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Struggling To Be An Adult? You Are Not Alone

Struggling To Be An Adult? You Are Not Alone

Are you in your mid to late twenties or perhaps even in your thirties already and still struggling to be an ‘adult? Independence is something that can be difficult to achieve, whether it be from the time you graduate from college, moving away from family or even being newly single after a break up. It is never easy to seek full independence but do not worry because here is a selection of 5 books to get you covered and on the right track to excelling in being an independent adult. At least you can try to.

The Total Money Makeover by Dave Ramsey

    Taking care of your finance can be the hardest part of adulting. Dave Ramsey, a renowned businessman is here to prepare you for finance 101. Instead of giving you quick fixes, Ramsey takes you on the whole process of planning your finances, and debunk the myths of cash advances and debt consolidation, to guarantee your financial health. It might be difficult for some of us to follow strictly with his no-debt theory, yet there is no denying this is the best way to avoid abusing credit cards, and the feeling of debt-free is carefree and relieving.

    Reading duration: 3hrs 51mins

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    Grace’s Guide: The Art of Pretending to Be a Grown-Up by Grace Helbig

      Youtube star Grace Helbig shared her tips to becoming a grown-up, from surviving a breakup, going through job interviews, to surviving hangovers. The book is full of personal stories of Helbig, her struggles and misadventures, lessons she learnt from failing multiple times. This book is your on-the-go fun read with pictures and drawings of Helbig, worksheets to practice, and easy recipes you can try out.

      Reading duration: 3hrs 19mins

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      Get Grace’s Guide: The Art of Pretending to Be a Grown-Up from Amazon at $7.95

      My Boyfriend Barfed in My Handbag . . . and Other Things You Can’t Ask Martha by Jolie Kerr

        The cleaning expert Jolie Kerr offers you a practical guide to clean up emergencies in lives. Without the help of the greatest person in the world (aka your mom) for laundry and cleaning your white kicks, let’s face it, sometimes we struggle with odour, spills and stains coming out of nowhere. Kerr takes on questions ranging from the basic—how do I use a mop? to what should I do when bottles of home brewed ginger beer explode in my kitchen? Expect this to be your re-read again and again guidebook to help you through the struggling 20s when you start to care for your belongings.

        Reading duration: 3hrs 37mins

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        The Oh She Glows Cookbook: Over 100 Vegan Recipes to Glow from the Inside Out by Angela Liddon

          Having suffered from eating disorder and subsisting on diet, low-calorie processed foods, Angela Liddon swore to eat healthy once and for all, and went with the hard way – going vegan. She threw out her fat-free butter spray and low-calorie frozen dinners and embraced whole foods diet after learning how to properly cook (instead of microwaving the frozen pizza). This book contains more than 100 recipes covering breakfast, salads, smoothies, soups, sides, power snacks and the main dishes for a guaranteed healthy, nutritious meal at any time of the day. We all know that healthy eating is all part of being independent.

          Reading duration: 4hrs 45mins

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          Get The Oh She Glows Cookbook: Over 100 Vegan Recipes to Glow from the Inside Out  from Amazon at $22.22

          Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar by Cheryl Strayed

            Life can be hard, especially when it comes to relationships with others, your lover cheats on you; you lose a family member. Tiny Beautiful Things is filled with personal stories of Cheryl Strayed, the famous advice columnist. Strayed writes about different subjects: a gay son rejected by his parents, a woman who fears her sexual fetishes, a mother who has lost her child. And the message hidden throughout all her advice is always

            if you want a good life, you have to create it. If that involves creating boundaries or leaving a loving relationship, do it. If that involves seeking therapy, do it.

            Reading duration: 5hrs 12mins

            Get Tiny Beautiful Things: Advice on Love and Life from Dear Sugar from Amazon at $8.79

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            Last Updated on February 21, 2019

            15 Brain Foods You Should Be Eating Regularly to Keep Your Mind Sharp

            15 Brain Foods You Should Be Eating Regularly to Keep Your Mind Sharp

            These days there are so many food choices. Every marketing trick is used to make you buy brain foods, all-natural, fat-free or gluten-free products.

            Could you blame them? They need to make a profit to keep existing and delivering their goods to the consumers.

            But does this mean that foods with these labels are just regular products or do brain foods really exist?

            That’s when research came in and proved that brain foods (meaning: foods that have a positive effect on the brain) really do exist.

            In this article, you will find 15 brain foods you should be eating to keep your mind sharp.

            1. Blueberries

            One of the greatest gifts of Mother Nature; blueberries. Blueberries are known as the king of antioxidants[1] and are used to detox the body.

            There are not a lot of studies that tried to prove the relationship between blueberries and the improvement of brain function. But there’s one study that consisted of 9 elderly people. They found that consuming blueberry juice on a daily basis for 12 weeks improved memory function.[2]

            If this is not reasonable enough to include blueberries into your diet, you should read the following article on other benefits of blueberries:

            What Blueberries Can Do? 10 Benefits of Blueberries That Will Impress You

            As with every single one of the brain foods listed here: Consuming more than necessary can also lead to side effects, this is the same with blueberries.[3]

            When including blueberries in your diet along with other brain foods; make sure to eat no more than 0.5 cups (4 oz./113 grams) a day.

            2. Broccoli

            The first vegetable on the list, broccoli. Whatever you do with it; roast, steam, blanch or saute.[4] It will still improve the sharpness of your brain.

            There are two main nutrients in broccoli that makes it one of the brain foods on this list. Vitamin K, which is also found in lower amounts in blueberries, helps strengthen cognitive abilities.[5] The nutrient Choline improves your memory.[6]

            There’s six times more vitamin K in broccoli than in blueberries. The downside is that blueberries are a bit tastier.

            Include some broccoli with every warm plate you eat in a day, and your brain will turn into a SUPER brain.

            3. Walnuts

            Walnuts are the best choice of all the nuts when it comes to improving cognitive function. They have the same benefits as every other nut, but walnuts also contain omega-3 fatty acids.[7]

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            Beside the improvement of heart health,[8] walnuts also provide a sharper memory (at least to women).[9]

            Consuming walnuts also help slow mental decline[10] because of the Vitamin E that is found in walnuts.[11]

            Next time you crave a snack, buy a bag of unroasted and unsalted walnuts. In the future, this will be the replacement of all unhealthy snacks like Twix.

            Brain foods are not brain foods because they contain a lot of sugar. Brain foods usually consist of a high amount of vitamins and antioxidants. That’s how you can recognize them.

            4. Green Tea

            Some of us are coffee drinkers while others prefer tea. You don’t have to choose one or the other because both of them made it to the list (you’ll read later about coffee in number 11 of brain foods).

            Green tea contains more than just caffeine; it contains L-theanine which essentially lowers the anxiety levels.[12] It also increases the levels of dopamine and alpha wave production (relaxation).

            The lower levels of caffeine in green tea compared to coffee makes this a perfect brain function drink. Caffeine and L-theanine show synergistic effects that work best with the amount of caffeine found in green tea.[13]

            People who drink green tea have proven that they have a more stable energy level and increased productivity compared to when they drink coffee. So, if you’re looking for brain foods that will enhance your productivity; green tea is the way to go.

            5. Oranges

            Orange is a beautiful gift from Mother Nature well known for the amount of Vitamin C in it. One large orange is enough to fulfill 100% of your daily Vitamin C intake. Vitamin C has a lot of benefits:

            • Vitamin C reduces the risk of chronic diseases like heart disease[14]
            • It may help fight against high blood pressure[15]
            • Vitamin C boosts immunity by increasing the production of white blood cells[16]
            • The most important of all: high levels of Vitamin C are found to be related to the improvement of memory and thinking. People suffering from dementia has been shown to have low levels of Vitamin C.[17] This may mean that by consuming enough Vitamin C, you will be able to prevent dementia.[18]

            To learn more about everything related to Vitamin C, read the following article:

            All You Need To Know About Vitamin C Benefits and Recipes To Boost Your Daily Intake

            6. Avocados

            Avocados fit very nicely in your salad, or you may even like it on toast.

            Avocado is a source of healthy fats; monounsaturated fat. Monounsaturated fat is believed to contribute to healthy blood flow which in turn means a healthy brain.[19]

            Besides that, avocados also lower blood pressure which will prevent a decrease in cognitive abilities.[20]

            Adding 1/4 or 1/2 avocado daily should do the trick and help your brain function as a superhero.

            If you need practical ways to include avocado in your daily diet, check this out:

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            It’s The Era Of Avocado! Try these 50+ Super Easy Avocado Recipes At Home Now!

            7. Coconut Oil

            Coconut oil is a multi-functional oil; some bathe in it, some put it all over their skin, and it’s also used for cooking. To get the following benefits out of it; you should consume it orally (but that’s up to you of course).

            When it comes down to improved brain function; coconut oil has proven to boost brain function in Alzheimer’s patients.[21] Although it isn’t shown to work on people without Alzheimer’s; it can never hurt.

            Besides that there are many more benefits to coconut oil.

            8. Spinach

            One research found that when elderly consumed one (or two) daily serving of spinach (or other leafy greens for that matter) for an average of 5 years had the same cognitive abilities as someone 11 years younger who never consumed leafy greens.[22]

            This all is thanks to Vitamin K that is found in leafy greens like spinach, kale, collards and mustard greens.

            Popeye looks impressive from the outside, and you will look impressive from the inside once you consume your daily spinach:

            6 Mouth-Watering Spinach Recipes You Should Not Miss

            9. Oatmeal

            Known for its use as breakfast, oatmeal is one of many kinds of cereal that contains more than just sugar.

            There’s a reason why oatmeal is often used as breakfast. It is because of the many carbohydrates that are in it which act like a shot of glucose that spikes your blood sugar levels.

            Glucose is sent immediately to the brain to help it function. In essence, this means that the higher the concentration of glucose in your blood, the better you can focus and remember things.[23]

            If you suffer from low blood sugar levels in the morning and can’t function without having a big breakfast immediately upon waking, oatmeal is going to be your best friend.

            10. Raisins

            Children often consume them as healthy snacks because it’s sweet. But did you know raisins promote brain function?

            Raisins are the number one source of boron of all brain foods. The research found that the level of boron is related to hand-eye coordination and short-term memory.[24] Increased levels of boron improves both.

            Besides that, raisins also:

            • Heal wounds faster
            • Prevent deficiency in Vitamin D
            • And much more (read the comprehensive research linked to in number 21)

            Thank your mom for putting those raisins in your lunch box in elementary school and return the favor by doing the same for your children.

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            11. Coffee

            We touched on the benefits of green tea earlier, but that doesn’t mean coffee can’t serve its purpose to brain function as well. If you prefer coffee over tea; listen (actually read) closely.

            There’s something about coffee that most people don’t even know. The point is that most of us consume more antioxidants through coffee than any other of the mentioned brain foods.

            This is not because there are more antioxidants in coffee; it’s because coffee is consumed the most of all brain foods.

            These antioxidants protect your brain from cell death which in turn protects you from dementia and related diseases.[25]

            Not to mention that caffeine may also prevent dementia and Alzheimer’s.[26][27]

            You don’t have to give up your coffee; except for all the sugar and milk you put in it. Drink your coffee black and keep it to a maximum of 3 per day and you should be okay.

            12. Almonds

            Earlier we touched upon walnuts, but most nuts are generally good for your health (as long as you don’t overdo it).

            Almonds are most known for their potential of enhancing memory and delaying Alzheimer’s progression.[28][29] Of course, they share the same benefits with the walnuts, but almonds are lower in omega 3 fats.

            If you forget things on a daily basis, maybe a handful of almonds per day can help you.

            Five to six almonds a day should do the trick. If you’re not watching your weight, you can just grab a handful. But don’t overdo it because there’s a lot of fats in nuts.

            Check out this article to see more benefits and recipes with almost:

            10 Benefits of Almonds That Will Surprise You (+Healthy Recipes)

            13. Lentils

            Lentils for the vegans among you is one of the best sources of protein among legumes. Besides that, it is a rich source of various essential nutrients like iron, Vitamin B6, and folate (Vitamin B9).

            Besides the fact that they make a terrific combination with rice; lentils also serves its purpose in the brain. All the essential nutrients improve brain function in their own way:

            • Folate (Vitamin B9) keeps your mind sharp while you get older.[30]
            • Iron plays an essential role in cognitive functioning with pregnant women.[31]
            • Zinc is well known for boosting memory.[32]
            • Vitamin B6 and thiamine give you more energy and focus.[33][34]

            As you can see; lentils make up one of the best brain foods on this list. But this also depends on your preference as some of you might’ve never even eaten lentils.

            14. Strawberries

            Most berries and other related fruits like strawberries (which are technically seen not berries) are all known to have beneficial effects on the brain.[35] They help prevent age-related memory loss and may even slow the progress of Alzheimer’s.[36]

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            Another thing that is more strawberry related is the amount of potassium in it. Potassium is related to increased blood flow thus improved cognitive function.[37]

            Eight strawberries per day should do the trick and give you many benefits besides these brain-enhancing benefits:

            10 Amazing Benefits of Strawberries that You Probably Never Knew

            15. Red Wine

            Last but not least, maybe your favorite alcoholic drink: red wine. If you thought you had to give up alcoholic beverages; you were wrong.

            Although alcohol itself is not related to any improvement in brain functioning; some studies show that there are benefits to drinking lightly or moderately.

            Out of all the alcoholic beverages, red wine is the one with the most favorable results. Research shows that red wine may even slow aging[38] and it can also decrease the risk of dementia.[39]

            Although these results are based on research, the researchers don’t recommend that any non-drinkers start drinking. Especially younger people shouldn’t aim to drink red wine as the most benefits (or no increased risks) are found in the elderly.

            If you think about drinking red wine, you should drink maximum 1 glass of red wine per day as a woman and maximum of 2 glasses of red wine per day for men. One glass of red wine should contain 175ml, don’t overdo it.

            Keep in mind that there are also potential risks to drinking alcohol:

            • Addiction
            • Depression
            • Weight gain

            Conclusion

            “You are what you eat.”

            One of the oldest sayings ever expresses all you need to know.

            Every food on this brain foods list is put on this list because it enhances brain functioning in some way. So, whichever food on this list you choose to eat after reading this article doesn’t matter.

            What matters most is that you read everything closely and choose one of the brain foods that fit your goal the most.

            Enjoy eating your next brain food!

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            Featured photo credit: Melissa Belanger via unsplash.com

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            [3] Good Health All: 8 Major Side Effects OF Eating Too Many Blueberries
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