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10 lessons to learn from running

10 lessons to learn from running

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    Running is in fashion. Just look around, and you’ll realize streets are crowded by people passing by you in those shiny wet clothes, smiling and drinking something too sweet to be healthy…

    I have to confess that I am a runner, and a proud one, and running has taught me some useful lessons, not just to have better runs, but also to have a better life. So maybe you are a runner or maybe not, but in any case there are many useful lessons that can be learnt from this mass sport, in order to live a better life. Here you are 10 of them:

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    1. You don’t need anything to start running

    Well, maybe sport shoes; it doesn’t look comfortable at all to run on stiletto heels… But if you actually want to run, ok, just do it.

    As an entrepreneur, sometimes I’ve been wandering about the potential success of a business plan. And the only real way to proof it will be successful is to start it. So go outside and run; it’s easier and cheaper than you think!

    2. The good news comes at the end

    During a long run, let’s say, 10K or more, some people start at a very fast pace, just to discover any sign of strength is out of their body by the mid-race. So start quietly, focus on the end, on the final reward – refreshments, your family greeting, or whatever makes you feel good. And keep going. At the end of the day, do you want to go fast, or do you prefer reaching far destinations?

    3. Listen to your body

    You think you can cope with everything, don’t you? Business, family, friends, social life… and after a while, your body starts complaining and you feel back pain, or maybe some headaches now and then. Runners listen to their body, and slow down if necessary. Your body speaks –sometimes very loud- so listen to it before it is too late.

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    4. Talk to your body

    Have you ever asked your hips to help you in a race, once you notice your legs are tired? This is one of the greatest lessons you can learn from running: your body listens to you. Once you tell it why you are running and what you are running for, maybe it will accept some extra workload. It is just a dialog between you and your body, in which every part becomes aware of other’s needs and wishes. Maybe then you will realize your body is more skilled than what you think, and it is able to reach what looked like unreachable.

    Have you ever asked someone for a little help at work? Most of the times, it works!

    5. Enjoy your accomplishments

    Running, and life in general, is too demanding itself, so we’d better don’t add extra demands. Did you run one mile? Very good! Enjoy it, and then go for the next one.

    Runners that only look at how many miles away is the finish line, will hardly reach it. So celebrate, and keep going.

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    6. Keep away from addictions

    I’m not talking about substances, either legal or not, but the addiction to run. Runners feel good while running, so they could be tempted to run more and more. But life is something else. For example, not running.
    Are you a runaholic? (Or a workaholic, or a partyholic) take a deep breath and relax. Just in case.

    7. You can enjoy on your own and in a group

    Running can be played alone. It is only you and the path. It is one of the best moments to be aware of your best self, celebrating life. My best ideas pop while running alone, since my mind is free to ramble and explore new ways.
    And running can also be played in group. This is a very good opportunity to adapt your performance to others’, to ask for help if needed and, of course, to bring some words of encouragement to the most tired runners. While running with others, I have discovered I can enjoy the run at more than 11 minutes per mile, and at less than seven. Groups helped me discover I can change and keep enjoying.

    8. The challenge is not against anything

    You don’t need to beat the time. You don’t need to beat your friend. It is not against the world. Running is just the opposite: you take your skills, put them into practice, and results come alone. Want to run? Then enjoy it. Make yours the Olympic motto “Citius, Altius, Fortius” (Faster, Higher, Stronger) and drive your run. Celebrate your accomplishments and do not forget to celebrate your eventual underperformance, because it is a sign that you are a real human being, not just a running machine.

    9. Setting goals improves performance

    Sometimes it is good to “just run”, but setting clear goals helps you track your performance and, thus, celebrate your achievements. Take into account that a goal must be SMART enough (that is, Simple, Measurable, Attainable, Realistic and Time-bounded) in order to be effective. “To finish a Marathon after a sixteen-week plan” could be a goal, while “To be the best runner” is not. At all.
    And, of course, do not forget to make your goals public, so that everyone around can support you. Please, do avoid

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    functionality comes first

      pessimistic people.

      10. Image comes after functionality

       Whether you are a fashion victim or not, function comes first for running items. Do you need a new pair of running shoes? Try at least ten pairs, and choose the most comfortable ones. Then, if you like, ask for color possibilities.
      A race is not a parade –though sometimes it may look like- and you should be aware even a pretty shirt could make you suffer during a run, so remember what you are asking for when going to the mall. Of course I am not saying image is not important. I love when my wife says “you are looking good in these pants!” but purpose is more important than that. As in real life.

      I hope some of these 10 lessons help you have better runs, and a better life. Do you have some more lessons to be learned? Would you like to share them? I look forward reading them!

      Featured photo credit: Marathon Style / Michael Villanueva via farm3.staticflickr.com

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      The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

      The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

      Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

      The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

      1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

      Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

       I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

      To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

      And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

       2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

      Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

      3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

      Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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      4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

      The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

      5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

      Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

      6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

      Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

      7. Positive people smile a lot!

      When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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      8. People who are positive are great communicators.

      They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

      9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

      One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

      10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

      Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

      How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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      I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

      Featured photo credit: Janaína Castelo Branco via flickr.com

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