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15 Things You Don’t Need To Care About That Others Do

15 Things You Don’t Need To Care About That Others Do

We are always pushed to do certain things because we are concerned about other people’s opinion of us. The reality is that no one cares about you more than yourself. Caring about seemingly frivolous things could affect your self-esteem and confidence. It is important to start focusing on you and not pay attention to these 15 things you don’t need to care about though many think you should.

Their progress in life

People can be narcissistic in nature and they could want to involve you or make you envious of their achievement. Truthfully beyond congratulating them you have nothing else to be bothered about regarding the success of others. Focus on you.

When the world will end

A certain doomsday continues to loom over many citizens of the world. There is a general perception that you should make haste while the sun shines as the world faces its climax. Interestingly this prophecy has loomed for hundred, even thousands of years with no fulfillment.

UFOs/Aliens/Vampires

People have a strong perception of myths and shocking tales that they want to involve you in them. Such stories should not deter you from focusing on important things.

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When you will become married or engaged

There is nothing as derogatory as when you are asked when you will be settling down or tying the knots. Perhaps people are attaching their happiness to this factor; you shouldn’t.

What have you done with your life

Life is a movement and an endless cycle of events. You should enjoy the thrill of every experience you pass through and not become overburdened with your life’s low moments. You should focus on what you are doing with your life rather than what is in the past and you really can’t change.

Growing old

Growing old is a certainty; we are all going to reach it. Attaching any more importance to it than the certainty of facing it can be a drag and cause you unnecessary anxiety. Focus on the moment. Enjoy your youth!

Your failed relationships

Heartbreaks can be devastating. But if you have been pushed out the door from a marriage or a relationship, it is important you shouldn’t beat yourself about it. You don’t need to let the negativity of what didn’t succeed become a constant cause of worry.

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Losing your job

The heartache of losing your job can cause a whirl of emotions, but if you have been through searching for a job before you can as well repeat the process rather than care so much about what has been lost.

Getting even

To some the idea of letting go doesn’t apply. They feel that they have to pay every tit for tat. But that shouldn’t be you. Focusing on paying back every hurt could make you cold and unforgiving. A negative emotion has a way of affecting your positive energy and attitude.

Missing an opportunity

Opportunities seldom come by according to some. But if you are an interesting and a positive person you should understand a lot of opportunities would come in your life. you can’t be like every other person who is willing to cut corners and act desperately to catch every opportunity.

Getting scammed

We are all duped once in a while. The truth is that there are very few people who have not been stolen from at least once. So why cry at losing what you can recover later.

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Buying the next funky product

Two things are implied when a product is popular, new and fantastic – the product will be expensive. Keeping up with the Joneses may not be favorable with your long term success so why associate yourself with popular products that will put a hole in your pocket.

Things you cannot have

A lot is attached to possessions and people tend to measure you according to what you have. But you shouldn’t be bothered about these things.

Others’ opinion of you

What others think about you doesn’t really count. What counts is your opinion of yourself.

How many friends or followers you have on social media

Having many friends or followers on social media could be cool but does not effect your general position in life.

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Don’t care about these 15 things, and you’ll have an easy, breezy life!

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Last Updated on December 10, 2019

5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today

5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today

Here’s the truth: your effectiveness at life is not what it could be. You’re missing out.

Each day passes by and you have nothing to prove that it even happened. Did you achieve something? Go on a date? Have an emotional breakthrough? Who knows?

But what you do know is that you don’t want to make the same mistakes that you’ve made in the past.

Our lives are full of hidden gems of knowledge and insight, and the most recent events in our lives contain the most useful gems of all. Do you know why? It’s simple, those hidden lessons are the most up to date, meaning they have the largest impact on what we’re doing right now.

But the question is, how do you get those lessons? There’s a simple way to do it, and it doesn’t involve time machines:

Journal writing.

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Improved mental clarity, the ability to see our lives in the big picture, as well as serving as a piece of evidence cataloguing every success we’ve ever had; we are provided all of the above and more by doing some journal writing.

Journal writing is a useful and flexible tool to help shed light on achieving your goals.

Here’s 5 smart reasons why you should do journal writing:

1. Journals Help You Have a Better Connection with Your Values, Emotions, and Goals

By journaling about what you believe in, why you believe it, how you feel, and what your goals are, you understand your relationships with these things better. This is because you must sort through the mental clutter and provide details on why you do what you do and feel what you feel.

Consider this:

Perhaps you’ve spent the last year or so working at a job you don’t like. It would be easy to just suck it up and keep working with your head down, going on as if it’s supposed to be normal to not like your job. Nobody else is complaining, so why should you, right?

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But a little journal writing will set things straight for you. You don’t like your job. You feel like it’s robbing you of happiness and satisfaction, and you don’t see yourself better there in the future.

The other workers? Maybe they don’t know, maybe they don’t care. But you do, you know and care enough to do something about it. And you’re capable of fixing this problem because your journal writing allows you to finally be honest with yourself about it.

2. Journals Improve Mental Clarity and Help Improve Your Focus

If there’s one thing journal writing is good for, it’s clearing the mental clutter.

How does it work? Simply, whenever you have a problem and write about it in a journal, you transfer the problem from your head to the paper. This empties the mind, allowing allocation of precious resources to problem-solving rather than problem-storing.

Let’s say you’ve been juggling several tasks at work. You’ve got data entry, testing, e-mails, problems with the boss, and so on—enough to overwhelm you—but as you start journal writing, things become clearer and easier to understand: Data entry can actually wait till Thursday; Bill kindly offered earlier to do my testing; For e-mails, I can check them now; the boss is just upset because Becky called in sick, etc.

You become better able to focus and reason your tasks out, and this is an indispensable and useful skill to have.

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3. Journals Improve Insight and Understanding

As a positive consequence of improving your mental clarity, you become more open to insights you may have missed before. As you write your notes out, you’re essentially having a dialogue with yourself. This draws out insights that you would have missed otherwise; it’s almost as if two people are working together to better understand each other. This kind of insight is only available to the person who has taken the time to connect with and understand themselves in the form of writing.

Once you’ve gotten a few entries written down, new insights can be gleaned from reading over them. What themes do you see in your life? Do you keep switching goals halfway through? Are you constantly dating the same type of people who aren’t good for you? Have you slowly but surely pushed people out of your life for fear of being hurt?

All of these questions can be answered by simply self-reflecting, but you can only discover the answers if you’ve captured them in writing. These questions are going to be tough to answer without a journal of your actions and experiences.

4. Journals Track Your Overall Development

Life happens, and it can happen fast. Sometimes we don’t take the time to stop and look around at what’s happening to us at each moment. We don’t get to see the step-by-step progress that we’re making in our own lives. So what happens? One day it’s the future, and you have no idea how you’ve gotten there.

Journal writing allows you to see how you’ve changed over time, so you can see where you did things right, and you can see where you took a misstep and fell.

The great thing about journals is that you’ll know what that misstep was, and you can make sure it doesn’t happen again—all because you made sure to log it, allowing yourself to learn from your mistakes.

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5. Journals Facilitate Personal Growth

The best thing about journal writing is that no matter what you end up writing about, it’s hard to not grow from it. You can’t just look at a past entry in which you acted shamefully and say “that was dumb, anyway!” No, we say “I will never make a dumb choice like that again!”

It’s impossible not to grow when it comes to journal writing. That’s what makes journal writing such a powerful tool, whether it’s about achieving goals, becoming a better person, or just general personal-development. No matter what you use it for, you’ll eventually see yourself growing as a person.

Kickstart Journaling

How can journaling best be of use to you? To vent your emotions? To help achieve your goals? To help clear your mind? What do you think makes journaling such a useful life skill?

Know the answer? Then it’s about time you reap the benefits of journal writing and start putting pen to paper.

Here’s what you can do to start journaling:

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