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40 Aesop Quotes Which Are Highly Useful For Your Life

40 Aesop Quotes Which Are Highly Useful For Your Life

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    Aesop’s Fables are cherished on bookshelves everywhere. Though Aesop was the name of an author who was credited with supposedly contributing to writing the Fables, and ancient resources describe him as a haggard slave living in Ancient Greece, a collection of his writings have nevertheless survived to the present era and remain memorable and digestible staples of literature. Like a lot of children in primary school, I was introduced to Aesop.

    Unlike a lot of coming-of-age teenagers, I was introduced to Aesop once more during my teen years and renewed myself to admire the depth of each character after I became interested in reading more literature. This collection of quotations extracted from Aesop’s Fables will invite you to appreciate not just the writing in the Fables but to question the connection between Ancient Greek wisdom and knowledge and how it might influence the knowledge and wisdom you will teach in the future.

    1. It’s Always Worth It To Try Helping Yourself

    “God helps them that help themselves.”

    2. Vices Are A Form Of Self-Punishment

    “Vices are their own punishment.”

    3. Don’t Attempt Perfection; Settle With Good

     “Be content with your lot; one cannot be first in everything.”

    4. Focus On Remaining Somewhere And You’ll Remain There

    “Keep your place in life and your place will keep you.”

    5. Learn The Art of Persuasion And Let Go Of Arguments

    “Persuasion is better than force.”

    6. Kindness is An Act Worth Sharing With Every One

    “No act of kindness, however small, is ever a wasted.”

    7.  Your Inner Self Is More Defined Than Outside Presentation

    “Outside show is a poor substitute for inner worth.”

    8. Persistence Can Be Kindled Despite Enduring Vicious Obstacles

    “The little reed, bending to the force of the wind, soon stood upright again when the storm had passed over.”

    9. It’s Okay To Pray, But You Have To Make It Happen

    “It is in vain to expect our prayers to be heard, if we do not strive as well as pray.”

    10. There Are Two Brilliant Sides To A Truth

    “Every truth has two sides. It is as well to look at both sides before we commit ourselves to either.”

    11.  Don’t Mistake Power For Not Needing Help

    “In critical moments, even the very powerful have need of the weakest.”

    12. Wishing For Something Is Different Than Wanting Something

    “We would often be sorry if our wishes were gratified.”

    13.  Adventuring Is What Life’s About

    “Adventure is worthwhile.”

    14. Keep Good Company Close

    “A man is known by the company he keeps.”

    15. Keep Your Principles Closest To You

    “He that always gives way to others will end in having no principles of his own.”

    16.  Don’t Hold Grudges Just Because Something Is Missing

    “People often grudge others what they cannot enjoy themselves.”

    17.  Someone’s True Nature Will Prevail

    “A person’s true nature will reveal itself despite disguise.”

    18. Don’t Blame A Child Because Of Their Parent’s Behavior

    “Children are not to be blamed for the faults of their parents.”

    19. You Don’t Have To Speak In Critical Times

    “Wise men say nothing in dangerous times.”

    20. You’re In Charge Of Your Fate

    “If we really want something done, it is best to do it ourselves.”

    21. Don’t Despise Without Giving It A Try

    “We often despise what is most useful to us.”

    22. There Is No Right Way To Argue

    “Most arguments are useless.”

    23.  The Golden Rule Applies To Humor, Too

    “Something which seems funny when it happens to someone else, may not seem so funny when it happens to us.”

    24. Two Of Your Friendships Are Still Incomparable To Each Other

    “Little friends may prove great friends.”

    25. Come Together With Like-Minded People

    “Birds of a feather flock together.”

    26. Start Wanting Tomorrow’s Wishes Today

    “Prepare today for the wants of tomorrow.”

    27.   Chewing Small Chunks Will Make You Feel Full Quicker

    “Little by little does the trick.”

    28.  Self-Help Is More Than The Books

    “Self-help is the best help.”

    29. Gratitude Is Uncontrollable

    “The grateful heart will always find opportunities to show its gratitude.”

    30. Heroes Are Skilled In Both Words And Action

    “The hero is brave in deeds as well as words.”

    31.  Difficulties Can Alter Judgement

    “Never trust the advice of a man in difficulties.”

    32.  The Effects Of Causing Injuries And Suffering Aren’t Necessarily Related

    “The injuries we do and those we suffer are seldom weighed in the same scales.”

    33.  Do What Matters With All Your Might

    “Put your shoulder to the wheel.”

    34. Keep Calm And Don’t Under Estimate Small Moments Of Peace

    “A crust eaten in peace is better than a banquet partaken in anxiety.”

    35. It’s Better To Have A Passion Serve You Than Follow It

    “It is with our passions, as it is with fire and water, they are good servants but bad masters.”

    36. Speaking Will Benefit You Most At The Right Time

    “A word in season is most precious.”

    37.  Fighting Someone’s Danger Deserves Their Reward

    “He who shares the danger ought to share the prize.”

    38.  Speaking Isn’t Really A Substitute For Work

    “After all is said and done, more is said than done.”

    39.  Forgive But Don’t Forget

    “Injuries may be forgiven, but not forgotten.”

    40. Don’t Lose Your Special Character In The Noise Of The World

    “Don’t let your special character and values, the secret that you know and no one else does, the truth – don’t let that get swallowed up by the great chewing complacency.”

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    Last Updated on December 17, 2018

    Why You Think You’re Not Good Enough and How To Believe in Yourself

    Why You Think You’re Not Good Enough and How To Believe in Yourself

    Have you ever wanted to say something at work, but a little voice of doubt crept in and said, “what if you are wrong”?

    Maybe you wanted to apply for that promotion or ask that special someone on a date, but something kept you from taking action. When you think you’re not good enough, you tend to fear the outcome and lack faith in your abilities. That is why it is vital you discover how to believe in yourself so you can accomplish your goals and create your dream life.

    Whatever your situation, the fears and self-doubt your false beliefs create will always stop you in your tracks. Identifying the beliefs that cause you to sabotage your life is the first step to removing them.

    Self-doubt causes inaction, and inaction leads to regret. When you are not following your passion and living your dream life, you are left with a lot of questions:

    • What if I took a chance on myself?
    • Could I have had a better life if I took more risks?
    • Am I be satisfied with the legacy I am leaving behind?
    • What could I have accomplished if I did not settle for less?

    So why would you think you’re not good enough?

    1. Parenting

    The perception you have of yourself is based on your past experiences. There are studies that show children mimic everything from their parents ability to regulate emotions, to their parents belief about money.[1]

    I have had clients who did not believe they were good enough because they did not receive any positive reinforcement as a child. When they were young, their parents were extremely overprotective.

    Think of your childhood challenges like dragons you had to slay. Each obstacle you overcame was another dragon you successfully removed from your life. As you slay more dragons, your self-esteem and confidence increase. When someone has overprotective parents, their parents end up slaying the dragons.

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    As a result, the child builds more confidence in their parent’s abilities, while still doubting their own.

    If you are never encouraged to slay your own dragons, you start to doubt whether you can. It is only natural for a child to conclude their parents are always helping them because they think they need it. This child ages into an adult who still believes they are not good enough. They seek the help and confirmation of others, and they rarely stand-up to opposition.

    Solution: Slay Your Dragons!

    If you want to believe in yourself, you are going to have to take steps to rebuild your trust in yourself. Start by keeping your word to others and arriving on-time. By showing yourself that others can (and do) trust you, you are going to feel more comfortable trusting yourself.

    As you move onto larger and more challenging tasks, you have built a foundation of trust in your ability to keep your word. Next, you are going to want to reclaim your sword from others. At first, you may want to confide in whoever it is currently slaying your dragons.

    Understand if it is your parent or someone who loves you, they want the best for you and mean well. You are simply going to tell them that you want to do the work, and will ask them for their thoughts in the planning phase. Feel free to check in with them and give them updates on your progress, while making sure they understand you are wanting to do the work yourself.

    Then when the task is completed, let them know so you can celebrate together. Now that you have slayed your own dragon, you can start to reclaim your confidence. By you utilizing them as your guide, you get the added bonus of someone you respect and admire, telling you how amazing you are.

    Think of it like a symbolic passing of the torch. Now, you are both dragon slayers. Which means all the positive attributes you attributed to them slaying your dragons, now belong to you.

    2. Over-Exaggerating and Oversimplifying

    Your past experiences may involve you or someone close to you failing. When you experience failure, you can lose your desire to continue. This has less to do with whether you are brave or scared, and more to do with the fact that your mind does not like failure.

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    No one enjoys participating in events in which they under-perform. Outside of the usual reasons of embarrassment, feelings of inadequacy, and fear of failure – it is simply not fun.

    Who wants to play baseball if they strikeout every time it is their turn? Would you enjoy singing in front of an audience if you were booed off the stage every time you performed? I could go on, but I think you get the point.

    The thing about those two examples is no one really strikes out “every” at-bat. It is also unlikely someone could be booed off the stage “every time” they performed in-front of an audience.

    What ends up happening is you oversimplify and exaggerate your past experiences and then your mind believes you. If you believe you are not good enough to ask someone on a date because they “always” tell you no, then do not be surprised you never muster the courage to do so.

    If you want to overcome these feelings of inadequacy, start by changing your beliefs. This exercise does not need to be complicated. If you believe you strikeout every time it is your turn, I want to you to go to a batting cage and keep swinging until you hit the baseball.

    When you experience success, I want you to take a mental note, write it down, or have someone video it. This is your proof that you do not always strike out. Then, whenever your belief that you are not good enough resurfaces, you are going to replay that video.

    Regardless of the situation, you can find a successful experience that you are overlooking.

    Solution: Read About the Failures of Others

    It sounds a little crazy, I know, but reading about the failures of other successful people will improve your confidence. In a study conducted by Columbia University, they found that teaching students about the failures of great scientists encouraged them to do better.[2]

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    When you are battling fear and self-doubt, you tend to over-exaggerate the abilities of others and diminish your own by comparison. You start to believe the successful are successful because they are courageous risk-takers, who do not take no for an answer. You tell yourself, they are meant to succeed, while you on the other hand are not.

    When you are able to relate to the successful, you start to realize they have the same struggles and challenges you do. The only difference is they kept going.

    Now it is not a question of whether you can succeed, it is a question of whether you want to succeed.

    3. Undervalue Yourself

    What is the main difference between someone who believes they are good enough and someone who does not? The person who believes they are good enough understands they are a person of value.

    What I mean by this is if you do not believe you are worth being listened to, you will not have anything to say. If you do not believe you are good enough to be respected and treated as such, you will accept and rationalize all kinds of mistreatment.

    There is an old saying that we are treated as we allow ourselves to be treated. When someone has the confidence and self-esteem that commands respect, they will not accept being treated any kind of way. However, if someone does not see themselves as worthy, they will remain in toxic situations because they do not believe anything better is on the horizon.

    Dr. Jennifer Crocker, who worked on a series of self-esteem studies, found in her latest research that:[3]

    “College students who based their self-worth on external sources–including appearance, approval from others and even their academic performance–reported more stress, anger, academic problems, relationship conflicts, and had higher levels of drug and alcohol use and symptoms of eating disorders”

    Solution: Internalize Your Self-Worth

    Instead of valuing yourself based on the awards, recognition, and accolades of others, you need to search internally. By basing your perception of yourself on your core values, you can regain control over self-image.

    Instead of focusing on things that are outside of control, keep your mind on what it is that makes you special. You are not defined by your job, relationships, religion, or education. Rather, you are defined by the manner in which you participate in these things. You may be a creative, hard-working, and compassionate person; and that shows up in every thing you do.

    Understand that you do not need to be creative, hard-working, and compassionate all the time to consider yourself these things. You are not trying to be perfect, but you are trying to connect with your true self.

    By understanding the similarities in which you tackle objectives, you will build a consistent and powerful self-worth that stands apart from external confirmation.

    Final Thoughts

    Do not allow your past experiences do dictate your future success. You do not want to look back on your life and have a lot of questions and regrets.

    Build trust in yourself by taking action today. This will help you build the confidence you need to believe in yourself and your ability to become the champion of your life.

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