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8 Precious Things People Raised By Strong Mothers Can Learn

8 Precious Things People Raised By Strong Mothers Can Learn

As a teenager I struggled to appreciate my mom fully, but my feelings changed as I grew older and became more independent and responsible. I became more aware of everything that my mom had done for me and my sister, and I started to properly appreciate her as a person. I realized that I have a strong mother, who tirelessly fought for us and loved us unconditionally. A strong mother will teach her children important life skills, and she will make sure that her children always feel safe and happy.

Now I know that I learned my most important life lessons from my mom. Here are 8 things all people raised by strong mothers learn during their childhood.

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1. You Learn The Meaning Of Unconditional Love

A strong mother teaches her children the meaning of unconditional love. You saw your mother sacrifice her time, money, health and youth to look after you and you siblings, but she has never resented that – instead, she is proud to give everything she can to you. This taught you how to love someone selflessly and unconditionally.

2. You Learn To Be Responsible

Responsibility may seem boring when we are young, but as we grow older it is an important tool of self-reliance. Strong moms teach their children how to clean up after themselves, and how to do the right thing. They teach their children to say sorry for the things they feel bad about, and they teach their children to be responsible with money.

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3. You Learn About Loving Others

When you are raised by a loving, strong mother, you quickly learn how to treat other people. She taught you to treat other people with respect and love, and she taught you not to judge other people. This made you a more understanding and tolerant person, and as an adult you express love in a healthy, happy way.

4. You Learn About Inner Strength

One of the most important things a strong mom teaches their child about is inner strength. Your mom taught you to be optimistic even on the hardest day. She taught you to have faith in yourself, and she taught you that you can achieve anything you put your mind to.

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5. You Learn To Love Yourself

Your strong mother taught you to love yourself, just like she loves herself. You knew that she wouldn’t put up with something that wasn’t meant for her, so you won’t put up with someone that isn’t meant for you. You learned to love your personality, and you learned that you aren’t defined by results, grades, money or failures.

6. You Learn That You Are Beautiful

In our society, beauty and appearance are very important, and people are always trying to make themselves more beautiful. Your mom taught you that you are perfect just the way you are, and that nothing needs to change. She taught you to be proud of the features that you like, and she taught you to accept your flaws without wanting to change them. You know that, to her, you are the most beautiful person in the world.

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7. You Learn To Be Honest

Your mom taught you to always be honest, even when it is difficult. You know that if you say something, you mean it, and you think that honesty is an important trait in others. You would never lie to other people, as you worry that they would struggle to trust you again. You know that trust is built with honesty, and it is easily broken with lies.

8. You Learn How To Be A Strong Mother

Your mother taught you how to be strong mother, too. She taught you how to take care of a family, and she taught you the value of hard work and honesty. You will pass these lessons down to your own children, because you know how important they are.

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Amy is a writer who blogs about relationships and lifestyle advice.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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