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The Only Thing You Need To Do Right Now In Order To Realize Your Dreams

The Only Thing You Need To Do Right Now In Order To Realize Your Dreams

Have you ever dreamed a dream so big that simply saying it out loud made you blush or sent chills down your spine? Have you been dreaming of something you can’t stop thinking about? Have you stalled in making any actionable steps towards your dream because you just think you can’t do it? Do you have self-limiting beliefs that are holding you back from achieving your dreams?

Limiting beliefs and negative self-talk result in stagnation. You end up with limited results and simply don’t go after your dreams. We often compare ourselves to others, thinking that the “chase your dream” train has passed us by and will not be making a stop at our doorstep anytime soon. Here’s a secret:

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The only thing you need to do right now in order to realize your dreams is to take action.

Most people don’t take the action required to chase after their dreams. A myriad of excuses are made: I’m too busy, I don’t have enough money, I’m not good enough, I don’t have enough experience, I have failed so many times in the past, people will think I’m a fool, and so on. These beliefs are dangerous and do not serve you.

Most people beat themselves up before they even make one step towards their dream. The first action you must take is to believe in yourself. Why? It’s simple: because you deserve it.

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Why should we take action towards realizing our dreams?

There are many reasons. Sometimes, you don’t even need to utter them out loud because you already know the answer. It’s time to start. The time to start working on your dreams is now. But often, we may feel the need to justify our cause for pursuing our dreams. Here are some reasons why you should take immediate action on your dreams today:

  1. You have always wanted to pursue your dream.
  2. You may experience things you have never experienced before.
  3. You could help provide inspiration to those in your life.
  4. You will uncover the incredible things you’re capable of.
  5. You most likely will smile more.
  6. Every day you will learn new things.

Regardless of whether you are crystal clear on your dreams, there is one thing you can start doing today, and that is to believe in yourself.

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In order to take steps towards your dreams, you must believe in yourself. Eliminate your self-limiting beliefs — they do not serve you. Forget what negative things people may say about you if you chase your dreams — they will not be along for the ride. It is only once you believe in yourself that you can begin to take the necessary steps to achieve your goals, measure your results, and learn from mistakes you make along the way.

How do we get the correct feedback when we are pursuing our dreams?

While pursuing your dream, you may wonder if you are doing the right thing. You may be seeking feedback while you pursue your dreams. Community is essential. While pursuing your dreams, you will need positive, engaged, and intelligent people to surround yourself with. You will rely on these people to provide feedback and the occasional cheerleading session to help you grow.

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If you don’t have a community that can provide you with honest feedback, start building one. There are many networking resources available for every imaginable dream out there. Be willing to receive constructive feedback from people who are on similar paths.

Conclusion

The only person that can give up on your dream is you. Once you take the first action in going after your dreams, keep going and refuse to give up. Rid yourself of limiting beliefs, leave the nay-sayers at the curb, and surround yourself with people who will give you honest and uplifting feedback on your pursuits.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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