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7 Steps You Can Take To Develop Lifelong Motivation

7 Steps You Can Take To Develop Lifelong Motivation

Motivation is the key to empowering your life and helping you achieve your goals and desires. However, few people know how to tap into the full potential of motivation, and most only feel intense motivation for short periods of time or fail to act on their feelings. Learning how to develop lifelong motivation will greatly affect your quality of life and helps to keep you going through the hard times.

Identify What You Want and Why

The first step to developing lifelong motivation is to determine what you truly want and why you want it. You might want to be rich or simply want to find happiness in your life. Identifying what you really want takes time, this means taking time to reflect on yourself and spending time soul-searching. Once you find what you want, you must then find the reason behind this desire. Wanting something “just because” is not a strong enough foundation to build lifelong motivation; you must find your own reason as to why you want something.

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Once you find what you want and why, it is a good idea to write it down. This helps you remember, and it also materializes your thoughts which psychologically makes them real and achievable.

Be Bold

No one who has lifelong motivation plays it “safe” or stays within their comfort zones all the time. Being bold means knowing that you will have to do things you may find unpleasant or scary. As you expose yourself to these scenarios more often, you will become more tolerant of being outside of your comfort zone, which will allow you to attempt greater things.

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Develop a Plan to Get What You Want

One of the biggest factors to finding lifelong motivation is knowing how to achieve it. Once you develop a strategy or plan to achieve what you want, you can begin working towards your goal. A plan helps you visualize each step and this mental image motivates you to reach the end destination. As you complete each phase of your plan you will find yourself much more motivated and excited about the next upcoming challenges.

Take Action

All of this advice is useless if you don’t act upon it. Ideas and wishful thinking will spark short-term motivation, but if you don’t act upon these feelings then nothing will change and you will find yourself feeling unmotivated again. Once you find what you want and developed a plan to reach that goal, then immediately start taking action before you have a chance to second-guess yourself. All the thinking and planning should already be done, and all you have to do is start progressing towards your final goal.

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Never Be Afraid of Failure

Fear of failure is the number one killer for motivation. Instead of fearing failure, you should learn to embrace it. Once you understand that failure can be a good thing, you’ll be able to accept the fact that you don’t have to be perfect at everything you do. Many people fall into the trap of waiting for the perfect time or opportunity to avoid failing, but this often leads to inaction. Learn from your failures and understand that every successful person had to fail many times before finding what works for them.

Learn How to Get Through a Rough Time

If you are able to stay positive and dig yourself out of a bad position then you’ll develop a “never give up” mentality, which is an essential ingredient in developing lifelong motivation. Learning to get through a rough time must be experienced first-hand, but once you emerge from your bad predicament, you will feel victorious, and you’ll be able to apply this winning mentality into everything you do. Going through a rough time teaches us that everything will be OK and how to manage ourselves when things are not going the way we want them to.

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Evaluate and Reflect on Both Your Successes and Failures

To develop lifelong motivation, you must learn from both your successes and failures. This allows you to fast-track your success in the future and avoid making the same mistakes in future endeavors. Not only does this empower you because you know that you’ve learned something new, but it also reminds you that you did all of the steps above (and more) and you are able to change your course of life if you put your mind to it.

Motivation is an elusive feeling; it can come and go at a moment’s notice, but once you learn how to harness its power, you will greatly improve the quality of your life. For more motivation, here is an interesting speech by TED which talks about why people fail to achieve a great career and why we are afraid to try.

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Last Updated on December 10, 2019

5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today

5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today

Here’s the truth: your effectiveness at life is not what it could be. You’re missing out.

Each day passes by and you have nothing to prove that it even happened. Did you achieve something? Go on a date? Have an emotional breakthrough? Who knows?

But what you do know is that you don’t want to make the same mistakes that you’ve made in the past.

Our lives are full of hidden gems of knowledge and insight, and the most recent events in our lives contain the most useful gems of all. Do you know why? It’s simple, those hidden lessons are the most up to date, meaning they have the largest impact on what we’re doing right now.

But the question is, how do you get those lessons? There’s a simple way to do it, and it doesn’t involve time machines:

Journal writing.

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Improved mental clarity, the ability to see our lives in the big picture, as well as serving as a piece of evidence cataloguing every success we’ve ever had; we are provided all of the above and more by doing some journal writing.

Journal writing is a useful and flexible tool to help shed light on achieving your goals.

Here’s 5 smart reasons why you should do journal writing:

1. Journals Help You Have a Better Connection with Your Values, Emotions, and Goals

By journaling about what you believe in, why you believe it, how you feel, and what your goals are, you understand your relationships with these things better. This is because you must sort through the mental clutter and provide details on why you do what you do and feel what you feel.

Consider this:

Perhaps you’ve spent the last year or so working at a job you don’t like. It would be easy to just suck it up and keep working with your head down, going on as if it’s supposed to be normal to not like your job. Nobody else is complaining, so why should you, right?

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But a little journal writing will set things straight for you. You don’t like your job. You feel like it’s robbing you of happiness and satisfaction, and you don’t see yourself better there in the future.

The other workers? Maybe they don’t know, maybe they don’t care. But you do, you know and care enough to do something about it. And you’re capable of fixing this problem because your journal writing allows you to finally be honest with yourself about it.

2. Journals Improve Mental Clarity and Help Improve Your Focus

If there’s one thing journal writing is good for, it’s clearing the mental clutter.

How does it work? Simply, whenever you have a problem and write about it in a journal, you transfer the problem from your head to the paper. This empties the mind, allowing allocation of precious resources to problem-solving rather than problem-storing.

Let’s say you’ve been juggling several tasks at work. You’ve got data entry, testing, e-mails, problems with the boss, and so on—enough to overwhelm you—but as you start journal writing, things become clearer and easier to understand: Data entry can actually wait till Thursday; Bill kindly offered earlier to do my testing; For e-mails, I can check them now; the boss is just upset because Becky called in sick, etc.

You become better able to focus and reason your tasks out, and this is an indispensable and useful skill to have.

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3. Journals Improve Insight and Understanding

As a positive consequence of improving your mental clarity, you become more open to insights you may have missed before. As you write your notes out, you’re essentially having a dialogue with yourself. This draws out insights that you would have missed otherwise; it’s almost as if two people are working together to better understand each other. This kind of insight is only available to the person who has taken the time to connect with and understand themselves in the form of writing.

Once you’ve gotten a few entries written down, new insights can be gleaned from reading over them. What themes do you see in your life? Do you keep switching goals halfway through? Are you constantly dating the same type of people who aren’t good for you? Have you slowly but surely pushed people out of your life for fear of being hurt?

All of these questions can be answered by simply self-reflecting, but you can only discover the answers if you’ve captured them in writing. These questions are going to be tough to answer without a journal of your actions and experiences.

4. Journals Track Your Overall Development

Life happens, and it can happen fast. Sometimes we don’t take the time to stop and look around at what’s happening to us at each moment. We don’t get to see the step-by-step progress that we’re making in our own lives. So what happens? One day it’s the future, and you have no idea how you’ve gotten there.

Journal writing allows you to see how you’ve changed over time, so you can see where you did things right, and you can see where you took a misstep and fell.

The great thing about journals is that you’ll know what that misstep was, and you can make sure it doesn’t happen again—all because you made sure to log it, allowing yourself to learn from your mistakes.

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5. Journals Facilitate Personal Growth

The best thing about journal writing is that no matter what you end up writing about, it’s hard to not grow from it. You can’t just look at a past entry in which you acted shamefully and say “that was dumb, anyway!” No, we say “I will never make a dumb choice like that again!”

It’s impossible not to grow when it comes to journal writing. That’s what makes journal writing such a powerful tool, whether it’s about achieving goals, becoming a better person, or just general personal-development. No matter what you use it for, you’ll eventually see yourself growing as a person.

Kickstart Journaling

How can journaling best be of use to you? To vent your emotions? To help achieve your goals? To help clear your mind? What do you think makes journaling such a useful life skill?

Know the answer? Then it’s about time you reap the benefits of journal writing and start putting pen to paper.

Here’s what you can do to start journaling:

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