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8 Creative Tips to Make Your Wedding Stand Out

8 Creative Tips to Make Your Wedding Stand Out

Even if you want a fairly traditional wedding, there are still many ways to add an inventive twist to one or more features of your big day. You just need to get a little creative to make your wedding stand out. Check out these creative tips on how to achieve the most memorable day of your life:

1. Wedding Invitations

Even before the wedding, you can make people take notice of the upcoming date by sending unique save-the-date and wedding invitations. These can be personalized so that they celebrate something special about you as a couple. Etsy is a great place to look for a designer or for a DIY approach. Browse Pinterest for additional inspiration.

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2. Choice of Venue

Whereas the choice of venue used to be a church or registry office by default, the world is now your oyster when it comes to choosing a venue for your wedding. Sandy beaches in the Caribbean, stately homes, hotels, Roman Baths, and even the National Space Centre are all options of places you can get married at. As long as the venue is licensed for weddings, you are good to go.

3. Reception Entertainment

One way to make your wedding different from the rest is through the entertainment you choose to have at your reception. From the high tech option, such as a video booth, to the more relaxed choice of a petting farm, the options are almost endless. This guide to entertainment ideas will get you thinking about what will best suit your reception.

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4. Wedding Dress

One way for a bride to stand out is through her choice of dress. A wedding dress doesn’t have to be white and, in fact, a bold colour choice can ensure your dress is memorable. Vintage dresses, especially paired with a wedding theme that celebrates the era the dress is from, also works exceptionally well with adding more personality to the wedding.

5. Wedding Flowers

Not fond of traditional wedding flowers? Then opt for a bouquet made from buttons, dried flowers, or even fabric. The choices are now much wider in variety and an added bonus is that these bouquets last for a long time, so they can act as a permanent reminder of your day. You can also shake your flower choice up at the venue by choosing bold colours, or even potted plants, over the traditional white roses or Lily of the Valley.

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6. Wedding Seating

A reception doesn’t have to include the traditional seating pattern of a top table surrounded by tables for guests. You could set the seating in a variety of different formats or even do away with it completely and opt for a buffet. Another way to make the tables stand out is to get creative with the decorations you add. Personalised table settings or unique menu cards that people can take home as a memento of the day, help to create a different experience for your guests.

7. Wedding Cake

Your wedding cake is often the centrepiece of the reception, but if you don’t like traditional fruit cake or marzipan, then opt for a delicious extravagant dessert or a mountain of individually decorated cupcakes. If you can’t imagine having a wedding without a traditional cake, then make it stand out through the decoration. You only have to head to Pinterest to find some stunning inspiration.

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8. Making Memories

A memorable wedding is one where your guests still talk about it for years to come. This can be an extension of any of the ideas highlighted above or it can be the photos you take that will commemorate the day. Social media now makes this easy, so why not create a Facebook group ahead of your wedding and then encourage your friends and family to upload photos there throughout the day? You could even mention it on the invitations. This then becomes a central place for everyone to share memories and chat about how much they enjoyed your special day.

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Last Updated on January 3, 2020

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

The 10 Essential Habits of Positive People

Are you waiting for life events to turn out the way you want so that you can feel more positive about your life? Do you find yourself having pre-conditions to your sense of well-being, thinking that certain things must happen for you to be happier? Do you think there is no way that your life stresses can make you anything other than “stressed out” and that other people just don’t understand?  If your answer is “yes” to any of these questions, you might find yourself lingering in the land of negativity for too long!

The following are some tips to keep positive no matter what comes your way. This post will help you stop looking for what psychologists call “positivity” in all the wrong places!  Here are the ten essential habits of positive people.

1. Positive people don’t confuse quitting with letting go.

Instead of hanging on to ideas, beliefs, and even people that are no longer healthy for them, they trust their judgement to let go of negative forces in their lives.  Especially in terms of relationships, they subscribe to The Relationship Prayer which goes:

 I will grant myself the ability to trust the healthy people in my life … 

To set limits with, or let go of, the negative ones … 

And to have the wisdom to know the DIFFERENCE!

 2.  Positive people don’t just have a good day – they make a good day.

Waiting, hoping and wishing seldom have a place in the vocabulary of positive individuals. Rather, they use strong words that are pro-active and not reactive. Passivity leads to a lack of involvement, while positive people get very involved in constructing their lives. They work to make changes to feel better in tough times rather than wish their feelings away.

3. For the positive person, the past stays in the past.

Good and bad memories alike stay where they belong – in the past where they happened. They don’t spend much time pining for the good ol’ days because they are too busy making new memories now. The negative pulls from the past are used not for self-flagellation or unproductive regret, but rather productive regret where they use lessons learned as stepping stones towards a better future.

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4. Show me a positive person and I can show you a grateful person.

The most positive people are the most grateful people.  They do not focus on the potholes of their lives.  They focus on the pot of gold that awaits them every day, with new smells, sights, feelings and experiences.  They see life as a treasure chest full of wonder.

5. Rather than being stuck in their limitations, positive people are energized by their possibilities.

Optimistic people focus on what they can do, not what they can’t do.  They are not fooled to think that there is a perfect solution to every problem, and are confident that there are many solutions and possibilities.  They are not afraid to attempt new solutions to old problems, rather than spin their wheels expecting things to be different this time.  They refuse to be like Charlie Brown expecting that this time Lucy will not pull the football from him!

6. Positive people do not let their fears interfere with their lives!

Positive people have observed that those who are defined and pulled back by their fears never really truly live a full life. While proceeding with appropriate caution, they do not let fear keep them from trying new things. They realize that even failures are necessary steps for a successful life. They have confidence that they can get back up when they are knocked down by life events or their own mistakes, due to a strong belief in their personal resilience.

7. Positive people smile a lot!

When you feel positive on the inside it is like you are smiling from within, and these smiles are contagious. Furthermore, the more others are with positive people, the more they tend to smile too! They see the lightness in life, and have a sense of humor even when it is about themselves. Positive people have a high degree of self-respect, but refuse to take themselves too seriously!

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8. People who are positive are great communicators.

They realize that assertive, confident communication is the only way to connect with others in everyday life.  They avoid judgmental, angry interchanges, and do not let someone else’s blow up give them a reason to react in kind. Rather, they express themselves with tact and finesse.  They also refuse to be non-assertive and let people push them around. They refuse to own problems that belong to someone else.

9. Positive people realize that if you live long enough, there are times for great pain and sadness.

One of the most common misperceptions about positive people is that to be positive, you must always be happy. This can not be further from the truth. Anyone who has any depth at all is certainly not happy all the time.  Being sad, angry, disappointed are all essential emotions in life. How else would you ever develop empathy for others if you lived a life of denial and shallow emotions? Positive people do not run from the gamut of emotions, and accept that part of the healing process is to allow themselves to experience all types of feelings, not only the happy ones. A positive person always holds the hope that there is light at the end of the darkness.  

10. Positive person are empowered people – they refuse to blame others and are not victims in life.

Positive people seek the help and support of others who are supportive and safe.They limit interactions with those who are toxic in any manner, even if it comes to legal action and physical estrangement such as in the case of abuse. They have identified their own basic human rights, and they respect themselves too much to play the part of a victim. There is no place for holding grudges with a positive mindset. Forgiveness helps positive people become better, not bitter.

How about you?  How many habits of positive people do you personally find in yourself?  If you lack even a few of these 10 essential habits, you might find that the expected treasure at the end of the rainbow was not all that it was cracked up to be. How could it — if you keep on bringing a negative attitude around?

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I wish you well in keeping positive, because as we all know, there is certainly nothing positive about being negative!

Featured photo credit: Janaína Castelo Branco via flickr.com

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