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8 Sentences Sound Much More Powerful Than Simply ‘I Love You’

8 Sentences Sound Much More Powerful Than Simply ‘I Love You’

There is something about love, it is meant to be voiceless. It should be unspoken sometimes and contain incredible actions that bind you stronger with your partner. Even when words need to be said it should be the right words, because it is hard trusting or even giving your heart to anyone. Let the right person hear the right words. And it doesn’t have to be “I love you,” because that can make you feel cheated and seem like everybody else. To treat your man/woman right then you have to be exclusive and make exceptions to the rule. There are sentences that carry as much weight as saying, “I love you.” Sometimes these sentences go deeper and build greater trust in the relationship.

If you want to love, please love right. And do not be like every other person. Say something sweet, please and let the other person have a sense of belonging. Let them know that they are the one you have been waiting for all this while. And do not be ambiguous about it. Because when the right words are said, it means everything and could establish your place in their heart.

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I think about you all the time

This is not abstract but specific. It is a doing and you are making him/her aware how they exist and coordinate your thoughts. It is not about how long you have been together, you are making them understand that the person exist so deep in your thoughts that it is sometimes distracting. And this is deep.

I would create perfection for you

This helps explain how far you are really willing to go for him/her. It tells the other person that your desire or affection doesn’t come as a simple saying but as an active to desire to always please them. It shows that you are willing to make sacrifices and compromises. It shows you are willing to go places for her. And what could exhibit your heart desires than these words?

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You look impeccable

You look amazing, you look ravishing, and you look breathtaking…. Your partner wants to be noticed, especially by you. Make them aware that you see them and they always have your attention. This sentence helps to ascertain security and relevance in your relationship that they don’t only have your heart, they also have your eyes.

You are more delicious than candy

It tells your partner how sweet they are. It is the perfect image that triggers all sensuousness in the relationship. This statement sounds best during a cuddle or a moment of romantic expression.

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I want you

This sentence could sound as desperation or a hungry and affectionate desire. It is best to say this during the early stages of a relationship instead of saying ‘I love you.’ But it does carry as much weight and relevance to the listener.

With you I am never afraid

Love is pure and synonymous with it is courage. Let your partner know how bold and fearless loving them makes you feel. This sentence means assurance, boldness and perseverance. It means you are willing to go all in with him/her.

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You are the best

This makes your partner know that he/she comes first. It puts them in an elevated stage in the relationship. Comparatively, even when there have been others, they are the best. You give them that feeling that they do supersede everyone who has come into your world.

Life without you is like a broken pencil, pointless

There is no meaning of existence without him/her. You can’t breathe, eat or even think without them. They make you perfect and offer you more than enough reasons to live. Instead of saying “I love you” this sentence affirms the other persons position in your life. It gives credence to him/her and makes her aware why he/she will always be in your life.

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Last Updated on November 15, 2018

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

Success In Reaching Goals Is Determined By Mindset

What do you think it takes to achieve your goals? Hard work? Lots of actions? While these are paramount to becoming successful in reaching our goals, neither of these are possible without a positive mindset.

As humans, we naturally tend to lean towards a negative outlook when it comes to our hopes and dreams. We are prone to believing that we have limitations either from within ourselves or from external forces keeping us from truly getting to where we want to be in life. Our tendency to think that we’ll “believe it when we see it” suggests that our mindsets are focused on our goals not really being attainable until they’ve been achieved. The problem with this is that this common mindset fuels our limiting beliefs and shows a lack of faith in ourselves.

The Success Mindset

Success in achieving our goals comes down to a ‘success mindset’. Successful mindsets are those focused on victory, based on positive mental attitudes, empowering inclinations and good habits. Acquiring a success mindset is the sure-fire way to dramatically increase your chance to achieve your goals.

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The idea that achieving our goals comes down to our habits and actions is actually a typical type of mindset that misses a crucial point; that our mindset is, in fact, the determiner of our energy and what actions we take. A negative mindset will tend to create negative actions and similarly if we have a mindset that will only set into action once we see ‘proof’ that our goals are achievable, then the road will be much longer and arduous. This is why, instead of thinking “I’ll believe it when I see it”, a success mindset will think “I’ll see it when I believe it.”

The Placebo Effect and What It Shows Us About The Power of Mindset

The placebo effect is a perfect example of how mindset really can be powerful. In scientific trials, a group of participants were told they received medication that will heal an ailment but were actually given a sugar pill that does nothing (the placebo). Yet after the trial the participants believed it’s had a positive effect – sometimes even cured their ailment even though nothing has changed. This is the power of mindset.

How do we apply this to our goals? Well, when we set goals and dreams how often do we really believe they’ll come to fruition? Have absolute faith that they can be achieved? Have a complete unwavering expectation? Most of us don’t because we hold on to negative mindsets and limiting beliefs about ourselves that stop us from fully believing we are capable or that it’s at all possible. We tend to listen to the opinions of others despite them misaligning with our own or bow to societal pressures that make us believe we should think and act a certain way. There are many reasons why we possess these types of mindsets but a success mindset can be achieved.

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How To Create a Success Mindset

People with success mindsets have a particular way of perceiving things. They have positive outlooks and are able to put faith fully in their ability to succeed. With that in mind, here are a few ways that can turn a negative mindset into a successful one.

1. A Success Mindset Comes From a Growth Mindset

How does a mindset even manifest itself? It comes from the way you talk to yourself in the privacy of your own head. Realising this will go a long way towards noticing how you speak to yourself and others around you. If it’s mainly negative language you use when you talk about your goals and aspirations then this is an example of a fixed mindset.

A negative mindset brings with it a huge number of limiting beliefs. It creates a fixed mindset – one that can’t see beyond it’s own limitations. A growth mindset sees these limitations and looks beyond them – it finds ways to overcome obstacles and believes that this will result in success. When you think of your goal, a fixed mindset may think “what if I fail?” A growth mindset would look at the same goal and think “failures happen but that doesn’t mean I won’t be successful.”

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There’s a lot of power in changing your perspective.

2. Look For The Successes

It’s really important to get your mind focused on positive aspects of your goal. Finding inspiration through others can be really uplifting and keep you on track with developing your success mindset; reinforcing your belief that your dreams can be achieved. Find people that you can talk with about how they achieved their goals and seek out and surround yourself with positive people. This is crucial if you’re learning to develop a positive mindset.

3. Eliminate Negativity

You can come up against a lot of negativity sometimes either through other people or within yourself. Understanding that other people’s negative opinions are created through their own fears and limiting beliefs will go a long way in sustaining your success mindset. But for a lot of us, negative chatter can come from within and these usually manifest as negative words such as can’t, won’t, shouldn’t. Sometimes, when we think of how we’re going to achieve our goals, statements in our minds come out as negative absolutes: ‘It never works out for me’ or ‘I always fail.’

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When you notice these coming up you need to turn them around with ‘It always works out for me!’ and ‘I never fail!’ The trick is to believe it no matter what’s happened in the past. Remember that every new day is a clean slate and for you to adjust your mindset.

4. Create a Vision

Envisioning your end goal and seeing it in your mind is an important trait of a success mindset. Allowing ourselves to imagine our success creates a powerful excitement that shouldn’t be underestimated. When our brain becomes excited at the thought of achieving our goals, we become more committed, work harder towards achieving it and more likely to do whatever it takes to make it happen.

If this involves creating a vision board that you can look at to remind yourself every day then go for it. Small techniques like this go a long way in sustaining your success mindset and shouldn’t be dismissed.

An Inspirational Story…

For centuries experts said that running a mile in under 4 minutes was humanly impossible. On the 6th May 1954, Rodger Bannister did just that. As part of his training, Bannister relentlessly visualised the achievement, believing he could accomplish what everyone said wasn’t possible…and he did it.

What’s more amazing is that, as soon as Bannister achieved the 4-minute mile, more and more people also achieved it. How was this possible after so many years of no one achieving it? Because in people’s minds it was suddenly possible – once people knew that it was achievable it created a mindset of success and now, after over fifty years since Bannister did the ‘impossible’, his record has been lowered by 17 seconds – the power of the success mindset!

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