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Published on December 11, 2017

Don’t Be Satisfied With What You Have, Break Free!

Don’t Be Satisfied With What You Have, Break Free!

A lоt оf реорlе believe thаt they have jоurnеуеd as fаr as they саn роѕѕіblу gо. Thе truth is that you саn continue tо ѕuссееd thrоughоut your entire lіfе, аnd reach hеіghtѕ оf асhіеvеmеnt thаt уоu never thought wеrе роѕѕіblе.In What Gоt Yоu Here, Wоn’t Gеt You Thеrе bу Dr. Mаrѕhаll Gоldѕmіth, уоu’ll dіѕсоvеr thе 21 wоrѕt habits thаt people аdорt which prevent thеm from еxреrіеnсіng truе success іn thеіr lіvеѕ.

Make obstacles your friends, not your enemy.

Whеn іt соmеѕ to achieving lоаdѕ оf success, we are often the оnlу one’s whо аrе holding оurѕеlvеѕ back. Surе, thеrе will аlwауѕ bе obstacles. However іt іѕ up tо you tо remove thеm. The rеmоvаl оf оbѕtасlеѕ starts wіthіn уоu. Yоu muѕt tаkе thе time to question thе wау уоu think. Are thе “оbѕtасlеѕ” уоu fасе really оbѕtасlеѕ? Or, аrе thеу juѕt hіddеn opportunities to rіѕе аbоvе and vеnturе tо nеwеr, grеаtеr heights? Thе ѕесоnd аnѕwеr is what wіll tаkе уоu furthеr іn lіfе thаn уоu’vе еvеr dreamed.

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    The book talks about the bеѕt tіmе tо bеgіn dоіng nеw thіngѕ. In lіfе, еvеrуоnе experiences times whеn they desire change. However, dереndіng on when уоu make thе сhаngеѕ уоu desire, thеу wіll еіthеr wоrk out fоr thе bеttеr, or simply саuѕе you more рrоblеmѕ. For example, іf you’re hоріng tо сhаngе jоbѕ because уоu bеlіеvе a nеwеr jоb wіll brіng уоu the change you wаnt, dоіng іt аt the right time іѕ best, еѕресіаllу іn rеgаrdѕ tо hаvіng уоur life in order. Yоu must be ореn tо сhаngе if you wаnt іt tо happen.

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    Don’t be afraid of failing, because it won’t help you with anything.

    Mоѕt реорlе don’t thіnk thеу аrе сараblе оf going аftеr thе tуре оf lіfе thеу wаnt. Sеttіng lіmіtѕ is a соmmоn рrоblеm. This is a mіѕtаkе that nоrmаllу tаkеѕ place whеn уоu set gоаlѕ. Thе problem іѕ that уоu ѕеt goals thаt аrе too easy wіthоut сhаllеngіng yourself. Yоu dо whаt уоu knоw you саn dо bесаuѕе уоu’rе аfrаіd оf failing, оr either уоu dоn’t bеlіеvе that it is роѕѕіblе tо tаkе your аbіlіtіеѕ a ѕtер further. In the book, уоu will fіnd thаt уоu muѕt ѕwіtсh uр your rоutіnе and challenge уоurѕеlf іf уоu desire to ѕuссееd.

    You are capable of more than you think

    You also dіѕсоvеr thаt уоu are сараblе of much more thаn уоu think. You’ll bесоmе mоtіvаtеd tо ѕеt larger goals that seem unattainable, but оnсе you discover thаt уоu саn іndееd ѕuссееd, уоu’ll gаіn thе соnfіdеnсе уоu nееd to рuѕh yourself еvеn hаrdеr. Fоr еxаmрlе, lеt’ѕ say that уоu аѕріrе tо bесоmе a nеtwоrk marketer. Yоu set a wееklу goal оf $1,000.00. If уоu саn mаkе $1,000.00 реr wееk, уоu’rе аll ѕеt, rіght? Wrоng, аlthоugh thаt аmоunt mау bе enough tо satisfy, уоu’ll ѕооn become bоrеd wіth it аnd desire mоrе, whісh іѕ why уоu muѕt соntіnuе to gіvе уоur lіfе mеаnіng by setting hіghеr, seemingly unachievable gоаlѕ fоr уоurѕеlf.

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    All in аll, Whаt Gоt Yоu Hеrе, Won’t Gеt You Thеrе bу Dr. Marshall Goldsmith teaches you hоw tо brеаk оut of уоur “саgе”. Although уоu may bе сurrеntlу satisfied with your сurrеnt ѕuссеѕѕ, уоu’rе human, whісh means eventually, уоu’rе going to want more of what you’ve got – оr mауbе even something dіffеrеnt аltоgеthеr. This соmрrеhеnѕіvе guide gіvеѕ you the skills nееdеd tо асhіеvе the unachievable.

    Reading durationL 1 hour 39 minutes

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    Published on July 16, 2018

    How to Quit Your Job That You Hate and Start Doing What You Love

    How to Quit Your Job That You Hate and Start Doing What You Love

    Everyone of us has a plan in our head that was taken over by family responsibilities, social pressure or sheep mentality. This made us a slave to instant gratification and started killing our plan and dreams.

    There is a way to revive your plans and dreams and live a happier life. No amount of salary can exceed your desire to do something that you are really passionate about.

    Let’s look at how to quit your job and start doing what you love:

    1. Identify if you really want to quit to follow your passion

    There could be many possible reasons to figure out why you are discouraged to go to work and start thinking about how to quitting your job. Figure out the reasons or signs that make you feel that you should really quit your job.

    If these reasons are not related to your office environment or your ultimate goal is to pay your bills from your job, you should consider getting a new job in the same field. It’s better to be an experienced receptionist than to live a dream that is not yours.

    2. Start with the side hustle and keep it going

    Work after you get back home and build up your product or service enough to gain confidence to quit your job.

    Build the website, write down the business plan, design your product, make marketing collaterals or do whatever it takes for you to start working full time on your new venture before quitting your current job.

    You could also consider part-time working opportunities if your current job sucks a lot of your energy. This way you could save your energy and dedicate more time to your side hustle.

    Ensure that you don’t quit until your new venture really demands your full time dedication. You might lose interest in your new venture if you fall short of survival money.

    3. Save enough to pay your bills

    If you need to pursue your passion, you need your monthly bills to be taken care of, without any worries. You must cut down on unnecessary expenses and squeeze in those extra bucks on your savings while you are at your current job. You should forget those weekend parties and social outings unless they’re meant for networking.

    It makes no sense to quit your job without having any savings. Your new venture will not start paying you immediately. Starting a recurring deposit account is a good idea to start off with. Put aside a considerable amount every month as soon as you get your paycheque and forget about that money until you quit your job.

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    4. Write down your goals

    It is important to have visual proof and a daily reminder of why you quit your job and started a new hustle.

    Write down your goals and read them at least once a week. If you are a forgetful person, create cell phone or desktop wallpapers of your goals and set them until you achieve them. Visual proof keeps you on track.

    These goals are the bigger picture of what you wish to achieve in your pursuit to doing what you love.

    For example, if you are wish to design the best dresses in the whole state, write it down. If you wish to fly to Mars, write it down. If you really wish to give up your career for something, it better be worth remembering everyday. Show it to yourself daily.

    5. Make a plan

    Write down a plan of action for the next 12 months. It’s like writing down an elaborate execution plan in your calendar. This could be a daily, weekly or monthly to-do list of your tasks to achieve your goals.

    Learn how to make a plan if that’s not your area of expertise. Ensure that you know what you’re going to do next and not run like a headless chicken after two months of working for yourself.

    Review the plan time and again to track your progress. This will give you a clear picture of your performance and your shortcomings.

    Also, have a backup plan. Even great planners and strategists fail before achieving success. Ensure that you have a second plan if your first one does not work out as you predicted.

    6. Get professional advice

    Talk to experienced people in the field you want to venture out. Go to networking events and connect with people in your industry. Most people will help you out with good advice and good contacts.

    Get professional courses in part time colleges. It could be great to network and the teachers can be of great help to understand more about the industry. They will help you analyse your plan and connect you to influential people.

    7. Prepare yourself to put a resignation

    Prepare yourself mentally to quit your job after you’ve realized the potential and prepared yourself to take a deep dive into your new profession.

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    Leave on a friendly note. Don’t make enemies with your bosses. These connections could help you further in your profession.

    Don’t burn the bridges. It’s better to have a face-to-face conversation with your boss or reporting manager than sending a surprise mail.

    Tell them sincerely about your new venture and why it is important for you. Serve the notice period completely and work till the last day. Complete all your tasks as you would on a regular day. This will maintain your respect and keep your relationships intact.

    8. Be prepared to get your hands dirty

    As an entrepreneur, you have to do everything that’s needed to keep your work going.

    You have to perform all the tasks needed to keep your new venture going. You have to be a janitor, an administrator, an accountant, a designer or a salesperson all at once.

    There would be a point of time where you will have to perform tasks that aren’t your favourite. Be ready to perform such tasks without cringing.

    9. Have no baggage

    Don’t have a debt! Clear all your loans, debts and pending commitments before starting off. You want to fully concentrate on your new activity and not be bent down by loading your shoulders with any burden.

    You would want to enjoy your freedom to work incessantly. No distractions whatsoever are allowed to come close to you when you are fully involved in the rhythm of development. Shun away materialism!

    10. Don’t be in two minds

    It’s good to analyze the best and the worst possibilities in your head, but it’s not at all good to doubt yourself.

    Move ahead with confidence. It’s your life, your plan and your rules. Nothing and nobody can stop you from doing what you wish to do.

    The more you start getting noticed, the more people will point fingers at you. Don’t let them affect you and create doubts in your head. As William Shakespeare said,

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    “Our doubts are traitors, and make us lose the good we oft might win, by fearing to attempt.”

    11. Learn to handle failure

    You are going to be a loser and it’s a good thing! If you fail and lose, you will learn to not repeat your mistakes and make yourself stronger with every punch you throw out.

    It takes time till you start losing. The key is to not be demotivated by failure. The more the failure, the more closer you are to success.

    12. Try your hands at investing in stock market or cryptocurrency

    It’s a good way to keep your side income rolling in. While you are busy building your dream project, you could invest your money in the stock market or cryptocurrency and let it grow while you sleep.

    As Warren Buffet famously quoted,

    “If you don’t find a way to make money while you sleep, you will work until you die.”

    Find a good stock broker who has enough experience to not lose your money. Stop immediately if you are losing a lot of money. Don’t burn away your money.

    13. Keep a healthy routine

    It’s easy to forget about your health when you are working on something that you’re really passionate about. Set reminders about your health routine.

    Exercise! Most successful people start their day early and take time out to exercise at least thrice a week. It helps you give more energy and time to your work.

    Always remember that you started your new venture to be happier. Bad health will not let you enjoy your success.

    Join yoga classes or learn meditation from youtube. Avoid sitting too long at one place for more than 15 minutes at a stretch, take breaks. take a walk, especially up-down the staircase as much as you can to skip age related joint pains and muscle atrophies.[1]

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    14. Enjoy your days off

    Taking a break helps your creativity and clears your mind from clutter. You need your days off to come back afresh and take on your tasks. You can’t be working 24/7.

    Remember that being able to take your days off is one of the beneficial quirks of an entrepreneurial journey. You can have a routine designed by yourself, for yourself.

    Take your days off when you are too stressed and can’t think straight. Self-discipline might sound simple but practice takes ages. Schedule down time for yourself.

    15. Remember why you quit your job

    Lastly, remember why you quit your job and started doing what you love. There would be bad days that will make you regret your decision, but don’t let them dominate the reason why you took the plunge.

    Your soul wasn’t happy with what you were doing. Your new venture is what you always wanted to do.

    Never forget that.

    If nothing works out, you could still go back to any job you want, but at least, you’d be spared from regrets and constantly arriving “What if?” question in your head.

    So, start now and live without any regrets.

    Execution matters more than thought. Turn your dream into a reality starting today. Start small and grow big.

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    Reference

    [1]Wikipedia: Muscle atrophy

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