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6 False Beliefs You Must Let Go of to Make Money Efficiently

6 False Beliefs You Must Let Go of to Make Money Efficiently

I don’t really want to go much into the philosophical side of what it means to make money, but I feel that a quote by Tony Robbins really comes in handy here: “Where focus goes, energy flows.”

So what does this exactly mean in the context of our topic? Well, it is not a secret that any action that we have ever done (excluding reflexes and automated body functions), existed first in the form of a thought. Hence, our thoughts shape our life. Regardless of whether you are happy or depressed, it doesn’t matter. It isn’t the surroundings or events that make us feel that way, but our reactions towards these things. A car breaking down for one person may mean the end of the world, while another person may see it as a great opportunity to finally start using public transportation. It really is up to you how you react.

Now, coming back to the idea of making money, I must admit that I was raised with a number of limiting beliefs that I could not easily accept and let go of. In fact, most of the people I know have the same beliefs. It is just the way most of us were raised and something we never really questioned or thought of proving wrong – we simply went with the flow. But after spending some time trying to rationalize my thoughts, I finally came to the conclusion that there exists a number of beliefs that will always hold us back from making money no matter what. And the only way to battle this is by becoming fully aware of these beliefs.

1. Rich people are greedy

One of the most common misconceptions I hear about rich people is that they are greedy. They are rich, and they always want more! But how do we know this? From movies? Or from those clips that we once saw on the news? Obviously, there are corrupted people in the world that have attained their wealth in an unethical way, but what we don’t want to consider is that the world goes far beyond that. As a matter of fact, rich people are the ones to donate the biggest amounts of money to various charities, which is something that their offenders will never be able to afford.

Another thing that I have recently come to understand is that many rich people are wealthy because they dare to take action in life in a way that others can’t. Most rich people are driven by risk-taking and self-development. I think that instead of judging them, we should see them as an example of what it means to have an exciting and proactive life.

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2. I was not born in a rich family, so I can’t become rich

This is another very popular belief. Because one was not born in a wealthy family, they automatically think that they don’t have the opportunity to make a lot of money. The only way we can become rich is by winning a lottery, they say. Moreover, that becomes their excuse to avoid working hard and coming up with brilliant ideas. They point fingers at people driving a Lamborghini and say that their rich dad bought it for them.

Again, it doesn’t matter what the story is behind that young dude driving his sports car. The idea that I am trying to get across is that we should avoid irrational judgment. “Where focus goes, energy flows,” so don’t focus your mind on why it’s wrong to have a sports car, but rather on what you could do to be in a similar position, if that is what you want, of course.

Most of my life, I would look at people with nice cars and judge them, thinking that they probably never paid for that car. But with time, I learned to look at them and to admire the fact that they have the opportunity to drive the car of my dreams. I motivate myself by thinking that if that person found a way to make enough money to buy that car, then I can find a way as well. I am sure it is possible. I convince myself that it is.

3. Money will not make you happy

This one is my all-time favorite. The funny thing is, I hear this phrase more from people that are broke. Moreover, they constantly talk about all the great things that they would do if they had the money or the things they want to do in order to make that money. When they forget about what they said before, they repeat once again that money does not make anyone happy.

I don’t want to be hypocritical about this, but I also think that money does not equal happiness. However, even though I am not excited about being able to buy things for myself, I really love being able to give to other people. And guess how much it hurt me when I was not able to buy a simple gift on a birthday to my parents simply because I had no money? So, while I don’t think that money can make you happy, I think it can impact your happiness indirectly.

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By being able to help others with money, you can give them so much! Unfortunately, everything in this world costs money. And the more quality you want, the more you will need in order to pay for it. Therefore, I am aware that I must make a lot of money to be able to help as many people as possible in ways that they could really benefit from. I also feel that I could give back to my family that has put so much time and effort into raising me. I will never be able to give back all of it, but I would be extremely happy to be able to offer them the comfort that they need. Money will not make you happy, but if you know how to use it, you can make so many people around you feel so much better, be it by buying them food, shelter, expensive treatments and medicine, or just plain gifts.

4. Money will destroy your soul

I am a vegetarian and I am very big on yoga and meditation. Throughout my whole life, I was convinced that spirituality and money do not go hand in hand. It was clear to me that I must choose between the two. Thinking about the way I used to rationalize then makes me want to scream out loud now.

This belief is so powerful that it completely destroys any opportunity of making any amount of money exceeding your monthly salary. I know this is closely related to the belief regarding greed, but, nevertheless, I want to look at it separately because there is much more to it than just greed.

I used to hear stories about how people would make money, and then they would make more and more money, and would not be able to think about anything else other than money. I also heard people tell me that you don’t need to make a lot – just a bit. Well, I agree that you can be poor on the outside but rich on the inside, as well as be rich on the outside, but poor on the inside. Like I already mentioned, it is all about the mindset. You can earn millions, but still have that scarcity mindset where your fear of losing all that wealth takes over and rules your life.

On the other hand, why would money kill spirituality? Can you not meditate, do yoga, be generous, kind and loving with a lot of money? Since you have a lot more money to spend on comfort, you can probably be more loving, kind, and generous with money, than without it. You have less basic things to worry about.

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I have observed that people that do make a lot are simply more capable of making more money. By having the action-taking mindset that they do and by having more money to invest, they can afford to take more risks, and therefore make even more money. And it isn’t always about living in the scarcity mindset, but about simply rich people loving what they do and their business lifestyle. Think about it, would a lazy person be making a lot in the first place? Of course not! Only people that are passionate and ambitious find ways to create that wealth, and they will continue being passionate and ambitious even after they have become rich. It isn’t always about the wealth, it’s the attitude.

5. Make money to make the world a better place

When my friends talk about making money, they make it sound so dull, so black and white. It’s always about making big bucks and buying cars and houses. I used to also think this way, but after shifting my beliefs, I gained a whole new understanding of what making money really means.

If you think of wealth only in terms of houses and cars, you should definitely reconsider your beliefs. This is exactly why you see rich people being depressed and people like me writing about the topic. Bad examples are always a lot more noticeable than the good ones.

To be able to view richness as something worth striving for, you must create interesting, intriguing, and virtuous goals. If you see money as a way to make only yourself wealthy, it will never be a big enough motivation to actually make it happen. However, if you set real and meaningful goals, you will have a totally different attitude towards money.

Isn’t being able to build hospitals and schools for people all over the world worth living for? Isn’t being able to offer water to dry areas of earth virtuous? What about helping homeless people and animals, investing in research against deadly viruses, or helping invent new technology for the benefit of all humankind? Aren’t all those things worth getting rich for? You can do so many great things with money, and it all comes down to your imagination.

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6. Becoming rich is difficult

I don’t think it is easy either. But I do not think working your whole life eight hours a day at a job you hate is any easier. On the other hand, being able to earn a lot of money for something you love doing, and then being able to help the rest of the world, seems like a good cause for hard work.

Also, if your motivation is more than just making a lot of money, you will be able to work all day long without having the feeling that you are at work. As I already mentioned, it is all about the mindset.

Conclusion

I have many times heard that money is energy, but I was not sure about what that meant. Now I understand that making money is not only about earning the actual money, but more about the way you look at things. If you are totally confident about why you want to become rich, if you have learned to see wealth as something beneficial to the whole world, as opposed to something “wrong”, then you allow your focus to go towards that reality where money and richness are a part of your life. But if you keep judging others and finding excuses why money is evil, there is no way you will ever earn more than what you get paid at your normal job.

Get rid of limiting beliefs and don’t let anything stop you from achieving your goals!

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Last Updated on July 4, 2019

25 Killer Sites For Free Online Education

25 Killer Sites For Free Online Education

Whether you’re five or ninety five, the internet has a lot to offer. Particularly when the topic is education, the resources on the internet are endless.

Best of all, many high quality sites are completely free. From history to coding, excellent free online education awaits on the following 25 sites.

1. Coursera

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    Coursera is a website that partners with universities and organizations around the world. This brings a wide variety of topics and perspectives to one searchable database.

    Coursera is a powerful tool for free online education, and includes courses from many top universities, museums and trusts. This gives the site an extremely wide range of in-depth courses.

    Coursera is extremely useful if you’re looking to study many different topics, or want courses from different schools and groups.

    2. Khan Academy

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      Partnering with many post secondary schools, Khan Academy offers a useable, well organized interface. Also curating many courses from around the web, Khan Academy offers impressive depth on many different subjects.

      Among the more well known educational sites, Khan Academy is also incredibly useable, which may make it easier to keep learning goals.

      3. Open Culture Online Courses

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        If you are struggling to find exactly the material you are looking for, try Open Culture’s listing of free online education courses. The page highlights 1000 lectures, videos and podcasts from universities around the world. The site features a lot of material found only on universities private sites, all in easy to browse categories. This means you can find hundreds of university courses, without having to visit and search each university’s own site.

        Open Culture’s list features courses from England, Australia, Wales and many state universities around the United States. A very helpful resource for finding many courses in one area of study.

        4. Udemy 

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          Udemy’s free courses are similar in concept to Coursera’s but additionally allows users to build custom courses from lessons.

          Working with many top professors and schools, the site mixes the customizable platform of other sites with a heavy emphasis on top quality content. This is another site however, that mixes free and paid content.

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          5. Academic Earth

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            Another site with courses from many different schools is Academic Earth. Much like the three sites above, Academic Earth brings together top notch courses from many different sources, and focuses on offering a wide variety of subjects.

            Academic Earth lists courses by subject and school, so it might be easier to find what you’re looking for.

            6. edX

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              Another great option for free online education is edX. Also bringing together courses from many different schools, the site has impressive, quality information for everyone. edX covers a great range of topics.

              7. Alison

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                Unlike the previous sites on this lists, Alison is a free education site offering certification in some areas. Alison offers courses mainly in business, technology, and health, but also includes language learning courses.

                It’s a great option if users need certification for their learning as Alison also offers school curriculum courses.

                8. iTunesU Free Courses

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                  A very convenient place for free online education is iTunesU, because it integrates seamlessly with your iPod, or any app-ready Apple mobile device. On iPad, iPhone, or iPod touch, users download the iTunesU app.

                  Desktop users can access  iTunesU on the upper right hand corner of the iTunes Store. iTunesU is also convenient because the store is categorized much like iTunes.

                  Users can search learning materials in many different ways, including genre and topic. However, courses are often a mix of free podcasts or videos, and paid content.

                  ITunesU does include courses on a pretty wide scope of topics, but does not integrate with Android, Google or Windows mobile devices.

                  9. Stanford Online

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                    Your hub for all the online offerings from Stanford University, Stanford Online offers self-paced and session based courses. While Coursera features some courses from Stanford, many classes are only available via other hosts. Some courses require iTunes, but most are completed in your web browser.

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                    Stanford Online is a great site for high quality courses, though the topics are somewhat limited compared to sites partnered with more than one school.

                    10. Harvard Extension

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                      Like Stanford Online, Harvard Extension features free online education courses from Harvard only. This is another excellent source for top notch course material, though the course variety is less rich than multi-school sites.

                      Additionally, Harvard Extension allows you to search for courses by professional certificate. This makes it much easier if your online education goal includes certification.

                      11. Open Yale Courses

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                        Open Yale Courses echoes Harvard Extension and Stanford Online, in that it offers only courses from Yale. While the site is similarly limited to topics taught at the school, Open Yale Courses offers a lot of videos of actual campus lectures. The availability of videos makes the site a great option if you’re looking for quality courses, but learn better by watching than by reading.

                        12. UC Berkeley Class Central

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                          Much like the other schools on this list, UC Berkeley has a variety of free online education options. The school has slightly fewer courses than the schools above, but includes some supplementary lectures, webcasts and RSS Feeds, making it easy to keep up with the topics you choose.

                          13. MIT OpenCourseWare

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                            Similarly, MIT offers a variety of free courses. The school has a comparable number of courses to the schools above, plus includes very in-depth course materials on the subjects available. MIT also offers free RSS feeds, a convenient way to continue learning.

                            14. Carnegie Mellon Open Learning Initiative

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                              Carnegie Mellon’s free online education site is comparable with the other school’s on this list, however, Open Learning Initiative also covers a smaller range of topics. But for the topics that are covered impressive, in-depth material is available.

                              15. Codecademy

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                                Codecademy is a website dedicated specifically to teaching coding. Where other coding sites follow an example/practice session workflow, Codecademy includes a live practice window. This means you can practice coding while still viewing the lesson material.

                                The courses at Codecademy are well written and easy to follow and the website is organized very nicely. Codecademy features a centralized dashboard where you can monitor your progress, plus organizes lessons into complete modules. This lets you learn an entire language without needing to pick the next course manually.

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                                16. Code

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                                  Code is another website focused on coding and app writing. A site with high quality courses, Code also features learning options for kids.

                                  In addition to kid friendly courses, Code offers free online education classes on a wide variety of technology topics. These classes include app writing, robotics and Javascript.

                                  Most of the courses are also geared in a such a way that they can be useful in a classroom setting. This makes Code a great resource for harder to find coding topics, as well as various learning settings.

                                  17. University of London Podcasts

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                                    The podcast page on the University of London website is another great source for free education. While the courses are limited to podcasts, the site features podcasts from it’s own campus, as well as eleven universities in and around London. This gives learners a wide base of topics and lectures, but still ensures in-depth material.

                                    18. University of Oxford Podcasts

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                                      Similar to the University of London, the University of Oxford features many different podcasts. Most are public lecture series or lectures from visiting professors, with several different recordings available.

                                      The advantage to this particular site is that podcasts are organized into series, making it easy to subscribe to multiple lectures on one topic. Another good site for thoroughly in-depth lectures.

                                      19. BBC Podcasts

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                                        For the more casual learner, the BBC offers a wide variety of podcasts on many different topics. Most podcasts are updated weekly, and focus on everything from finance, to sports, to current events.

                                        Through the World Service line of podcasts, there are also many in different languages. The focus of these podcasts are less in-depth and theory based, which may be more accessible to the average person.

                                        20. TED-Ed

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                                          Another great destination for more general learning is TED-Ed. From the same people that brought you the all encompassing, motivational web series, comes a site chocked full of educational videos. Most include impressive animation, and all are ten minutes long or less.

                                          Not only is TED-Ed an excellent site for the curious, it also includes supplemental materials and quizzes on the videos. This makes the site extremely useful in formal education settings, as well as in entertaining ways to brush up on new discoveries and topics.

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                                          21. LessonPaths

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                                            LessonPaths is another great tool for those looking for a more usable and convenient way to access learning material. On this site, users create link playlists of their favorite learning materials from other sites. Users then rank these collections, making it easy to find many different high quality, accessible sources on a given topic.

                                            22. Memrise

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                                              Another impressive free online education site offering ease of use and convenience is Memrise. Available both on desktop and as an app, Memrise is a particularly powerful tool if you are studying a language. The site encompasses many other topics as well, though some of the course material is user generated content.

                                              Part of what makes Memrise special is their integration of games into the learning materials, mixing learning with entertainment.

                                              23. National Geographic Kids

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                                                The kids site for National Geographic is another site that makes free online education applicable for younger users. For those looking for kid friendly education, a large variety of games, puzzles, videos and photos keeps kids interested on this site.

                                                National Geographic Kids doesn’t organize learning into courses, making materials available by topic and medium instead. This makes National Geographic Kids a good option for those looking for a more casual learning environment.

                                                24. Fun Brain

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                                                  Fun Brain is another good option for kids who want to learn online, but focuses on games and fun puzzles. Particularly focused on math and reading, Fun Brain’s game based approach can be valuable if the child in question struggles to pay attention.

                                                  Fun Brain offers rewards and challenges as well, and is another site aimed at a casual learning experience for kids K-8.

                                                  25. Whyville

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                                                    Similar to the sites for kids free online education is Whyville a destination for preteen online learning. The site includes a variety of social features, with a focus on learning materials geared for young teens.

                                                    Whyville also mixes in educational games, to make the site a well rounded option for kids too old for simple games, but too young for heavy reading based material.

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