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15 Things You Don’t Need To Care About That Others Do

15 Things You Don’t Need To Care About That Others Do

We are always pushed to do certain things because we are concerned about other people’s opinion of us. The reality is that no one cares about you more than yourself. Caring about seemingly frivolous things could affect your self-esteem and confidence. It is important to start focusing on you and not pay attention to these 15 things you don’t need to care about though many think you should.

Their progress in life

People can be narcissistic in nature and they could want to involve you or make you envious of their achievement. Truthfully beyond congratulating them you have nothing else to be bothered about regarding the success of others. Focus on you.

When the world will end

A certain doomsday continues to loom over many citizens of the world. There is a general perception that you should make haste while the sun shines as the world faces its climax. Interestingly this prophecy has loomed for hundred, even thousands of years with no fulfillment.

UFOs/Aliens/Vampires

People have a strong perception of myths and shocking tales that they want to involve you in them. Such stories should not deter you from focusing on important things.

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When you will become married or engaged

There is nothing as derogatory as when you are asked when you will be settling down or tying the knots. Perhaps people are attaching their happiness to this factor; you shouldn’t.

What have you done with your life

Life is a movement and an endless cycle of events. You should enjoy the thrill of every experience you pass through and not become overburdened with your life’s low moments. You should focus on what you are doing with your life rather than what is in the past and you really can’t change.

Growing old

Growing old is a certainty; we are all going to reach it. Attaching any more importance to it than the certainty of facing it can be a drag and cause you unnecessary anxiety. Focus on the moment. Enjoy your youth!

Your failed relationships

Heartbreaks can be devastating. But if you have been pushed out the door from a marriage or a relationship, it is important you shouldn’t beat yourself about it. You don’t need to let the negativity of what didn’t succeed become a constant cause of worry.

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Losing your job

The heartache of losing your job can cause a whirl of emotions, but if you have been through searching for a job before you can as well repeat the process rather than care so much about what has been lost.

Getting even

To some the idea of letting go doesn’t apply. They feel that they have to pay every tit for tat. But that shouldn’t be you. Focusing on paying back every hurt could make you cold and unforgiving. A negative emotion has a way of affecting your positive energy and attitude.

Missing an opportunity

Opportunities seldom come by according to some. But if you are an interesting and a positive person you should understand a lot of opportunities would come in your life. you can’t be like every other person who is willing to cut corners and act desperately to catch every opportunity.

Getting scammed

We are all duped once in a while. The truth is that there are very few people who have not been stolen from at least once. So why cry at losing what you can recover later.

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Buying the next funky product

Two things are implied when a product is popular, new and fantastic – the product will be expensive. Keeping up with the Joneses may not be favorable with your long term success so why associate yourself with popular products that will put a hole in your pocket.

Things you cannot have

A lot is attached to possessions and people tend to measure you according to what you have. But you shouldn’t be bothered about these things.

Others’ opinion of you

What others think about you doesn’t really count. What counts is your opinion of yourself.

How many friends or followers you have on social media

Having many friends or followers on social media could be cool but does not effect your general position in life.

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Don’t care about these 15 things, and you’ll have an easy, breezy life!

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Last Updated on June 13, 2019

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

How to Quit Your Boring Life and Start Living an Interesting One

Think you have a boring life?

The definition of boring is dull or not interesting. Maybe you’ve been doing the same thing and living the same life for too long, or maybe your daily routine is limiting your growth and happiness. Whatever your reason is, the following list of 20 things can definitely make any day more interesting. Some of them are silly, while some are more meaningful, so hopefully just reading the list makes your life less boring and sparks your creativity.

Let’s dive in the list to quit your boring life and start living an interesting (and meaning) one!

1. Channel Your 7-Year-Old Self

What would he or she want to do right now? Color? Paint? Run around outside? Play dress up? Eat with your hands? Play that instrument hiding in the back of your closet that you haven’t touched in years?

Just because you’re a grown up doesn’t mean any of this stuff will be less enjoyable than you remember it. Give yourself permission to play.

2. Go Play with Kids

Speaking of little kids, if you have your own or access to any (in a non-creepy way, like they’re your niece or your best friend’s kid, you get the idea) go play with them!

They didn’t create an entire show called Kids Say The Darndest Things because kids aren’t hilarious. They also keep things so simple, and we can really stand to be reminded of this and stop allowing ourselves to get bogged down in boring details.

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3. Order a Hot Dog

While you’re eating it, Google: “What’s in a hot dog?” You decide whether or not you want to finish it.

4. For the Ladies: Wear Your Sexiest Lingerie Under Your Work Clothes

Your “little secret” will leave you feeling anything but boring all day!

5. Play Cell Phone Roulette

You’ll need at least one buddy for this. Scroll through the contacts in your phone, stop on a random one and call the person.

You could spark an incredible catch up session or be incredibly awkward. Neither are boring.

6. Fill out a Pack of Thank-You Cards

Give them to random people who probably don’t get thanked too often for doing what they do ever day.

Ideas: police officers, librarians, servers, baristas, cab drivers, sanitation workers, teachers, people behind any check out counter, receptionists, your friends, the guy at the falafel stand, etc.

7. Sign up for a Class in Something You’ve “Always Wanted to Do”, or Something That Makes You Really Uncomfortable

Ideas: pole dancing, salsa lessons, improv, pottery, cooking, knitting (yup, there are classes for this, too!), karate, boxing, something techy like the workshops they run in Apple stores, get Rosetta Stone and learn that language you’ve always wanted to speak, etc.

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What’s good about joining an interest class is that you will also meet new people!

8. Interview Your Grandparents About Their Lives

You can bet they’ve had some crazy experiences you probably never knew about.

9. Get up on Stage at an Open Mic Night

Whether you’re funny or not, get up on stage and just talk funny. And if you’re not, memorize a few of your favorite jokes and tell those!

10. Do Something for Someone Else That You Wish Someone Would Do for You

We all have a few ideas on this list. I promise you will feel amazing after and anything but bored.

11. Start a DIY Project in Your Home

It doesn’t have to be super complicated. If you need ideas, there’re plenty on Pinterest. Or you can also check out these 30 Awesome DIY Projects that You’ve Never Heard of.

12. Plan a Weekend Trip or an All-Out Vacation

This will give you something to look forward to.

Even if you don’t have the time or money to go on a vacation, plan for a staycation, which is same fun and relaxing!

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13. People Watch

Find a bench in a crowded area (centers of transportation like airports, bus stops and train stations are great for this!) and just observe.

People are infinitely interesting.

14. Eat Something You’ve Never Eaten Before

Bonus points if it’s a random fruit or veggie.

15. Dance

You can get your friends together for a night on the town or just pull up a video on YouTube and bust a move from your own living room.

If you’re feeling extra brave, you can even dance in public and get other people involved.

16. Go to YOUTUBE and Search “Funny Pets” or “Funny Babies”

This is also a great quickie ab workout as you will be laughing hysterically.

17. Pick up a Book and Start Reading

Check out the NY Times Best Sellers lists and grab a new book you can get lost in.

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18. Step Away from the Computer and Go Get Some Time with People You Care About in Real Life

Facebook stalking doesn’t count as real social interaction. You can even share this post with your friends and vote on which one you’d like to do together!

19. Check out a Museum You’ve Never Been to Before

OK, depending on your interests, this one might actually be boring. If you love learning, art or different cultures though, this one is for you!

20. Write a List of Things You Desire and Truly Want

This is a great way to help you figure out the real reason why you’re feeling bored about your life. Maybe you haven’t really done things that you truly enjoy? Maybe what you’ve wanted to do all the time has been left behind?

Think about the list of things you really want to do, and ask yourself why you aren’t doing these things (yet). Then start taking your first step to make what you want happen.

Now go make your life interesting and live your dream life!

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