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10 Inspirational Books that Have Changed My Life

10 Inspirational Books that Have Changed My Life

Reading has a way of making an impact on our lives and changing the way we think and observe. I have been reading a lot. There are so many books that I have to write about. They have not only influenced me but instigated a lot of positive difference in my life. I believe if they can drive so much difference in my life, they will do the same to you. Some of these books unearth philosophies, drive spirituality and could be beneficial to your personal and career growth.

1. Oh the places you will go by Dr. Seuss

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    If you are starting out on your independant journey through life, whether you are coming out of High School or college, this book shows how you can take charge of your life. It equipped me with the courage to pursue my purpose and direction in life. I believe it can also inspire you to discover yourself and take action to go the direction you chose to take.

    2. The Gifts of Imperfection by Brene Brown

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      Brene Brown tought me to be thankful in her book The Gifts of Imperfection. We tend to want to be perceived as perfect not only in our own eyes but in the eyes of others. This is something that could leave us drained. However we should always learn to be thankful of who we are and what we are. We should never judge ourselves and feel inadequate despite the inordinate flow of messages and images by the media.

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      3. Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert T. Kiyosaki

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        This book is about how you can get your personal finance right. Reading through this book I found what was amiss in my life. It was not about just working for money but making sure my money worked for me. Finding out that hole or discovering that wealthy mentality of investing and seeing wealth not as an accident but as a result of action could make a lot of difference in your life.

        4. The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene

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          This book by Robert Greene which has become popular amongst prison inmates, business leaders and celebrities makes you understand the philosophy of becoming great and managing greatness. With 48 amazing principles Robert Greene has taught me effective and strategic methods in handling power and greatness.

          5. Life of Pi by Yann Martel

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            What makes this story so great or inspiring is that after the protagonist lost his family on a journey he built a relationship with a tiger that made him see the world differently. A superb work of fiction by Yann Martel, the beauty of the journey in The life of Pi can make you realize and discover what should be truly important in your life.

            6. Harry Potter Series by J.K Rowling

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              It is so difficult not to put Harry Potter on this list because it did hit me as a fantastical book that brought out human eccentricities and mystics through the eye of a boy. Through your challenges Harry Potter will make you see the amusing and fascinating angle in it.

              7. The Power of Myth by Joseph Campbell

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                This book started me on a spiritual journey to find out the special quality inside of me. It is a book that makes you discover yourself. It breaks beyond whatever religious opinion you may have but broadens your insight into your own spiritual life which you might have already established.

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                8. The One Thing by Gary Keller

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                  This book helped me prioritize on what is important and it will help you discover that too. If you are having hectic days and are overwhelmed with work you should read this to evaluate your priorities and pursue those things that are really important.

                  9. On Writing by Stephen King

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                    We all get broken sometimes. Stephen King in his memoir On Writing discusses how he was able to pass through depressing times to hit into the next stage. There were rejections and many times he downed bottles to get through depressing times. This book helped me understand how to make it through difficult times and that we are not alone with our experiences.

                    10. The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle

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                      This book showed me the importance of not playing the victim. Complaining and throwing blames do not solve problems but speaking and taking charge of whatever situation you are presented with by acting erases your difficulties.

                      These are ten books that have inspired me, what are yours?

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                      Last Updated on January 18, 2019

                      7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

                      7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

                      Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

                      But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

                      If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

                      1. Limit the time you spend with them.

                      First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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                      In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

                      Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

                      2. Speak up for yourself.

                      Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

                      3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

                      This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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                      But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

                      4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

                      Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

                      This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

                      Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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                      5. Change the subject.

                      When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

                      Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

                      6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

                      Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

                      I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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                      You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

                      Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

                      7. Leave them behind.

                      Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

                      If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

                      That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

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