“The beauty of a woman must be seen from her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart, the place where love resides.” — Audrey Hepburn
Admit it, you enjoy when you are loved and are shown the affection you deserve, don’t you? Women tend to have the art of nurturing in them and often we try our best to please our partners and loved ones with little things. Those are the things that matter, those are the things that put a smile on your face, when you think of us on another rainy day or on your lunch break.
So what do women tend to do more of that touch their partners very much?Advertising
1. Loving deeply
It is true; if we love you, we will give you everything — heart and soul. Please be kind to our hearts. Profound and honest love is the basis to all successful relationships.
2. Touching with care
If you are hurt, we will be the first ones to offer you a hug and embrace you tightly, and not let go until you tell us to. We really care for your happiness and we will always try to give you the right amount of affection and whatever you need in a certain situation.
3. Kissing gently and trying to make it last
Women love to show you love and affection, if you let us. While not every woman is into showing it publicly, most women, if they are truly loved, will absolutely and most definitely kiss gently and long as a token of appreciation for her.Advertising
4. Cherishing our moments together
Women try to make the best of what we have with our beloved partners. Whether it is watching NFL with you or helping you with work, we cherish the time while it lasts and while it is there.
5. Flirting with you to keep you excited
Relationships without fun flirtations with one another will be as dry as the old oak leaves in mid-January. We keep it spicy and full of life by allowing one another to be flirty and sexy when we are together.
6. Giving you a thorough eye contact
In a conversation with a loved one, women tend to seek eye contact as a confirmation of listening and caring. Eye contact is important for us. We don’t care about looking at our phone, if you need us right here and now.Advertising
7. Communicating our love
Whether it is by cooking you a wonderful breakfast or kissing you more than usual, we try our best to let you know you are loved. Women love communications and when it comes to love we will tell you the “I love you” more than you asked for.
8. Massaging your back and head after a long day
Even after our own full day of work, if you are tired and are asking for a head massage or a back rub, you most likely will get it without us asking it in return. Why? Because we are sensitive to your needs and we know that a small touch goes a long way.
9. Texting you “I miss you” or “Thanks for being wonderful” when you’re at work
We are texters, yes! And we will text you simple “thank you”s, “I love you”s, “I miss you”s and many more short but heart warming truths to make sure that you know how much we appreciate and love you.Advertising
10. Yielding if you want to take charge
Most women love to give a partner a chance to take charge. Why? Because it makes us feel good to know that we have a reliable and dependable soul mate and we also want to make you feel good about yourself. Take charge, but don’t forget to give it back to us now and then.
So the next time you think about why your woman drove you crazy, please remember also think about all the wonderful things she has to offer, how deeply she loves, how insanely she cares and how your world without her sexy stubbornness would turn sour.
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Last Updated on December 10, 2019
5 Smart Reasons to Start Journal Writing Today
Here’s the truth: your effectiveness at life is not what it could be. You’re missing out.
Each day passes by and you have nothing to prove that it even happened. Did you achieve something? Go on a date? Have an emotional breakthrough? Who knows?
But what you do know is that you don’t want to make the same mistakes that you’ve made in the past.
Our lives are full of hidden gems of knowledge and insight, and the most recent events in our lives contain the most useful gems of all. Do you know why? It’s simple, those hidden lessons are the most up to date, meaning they have the largest impact on what we’re doing right now.
But the question is, how do you get those lessons? There’s a simple way to do it, and it doesn’t involve time machines:
Improved mental clarity, the ability to see our lives in the big picture, as well as serving as a piece of evidence cataloguing every success we’ve ever had; we are provided all of the above and more by doing some journal writing.
Journal writing is a useful and flexible tool to help shed light on achieving your goals.
Here’s 5 smart reasons why you should do journal writing:
1. Journals Help You Have a Better Connection with Your Values, Emotions, and Goals
By journaling about what you believe in, why you believe it, how you feel, and what your goals are, you understand your relationships with these things better. This is because you must sort through the mental clutter and provide details on why you do what you do and feel what you feel.
Perhaps you’ve spent the last year or so working at a job you don’t like. It would be easy to just suck it up and keep working with your head down, going on as if it’s supposed to be normal to not like your job. Nobody else is complaining, so why should you, right?
But a little journal writing will set things straight for you. You don’t like your job. You feel like it’s robbing you of happiness and satisfaction, and you don’t see yourself better there in the future.
The other workers? Maybe they don’t know, maybe they don’t care. But you do, you know and care enough to do something about it. And you’re capable of fixing this problem because your journal writing allows you to finally be honest with yourself about it.
2. Journals Improve Mental Clarity and Help Improve Your Focus
If there’s one thing journal writing is good for, it’s clearing the mental clutter.
How does it work? Simply, whenever you have a problem and write about it in a journal, you transfer the problem from your head to the paper. This empties the mind, allowing allocation of precious resources to problem-solving rather than problem-storing.
Let’s say you’ve been juggling several tasks at work. You’ve got data entry, testing, e-mails, problems with the boss, and so on—enough to overwhelm you—but as you start journal writing, things become clearer and easier to understand: Data entry can actually wait till Thursday; Bill kindly offered earlier to do my testing; For e-mails, I can check them now; the boss is just upset because Becky called in sick, etc.
You become better able to focus and reason your tasks out, and this is an indispensable and useful skill to have.
3. Journals Improve Insight and Understanding
As a positive consequence of improving your mental clarity, you become more open to insights you may have missed before. As you write your notes out, you’re essentially having a dialogue with yourself. This draws out insights that you would have missed otherwise; it’s almost as if two people are working together to better understand each other. This kind of insight is only available to the person who has taken the time to connect with and understand themselves in the form of writing.
Once you’ve gotten a few entries written down, new insights can be gleaned from reading over them. What themes do you see in your life? Do you keep switching goals halfway through? Are you constantly dating the same type of people who aren’t good for you? Have you slowly but surely pushed people out of your life for fear of being hurt?
All of these questions can be answered by simply self-reflecting, but you can only discover the answers if you’ve captured them in writing. These questions are going to be tough to answer without a journal of your actions and experiences.
4. Journals Track Your Overall Development
Life happens, and it can happen fast. Sometimes we don’t take the time to stop and look around at what’s happening to us at each moment. We don’t get to see the step-by-step progress that we’re making in our own lives. So what happens? One day it’s the future, and you have no idea how you’ve gotten there.
Journal writing allows you to see how you’ve changed over time, so you can see where you did things right, and you can see where you took a misstep and fell.
The great thing about journals is that you’ll know what that misstep was, and you can make sure it doesn’t happen again—all because you made sure to log it, allowing yourself to learn from your mistakes.
5. Journals Facilitate Personal Growth
The best thing about journal writing is that no matter what you end up writing about, it’s hard to not grow from it. You can’t just look at a past entry in which you acted shamefully and say “that was dumb, anyway!” No, we say “I will never make a dumb choice like that again!”
It’s impossible not to grow when it comes to journal writing. That’s what makes journal writing such a powerful tool, whether it’s about achieving goals, becoming a better person, or just general personal-development. No matter what you use it for, you’ll eventually see yourself growing as a person.
How can journaling best be of use to you? To vent your emotions? To help achieve your goals? To help clear your mind? What do you think makes journaling such a useful life skill?
Know the answer? Then it’s about time you reap the benefits of journal writing and start putting pen to paper.
Here’s what you can do to start journaling:
- 15 Inspiring Journal Ideas to Set You up for Success
- How to Bullet Journal to Skyrocket Your Productivity
- Writing Journal for a Better and More Productive Self (The How-To Guide)
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