published on November 11, 2020

    10 Best Ways to Save Money Faster and Smarter

    10 Best Ways to Save Money Faster and Smarter

    People love to talk about budgeting, reducing spending. and investing. But unfortunately, talk is cheap, and poor money management is expensive. It’s easy to talk about the best way to save money, but putting it into practice is a different thing.

    What people need to talk about is the practical and efficient ways you can quickly save money to accomplish your goals. After all, they don’t teach this stuff in school.

    Here are the 10 best ways to save money faster and smarter.

    1. Cancel All Your Subscriptions

    Yes, all of them.

    Okay, you can keep your wifi and trash. But other than that, cancel all your monthly subscriptions for one month. You will survive, I promise. Better yet, you will realize you won’t miss all of them.

    Now that you have had 30 days to examine what you really missed and what you never thought twice about, you can add some of them back in. The others? you never have to think about them again.

    This is something you can and should do with every part of your life. If it’s clutter, cancel it. Being able to step back and see what is cluttering your life and what is excelling your forward helps improve your quality of life and financial standing.

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    2. Automate Savings From Your Paycheck

    Many of us are so excited about getting a new job that we rush through the paperwork during the hiring process. Good news for you, I have had lots of jobs so I have seen it a million times.

    There is an option for a portion of your paycheck to go directly into a secondary savings account. This is by far the most effective way to save money every month. We tend to spend most of what we have. So, if we take it off the top first, then it’s less likely to be spent. Just head over to HR and ask. It will only take two minutes.

    3. Cancel the Happy Hours for the Rest of the Pandemic

    We are in the middle of a global pandemic, which means that there is no better time to buy some drinks from the local store and stop shelling out $5 a drink at the local cocktail bar. When we look back at our bank statements, we are always shocked that fast food and alcohol can add up so quickly. You can easily save a couple of hundred dollars just by taking this step.

    A great exercise is to print out your last bank statement and highlight all the areas of alcohol and fast food. The amount may surprise you and make you think twice about that old fashion.

    4. Online Grocery Shopping

    Some people think online shopping increases the amount they spend. For the most part, I would agree—except for this category.

    Online grocery shopping is now a no-brainer, though. Whenever you walk through a grocery store, two things always happen: you always grab impulse items, and you never know the total of your cart until you checkout. This means that we always spend more than we originally planned.

    With online shopping, you can see your total as you add items to your cart. You are way less inclined to make those impulse purchases and because of that, I would venture to say that you could even pay to have them delivered to your door and still save money each month by choosing online grocery shopping.

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    5. Get a Famzoo Debit Card

    This is something my wife and I swear by, and it’s great for the entire family! Famzoo strictly exists to help families and kids budget their money better. Each month, my wife and I have an allotted amount loaded onto our pre-paid Famzoo debit card. This amount has changed every year depending on promotions, kids, stage of life, etc.

    The important part is that when you give yourself the freedom to spend a certain amount, you are more likely to only spend the allotted amount. Think of it as a diet. If you are counting calories, you are more likely to stick close to the amount you set. You can also look for some tips online to better stick to your family budget.

    6. Purge

    This is actually my favorite to do, and it is actually one of the best ways to save money. Raise your hand if you have ever moved. Okay, so everyone.

    When we move, we are always amazed at how much junk we have acquired. I have found that about every 6 months, I can find a couple of boxes to sell online of things that we never use. This not only gives you so extra quick cash, but it also keeps your house more tidy and organized.

    Now, go clean out that garage!

    7. Amazon Subscribe and Save

    32! That is how many items I have setup on amazon subscribe and save. Let me explain.

    This sounds expensive, I know. But it actually saves us hundreds of dollars per year! We all need toothpaste, shampoo, razors, laundry detergent, toilet paper right? This feature is truly a triple threat. When you have more than 5 items on subscribe and save, you automatically unlock the max savings for every product on your list. This can be up to 20% per item!

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    Now, even better is that it ships straight to your door on the exact day you want the item, maybe monthly or maybe you only need it every 4 months. This way, you never have too much or never run out. Either way, it’s totally customizable.

    Lastly, there is no contract for any items, which means you can switch brands or items at any given time at no cost. My advice: every single staple item should be on your subscribe and save.

    8. Rewards

    This may ruffle some feathers, but if you are using your debit card for purchases, you are missing out on free money! We have this notion that credit cards are evil but in reality, they are the same piece of plastic as your debit card.

    How you use it can be bad, don’t get me wrong. But if you want my opinion though, ditch the debit card and get a rewards credit card. Use it just like you would your debit card and make sure to pay it off as soon as the statement comes in!

    Just to give you an idea of how powerful this can be in terms of money, here are some things that our miles have paid for:

    • 4 nights in Vail with Flight
    • Rental car in Vail (convertible might I add)
    • Flight to Ireland
    • Flight to Hawaii
    • Multiple staycations at very nice Hotels

    That’s roughly about 7 thousand dollars in travel expenses so far! Remember that the credit card is just a tool and can be one that benefits you if you use it wisely. Ironically, this can be an effective way to save money.

    Pro tip: If you don’t trust yourself carrying around a credit card, then set up all your monthly bills with your credit and leave it in a drawer at home. This way, you rack up miles but don’t get tempted to overspend.

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    9. Vacation With Friends

    Now, I know travel is hard right now but what a perfect time to go grab an Airbnb in the woods with a couple of friends and detox from the world right now!

    Vacationing alone can be pricey and get rather boring quickly, but if you split lodging and set out for a road trip, it can become affordable quickly! For a couple of hundred bucks apiece, you can have one of the most relaxing vacations ever. Don’t forget to pick up your food at the local grocery store to avoid eating out every meal!

    10. Make a Budget

    When is the last time you updated your budget or made one for that matter? Making a budget is like writing down your goals. If you don’t make a budget, then you will struggle to save.

    How can you know if you are spending wisely if you are not tracking everything?

    Our advice would be to get a finance app like Mint, Every dollar, or personal capital. All these apps are free and do a tremendous job of tracking spending and budgeting. I still am old-school and have an excel spreadsheet which I do highly recommend.

    Work Smarter, Not Harder

    The entire goal is to boost your bank account while reducing the effort required. Efficiency is the name of the game, and automation is the key player. Luckily, we live in a world that has more perks than we can ever take advantage of. But if I were to choose a few, it would be the ones above.

    Taking on all 10 of these steps may seem a little daunting. You can first try to pick three of your favorite and start there. Saving money doesn’t have to be a chore as long. As we use the tools correctly, it can be quite effortless. And now, you have a great blueprint to get started!

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