In romantic relationships, as with so much else, it’s the little things that count. Just as a mis-spoken word or odd look can throw a couple into a weeks-long feud, small and seemingly insignificant gestures can help keep a relationship on track. A little gift, an off-hand compliment, a moment of physical contact can vastly strengthen a relationship.
According to psychologists Nathaniel Branden and Robert Sternberg, who have both researched and written about the challenges of romantic relationships, these little displays of interest and affection can be more important than all the "active listening" and trust games in the world. Their research has suggested 10 keys to keeping both partners content, satisfied, and happy with each other.
10 Keys to a Successful Romantic Relationship
Immature Love Says: 'I Love You Because I Need You.'
Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.' Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.' - Erich Fromm
Score Your Life Rebuild in 9 Questions
Something is off, and the hard part is that it is never obvious which part of life is causing it. Find out which Aspect is most depleted right now and what to do about it this week.
Which Aspect
Where the drain is
Your Block
One defended hour
The Mode
What holds long-term
Your 9-question Life Rebuild Score reveals:
- Which of the 6 Aspects of your life is most depleted right now
- Why fixing the loudest problem first usually fails
- The one thing to defend this week
Two ways to start
Where do you want to begin?
Find out where you stand
Which Part Actually Needs Fixing?
Something is off, and the hard part is that it is never obvious which part of life is causing it. The Life Rebuild Score tells you which of the six Aspects of your life is taking the hit, and the one thing to defend this week.
Take the Life Rebuild Score →




