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How Meditation Helps You in Being Better in Life

How Meditation Helps You in Being Better in Life

There are different people, different perspectives, and different demands in life. But with all the hustle-bustle, one thing is common: each one of us strives for betterment in life. We need growth in all spheres of life. Certainly, parties and friends are always there to rejuvenate and recharge you; however, mental peace, inner satisfaction and clarity of thoughts is what makes you stronger and better.

There isn’t any one method for obtaining the inner peace and strength which is reflected in your work and makes you the best. Different things work for different people. We need to discover for ourselves what works for us. The way to do this is through Meditation. While meditating, you will find the answers to your problems on your own.

Meditation takes you within yourself. It allows you to spend some time with yourself. When you see life from an bigger perspective, you will craft better plans for a life that is best for you. Here are some of the ways in which meditation can improve your life.

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1. It increases concentration.

If you can practice focusing on your breath or focusing on a particular thought, with time, you will have increased your ability to concentrate while working at the office or listening to your kids. This will increase your efficiency. The less time you take to get things done, the better your time management becomes.

2. You learn to live in the present moment, which is often referred to as “mindfulness.”

Mindfulness allows you to have better relationships and also creates a work-life balance. Meditation allows you to live in the moment. This allows to leave your office stress at the office and enjoy time spent with your family. Your mind gets trained to shift from office to home and vice-versa.

3. It reduces stress.

Stress: the word that almost all psychologists hear about over and over again. One study suggests that continuous practice of Meditation reduces stress levels.

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4. It can help you fight depression.

A new study reveals that mediation proves very effective in curing depression. Depression and anxiety can be reduced to a good level with even a little training in meditation, as per the research. Hence, persistent meditation practice proves to be as effective as anti-depressants while fighting depression.

5. It leads to numerous health benefits.

Harvard scientists have explained that meditation helps in relieving pain. This is the reason why many doctors are asking their patients to practice it. Also, many healing centers now have mediation rooms.

6. Meditation gives you peace and bliss within your own existence.

Mediation - Sri Sri Ravi Shankar

    Meditation allows you to enjoy your own existence. When the mind is quiet, you experience the divine bliss. You feel more connected to the universe. You start appreciating life with its tokens of love.

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    7. It makes you more creative.

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      The best part of life is that everyone has some creative talent. Someone is good at painting, while someone just comes out with the best ideas in a meeting. To harness your creative talents, it is important that you know about them. This is possible only when you quiet your mind and probe deeper into your own existence.

      8. Introspection becomes a habit.

      To err is human. But it is important to learn from every mistake you make. To ensure that you learn something from all of your mistakes, daily self-analysis is mandatory. During meditation, you spend some time with yourself, which helps you pinpoint your mistakes and come up with alternatives so that you can avoid them the next time.

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        While meditating, the mind functions in a different way. This makes us more focused, more creative, more balanced and definitely better in life. Mediation results in huge benefits and in daily doses of happiness. As per Natalie MacNeil, the best selling author of She Takes on the World, “There isn’t any right or wrong. It is just about you and yourself.” To answer the doubts you may have about it being possible to meditate during your busy life, I would like to tell you that it is possible to shut the constant chattering of your mind for a minute and experience the quietude.

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        Last Updated on September 30, 2020

        How to Live in the Moment and Stop Worrying About the Future

        How to Live in the Moment and Stop Worrying About the Future

        We often hear people talk about the importance of living in the present and the different ways it will benefit us. It all sounds wonderful, especially the lower levels of stress and anxiety, but how exactly can we live in the moment when our mind is constantly worrying about the past or plans for the future?

        In this article, we’ll discuss some of the benefits of living in the moment you may not be aware of. Then, we’ll look at some of the obstacles and why we worry. Finally, and most importantly, I’ll show you how to live in the moment and stop worrying using some simple practices that you can easily incorporate into your busy schedule.

        The result: a happier and more fulfilling life.

        The Importance of Living in the Moment

        “The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly.” -Buddha

        While it can be difficult to live in the moment, it has innumerable benefits.

        Here are just a few that will enhance your life tremendously:

        Better Health

        By reducing stress and anxiety, you avoid many of the associated health consequences, such as high blood pressure, heart disease, and obesity. Studies have shown that being present can also improve psychological well-being[1].

        Improve Your Relationships

        Have you ever been with someone who is physically present, but mentally s/he’s a million miles away?

        Being with unavailable people is a struggle, and building relationships with them extremely difficult.

        How about being with someone who is fully present? We enjoy being with her/him because we can make a much deeper connection.

        By living in the moment, you can be that person other people enjoy being with, and you make relationships much easier.

        Greater Self-Control

        You have greater control over your mind, body, and emotions. Imagine how much better your life would be if it weren’t at the mercy of a racing mind and unpredictable emotions. You would certainly be more at peace, and much happier[2].

        Why Do We Worry?

        Before we answer this question, it’s important to distinguish between worry and concern.

        When we are concerned about something, we are more likely dealing with a real problem with realistic solutions. Then, once we do whatever we can to address the problem, we’re willing to live with the outcome.

        Worrying, on the other hand, involves unrealistic thinking. We may worry about a problem that doesn’t really exist, or dwell on all the bad things that can happen as a result. Then, we feel unable to deal with the outcome. Either way, we have difficulty dealing with uncertainty, which is a normal part of life.

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        Certainly, some of our problems may not have desirable outcomes, such as a serious health issue. Some problems may be beyond our control, such as civil unrest or economic downturn. In such cases, it can be hard to avoid worrying, but not impossible.

        3 Steps to Start to Live in the Moment

        Step 1: Overcome Worrying

        In order to overcome worrying, we need to do two things:

        Calm Your Mind

        When you calm your mind, you are able to see more clearly.

        The reason some problems seem so daunting is that our mind is racing so fast that we cannot see things as they truly are. Then, we make up a bunch of possible scenarios in our mind, most of which are unlikely to come true.

        In addition to seeing more clearly, a calm mind will help us think more realistically. Unrealistic thinking is fueled by confusion and uncontrolled emotions. Calming your mind will reduce confusion and calm your emotions, allowing you to live in the present.

        Focus on Solutions Instead of Problems

        Some people tend to be more solution-oriented, and others more problem-oriented. Some of the factors that may determine this are gender, upbringing, and education.

        People with more education tend to be problem-solvers. That is what their years of education train them to do. In addition, their jobs probably reinforce this way of thinking.

        If you’re not problem-solving oriented, don’t worry. You can train yourself to worry less. We’ll discuss that soon.

        Step 2: Identify Obstacles to Living in the Moment

        In today’s busy world, it can be a challenge to live in the moment. The reasons revolve around how our mind works, as well as outside influences.

        Racing Mind

        Many busy people have a racing mind that never seems to slow down. Their mind gets so agitated from too much sensory stimulation.

        You see, anything that stimulates any of our five senses will trigger a thought, and that thought leads to another, and then another, and so on.

        If you have a busy life, all your activities will overstimulate your mind and make it seemingly impossible to slow it down.

        Unpleasant Situations and a Troublesome Past

        None of us want to be in unpleasant situations, or remember those of the past. They can bring up painful emotions, which we don’t want to feel.

        So how do most people cope with painful emotions?

        By doing whatever we can to avoid them, we can take our mind to another place and time where things are more pleasant.

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        In other words, we avoid living in the present moment.

        Some people resort to things that stimulate sensory pleasure, such as food, alcohol, or sex. Others will consume substances that dull their mind and keep them from thinking about unpleasant or stressful situations.

        A Wandering Mind

        From the moment we are born (likely sooner) until the time we die, our body and mind are active performing some function. Therefore, it’s natural for our mind to have some level of activity, whether conscious or unconscious.

        Generally, a wandering mind is unproductive. One thought starts an endless chain of thoughts, and this process can go on until we need our mind to perform a specific function or get distracted with something else.

        Now, there are times when a wandering mind can be productive, such as when creating works of art, or trying to find creative solutions to problems. In such cases, we need our mind to explore different possibilities[3].

        Outside Influences

        Most of us are not fully aware of how our environment and social norms influence our thinking and behavior. People and institutions are constantly competing for our attention. The media draws our attention to the past, and advertising usually to the future[4].

        Many people around us who dwell on the past or future try to draw us to their way of thinking. Even the whole concept of the American dream is geared toward the future. It tells us that if we acquire things like a good career, family, and house, then we’ll be happy.

        Step 3: Practice Mindfulness

        So how can we live in the moment in a world that is constantly trying to draw our attention to the past and future?

        Before we get into concrete actions you can take, it’s important to understand what mindfulness is. You’ve probably heard the term before, but may not fully understand what it means.

        Understand Mindfulness

        The concept of mindfulness is actually quite simple. To be mindful is to live in the moment.

        When you are mindful, your attention is focused on what is happening in the present moment, and you are fully in touch with reality[5].

        You are aware of what is happening in your body, mind, emotions, and the world around you. This is different than thinking about these things. To develop greater understanding, you don’t have to think about them so much, but rather just observe them.

        This may be counterintuitive to many people, especially intellectuals, because they’re so used to using logic to develop greater understanding. With mindfulness, we calm our mind and emotions so we can see clearer. Then, much of our understanding will come from simple observation. When we develop mindfulness, we literally expand our awareness.

        To develop mindfulness, we need to train ourselves to observe things more objectively, that is, without our emotions or preconceived ideas influencing our views.

        If you’re ready to live a better life, read on for some simple mindfulness practices that you can incorporate into your daily routine to help you live in the moment.

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        You don’t have to do all of them, but rather choose the ones that appeal to you and suit your lifestyle.

        Mindfulness Meditation

        Mindfulness meditation is the mainstay of developing mindfulness and living in the moment. To practice mindfulness meditation, all you really have to do is sit quietly and follow your breathing. When your mind wanders off, just bring it back to your breath.

        Notice how your lungs expand with each in-breath and contract with each out-breath. Let your breathing become relaxed and natural.

        You don’t have to do it perfectly. The idea is to start spending time away from the constant sensory stimulation of all your activities, and just allow it to settle down naturally. Start with about 5 to 10 minutes per day and work your way up to about 20 minutes or longer.

        This practice is highly effective, and can have both short-term and long-term benefits.

        If you want to learn more about mindfulness meditation, take a look at this article: What Is Mindfulness Meditation? 7 Ways to Start Meditating

        Mindful Breathing

        While this may sound the same as mindfulness meditation, all you’re really doing is taking short breaks occasionally (10 to 15 seconds) to observe your breathing. Stop whatever you’re doing, and take a few mindful breaths, then resume your activity. That’s it.

        You can do mindful breathing at any time of the day during your busy schedule. What it does is interrupt the acceleration of your mind. It is like taking your foot off the accelerator while driving. It’s a nice refreshing break you can take without anyone noticing.

        Here’re some breathing exercises you can try to learn: 5 Breathing Exercises for Anxiety (Simple and Calm Anxiety Quickly)

        Mindful Walking

        Walking is an activity that you perform several times throughout the day. We often think we’re being productive by texting or calling someone while walking. But are we really?

        Instead of getting on your cell phone or letting your mind wander off, why not use your walking to train yourself to live in the moment and focus on the task at hand?

        Mindful walking is similar to mindful breathing, but instead of focusing on your breath, focus on your walking. Pay attention to each footstep. Also, notice the different motions of your arms, legs, and torso. When your mind wanders off, just bring your attention back to your walking.

        You can even make a meditation out of walking. That is, go walking for a few minutes outside. Start by slowing down your pace. If you slow down your body, your mind will follow.

        In addition to paying attention to your walking, notice the trees, sunshine, and critters. A mindful walk is enjoyable and can really help your mind settle down.

        You can discover more benefits of walking in nature here.

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        Mindful Eating

        Eating is an activity that most of us perform mindlessly. The reason is that it doesn’t require your attention to perform. Therefore, many of us try to multitask while we eat. We may talk on the phone, text, watch TV, or even hold a meeting.

        The problem with not eating mindfully is that we don’t eat what our body and mind need to perform at an optimal level[6]. We may eat unhealthy foods, or too much. This can lead to various health problems, especially as we get older.

        Live in the present with mindful eating.

          Mindful eating has many health benefits, such as reduced food cravings, better digestion, and even weight loss[7].

          So how do you eat mindfully? Start by slowing down, and avoid the temptation to distract yourself with another activity. Here are 3 different aspects of eating where you can practice mindfulness:

          • Eating itself: Focus your attention on choosing a portion of food to insert into your mouth. Notice the smell, flavor, and texture as you chew it; then finally swallow it. As with following your breath during meditation, pay close attention to every aspect of eating.
          • Choice of foods: Although you’ve already chosen your food before you have begun eating, you can still take the opportunity to contemplate your choices. Think about the nutrients your body needs to sustain itself.
          • Contemplating the sources: Most of us don’t think about all the work it takes to provide us with the food we eat. While you’re eating, consider all the work by the farmer, shipping company, and the grocery store. These are real people who worked hard to provide you with the food necessary for your survival.

          You can find more tips about mindful eating here: 7 Simple Steps to Mindful Eating

          Mindful Activities

          Choose an activity that you perform regularly, such as washing dishes. Focus all your attention on this activity, and resist the temptation to let your mind wander,. When it does, just bring your attention back to washing dishes.

          Notice some of the specific movements or sensations of washing dishes, such as how the soapy water feels on your hands, the circular motion of scrubbing the dish, or the rinsing. You’d be surprised at how such a mundane activity can truly expand your awareness.

          You can choose any activity you like, such as ironing, folding clothes, mowing the lawn, or showering. Over time, you will begin doing all these activities with greater mindfulness.

          Final Thoughts

          Practicing mindfulness is like regularly putting small amounts of change in a jar. They will all add up over time, and this will add up to greater peace and happiness, as well as get you closer to achieving your goals.

          Remember, you don’t have to do the mindfulness practices perfectly to get the benefits. All you have to do is keep bringing your mind back to the present moment when it wanders off.

          Practicing mindfulness may be a bit challenging in the beginning, but I can assure you it will get easier.

          The benefits of living in the moment are well within your reach, no matter how much your mind is racing. If you stick with these mindfulness practices, you too will learn how to live in the moment and stop worrying. When you do, a whole new world will open up for you. This is what Zen master Thich Nhat Hanh calls the ultimate reality.

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