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Why You Should Find and Develop Your Kid’s Talents Early

Why You Should Find and Develop Your Kid’s Talents Early

Many parents have dreams about what their children should look like as adults and what their careers should be – some people who can’t wait to start a family think of those things even before the child is nothing more than a fetus.

As a parent, I must say that it’s difficult to find a balance between having expectations and wishing only the best for your kids. Although it comes from the brightest part of your heart, setting standards for your kid based on your vision and not on reality and their abilities will only create an area of pressure.

Not being able to meet your standards will cause a line of frustrations for your children, and that’s something you definitely don’t want to do. Every parent should do their best in order to create a healthy environment in which their child can grow and develop healthily.

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But that’s not the only thing you should do – helping your child discover their talents should be on the top of every parent’s priority list, and here’s why.

1. A Supporting and Loving Environment

I know you want your child to excel in every area of their life, but you won’t be able to do anything right if you press your own aspirations onto them. If you manage to find a healthy approach that is pressure free in order to learn more about your child’s natural abilities, you’ll create a very supportive environment for them.

This is the part when you should play detective a bit – your child may show affinities toward an area of art for example, but you should be aware of the fact they won’t be able to create a master-piece right away. So, your job is to notice their interest and talent, and continue to direct them the right way.

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2. Major Confidence Boost

Children have issues with confidence because they are surrounded with unfamiliarities – everything they encounter requires from them to go through a learning process. If you do manage to discover a talent of theirs at an early age, your child will be aware of the fact they are good at something, perhaps even before they start school. Something like this will make them feel certain about their skills, which is a great confidence booster.

3. Skills Development

    The most efficient way to discover your kid’s talents is to expose them to various activities – enable them to explore their space by giving them a ball to play with, or equip them with coloring books and see if their talent is perhaps connected to painting, or play some music and let them express their vocal skills.

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    This sort of change of environment needs to be done slowly and, when your child is rested and energized, you’ll help him or her develop a whole set of skills at an early age – motor, cognitive, and social – while you’re working on discovering their talents.

    4. Increased Chances for Success

      As your child grows, they will be able to focus on their interest for one simple reason – because they are aware of them. Many kids wander around until college, and some continue to dwell on their choice of career even after that. You’ll be able to prevent this kind of delay and waste of time if you help them to figure out what they can do.

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      I’m sure you’re familiar with Maddie Ziegler’s success – now, she’s a teen and a brilliant dancer, an aspiring actress and a great singer, and she’s only fourteen. Obviously, she’s more successful not only when compared to her peers but to a significant number of adults, as well.

      If you create such surroundings for children, where they can develop properly, and you provide them with all the necessities they require in order to work on their talent, you’ll affect their chances for success in a very positive manner.

      5. The Most Important Investment You’ll Ever Make

      Raising a child is difficult, especially in this modern age. There’s a ton of tutorials and books on how to turn your child into a healthy independent adult, and I believe that each parent should read everything there is to know about this subject, so that you can apply only what seems to be the smartest method, according to your instincts. After all, your child is the most important investment you’ll ever make – at least that’s one way of looking at it.

      The only thing you need to remember about this is not to force your child to do anything. I’m not suggesting that you should allow them to become a quitter, but if they give you good reasons why they don’t want to be involved in particular activities, give them room to continue with their exploration. Calculate your moves, always give your decisions a second thought, and you and your family should be just fine – more than that, actually.

      Featured photo credit: https://www.pexels.com/u/markusspiske/ via pexels.com

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      Ivan Dimitrijevic

      Ivan is the CEO and founder of a digital marketing company. He has years of experiences in team management, entrepreneurship and productivity.

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      Published on April 9, 2021

      50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

      50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

      Being a mom is not easy. Being a single mom is even more challenging. Having children means you are on the job 24/7. Even while you are sleeping, you are still ready to wake at the slightest peep because that is what moms do.

      Moms, especially single moms, need more people cheering them on. Your love and care matter to your kids. You are their superhero. I think single moms are superheroes, too.

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      The quotes below are words of encouragement for all of the single moms out there. Keep up the great work! Your hard work will pay off. Someday, they will be grown up and living on their own. Your job will never truly be done as a mom, but you can pat yourself on the back today and every day for doing mom duty day in and day out.

      Here are 50 single mom quotes to encourage all the single moms out there.

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      1. “Being raised by a single mother, I learned to appreciate and value independent women.”—Kenny Conley
      2. “As a single mum you’ll discover inner strengths and capabilities you never knew you had.”—Emma-Louise Smith
      3. “One thing I know for sure – this motherhood thing is not for sissies.”—Jennifer Nettles
      4. “Mothers and their children are in a category all their own. There’s no bond so strong in the entire world. No love so instantaneous and forgiving.”—Gail Tsukiyama
      5. “And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong, and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.”—Mark Anthony
      6. “She never quite leaves her children at home, even when she doesn’t take them along.”—Margaret Culkin Banning
      7. “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.”—Alice Walker
      8. “Everyone has inside of her a piece of good news. The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be, how much you can love, what you can accomplish, and what your potential is.”—Anne Frank
      9. “Doubt is a killer. You just have to know who you are and what you stand for.”—Jennifer Lopez
      10. “You are more powerful than you know; you are beautiful just as you are.”—Melissa Etheridge
      11. “Motherhood is the greatest thing and the hardest thing.”—Ricki Lake
      12. “You don’t take a class; you’re thrown into motherhood and learn from experience.”—Jennie Finch
      13. “If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.”—Oprah Winfrey
      14. “I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.”—Charlotte Brontë
      15. “Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.”—Nora Ephron
      16. “When a woman becomes her own best friend life is easier.”—Diane Von Furstenberg
      17. “If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.”—Margaret Thatcher
      18. “Women have discovered that they cannot rely on men’s chivalry to give them justice.”—Helen Keller
      19. “Successful mothers are not the ones that have never struggled. They are the ones that never give up, despite the struggles.”—Sharon Jaynes
      20. “Success, they taught me, is built on the foundation of courage, hard work, and individual responsibility. Despite what some would have us believe, success is not built on resentment and fears.”—Susana Martinez
      21. “You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”—Maya Angelou
      22. “The question isn’t who’s going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me.”—Ayn Rand
      23. “God could not be everywhere, and therefore he made mothers.”—Rudyard Kipling
      24. “The women whom I love and admire for their strength and grace did not get that way because stuff worked out. They got that way because stuff went wrong, and they handled it. They handled it in a thousand different ways on a thousand different days, but they handled it. Those women are my superheroes.”—Elizabeth Gilbert
      25. “There will be so many times you feel like you failed. But in the eyes, ears, and mind of your child, you are a SUPER MOM.”—Stephanie Precourt
      26. “Motherhood is the ultimate call to sacrifice.”—Wangechi Mutu
      27. “We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated.”—Maya Angelou
      28. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
      29. “There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.”—Jill Churchill
      30. “There’s no doubt that motherhood is the best thing in my life. It’s all that really matters.”—Courtney Cox
      31. “I realized when you look at your mother, you are looking at the purest love you will ever know.”—Mitch Albom
      32. “I have found being a mother has made me emotionally raw in many situations. Your heart is beating outside your body when you have a baby.”—Kate Beckinsale
      33. “Single moms, you are a doctor, a teacher, a nurse, a maid, a cook, a referee, a heroine, a provider, a defender, a protector, a true Superwoman. Wear your cape proudly.”—Mandy Hale
      34. “I’m not really single. I mean, I am, but I have a son. Being a single mother is different from being a single woman.”—Kate Hudson
      35. “Being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress, and twice the tears but also twice the hugs, twice the love, and twice the pride.”—Unknown
      36. “For me, motherhood is learning about the strengths I didn’t know I had, and dealing with the fears I didn’t know existed.”—Halle Berry
      37. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things… a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Denice Williams
      38. “You do the best you can. Some days you feel really good about yourself and some days you don’t.”—Katie Holmes
      39. “I would say to any single parent currently feeling the weight of stereotype or stigmatization that I am prouder of my years as a single mother than of any other part of my life.”JK Rowling
      40. “Just because I am a single mother doesn’t mean I cannot be a success.”—Yvonne Kaloki
      41. “I didn’t plan on being a single mom, but you have to deal with the cards you are dealt the best way you can.”—Tichina Arnold
      42. “Nothing you do for children is ever wasted.”—Garrison Keillor
      43. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things, a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Deniece Williams
      44. “Motherhood has a very humanizing effect. Everything gets reduced to essentials.”—Meryl Streep
      45. “Having kids—the responsibility of rearing good, kind, ethical, responsible human beings—is the biggest job anyone can embark on.”—Maria Shriver
      46. “Mother is a verb. It’s something you do. Not just who you are.”—Cheryl Lacey Donovan
      47. “A mother’s love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law, no pity, it dates all things and crushes down remorselessly all that stands in its path.”—Agatha Christie
      48. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
      49. “The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world.”—W.R. Wallace
      50. “Being a mother is the greatest blessing and the hardest challenge in all of life.”—Dr. Magdalena Battles

      Final Thoughts

      Single moms are remarkable women. They are to be respected and honored for all that they do. If you know a single mom, then share this article with them. Tell them “you are doing a great job as a single mom.” They need our encouragement and support.

      They may be parenting alone, but it is good to let them know that there are people in their life who care for them. We can all be there for the single moms out there. Even if it is just to say, “keep up the great work, you are an amazing woman!”

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      If you are a single mom, keep up the good work! You are amazing, and your kids are lucky to have you!

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