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You Don’t Need To Master Any Skill To Succeed (With This Mix And Match Approach)

You Don’t Need To Master Any Skill To Succeed (With This Mix And Match Approach)

With the digital entrepreneurship allowing everyone to achieve worldwide success, stories and myths on how to achieve it have been the most popular reads. The formula seems simple – you find your driving passion and you put enough hours of hard work into it, and success is inevitable. This sounds like a good plan, until you actually start implementing it. You can soon discover that you cannot always find that one passion, or skill, that makes you superior, and better than most people. You can easily get discouraged once you start your research and find that whatever it is you are good at, there are so many people that are at least ten times better than you. That’s where the plan tends to fall apart.

Why the “traditional” approach doesn’t work

The reason many people give up or never sum up enough courage to start working towards their idea of success, is because the “traditional” approach is flawed from the start. Firstly, so many people buy into the idea of one true purpose or passion they need to fulfill and therefore, they give it too much significance. So many times they are reluctant to even try, because their initial idea doesn’t seem great enough. This results in them not being aware of the many amazing opportunities that can eventually lead them there, since they are blindly chasing the one big dream. Additionally, the pressure of dedicating all of our time to developing and nurturing that one skill that separates us from the rest of the world, becomes too big of a burden for many of us, leading us to doubt whether we have any skill or passion at all.

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The Mix and Match Approach

Yet, the success game can be quite easily achieved only if we take a different perspective. As it was brilliantly presented in an article by a successful entrepreneur Oliver Emberton, there is a different, much more effective approach that guarantees success. Guarantees, yes, since it has been derived by analyzing the road to success of some of today’s most successful people. The approach suggests not being focused on having the one skill that can set you apart from everybody else, but the trick is to combine a couple of complementary skills that don’t need to be perfected, in order to achieve great things in any field that you choose.

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The author suggests taking an objective analysis of the work of some of the most successful people in any area, and you will be able to realize that for most of them, their extraordinary talent is not the sole reason of their mega success. Almost always there is a combination of a few key skills needed for success in the niche.

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If we take a look at the music industry, so rarely can we see the best singers to be the most successful ones. More often, the truly successful ones are those who have optimal singing potential, combined with great self-confidence, attractive personality, good looks, great sense for business, and so on.

How you can implement the approach

The same goes for any field you may want to try your luck in. For example, if you want to achieve great academic success, skills that you need to possess don’t need to include having a particularly high IQ, instead, you would want to test yourself for organizational skills, time management, hard work, motivation, and perseverance.

Therefore, no matter if you are just starting out as an entrepreneur, or a new face at a large corporation, or you have been looking for your great business breakthrough for quite some time, you might want to try the mix and match approach before you start your journey to success. Make sure to analyze the field of your choice and come up with the mix of skills needed to be developed in order to achieve great success. Once you are confident enough about your abilities, it is time to go for your dreams.

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Last Updated on September 20, 2018

8 Ways to Train Your Brain to Learn Faster and Remember More

8 Ways to Train Your Brain to Learn Faster and Remember More

You go to the gym to train your muscles. You run outside or go for hikes to train your endurance. Or, maybe you do neither of those, but still wish you exercised more.

Well, here is how to train one of the most important parts of your body: your brain.

When you train your brain, you will:

  • Avoid embarrassing situations. You remember his face, but what was his name?
  • Be a faster learner in all sorts of different skills. No problem for you to pick up a new language or new management skill.
  • Avoid diseases that hit as you get older. Alzheimer’s will not be affecting you.

So how to train your brain and improve your cognitive skills?

1. Work your memory

Twyla Tharp, a NYC-based renowned choreographer has come up with the following memory workout:

When she watches one of her performances, she tries to remember the first twelve to fourteen corrections she wants to discuss with her cast without writing them down.

If you think this is anything less than a feat, then think again. In her book The Creative Habit she says that most people cannot remember more than three.

The practice of both remembering events or things and then discussing them with others has actually been supported by brain fitness studies.

Memory activities that engage all levels of brain operation—receiving, remembering and thinking—help to improve the function of the brain.

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Now, you may not have dancers to correct, but you may be required to give feedback on a presentation, or your friends may ask you what interesting things you saw at the museum. These are great opportunities to practically train your brain by flexing your memory muscles.

What is the simplest way to help yourself remember what you see? Repetition.

For example, say you just met someone new:

“Hi, my name is George”

Don’t just respond with, “Nice to meet you”. Instead, say, “Nice to meet you George.”

Got it? Good.

2. Do something different repeatedly

By actually doing something new over and over again, your brain wires new pathways that help you do this new thing better and faster.

Think back to when you were three years old. You surely were strong enough to hold a knife and a fork just fine. Yet, when you were eating all by yourself, you were creating a mess.

It was not a matter of strength, you see. It was a matter of cultivating more and better neural pathways that would help you eat by yourself just like an adult does.

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And guess what? With enough repetition you made that happen!

But how does this apply to your life right now?

Say you are a procrastinator. The more you don’t procrastinate, the more you teach your brain not to wait for the last minute to make things happen.

Now, you might be thinking “Duh, if only not procrastinating could be that easy!”

Well, it can be. By doing something really small, that you wouldn’t normally do, but is in the direction of getting that task done, you will start creating those new precious neural pathways.

So if you have been postponing organizing your desk, just take one paper and put in its right place. Or, you can go even smaller. Look at one piece of paper and decide where to put it: Trash? Right cabinet? Another room? Give it to someone?

You don’t actually need to clean up that paper; you only need to decide what you need to do with it.

That’s how small you can start. And yet, those neural pathways are still being built. Gradually, you will transform yourself from a procrastinator to an in-the-moment action taker.

3. Learn something new

It might sound obvious, but the more you use your brain, the better its going to perform for you.

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For example, learning a new instrument improves your skill of translating something you see (sheet music) to something you actually do (playing the instrument).

Learning a new language exposes your brain to a different way of thinking, a different way of expressing yourself.

You can even literally take it a step further, and learn how to dance. Studies indicate that learning to dance helps seniors avoid Alzheimer’s. Not bad, huh?

4. Follow a brain training program

The Internet world can help you improve your brain function while lazily sitting on your couch. A clinically proven program like BrainHQ can help you improve your memory, or think faster, by just following their brain training exercises.

5. Work your body

You knew this one was coming didn’t you? Yes indeed, exercise does not just work your body; it also improves the fitness of your brain.

Even briefly exercising for 20 minutes facilitates information processing and memory functions. But it’s not just that–exercise actually helps your brain create those new neural connections faster. You will learn faster, your alertness level will increase, and you get all that by moving your body.

Now, if you are not already a regular exerciser, and already feel guilty that you are not helping your brain by exercising more, try a brain training exercise program like Exercise Bliss.

Remember, just like we discussed in #2, by training your brain to do something new repeatedly, you are actually changing yourself permanently.

6. Spend time with your loved ones

If you want optimal cognitive abilities, then you’ve got to have meaningful relationships in your life.  Talking with others and engaging with your loved ones helps you think more clearly, and it can also lift your mood.

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If you are an extrovert, this holds even more weight for you. At a class at Stanford University, I learned that extroverts actually use talking to other people as a way to understand and process their own thoughts.

I remember that the teacher told us that after a personality test said she was an extrovert, she was surprised. She had always thought of herself as an introvert. But then, she realized how much talking to others helped her frame her own thoughts, so she accepted her new-found status as an extrovert.

7. Avoid crossword puzzles

Many of us, when we think of brain fitness, think of crossword puzzles. And it’s true–crossword puzzles do improve our fluency, yet studies show they are not enough by themselves.

Are they fun? Yes. Do they sharpen your brain? Not really.

Of course, if you are doing this for fun, then by all means go ahead. If you are doing it for brain fitness, then you might want to choose another activity

8. Eat right – and make sure dark chocolate is included

Foods like fish, fruits, and vegetables help your brain perform optimally. Yet, you might not know that dark chocolate gives your brain a good boost as well.

When you eat chocolate, your brain produces dopamine. And dopamine helps you learn faster and remember better. Not to mention, chocolate contains flavonols, antioxidants, which also improve your brain functions.

So next time you have something difficult to do, make sure you grab a bite or two of dark chocolate!

The bottom line

Now that you know how to train your brain, it’s actually time to start doing.

Don’t just consume this content and then go on with your life as if nothing has changed. Put this knowledge into action and become smarter than ever!

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