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7 Life Lessons From Steve Jobs That Everyone Needs To Remember

7 Life Lessons From Steve Jobs That Everyone Needs To Remember

As a computer nerd, I’ve always loved Steve Jobs. I still get in a mood during the fall to watch a documentary or movie about him. I haven’t seen Ashton Butcher’s inaccurate portrayal of my hero yet, but I’ve read enough jokes and negativity about him online that I want to make sure I add something positive into the internet’s vast collective voice about Steve Jobs, the man, and how he affected humanity.

I decided the best way to do this is to write a proper eulogy for the man. I’m no good with looking death in the face, so I’ve never written a eulogy. Luckily, I stumbled upon Eulogy Consultants, who had a blog breaking down exactly what I wanted to do: memorialize the man by demonstrating the impact of his words.

Everybody Ages

“It’s rare that you see an artist in his 30s or 40s able to really contribute something amazing.” (Playboy, Feb 1985)

Steve Jobs understood that innovation is driven by youth; it’s the children who are driving our world. Because of Jobs’ spiritual and experimental days, he saw the world in a much different way than everyone else. You need to get your mind straight as soon as possible, because all those great things you hear and see in the media are being done by people in their 20s. Even Eminem, who was supposedly the greatest MC in the history of rap, was artistically washed up by his 40s.

Perspective Matters

“Do you want to spend the rest of your life selling sugared water or do you want a chance to change the world?” (Odyssey: Pepsi to Apple, 1987)

Life is all about perspective. You would think every CEO is the same – greedy, detached from the average citizen, etc. There’s a huge difference between Steve Jobs and Bill Gates, though. The difference is in their perspective. Steve Jobs cared about what he was selling, and, as The Beatles taught us, that love makes all the difference in the world.

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Independence and Freedom

“Why join the Navy . . . if you can be a pirate?” (Young Guns, 2009)

If you understand hacker culture, you understand what Jobs is saying here. Basically, if you’re going to get your hands dirty, do it for yourself. It’s much more fun to be Jack Sparrow than the uptight British Navy admiral – there’s less responsibility, and you move faster, accomplish more, and reap the whole of your rewards. A battle is a battle, regardless of who you’re fighting for, so I’ll always choose the pirate’s life.

Taking Responsibility

“Sometimes when you innovate, you make mistakes. It is best to admit them quickly, and get on with improving your other innovations.” (Steve Jobs, the Journey Is the Reward, 1988)

Everybody makes mistakes. Everyone has a bad day or does something wrong, with or without thought for how it affects the people around them. In order to be a true innovator, you have to be willing to accept these mistakes and correct them. I always hated finger pointing – if something’s broken, just fix it. It’s when you start pointing fingers that nothing gets done. Pick up the phone, and get your team working on moving forward. Looking back is a luxury best saved for later.

Courage and Persistence

“You know, I’ve got a plan that could rescue Apple. I can’t say any more than that it’s the perfect product and the perfect strategy for Apple. But nobody there will listen to me.” (Fortune, Sept 1995)

Never forget Steve Jobs’ greatest successes came after he was fired from his own company – the company he built. He stood his ground through thick and thin, and he did things his way. Steve Jobs may have been controlling and a perfectionist, but he was successful. His contributions will be remembered long after any stories of his transgressions. It was his persistence and willingness to do anything for his company to win that turned Apple from the PC Wars loser into the iGeneration winner.

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Art and Transparency

“We have always been shameless about stealing great ideas.” (Triumph of the Nerds, 1996)

The music and movie industries want us to believe they control all media and that anyone who dares to use any of their work should be destroyed. The problem is the individual actors, musicians, writers, DJs, etc., don’t get to keep any of these profits, so I’m not interested in purchasing that line of garbage. Art is free, and anybody can steal whatever they want. Yes, the artist should get credit, and how that artist monetizes that credit is at the discretion of that artist. That’s how a truly free market works.

Simplicity

“That’s been one of my mantras — focus and simplicity. Simple can be harder than complex; you have to work hard to get your thinking clean to make it simple.” (iSteve, 2011)

The biggest thing we all need to learn from Steve Jobs is that simplicity is the essence of life. Rather than walking around with your head in the clouds, upload your data to the clouds, submit yourself to your Google, Facebook, and Apple masters, and continue maintaining the drone army. We’re living in 1984, it’s just not what we thought it would be. It wouldn’t be so bad if we had control over our own privacy. As we move toward integrated, wearable tech as the norm, be prepared for an entirely new world.

Whatever happens, just remember what you wanted when you woke up for the very first time. Concentrate on your breath, your smile, and making a positive contribution to the world. That’s what Steve would do – that’s what iDo…

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Last Updated on April 9, 2020

How To Trust Your Intuition When You’re Making a Decision

How To Trust Your Intuition When You’re Making a Decision

When you have an important decision to make, what is the first thing you do?

You want to know if your decision is right or wrong because, of course, you want to make the right choice. Do you go to friends hoping they will tell you? Do you agonize over it writing lists? Or have you ever tried to feel into the wisdom of your body? We all have the ability to read the body’s signs – inwards and out. But not everyone knows how to listen and trust your intuition.

You may have noticed two voices in your head arguing back and forth. They can get loud and confusing because they both seem concerned for your well-being.

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So which one is your inner knowing and which is simply resistant? You can tell through the simple exercise of slowing down, breathing deeply and tuning into your body. You will notice very real signs.

Everyone can tune into their intuition with the simple exercise outlined below. If you want to know how to trust your intuition, read on.

The Golden Rule

A rising, light and expansive feeling in your heart is a yes. A sinking, contracting and heavy feeling in your gut is a maybe or a no, which are both a no. The best way to access these feelings is by slowing down with a deep breath.

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Access Your Inner Guidance

Think of a simple decision you have to make that has two sides to it. Forgetting your background stories, take each at a time and sort of role play as you alternate each option in your mind.

Don’t go into the details of how you’ll get there or how a certain person might feel about it. Drop the stories and worries around it, simply be with one option, as though it is your choice. Remember, you can always pick up your concerns again right afterwards, if you want!

Bring option A into your mind like you are already there. It doesn’t have to be super specific, just imagine it is the direction you take. Start with the breath because it is clearing, it resets your nervous system and brings you to be completely present. Begin with your long, deep breath, exhaling all the way out.

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As you sit there and think of option A, notice what is happening in your body. What sensations are there, and where? Do you feel a buzzing in a limb or a prickling sensation? Maybe butterflies in your stomach? Sit with it, not judging it. Simply take note of what your body is telling you. If it is light and expansive then you have a good option. Now, take another breath to clear out option A.

Next you will probably notice feelings in different parts of your body as you focus on option B. Again, drop the fear and doubt you might have around it. Let yourself imagine (just for now) that this is what you’re choosing. Your breath is so important in this because it slows you down and connects you with your inner guidance. Give yourself that few extra seconds to deepen your breath. It will help you feel incredibly clear.

Become curious about the feelings in your body and how they are different from the last option. What do they mean? The answer is always in the weight of them. If they rise and feel light, you have your yes. The option that feels shrouded, heavier, contracted and sinking deeper in your stomach is the warning. It sounds simplistic, because it is.

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Your body has a profound and simple wisdom. When you let go of old expectations and open up to myriad possibilities, you can easily feel the best avenue to take simply by following what feels best. This is an important key in manifestation because how you feel at the start of any endeavor is generally how it will play out. So the lighter you feel about a situation, the happier it will be.

The Bottom Line

A special thing about intuition is that it never explains, it simply points the way. It may not always seem logical, but if it feels best then it will lead you to your success.

Remember, you need not to explain yourself either. Your internal yes will always be with you. The more you practice this and follow your internal yes, the stronger it will become and the more confidence you will gain! Soon you will notice it to be second nature, and the answer will come to you in a heart beat.

How have you connected to your intuition? We would love to hear how this exercise works for you. Where did you feel the yes or the no in your body? 

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