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I, Me and MySelfie!

I, Me and MySelfie!

The other day while I was basking in the afternoon sun waiting for my bus to come, I clumsily took some random selfies of myself and sent them to my friends. With the world in a frenzy with its selfie obsession, I wonder: how did it end up this way? I realized that perhaps selfies were always there, but they weren’t explored to this extent until now.

The simple yet unexplored means of indulging in focusing and clicking countless pictures is the new rage. Duck faces, pouting, raised eyebrows, and teeth-clenching pictures; blowing kisses, bulging eyes, battling eyelids and naughty ones—who would have thought it would come to this?

Have you ever wondered why the selfie mania crept upon us like a fast-moving epidemic? Well I have. Here are some of the basic reasons you may not have thought of before as to how selfie-ism became popular.

1. Self-obsession Syndrome

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    Nobody can get enough of himself/herself in this lifetime. The self-obsession syndrome has led people to become highly involved with taking selfies. The unstoppable feeling of seeing and clicking umpteen pictures of oneself just to get the best one out of the lot is unnerving. I have a friend who looks great on camera and is selfie-obsessed. She says that since she is a little bit on the heavier side, selfies work wonders for her self-confidence since she can include just her face (and not her body) in the photos.

    2. Phobia of Being Without Your Phone

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      We are the phone-hooked generation, the ones with high-end mobile phones flashing up-to-date features who use the phone for almost everything on this planet. There are apps for finding directions, places to eat, drink, dance, read, and see movies. And once we get there, we click pictures and upload them. The special features of the phone that allow you to take all sorts of pictures in all resolutions and views, black and white, panoramic, faded, etc has driven the world to be more selfie-centered.

      3. The “Everyone Is Doing It” Mania

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        The feeling of following the crowd: your friends, neighbors, classmates, officemates and even strangers are doing it. So why should you be dwindling away time? I had never been previously fascinated with selfie-ism (as I like to refer to it), but when I saw my cousins, friends and family indulging in it, I started to follow suit. I began to take lots of selfies and uploaded them for the world to see and eventually, became one of them. The mere expression that you are not lagging behind times is of the prima facie for clicking selfies today.

        4. Simplicity

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          Yes, taking pictures is now the simplest thing ever. Just a mere touch on the interface and you have a dozen beautiful pictures smiling back at you. Everyone from my niece, who is three, to my grandmother, who is seventy-three, takes selfies! What’s even better is that you can control the positioning of the camera on your face.

          5. There’s no one else there to take the picture!

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            When we go on trips, vacations overseas or just a pub, often, we don’t have anyone who can take the picture for us. The feeling of giving your phone to a stranger and ending up with a blurred and not-so-good picture sucks. Instead, one prefers a simpler version of taking pictures: selfies with friends, alone or with a loved one.

            6. Celebrity Connection

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              Remember the selfie craze that went viral after the Ellen DeGeneres Oscar selfie? Its net worth was estimated to be between 800 million dollars to 1 billion dollars! Yes, pure madness! But as much as it was expected,  the fans or, more specifically, the world, just blindly follows. There will be more selfies if the celebrities are doing it.

              7. Accidentally on purpose.

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                One theory of mine is that selfies were invented by mistake: imagine somebody trying to adjust his phone while in the process of handing it over for someone else to take the picture. Or maybe someone goes to check her makeup on the phone’s camera and accidentally ends up with a selfie? Quite a possibility, eh?

                8. The Selfie Song

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                  The addictive yet lucid and trance-like music of the selfie song, “#Selfie,” blew the world out of proportion with its popularity. After hearing it so much, I am so sick of the selfie song now. But we can’t deny that it took the world by storm, and ever since the song came out, selfies became even more prominent .

                  The selfie-obsessed generation is one in which we live. So should we make a fuss about this selfie-ism? No way. With everything good or bad that fades with time, so will this. Eventually, the world will have had enough of selfie-ism and will divert their focus to something much more attractive and cool. Selfies will dwindle away only to be remembered by us when our hair turns grey. So for now, sit back, relax and pose while you take a selfie!

                  Featured photo credit: Markus Bemhard via Getty Images via i.huffpost.com

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                  50 Habits of Highly Successful People You Should Learn

                  50 Habits of Highly Successful People You Should Learn

                  If you’re like me and really into self-development, you’ve probably read many of the thousands of self-help books out there on the market. But also like me, you probably find all the information a bit overwhelming.

                  That’s why I wanted to do the self-less task of taking the most important, life-changing lessons I’ve drawn from these books and condensed them into 50 key points.

                  Here’re 50 habits of successful people you should learn:

                  1. Believe It to See It

                  Our minds tend to focus on what’s happening around us and refuse to see what could happen. Only when you trust in what’s possible and dare to dream big, big things can happen for you.

                  2. See Problems as a Wonderful Gift

                  While others only see problems and give up, successful people use the problem as a lesson to find improvement in themselves or the task at hand.

                  3. Keep Looking for Solutions

                  Even if they’re knee-deep in problems, successful people will still put all of their focus on finding solutions.

                  4. Remember It’s All About the Journey

                  Successful people are conscious and methodical in creating their own success. They don’t sit around doing the bare minimum, hoping success finds them.

                  5. Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway

                  There’s so much fear on the road to success, but instead of letting that fear control and limit them, successful people do a good job of just forging ahead regardless.

                  6. Always Ask Productive Questions

                  It’s all about asking the right questions. Successful people make sure they are questions that will elicit information for a more productive, creative and positive mindset moving forward.

                  7. Understand the Best Waste of Energy Is Complaining

                  Successful people know that choosing to see the negative side of things will only create a useless and unproductive state.

                  8. Don’t Play the Blame Game

                  Taking responsibility for actions and outcomes is a form of empowerment that you can build your success upon. While the act of blaming others or outside circumstances takes this empowerment away from you.

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                  9. Maximize Your Strengths

                  Not every successful person is simply more talented than the rest, but they do use what they know they’re good at to achieve more successful results.

                  10. Be in It to Win It

                  Successful people are busy, productive and proactive. Instead of sitting around over-thinking and over-planning a great idea, they just take a step towards it no matter how small.

                  11. Know That Success Attracts Success

                  People who are successful surround themselves and seek out like-minded people. They understand the importance of being part of a team and forge win-win relationships.

                  12. Actually Choose to Be Successful

                  Dreaming big is a massive part of being successful even if your dream seems impossible. Ambition is a mindset that needs to be a daily conscious choice.

                  13. Visualize, Visualize, Visualize!

                  You’ve got to see your success in your mind’s eye even before it comes. Successful people clarify and get that certainty about what they want their reality to look like rather than being mere spectators of life.

                  14. Be a One-Off Original

                  Successful people look for what’s working and then create a unique spin on it. Imitating only regurgitates other people’s ideas with no originality.

                  15. The Perfect Time to Act Is Now

                  Waiting for the right time to act is basically procrastination wrapped up in an excuse. Successful people know there’s never a perfect time so they may as well just do it now.

                  16. Keep Learning, Keep Growing

                  Continuous learning is the key to a successful life. Whether it’s academic, being a student of life or actionable learning, it’s all about expanding your knowledge and personal development.

                  17. Always Look on the Bright Side of Life

                  Successful people have the knack for finding positive aspects in all people and circumstances no matter what.

                  18. Having a Bad Day? Do It Anyway!

                  We all have bad moods but it shouldn’t be an excuse to stop everything. Giving into a bad mood just stop-starts your life, slowing success way down.

                  19. Sometimes Risky Business Is Needed

                  Calculated risks are a must for success. It’s about weighing the pros and cons while moving forward with that element of trust.

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                  20. Accept Challenge All the Time

                  Dealing with problems head-on is a must to be successful. Successful people also face challenges in order to improve themselves.

                  21. Make Your Own Luck

                  In the mindset of a successful person, there’s no such thing as ‘luck’ or ‘fate’. They take control to actively and consciously create their own best life.

                  22. Ignite Your Initiative

                  While many people are reactive, successful people are proactive – taking action before they have to.

                  23. Be the Master of Your Emotions

                  Being effective at managing emotions is key on the road to success. That’s not to say successful people don’t feel like we all do, but they’re just not slaves to their emotions.

                  24. Champion in Communication

                  Consciously working on effective communication skills gets anyone closer to success.

                  25. Plan Your Life Strategically

                  Successful people’s lives aren’t a clumsy series of unplanned events and outcomes, they methodically work at turning their plans into a reality.

                  26. Become Exceptional at What You Do

                  To become exceptional, you typically have to do things that most won’t. To become successful, hard decisions need to be made and acting on them is crucial.

                  27. Choose to Live Outside of Your Comfort Zone

                  While many people are pleasure junkies and avoid pain and discomfort at all costs, successful people understand the value and benefits of working through the tough stuff that most would avoid.

                  28. Live by Core Values

                  Successful people firstly identify their core values and what’s important to them, then do their best to live a life that reflects these values.

                  29. Realize Money Isn’t Everything

                  Money and success are not interchangeable and the most successful people understand this. Putting money on a pedestal and equating it to success is a dangerous mindset to have. Success comes in many forms.

                  30. Don’t Get Carried Away

                  Successful people understand the importance of discipline and self-control and as a result they are happy to take the road less travelled.

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                  31. Self-Worth Is Not Tied to Success

                  Successful people are secure. They do not derive their self-worth from what they own, who they know, where they live or what they look like.

                  32. Kindness Breeds Kindness (And Success)

                  Generosity and kindness is a common trait among long-term successful people. It’s important to take pleasure in helping others achieve.

                  33. More Humility, Less Arrogance

                  Successful people are humble and happy to admit and apologize for mistakes. This is because they’re confident in their ability. They are happy to learn from others and happy to make others look good rather than seek their own personal glory.

                  34. Change Opens New Doors

                  People who are successful are adaptable and embrace change, while the majority are creatures of comfort and habit. They are comfortable with, and embrace, the new and the unfamiliar.

                  35. Success Requires a Healthy Body

                  It’s not just how you think, it’s about how you show up for success. Successful people understand the importance of being physically well, not for vain reasons but because being in tiptop condition creates a better personal life for success.

                  36. Laziness Just Doesn’t Exist

                  Successful people are never considered lazy. Yes, they can relax when they need to, but working hard is their game.

                  37. Resilience by the Bucket Load

                  When difficulty strikes, most would throw in the towel, but successful people are just warming up.

                  38. Feedback Is Just Another Chance to Improve

                  How people react to feedback determines their potential for success. Being open to constructive criticism and acting on it to improve is most seen in those who are successful.

                  39. Your Vibe Attracts Your Tribe

                  If people are hanging out with toxic and negative people, then they need to take a look at themselves. Successful people hang out with others who are positive and supportive.

                  40. Can’t Control It? Forget It

                  Successful people don’t invest time or emotional energy into things which they have no control of.

                  41. Swim Against the Tide

                  Successful people are not people-pleasers and they don’t need constant approval from others in order to move ahead.

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                  42. Alone Time Is Valuable Time

                  More self-worth means being more comfortable with your own company. Successful people are more happy and see the value in spending time alone.

                  43. Self-Standard Is Higher Than Most

                  Everyone has a choice to set high standards for themselves. Successful people do this, which in turn produces greater commitment, more momentum, a better work ethic and of course, better results.

                  44. Failure Isn’t Rationalized

                  While many use age, health, lack of time, ‘bad luck’, or lack of opportunity to explain away their failure, the key to success is finding a way to succeed despite facing these challenges.

                  45. Down Time Is an Important Part of a Routine

                  Having an off switch and taking time to do things that make them happy is a common trait of a successful person. Take a look at here The Importance of Scheduling Downtime.

                  46. Career Isn’t Who You Are, It’s What You Do

                  Successful people know their career isn’t their identity. They are multi-dimensional and don’t define themselves by their job.

                  47. Be Interested in Only the Path of Resistance

                  While most people look for the easiest way or the shortcut, successful people are more interested in the most effective way. They look for the course of action which will produce the best results over the long term.

                  48. Follow Through

                  Many spend their life starting things that they never finish, but successful people get the job done. Even when the excitement and the novelty has worn off they still follow through and finish.

                  49. Invest in All Your Dimensions

                  We’re not just physical and psychological beings, but emotional and spiritual creatures as well. Successful people consciously work at being healthy and productive on all levels.

                  50. Put Your Money Where Your Mouth Is

                  To obtain success, it’s important to practice what you preach. Successful people don’t talk about the theory, they live the reality.

                  So there you have it, a summary of what I’ve learned from self-help books. But of course, you need to start taking actions so you will get closer to success too.

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