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8 Signs You’ll Be Successful In Life (Though The Time Hasn’t Come Yet)

8 Signs You’ll Be Successful In Life (Though The Time Hasn’t Come Yet)

Do you ever wonder whether you’ll achieve your goals and manage to build the life of your dreams? Do you catch yourself wondering whether your efforts are worthwhile? When we encounter setbacks, it can be hard to believe that we’ll ever get what we most want or need. However, sometimes it can help to slow down and look for signs that you are on the right track to success, even if these indications are not always obvious. Take a look at the list below and you’ll probably discover that you already have the key ingredients for a happy, successful life.

1. You know what you want in life

You can’t reach your destination unless you know where it is you wish to go. The most successful people can readily identify their core goals and key values. If you are not sure what you want to achieve, take a few hours to sit down with a pen and piece of paper and list your goals. This simple step can save you from wasting time and energy in chasing goals that will not fulfil you.

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2. You always look for improvement

Truly exceptional people know that they can never afford to become complacent. They know that in order to stay ahead of their competition and to develop as individuals they need to continually seek out the areas in which they can improve. If you don’t look for new ways to improve yourself you risk wasting your talents and may experience a slump in motivation.

3. You learn from your failures

If you have the ability to take an honest look at what has gone wrong in your life and apply the lessons learned to your future endeavors, you are certainly on the right track. Success may be sweet but failure is a wonderful teacher. Those who learn from failure will soon find themselves making rapid progress.

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4. You can say no to things that are not your priority

Successful people are keenly aware that our time on earth is limited, and could end at any point. This means that they are adept at focusing only on important tasks, taking care to make time for fun and relaxation as well. Allowing yourself to take on other responsibilities and people that are not really any of your concern simply wastes your time. People who know how to say “no” have more space in their lives to chase success.

5. You stay positive

A positive mindset is one of the most precious assets you can have, and the best news is that developing an optimistic outlook is completely free! Of course it takes time and effort to adopt a more upbeat approach to life, and making the choice to see the best in even the bleakest of situations does not come naturally to many of us. However, remaining positive even when everything appears to be going wrong is vital in maintaining the momentum required for long-term success.

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6. You don’t care much about what others think

Asking for the opinions of friends, family and colleagues can be a valuable exercise, as it can provide you with new perspectives and ideas. However, successful people have enough self-confidence and faith in their own decisions that they do not allow what others think of them to dictate their actions or mood. This allows them to blaze new trails and become innovators in their fields.

7. You’re aware of your little progress

People who have achieved great things will often tell you that celebrating minor successes is just as important as striving for the end result. If you want to boost your motivation levels and scale new heights in life, break your largest goals down into small steps and celebrate every milestone.

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8. You’re confident but not arrogant

Much like positivity, confidence is vital. Confident people identify what they want and then take every possible step to make it happen. However, it is important to squash any tendency you may have towards arrogance. A self-important, arrogant attitude is detrimental as it means you will be reluctant to acknowledge and learn from your mistakes.

Don’t worry if you do not have all of the above eight qualities. They take time to develop and often come with maturity and experience. However, you can certainly hasten your own progress! Over the next few days, carefully monitor your thoughts. Ask yourself whether the messages you send yourself support the mindset described above. If not, it may be time to work on your self-esteem and re-evaluate what it is you are hoping to achieve in life.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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