“The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.” — Audrey Hepburn
Admit it, you enjoy when you are loved and are shown the affection you deserve, don’t you? Women tend to have the art of nurturing in them and often we try our best to please our partners and loved ones with little things. Those are the things that matter, those are the things that put a smile on your face, when you think of us on another rainy day or on your lunch break.
So what do women tend to do more of that touch their partners very much?Advertising
1. Loving deeply
It is true; if we love you, we will give you everything — heart and soul. Please be kind to our hearts. Profound and honest love is the basis to all successful relationships.
2. Touching with care
If you are hurt, we will be the first ones to offer you a hug and embrace you tightly, and not let go until you tell us to. We really care for your happiness and we will always try to give you the right amount of affection and whatever you need in a certain situation.
3. Kissing gently and trying to make it last
Women love to show you love and affection, if you let us. While not every woman is into showing it publicly, most women, if they are truly loved, will absolutely and most definitely kiss gently and long as a token of appreciation for her.Advertising
4. Cherishing our moments together
Women try to make the best of what we have with our beloved partners. Whether it is watching NFL with you or helping you with work, we cherish the time while it lasts and while it is there.
5. Flirting with you to keep you excited
Relationships without fun flirtations with one another will be as dry as the old oak leaves in mid-January. We keep it spicy and full of life by allowing one another to be flirty and sexy when we are together.
6. Giving you a thorough eye contact
In a conversation with a loved one, women tend to seek eye contact as a confirmation of listening and caring. Eye contact is important for us. We don’t care about looking at our phone, if you need us right here and now.Advertising
7. Communicating our love
Whether it is by cooking you a wonderful breakfast or kissing you more than usual, we try our best to let you know you are loved. Women love communications and when it comes to love we will tell you the “I love you” more than you asked for.
8. Massaging your back and head after a long day
Even after our own full day of work, if you are tired and are asking for a head massage or a back rub, you most likely will get it without us asking it in return. Why? Because we are sensitive to your needs and we know that a small touch goes a long way.
9. Texting you “I miss you” or “Thanks for being wonderful” when you’re at work
We are texters, yes! And we will text you simple “thank you”s, “I love you”s, “I miss you”s and many more short but heart warming truths to make sure that you know how much we appreciate and love you.Advertising
10. Yielding if you want to take charge
Most women love to give a partner a chance to take charge. Why? Because it makes us feel good to know that we have a reliable and dependable soul mate and we also want to make you feel good about yourself. Take charge, but don’t forget to give it back to us now and then.
So the next time you think about why your woman drove you crazy, please remember also think about all the wonderful things she has to offer, how deeply she loves, how insanely she cares and how your world without her sexy stubbornness would turn sour.
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Last Updated on April 8, 2020
11 Things Overachievers Do Differently
We all know some overachievers: supermoms who manage to get online degrees between cleaning, cooking, and taking kids to practice; students who write 10-page papers when the directions call for 4; managers whose resumes look more like pages from the Guinness book of Records.
How do they do it all? How is it possible that one person can graduate at the top of their class, found an orphanage in India, run 30k marathons, write a best-selling book, travel all over the world and learn to speak Mandarin Chinese while having a full-time job?
What’s the secret of an overachiever? Here’re 11 things overachievers do differently that you can learn from.
1. They Know How to Manage Their Time
It’s pretty simple actually – you can never become an overachiever if you don’t know how to organize your time efficiently.
The great thing is that overachievers are ready to share their knowledge and time management talent with the rest of the world. Read The 4-Hour Workweek or The 4-Hour Body by Timothy Ferriss, and you’ll know what I’m talking about.
2. They Don’t Spend Hours Watching TV or Playing Computer Games
Mostly because they have better things to do, like exercising, reading, spending an evening with their family or volunteering to work in the local soup kitchen. Their philosophy is simple – the world is full of wonderful things to try, explore and experience. Watching TV is not one of them.
3. They Are Obsessed With Perfection
Imagine Steve Jobs’ work approach and you’ll understand the level of perfection and painfully high standards that overachievers set for themselves and those around them. Often it pays off (especially if they focus on just one domain). But sometimes compulsive over-striving turns into a sure-fire road to disappointments and unfinished tasks.
Learn how to strike a balance: How Not to Let Perfectionism Secretly Screw You Up
4. They Know How To Inspire
Overachievers learn quickly that it is much easier to achieve goals through collaboration (and especially delegation). So they know how to inspire, encourage, persuade and motivate people around them. Even though they often drive their team crazy with their stubbornness and perfectionism, people quickly follow under the spell of their enthusiasm and greater vision.
Learn these 10 Powerful Ways to Influence People Positively.
5. They Set Clear Goals
The term “overachiever” itself implies that they know how to achieve goals. That is kind of hard to do if your goals are vague, unclear and lack specific deadline, which is why overachievers educate themselves, read goal-setting books, and think about the best way to approach a new task.
Although, it’s worth mentioning that overachievers usually use their time management and goal-setting skills towards competitive, “I want to kick butt” type of goals rather than self-improvement, mastery goals.
Take a look at these tips to help you set clearer goals: What Are SMART Goals (And How to Use Them to Become Successful)
6. They Are Organized
It’s hard to imagine a disorganized overachiever, isn’t it? Their great organizational and planning skills usually serve three main purposes: keeping track of time, keeping track of progress and keeping track of achievements.
This hasn’t been confirmed by scientific research yet, but overachievers might actually get a “runner’s high” from crossing tasks off their to-do lists, and making new to-do lists.
7. They Try to Avoid Failure at All Costs
Some psychologists believe that overachievers place their self-worth on their competence, driven by an underlying fear of failure. Rather than setting and striving for goals based on a pure desire to achieve, their core motivation becomes avoiding failure. This may explain the fact that overachiever beat themselves up for even little setbacks and seemingly-insignificant mistakes.
But be aware that having a strong fear of failure can wrek havoc your productivity. So the best thing to do? Learn to conquer the fear: Why You Have the Fear of Failure (And How to Conquer It)
8. They Love Awards
Who doesn’t love them, right? True enough, but unlike most people who like to feel acknowledged and appreciated for their efforts, overachievers are bent on collecting ‘awards’, be it university degrees, spelling bee prizes or unusual destinations.
While loving awares isn’t bad, it’s even better if you’re driven by internal motivation instead of external ones which could be quite uncontrolable or unstable: Why Is Internal Motivation So Powerful (And How to Find It).
9. They Don’t Understand the Concept of Work Hours
Don’t get surprised if you receive a work-related email anywhere between 8 p.m. and midnight. It’s something overachievers usually do and you weren’t the only one. At least 20 more emails have been sent during these hours to other people. The concepts of over-achieving and working overtime usually go hand in hand.
The downside of this is an imbalnced life, which may need to problems in other aspects of life including health and relationships. A better way is to Achieve a Realistic Work Life Balance.
10. They Rest
Overachievers might often be labeled as “workaholics”, because they often ignore bodily signs of hunger, fatigue and even a full bladder, hoping to finish just one last little part. This doesn’t mean that overachievers don’t know how to disconnect and relax.
True that they tend to work in the highest gear, but they also have enough sense to give themselves time to rest and recharge. Of course, they do it in their own overachieving way, preferring climbing Mount Kilimanjaro or hiking through the Amazon jungle to lazing on the beach.
11. Overachievers Continuously Educate Themselves
A great quality that most overachievers have is the hunger for knowledge. They surround themselves with bright people. They know how to listen, and most importantly, they get tons of mentoring.
Despite the fact that overachievers want to excel at everything they set their minds on, they are humble enough to admit that to get on top of their game, they need help. And they are willing to pay someone to push, coach and guide them.
You too can learn How to Create a Habit of Continuous Learning for a Better You.
More Tips to Help You Achieve Success
- 23 Goals in Life to Achieve for Personal Success
- 15 Ways to Boost Your Motivation for Success
- 19 Definitions Of Success You Should Never Ignore
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