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23 Touching Videos That Will Warm Your Heart

23 Touching Videos That Will Warm Your Heart

The good things in life are not things but the various emotions. Feelings. Small but powerful words which can change your life. A helping hand from a friend when you are in trouble. The laughter of a baby when you tickle her. The innocence of children running and playing with each other in a garden. Ever lasting love of your soul mate. A smile of an old man who you just helped to cross the street. Cool wind rustling through your hair in a beach. The feel of drops of rain on your face in a hot day of summer. Hope. Humanity. Confidence. Here are some touching videos which try to capture those emotions and will surely warm your heart and make your day. Enjoy!

1. JOY

A little girl experiences rain for the first time. Her curiosity and joy at discovering rain is priceless and adorable.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PCRqNsRflHM

2. FRIENDSHIP

Two kids teach all of us a lesson in friendship.

3. KINDNESS

Give a little love. This video is all about giving and sharing and is wonderful.

4. HEROISM

The unsung hero. Its a beautiful short movie which makes you believe in the goodness and the fact that there are people who want to make the world a better place to live.

5. HOPE

The gift of hope. Being rich is not about how much you have but how much you can give.

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6. AFFECTION

The most beautiful thing. Two very unlikely people fall in love with each other. This video of 10 minutes and 43 seconds will take your heart away.

7. GENEROSITY

The joy of giving. This video is about Narayanan Krishnan, an Indian chef who founded his nonprofit Akshaya trust. Every morning he wakes up at 4 am, cooks food and travels about 200 kilometers to feed the poor and the homeless. This tells us about his tremendous will power to help people who cannot afford a proper meal in an entire day. Hats off!

8. PHILANTHROPY

A small but powerful gesture. The things we do have a way of coming back to us.

9. HUMANITY

Planet earth the way it should be. I’ve been praying for the people to say that we don’t wanna fight no more, there’ll be no more wars and our children will play, one day.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AYRS4FQXZrk

10. CONFIDENCE

Always like a girl. When did “Like a girl” become an insult? This video will definitely inspire young girls. Do watch it.

11. FUN

Average is the new exceptional. It’s one of the brilliant speeches I have heard. Cheers for all average people!

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12. Love

Care and emotions of a mother. I loved it. So simple but so heartwarming.

13. REUNION

The India-Pakistan partition in 1947 separated many friends and families overnight. A granddaughter in India decides to surprise her grandfather on his birthday by reuniting him with his childhood friend (who is now in Pakistan) after over 60 years of separation.

14. SMARTNESS

Win in style. This guy is epic.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N3hSHUV4iXE

15. THRILL

Enjoyment of life. You cannot help but smile while watching this video. Words cannot express her happiness and thrill while riding the roller coaster.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NQBUChBG98Q

16. HAPPINESS

– An adorable kid is very happy to dance. The judge asked him why he dances. He replied, “Because  I  like  dancing. When  I dance, my mom laughs. My mom says laughing is happiness.”

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17. LAUGHTER

– Babies laughing. I dare you not to laugh with them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L49VXZwfup8

18. HELP

– This video encourages people to donate eyes to help to light up the life of blind people.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfCQMHPe2E0

19. INNOCENCE

Charlie bit Harry’s finger. This is one of my favorites. The boys are simply so adorable and funny.

20. LIFE

An awesome geeky proposal.

21. CREATIVITY

Thought of you. This video is a lovely inspiring work.

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22. OPINION

A child explains the case of vegetarianism. Cannot argue.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sJNntUXyWvw

23. ARGUMENT

A 19 month old cute kid argues with her dad to get ready for bed. I could not stop smiling.

24.KNOWLEDGE

Meaning of life and universe explained by a 9 year old. Must watch.

Featured photo credit: Al Shep via flickr.com

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Published on May 4, 2021

How To Spot Fake People (And Ways To Deal With Them)

How To Spot Fake People (And Ways To Deal With Them)

They say we are the average of the five persons we spend the most time with. For a minute, consider the people around you. Are they truly who your “tribe” should be or who you aspire to become in the future? Are they really genuine people who want to see you succeed? Or are they fake people who don’t really want to see you happy?

In this article, I’ll review why it is important to surround yourself with genuine individuals—the ones who care, bring something to our table, and first and foremost, who leave all fakeness behind.

How to Spot Fake People?

When you’ve been working in the helping professions for a while, spotting fake people gets a bit easier. There are some very clear signs that the person you are looking at is hiding something, acting somehow, or simply wanting to get somewhere. Most often, there is a secondary gain—perhaps attention, sympathy, or even a promotion.

Whatever it is, you’re better off working their true agenda and staying the hell away. Here are some things you should look out for to help spot fake people.

1. Full of Themselves

Fake people like to show off. They love looking at themselves in the mirror. They collect photos and videos of every single achievement they had and every part of their body and claim to be the “best at what they do.”

Most of these people are actually not that good in real life. But they act like they are and ensure that they appear better than the next person. The issue for you is that you may find yourself always feeling “beneath” them and irritated at their constant need to be in the spotlight.

2. Murky in Expressing Their Emotions

Have you ever tried having a deep and meaningful conversation with a fake person? It’s almost impossible. It’s because they have limited emotional intelligence and don’t know how they truly feel deep down—and partly because they don’t want to have their true emotions exposed, no matter how normal these might be.

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It’s much harder to say “I’m the best at what I do” while simultaneously sharing “average” emotions with “equal” people.

3. Zero Self-Reflection

To grow, we must accept feedback from others. We must be open to our strengths and to our weaknesses. We must accept that we all come in different shapes and can always improve.

Self-reflection requires us to think, forgive, admit fault, and learn from our mistakes. But to do that, we have to be able to adopt a level of genuineness and depth that fake people don’t routinely have. A fake person generally never apologizes, but when they do, it is often followed with a “but” in the next breath.

4. Unrealistic Perceptions

Fake people most often have an unrealistic perception of the world—things that they want to portray to others (pseudo achievements, materialistic gains, or a made-up sense of happiness) or simply how they genuinely regard life outside themselves.

A lot of fake people hide pain, shame, and other underlying reasons in their behavior. This could explain why they can’t be authentic and/or have difficulties seeing their environment for the way it objectively is (both good and bad).

5. Love Attention

As I mentioned earlier, the biggest sign that something isn’t quite right with someone’s behavior can be established by how much they love attention. Are you being interrupted every time you speak by someone who wants to make sure that the spotlight gets reverted back to them? Is the focus always on them, no matter the topic? If yes, you’re probably dealing with a fake person.

6. People Pleaser

Appreciation feels nice but having everyone like you is even better. While it is completely unrealistic for most people to please everyone all the time, fake people seem to always say yes in pursuit of constant approval.

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Now, this is a problem for two reasons. Firstly, these people are simply saying yes to things for their own satisfaction. Secondly, they often end up changing their minds or retracting their offer for one reason or another (“I would have loved to, but my grandmother suddenly fell ill.”), leaving you in the lurch for the 100th time this year.

7. Sarcasm and Cynicism

Behind the chronic pasted smile, fake people are well known for brewing resentment, jealousy, or anger. This is because, behind the postcard life, they are often unhappy. Sarcasm and cynicism are well known to act as a defense mechanism, sometimes even a diversion—anything so they can remain feeling on top of the world, whether it is through boosting themselves or bringing people down.

8. Crappy friend

Fake people are bad friends. They don’t listen to you, your feelings, and whatever news you might have to share. In fact, you might find yourself migrating away from them when you have exciting or bad news to share, knowing that it will always end up one way—their way. In addition, you might find that they’re not available when you truly need them or worse, cancel plans at the last minute.

It’s not unusual to hear that a fake person talks constantly behind people’s backs. Let’s be honest, if they do it to others, they’re doing it to you too. If your “friend” makes you feel bad constantly, trust me, they’re not achieving their purpose, and they’re simply not a good person to have around.

The sooner you learn to spot these fake people, the sooner you can meet meaningful individuals again.

How to Cope With Fake People Moving Forward?

It is important to remind yourself that you deserve more than what you’re getting. You are worthy, valuable, precious, and just as important as the next person.

There are many ways to manage fake people. Here are some tips on how to deal with them.

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1. Boundaries

Keep your boundaries very clear. As explained in the book Unlock Your Resilience, boundaries are what keep you sane when the world tries to suffocate you. When fake people become emotional vampires, make sure to keep your distances, limit contact, and simply replace them with more valuable interactions.

2. Don’t Take Their Behavior Personally

Sadly, they most likely have behaved this way before they knew you and will continue much longer after you have moved on. It isn’t about you. It is about their inner need to meet a void that you are not responsible for. And in all honesty, unless you are a trained professional, you are unlikely to improve it anyway.

3. Be Upfront and Honest About How You Feel

If your “friend” has been hurtful or engaged in behaviors you struggle with, let them know—nicely, firmly, however you want, but let them know that they are affecting you. If it works, great. If it doesn’t, you’ll feel better and when you’re ready to move on, you’ll know you tried to reach out. Your conscience is clear.

4. Ask for Advice

If you’re unsure about what you’re seeing or feeling, ask for advice. Perhaps a relative, a good friend, or a colleague might have some input as to whether you are overreacting or seeing some genuine concerns.

Now, don’t confuse asking for advice with gossiping behind the fake person’s back because, in the end, you don’t want to stoop down to their level. However, a little reminder as to how to stay on your own wellness track can never hurt.

5. Dig Deeper

Now, this one, I offer with caution. If you are emotionally strong, up to it, guaranteed you won’t get sucked into it, and have the skills to manage, perhaps you could dig into the reasons a fake person is acting the way they do.

Have they suffered recent trauma? Have they been rejected all their lives? Is their self-esteem so low that they must resort to making themselves feel good in any way they can? Sometimes, having an understanding of a person’s behavior can help in processing it.

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6. Practice Self-Care!

Clearly, putting some distance between the fake person and yourself is probably the way to go. However, sometimes, it takes time to get there. In the meantime, make sure to practice self-care, be gentle with yourself, and compensate with lots of positives!

Self-care can be as simple as taking a hot shower after talking to them or declining an invitation when you’re not feeling up to the challenge.

Spotting fake people isn’t too hard. They generally glow with wanna-be vibes. However, most often, there are reasons as to why they are like this. Calling their behavior might be the first step. Providing them with support might be the second. But if these don’t work, it’s time to stay away and surround yourself with the positivity that you deserve.

Final Thoughts

Remember that life is a rollercoaster. It has good moments, tough moments, and moments you wouldn’t change for the world. So, look around and make sure that you take the time to choose the right people to share it all with.

We are the average of the five people we spend the most time with, so take a good look around and choose wisely!

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