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Five Ways To Stay Positive

Five Ways To Stay Positive

Staying positive during this era of information can seem impossible with all of the hatred and negativity that is being taught to the masses. Having a perception that gives off good vibes and vibrant energy, can be the defining moment that changes your life irrevocably. Accentuating all of the positive elements in your life is easy, once you know what to look for. These tips are meant to alter your perception into finding an equilibrium that aids your productivity. Having negative thoughts determines your future. Why not turn the frown upside down and make a serious change today?

1. Tell Yourself How Precious Life Is

Whatever your circumstances may be, there’s always something to be thankful for. Even during your worst days there’s something positive that happens during that particular day. And diverting your focus to that one variable can cause you to remain positive under duress. Life isn’t really without problems. Finding solutions are part of the test and must be respected. Remind yourself how wonderful it is to be alive, and see the beauty that surrounds you.

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Telling yourself that great things will happen after an unfortunate situation has occurred is a sign of leadership. You are in the driver’s seat of your own life and get to choose the destination. Don’t let a temporary moment ruin your overall wellness.

2. Alleviate Stress Factors

Finding things you love to do can take your mind off of what is stressful. Everybody needs to experience stress from time to time, but don’t let it bring you down. If you are consciously aware of what makes you happy, put some time aside and focus on that particular activity, to take your mind off of what’s bothering you.

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This will give you a sense of clarity and rejuvenate the soul. Recharging the spirit is important, by taking time out for doing something that relaxes you. Stress can cause numerous health problems. Changing your mentality can either ameliorate or exacerbate the situation.

3. Love Yourself

Living how you move, what you do, how you talk, and how you look is a direct link to spreading positive energy into the world. This is easier said than done, but if you don’t like something about yourself then try your best to change it. Listen openly to criticism from genuine people, take their advice, and use it as a tool to improve yourself.

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Be mindful of every action you make, because one wrong move can breakdown a solidified core of stability. Becoming a ball of bright, shimmering energy is all about loving efficiency and effectiveness, which starts from digging deep within yourself. Let the world come to you, and never put on a show for the world.

4. Seek The Truth

Everybody will have an opinion about who you are and what you do. Tuning those opinions out are very important. They won’t change who you are, and nine times out of ten–a persons perception of who you are is fabricated. Nobody is liked by everyone, and let’s face it: life would be excruciatingly dull and boring if you were. Be honest and value integrity. Don’t believe everything you hear, and when doing research make sure it’s done in different stages.

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Finding the truth through these thick layers of deception isn’t easy. But with the right motivation to do so, you will be on the correct path. Everyone is ignorant to something, but don’t be proud of your ignorance. Strive to learn more about the world, and you discover more about yourself.

5. Eliminate Routines

Good habits are things you do everyday, but change up the order from time to time. Scheduling your day mechanically can be a nuisance. Switch up the pace from time to time. This will open up the flood gates to free thinking. Analyzing events and reflecting on new scenarios is a great way to combat the mediocrity of a routine. Embrace change and enjoy the beautiful nature, which is the essence of life.

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Last Updated on March 31, 2020

How To Break the Procrastination Cycle

How To Break the Procrastination Cycle

How often do you find yourself procrastinating? Do you wish you could procrastinate less? We all know how debilitating procrastination can make us feel, and it seems to be a challenge we all share. Procrastination is one of the biggest hindrances to moving forward and doing the things that we want to in life.

There are many reasons why you might be procrastinating, and sometimes, it is really difficult to pinpoint why. You might be procrastinating because of something related to the past, present, or future (they are all intertwined), or it could be as simple as biological factors. Whatever the reason, most of us follow a cycle when we procrastinate, from the moment we decide to do something to actually getting it done, or in this case, not getting it done.

The Vicious Procrastination Cycle

For some reason, it helps to understand that we all go through the same thing, even though we often feel like the only person in the world who struggles with this. Do you resonate with the cycle below?

1. Feeling Eager and Energized

This is when you commit to taking a new action or getting something done. You are feeling confident and optimistic that, this time round, you will do it!

2. Apprehension Starts to Come Up

The beginning stages of optimism are starting to fade. There is still time, but you haven’t done anything yet, and you start to feel uneasy. You realize that you actually have to do something to get it done, and that good intentions are not enough.

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3. Still No Action

More time has passed. You still haven’t taken any action and probably have a lot of excuses why. You start to panic a little and wish you had started sooner. Your panic starts to turn into frustration and perhaps even irritability.

4. Flicker of Hope Left

You can still make it; there is a little time left and you ponder how you are going to get it done. The rush you get from leaving your task until the last minute gives you a flicker of hope. There is still time; you can do this!

5. Fading Quickly

Your hope starts to quickly fade as you try desperately to understand why you just can’t do this. You may feel desperate and have thoughts like, “What is wrong with me?” and “Why do I ALWAYS do this?” You feel discouraged, or perhaps angry and resentful at yourself.

6. Vow to Yourself

Once the feeling of anger or disappointment disappears, you most likely swear to yourself that this will never happen again; that this was the last time and next time will be different.

Does this sound like you? Is the next time different? I understand the devastating effect that procrastination has on many lives, and for some, it is a really serious problem. You also have, on the other hand, those who procrastinate but it doesn’t affect them in any way. You know whether it is affecting you or not and whether it undermines your results.

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How to Break the Procrastination Cycle

Unless you break the cycle, you will keep reinforcing it!

To break the cycle, you need to change the sequence of events. Here is my suggestion on how you can effectively break the vicious cycle you are in!

1. Feeling Eager and Energized

This is when you commit to taking a new action or getting something done. You are feeling confident and optimistic that, this time round, you will do it! The first stage is always the same.

2. Plan

Thinking alone will not help; you need to plan your actions. I always put my deadlines one or two days in advance because you know Murphy’s Law! Take into consideration everything that you need to do, how long it will take you, and what you will need to get it done, then plan the individual steps.

3. Resistance

Just because you planned doesn’t mean that this time is guaranteed to be different. You will most likely still feel the resistance so expect this. This stage is key to identifying why you are procrastinating, so when you feel the resistance, try to identify it immediately.

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What is causing you to hesitate in this moment? What do you feel?  Write them down if it helps.

4. Confront Those Feelings

Once you have identified what could possibly be holding you back, for example, fear of failure, lack of motivation, etc. You need to work on lessening the resistance.

Ask yourself, “What do I need to do to move forward? What would make it easier?” If you find that you fear something, overcoming that fear is not something that will happen overnight — keep this in mind.

5. Put Results Before Comfort

You need to keep moving forward and put results before comfort. Take action, even if it is only for 10 minutes. The key is to break the cycle and not reinforce it. You have more control that you think.

6. Repeat

Repeat steps 3-5 until you achieve what you first set out to do.

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Final Thoughts

Change doesn’t happen overnight, and if you have some deeper underlying reasons why you procrastinate, it may take longer to finally break the cycle.

If procrastination is holding you back in life, it is better to deal with it now than to deal with the negative consequences later on. It is not a question of comfort anymore; it is a question of results. What is more important to you?

Learn more about how to stop procrastinating here: What Is Procrastination and How to Stop It (The Complete Guide)

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