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8 Inspiring Lessons I Learned From Steve Jobs

8 Inspiring Lessons I Learned From Steve Jobs

Steve Jobs was a visionary and cult figure who inspired millions. His quotes almost attained the attributes of a scripture. Here are some to live by:

“People don’t know what they want until you show it to them”

You are right Steve; we didn’t know what we wanted until we experienced your vision of Apple. As you have rightfully said, “Don’t sell your products, sell people their dreams, they will follow you”. You empowered us with the power we barely knew and helped in achieving our dreams.

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“You’ve got to find what you love”

You proved that, Steve. You loved simplifying the technology for masses. Falling in love with work is essential; because it is going to fill a large part of our life. The only way to be truly satisfied is to do what we believe is great work, and the only way to do great work is to love what we do. Period.

“Connecting the dots”

I believe you, Steve. You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. Since then, I have stopped worrying about the harsh times; somehow these dots would definitely connect in the future. So whatever happens in your life, just be calm and believe that in every adversity, there would be a blessing in disguise that we may not understand now.

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“Remembering that you are going to die is the best way to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose”

Truly said, Steve; everyone is going to die but no one believes it. There is no reason not to follow your heart.  We are already naked; there is no point in not following our dreams. Our life has got some purpose and we have to define it by ourselves; nobody is going to lead you towards the path of enlightenment except you.

“Stay Hungry, Stay Foolish”

It took time for me to understand. But believe me, it’s a revelation. It says, “Don’t settle down until you find what you love to do”. Until then “STAY HUNGRY, STAY FOOLISH”; everything else is secondary. Even if we fail, we fail daring greatly so that we can never be like cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat.

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“Keep evolving always”

Darwin said, “Survival of the fittest, not the survival of strongest”. Those who are adaptable to change will survive at the end of the day. Apple never stopped with the success of Macintosh, it continually pushed the limits to create new line of products that people would die to own them. Bob Dylan famously puts, “If you are not busy being born, you are busy dying”. So never stop with the success because success is never final.

“Less is more”

Declutter, declutter, and declutter because less is always more. Implementing this philosophy in Apple created wonders in Steve’s life. Having been inspired from Zen’s philosophy of Minimalism, Apple is revolutionary in creating products with such a simple design that people would cherish grabbing on the first day. No wonder that all the Apple products come without a manual, they are too simple to understand and operate. So remember always, less is more.

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“I would trade all of my technology for an afternoon with Socrates”

Steve, being an avid follower of Socrates, evidently knew the importance of philosophy in his life. Many of us would think that Philosophy is an elite subject that is confusing. However, philosophy is a manual of our lives and Steve rightfully knew it or else it would have been highly difficult for him to create the market for computers that actually didn’t exist when he started “APPLE”. Philosophy tames you to accept the paradoxes of life. Hence nothing bothers, except your vision as Steve once had.

Many come and go but only a few leave lasting impressions in the history of mankind. We owe you in many ways, Steve. As long as innovations keep flowing you are alive because you are the one who inspired innovation.

APPLE may not be APPLE without you. We love APPLE because of you.

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Last Updated on October 13, 2020

12 Things High Self-Esteem People Don’t Do

12 Things High Self-Esteem People Don’t Do

Having high self-esteem is important if you are aiming for personal or professional success. Interestingly, most people will high levels of self-esteem act in similar ways. That’s why it’s often easy to pick them out in a crowd. There’s something about the way they hold themselves and speak, isn’t there?

We all have different hopes, dreams, experiences, and paths, but confidence has its own universal language. This list will present some of the things you won’t find yourself doing if you have high self-esteem.

1. Compare Yourself to Others

People with low self-esteem are constantly comparing their situation to others. On the other hand, people with higher self-esteem show empathy and compassion while also protecting their own sanity. They know how much they can handle and when they can offer a helping hand.

In the age of social media, however, social comparisons are nearly ubiquitous. One study found that “participants who used Facebook most often had poorer trait self-esteem, and this was mediated by greater exposure to upward social comparisons on social media”[1]. Basically, you will feel worse about yourself if you are constantly getting glimpses into lives that you consider to be better than yours.

Try to limit your time on social media. Also, when you do start scrolling, keep in mind that each profile is carefully crafted to create the appearance of a perfect life. Check yourself when you find yourself wishing for greener grass.

2. Be Mean-Spirited

People with low self-esteem bully others. They take pleasure in putting other people down. People with positive self-esteem see no need to down other people, choosing instead to encourage and celebrate successes.

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If you find that you feel the need to put others down, analyze where that’s coming from. If they’ve had success in life, help them feel good about that achievement. They may do the same for you one day.

3. Let Imperfection Ruin Your Day

Perfectionism isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but obsessing over making everything perfect is a sign that you have low self-esteem and can lead to never-ending negative thoughts. This can turn into an inability to solve problems creatively, which will only make self-esteem issues worse. 

Those with high self-esteem disconnect from the results and do their best without expecting perfection.

People with that kind of confidence understand that messing up is a part of life and that each time they aim and miss success, they’ll at least learn something along the way.

If you miss the mark, or if your plan doesn’t work out exactly as you would have liked, take a deep breath and see if you can pivot in order to do better next time.

4. Dwell on Failure

It’s common to hear people dwelling on all the ways things will go wrong. They are positive that their every failure signals an impossible task or an innate inability to do something. People with healthy self-esteem discover why they failed and try again.

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People with higher levels of confidence also tend to adopt a growth mindset[2]. This type of thinking supports the idea that most of your abilities can be improved and altered, as opposed to being fixed.

For example, instead of saying, “I’m just not good at math; that’s why I did bad on the test,” someone with a growth mindset would say, “Math is difficult for me, so I’ll have to put in some more practice to improve next time.”

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5. Devalue Your Self-Esteem

People with high self-esteem value their own perception of themselves – they understand that they come first and don’t feel guilty about taking care of themselves. They believe charity starts within, and if they don’t believe that, they’ll never have a healthy self-image.

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6. Try to Please Others

They can’t please all the people all the time, so confident people first focus on doing what will make them feel fulfilled and happy. While they will politely listen to others’ thoughts and advice, they know that their goals and dreams have to be completed on their own terms.

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7. Close Yourself off

Confident people have the ability to be vulnerable. It’s those with poor self-esteem that hide all the best parts of themselves behind an emotional wall. Instead of keeping the real you a secret, be open and honest in all your dealings.

As Brené Brown, author of Daring Greatly, points out, “Vulnerability is about showing up and being seen”[3]. When you embrace each facet of who you are and allow others to see them as well, it will create deeper, more meaningful connections in your life. When that happens, you’ll realize that perfection doesn’t lead to people liking you more.

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8. Follow and Avoiding Leading

People with low self-esteem don’t believe they can lead, so they end up following others, sometimes into unhealthy situations. Rather than seeking a sense of belonging, people with high self-esteem walk their own paths and create social circles that build them up.

9. Fish for Compliments

If you’re constantly seeking compliments, you’re not confident. People with high self-esteem always do their best (and go out of their way to do good deeds) because it’s what they want to do, not because they’re seeking recognition. If you need to hear compliments, say them to yourself in the mirror.

You can even try some positive affirmations if you need a confidence boost. Check out these affirmations to get started.

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10. Be Lazy

People work harder when they have high self-esteem because they’re not bogged down by doubts and complaints. Those with low self-esteem end up procrastinating and wasting their energy thinking about all the work they have to do rather than rolling up their sleeves and just getting it done.

This may also bounce off perfectionism. Perfectionists often feel intimidated by certain projects if they fear that they won’t be able to complete them perfectly. Tap into your confidence and simply do your best without worrying about a perfect outcome.

11. Shy Away from Risks

When you trust yourself, you’ll be willing to participate more in life. People with low self-esteem are always on the sidelines, waiting for the perfect moment to jump in. Instead of letting life pass you by, have confidence in your success and take the risks necessary to succeed.

12. Gossip

People with low self-esteem are always in other peoples’ business – they’re more interested in what everyone else is doing than themselves. People with high self-esteem are more interested in their own life and stay out of others’ affairs.

Instead of participating in idle gossip, talk about some positive news you heard recently, or that fascinating book you just finished. There’s plenty to talk about beyond what this or that person did wrong in their life.

The Bottom Line

Self-esteem is to success in life. People who maintain a healthy level of self-esteem believe in themselves and push themselves to succeed, while those with low confidence feel a sense of entitlement.

If you need a boost in your self-image and mental health, avoid negative self-talk and the other mistakes of people with low self-esteem. You’ll be amazed at the difference it makes.

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Reference

[1] Psychology of Popular Media Culture: Social comparison, social media, and self-esteem
[2] Brain Pickings: Fixed vs. Growth: The Two Basic Mindsets That Shape Our Lives
[3] Forbes: Brene Brown: How Vulnerability Can Make Our Lives Better

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