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5 Tips to Make a Late Career Change

5 Tips to Make a Late Career Change

A late career change isn’t uncommon, but that doesn’t make it any easier to embrace the next chapter. Switching up your role, workplace or industry as an established professional brings with it a unique set of challenges to overcome.

Before taking a leap of faith, it’s crucial to consider your quality of life and the financial impact. Chances are if you’re looking to transition to a completely different industry, an entry level position and reduced salary are waiting for you.

So, feeling a little restless? Read on to find out the five key points to keep in mind for an easy change.

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1. What’s Really Wrong?

Most professionals don’t wake up one day and decide, completely out of the blue, that it’s time for a total career change. The signs are always there, but can be hard to recognise and voice early on. So, how can you tell the difference between a bad week and a bad job? The first step is to understand whether your stress stems from a personal or professional problem.

Take a step back, write down the source of your anxiety each day and at the end of the week, review your notes. Often, there is a clear pattern emerging which will give you a great roadmap for what needs to change and how to go about it. In order to find the right solution, you need to identify the problem.

2. Is a Gradual Change Better?

Change doesn’t always need to be all or nothing. Starting with a smaller shake up can actually leave you better in the long run. Reinventing your career is a radical approach that requires a firm time commitment and investment. For some mature professionals, it works. But for most? It’s more realistic to work towards a new job at a pace that reflects your living situation and needs.

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If you’d rather take the plunge, be prepared to give up some of the things you’re used to. Learning a fresh set of skills for a different industry often means you’ll re-enter the workforce at an entry level position. Job hopping can boost your career if you do it right, it is all about compromise and balance.

If your income is intrinsic to your daily life, then consider applying to a different role at your current workplace. This gives you a stepping stone to launch the next phase of your career and can minimise the negative disruption to your personal life.

3. Get Educated for the Next Step.

Set on that new career pathway? Give yourself the best chance to thrive in your new role. Adult learning isn’t exactly groundbreaking, yet remains so intimidating to many established professionals. There’s no doubt about it; testing your knowledge in an unfamiliar environment can be stressful. But it’s important to recognise that the education sector is diverse; filled with people of all ages, backgrounds and various levels of experience.

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Look into an opportunity that fits around your life. This could see you enrol in an internal media workshop, learn project management online, or join a social group to gain insight from those already in the industry. Refresh your knowledge with current trends and practices to not only bring your skill set up to scratch but your networking as well. Meeting new people will give you the confidence to take on a different position.

4. Network with the People in Your Sector.

A fall in job satisfaction can often be attributed to your workplace, rather than your profession. If you’re thinking about moving across to a different company, facilitate this by talking to other professionals and get a feel for where the best opportunities lie.

Building your understanding of the workplace culture for compatible businesses will help to offer direction when it comes to narrowing your choice. During the recruitment process, promises and claims are often made. Present employees are more likely to offer you a realistic expectation of the working environment and structure. By utilising your professional network, you could also come across those prized closed-door opportunities that aren’t advertised to the public.

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5. Believe That it Can Really Happen.

Get rid of the misconception that career changes should be few and long apart from each other or that we can only have one singular dream job. The mounting pressure on professionals to select just one profession for the rest of their life is misplaced and can only serve to limit your career growth.

Remember, you’re free to change your mind as often as you like. Career shake-ups happen at every stage of life, for a multitude of reasons. If you move to a different business and aren’t enjoying your time there, don’t give up. Learn from the experience and try again! That elusive dream job can take on many different forms and titles, and in the process, you might find something great.

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5 Exercises To Improve Intimacy and Create a Better Relationship

5 Exercises To Improve Intimacy and Create a Better Relationship

Making love can be simultaneously the most pleasurable and the most stressful experience that we share with another human being. It is a natural conclusion of the ritual of intimacy we engage in with a person we find attractive on both a physical and psychological level. Yet, we are far removed from our animalistic roots, and that which was once a matter of instinct has become somewhat complex. This is a good thing; we have grown as a society, and there are many factors involved when it comes to the relationship between sexual partners. However, we have also lost a great deal of the physical prowess our primitive ancestors had.

They engaged in a huge amount of physical activities daily — activities that ensured their cardiovascular system and muscles were in great shape, which allowed them to have healthy libidos, strong erections, and the muscular strength, limberness and endurance to maintain different positions for a long time without getting exhausted. Luckily, we can regain some of these animalistic traits with the right kind of training. Here are some essential exercises that will help improve your relationship, but making you more confident in intimate settings, which means that you’ll have more satisfying intercourse.

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    1. Cardio for Stamina

    If you’re out of shape, the first thing you’ll notice during intercourse is that you start to breathe heavily, sweat profusely and tire easily. This means you’ll have to shift your posture frequently and limit yourself to a few positions you feel comfortable with or significantly slow down the pace. A high BMI has also been linked to potential problems with erectile dysfunction. Cardiovascular exercises like running, jumping rope, swimming and cycling will build up your aerobic stamina and enable you to perform longer before becoming fatigued, thus having better intercourse. They’ll also help manage your weight, possibly helping performance.

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      • Running – 10-20 minutes a day (1-3 miles a day is more than enough)
      • Jumping rope – 5-20 minutes a day
      • Swimming – 30 minutes a day
      • Cycling – 30 minutes a day

      The time in minutes denotes time spent actively performing the exercise, and you need to factor in a bit more time for warming up before and cooling down after the exercises.

      These exercises can be performed every day or every other day, and the goal is to work on both endurance and speed. Don’t just go at a snail’s pace; constantly try to improve your time or add some mileage.

      2. Strength-Training for Your Lower Body and Core

      The next thing you’ll need to focus on is improving both the strength and muscular endurance of the hip flexors, abdominals and spinal erectors. These are the muscles engaged in thrusting and circular motions, and they also stabilize your body in a number of different positions. The legs also play an important role, particularly in standing and kneeling positions. Here are a few exercises that will help you strengthen up this area:

      Barbell squats
        • Heavy barbell squats – set up at a power rack at the gym and make sure you use proper form and weights that you can lift 3-8 times. Do this exercise before anything else in the gym for 4-5 sets to get big and powerful legs, as well as tighten up the muscles of the core. This is useful for both men and women, particularly if you enjoy the woman-on-top positions and standing positions. You can do hack squats on the machine if your gym lacks a power rack, but you won’t get the core-strengthening benefits

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        Zercher squat
          • Zercher squatsthis type of squat is a perfect way for guys to strengthen their body for standing positions where the woman is lifted off the ground. Build up a foundation of strength first, and then use lighter weights and go for 10-12 repetitions to focus on muscle endurance.

          Glute bridge
            • Glute bridgethis exercise is great for working the glutes and hip thrusters, and should be done for ultra-high reps —up to 100 — to increase muscle endurance. Once you become stronger in this movement, you can upgrade to the barbell glute bridge and keep the reps high — around 10 to 15.

            Hyperextensions
              • Hyperextensions – excellent for strengthening the spinal erectors, this exercise (or a variation of it) may be done in most gyms and even at home. Do 2 to 3 sets of 10 to 12 repetitions at the end of your workout.

              Ab wheel rollout
                • Ab wheel rollout – this is a great exercise for strengthening the abs, and requires only a piece of inexpensive equipment. It will help you stay stable and hold positions longer without getting tired during intercourse. Do three sets of this workout for as many repetitions as you can.

                Cross body crunch
                  • Cross body crunchthis exercise improves your ability to perform explosive twisting motions, particularly good for improving your stamina in the spoon position where you’e lying on your side. Do 2 to 3 sets of this exercise at the end of your workout.

                  Incorporate these exercises into your routine 2 to 3 times a week.

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                  3. Upper-Body Strength Training

                  Upper-body strength plays an important role in many popular sex positions where the arms are used to provide a stable base or hold onto the partner. These including missionary, doggy style, the stand and carry (with the woman holding onto the man’s neck) and others. Use these simple exercises to improve upper body strength and endurance:

                  Plank exercise
                    • Plank – while bench pressing is great for building a big chest, you will find yourself in need of static strength, muscle endurance and a strong core. This exercise is a great way to increase the amount of time you are able to hold positions that require you to support yourself with your arms. For added difficulty, straighten out your arms like at the top of a pushup and hold as long as you can.

                    Close grip pushups
                      • Close pushups – a pushup variation that focuses on triceps, which are the first to give out during a prolonged missionary or similar position. Go for very high reps, 20 t0 50, to work on muscle endurance.

                      Chin ups
                        • Chin-ups – A great upper back and biceps builder, this exercise will also target the core if you try to be as straight as possible when lifting yourself up. You can jump to help make things easier, or just hold as long as you can if you aren’t strong enough to perform a single chin up. Do 3 to 4 sets for as many reps as you can.

                        These exercises, done about three times a week, will help you develop a strong upper body that can keep going and hold you up for extended periods of time.

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                        4. Pelvic-Floor Exercises

                        You don’t have to perform these at the gym, although you could do them after your workout without anyone even noticing. The idea behind Kegel exercises is to improve blood flow to the sex organs and strengthen the muscles of the pelvic floor in both men and women. By locating these muscles and tightening and relaxing them for intervals of 5 seconds for 10 to 15 repetitions at a time, several times a day, you can improve pleasure and performance during sex. Women can tighten their vaginal walls for increased pleasure to both them and their partner, while men can delay ejaculation by tightening these muscles.

                        5. Flexibility Moves for Legs and Hips

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                          If you want to avoid getting cramps — or even worse, pulling a muscle during intercourse — you should do a few simple stretches every day. The more limber you are, the more comfortable you’ll be with more exotic poses. Here are a few simple stretches to improve hip and leg flexibility:

                          Take a few minutes to warm up with some light running or jumping jacks before stretching, and spend some 10 minutes on these stretches. You can do them in the morning and at night, or shortly before intercourse.

                          With just a few hours a week devoted to exercise, you can improve your relationship significantly. If you focus on these exercises, over time, you just might become dynamite in bed.

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