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Will Weight Training Make You Bulky and Look Like a Man?

Will Weight Training Make You Bulky and Look Like a Man?

Women often frown if I advise them to regularly train with weights. “I don’t want to look like a man if I train with weights!”, I often hear. Let me tell you one thing: You won’t look like a man. Instead, the gym has other positive side effects for women.

    1. Sped Up Metabolism

    Go to the gym if you want to eat more, great-tasting food. Not having to watch your calories 24/7 is a privilege that every women dreams of. The muscles that you build up during your training in the gym will even burn your calories in times, when you’re not training consciously. Muscles are fat burners.

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    And don’t forget the psychological side of it: Opening your fridge after a hard workout and rewarding yourself with your favourite food is one of the best feelings in this world. Humans are reward oriented creatures, am I right?

    2. Fit and Healthy Aging

    You only live once. Aging healthy is important – it might not be in this moment for you but it’ll definitely be important in the future. Being mentally and physically fit in the long-term is a privilege, worth working for. Your children are not here to care for you when you’re older. You want to be independent and fit – even as a grandma.

    Being associated with an independent, fit elderly is the best that can happen. What a world it would be, where elderly are still healthy and adventurous. Recreate your future starting today, go to the gym.

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    3. Deal With Stress Like a Boss

    We live in a society where we have to deal with stress on a daily basis. Have you ever came home fully stressed out, after a ten-hour work shift? An experience like this in our present world is pretty common – for both sexes.

    Occupational burnout is a disease that we’re all too familiar with. In our civilization, our life is out of balance. The mental health of the average person needs improvement. The use of antidepressants are far too high, especially in the female population. About 16% of every women over the age of 12 in the US uses antidepressants frequently.[1]

    These are about 30.000.000 people. Using the gym as a treatment, for mental health, free of negative side effects. Sign me up for that![2]

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      4. Super Boost Your Confidence (And Attractiveness)

      Want to be more confident and attractive? The gym is one of the best places to go then. The WHR (waist-to-hip-ratio) is generally an indicator of your overall attractiveness. Trained glutes, when regarding evolutionary psychology, may indicate to the male sex that you’re better predisposed to give birth. Improving your WHR is a great way to give you extra attention from the opposite sex.

      If we look back in our history, the most attractive women – such as Marilyn Monroe – had tremendous self esteem. That’s why she rose to such extreme popularity and had thousands of admirers. Simply because of how comfortable she felt in her own skin.

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      Women: Recreate Yourself

      The days where the gym was filled with guys only is finally over. Sign up for a gym membership and hire a personal trainer or an online coach for a couple of months. Train about 2-3 times a week to begin with.  You don’t have to spend more than 60 minutes each.

      It won’t take long until you will see the first changes in your physical and mental well-being. Then you will understand, that training in the gym has tremendous benefits.

      Don’t be afraid to pick up the dumbbells on a regular basis. They won’t make you bulky. Lifting weights help shape you into the independent, strong and confident woman – that you deserve to be.

      Featured photo credit: finda via finda.photo

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      Last Updated on November 17, 2019

      20 Creative Ways To Say Thank You

      20 Creative Ways To Say Thank You

      Saying, “Thank you,” can be difficult to do. Some things just demand a little something extra because of the magnitude of the favor or the depth of appreciation involved. But what can you do to say thank you in a meaningful way? Sometimes you have to get a little more creative than just firing off an email. Here are 20 creative ways to say thank you that your friends and family will remember and cherish!

      1. Make a gift bag.

      A unique, homemade gift bag with a custom label or a note is a simple but heartfelt way to show your appreciation for the wonderful things your friends or family have done for you.

      2. Give a toast.

      Many people fear public speaking more than death, giving this particular thank-you a little extra meaning. Composing a sincere, eloquent toast and delivering it is a nice way to show appreciation that truly comes from the heart.

      3. Write a poem.

      “Roses are red, violets are blue…” Uh, you could write that...but why not put a little extra zing in it? Find out what their favorite kind of poetry is: haiku, free verse, iambic pentameter, and so on. (Google them if you don’t know what they are.) Then write one that expresses why they deserve your thanks…and why you’re glad to give it!

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      4. Create your own labels.

      There are a number of websites that offer custom gift labels. Find one that fits your personality and that of your friends and create a personalized thank-you label!

      5. Give a gift card.

      Sometimes choosing what to give a friend can be tough. A gift card is a good way to get around this problem. As always, be sure to include a personalized note or card thanking the recipient for their friendship and help.

      6. Send a letter.

      Snail-mail is a largely lost art form. Don’t worry about how long the letter is, though. What really matters here is that you took the time to put pen to paper and express your feelings sincerely and honestly!

      7. Use social media to send a special message.

      If someone’s done something you think the whole world should know about, why not put out a social media blast? Use your blog, your Facebook, your Google+ account, and your Twitter to spread the word about why this person’s someone your friends will want to know too!

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      8. Make your own digital greeting card.

      While an email isn’t always the best way to go when saying thank you, a digital greeting card that you put time and effort into creating can really brighten someone’s day! Make the card reflect the recipient’s personality and compose a short message of thanks for their generosity.

      9. Make a YouTube video.

      Sometimes, actually hearing someone say, “Thank you,” can make all the difference. Why not take it a step further and create a special video of thanks for your friends, family, and those special people who helped make your day so important…or who helped you through that rough time?

      10. Deliver cookies or candies.

      Making something yourself is a fun and delightful way to say thank you to someone. Create a sampling of baked goods or homemade candies and decorate them with a simple message, or make them so they form letters! (Think Valentine’s candies, only situationally appropriate.) Attach a thank-you note or label and surprise those special people with the gift of your time and creativity.

      11. Make surprise gifts for guests.

      There’s no need to wait until “later” to send a thank-you message. Why not do it at the time? Create little gift packets or bags for your guests with surprises inside. This is a great way to say thanks to the people who attended your event, and make sure they won’t want to miss the next one!

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      12. Put together a flower basket.

      Whether you prefer fresh or artificial flowers, assembling a flower basket with a thank-you note is an excellent way to brighten someone’s day and show you appreciate them.

      13. Take a picture.

      Sometimes capturing the moment is the best way to put a smile on someone’s face. Have someone take a picture of you receiving that special gift or opening that surprise package and send the giver a copy with a quick but sincere note to say thanks!

      14. Repay their generosity by paying it forward.

      The best gifts come from the heart, and the best way to repay a gift is to pay it forward. If your friend has a special cause they care about or something they believe in passionately, why not make a donation in their name or volunteer some of your time to the cause? This will mean more than any number of cookies, candies, or thank-you notes because you’re taking your friend’s love and spreading it around to others.

      15. Do something special for them.

      Take them out to dinner. (See “make a toast.”) Give them that movie they’ve been wanting forever. Cook them dinner and give them a present when they arrive. Any of these are good options for showing someone you really appreciate them and how grateful you are to have them in your life.

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      16. Reciprocate their help.

      Everyone needs help sometime. Whether it’s holding their hand through a particularly traumatic incident or helping them replace the alternator in their car, being there when they need it shows you remember what they did for you and how much it meant. It also shows that you’re willing to be just as good a friend to them as they were to you!

      17. Be there for them.

      Not every thank-you gesture has to be a grand public spectacle. Sometimes just giving them a place to come hang out when they’re lonely or showing up to offer them a sympathetic shoulder means the world to a person.

      18. Listen to them.

      Listening is almost as lost an art as the handwritten letter. When your friend or family member needs to talk, listen to them. Ask questions when appropriate, but just letting them know you’re there and paying attention to them to the exclusion of all else for a little while is a great way to say thank you for the times they listened to you.

      19. Say it in another language…or two…

      A simple thank you is great…but why not spice it up a little? Instead of just saying, “Thank you,” write or make a video of you telling them thank you in different languages. Some examples might be, “Gracias! Merci! Danke schoen! Spasibo! Mahalo!” and any other ways or languages you can think of. (The ones listed above are Spanish, French, German, Russian, and Hawaiian, in case you were wondering.) If you want to really get tricky about it, say a short phrase in each language that conveys why you’re thanking them!

      20. Show them some love.

      A simple touch, a hug, or helping out when they need it without being asked may be the most powerful gratitude message you can send. Offer to take the dogs for a walk, sit for the kids for a few hours, or run to the grocery store so they don’t have to. The little things are often the most important and meaningful. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t still send a note, but sometimes your simple presence and willingness to help is all that really matters.

      Featured photo credit: Hanny Naibaho via unsplash.com

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