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Do These Eight Things Now To Be A Lady Of Leisure In Five Years

Do These Eight Things Now To Be A Lady Of Leisure In Five Years

If you’re tired of working your butt off and can’t see a foreseeable end to your hectic lifestyle, it’s time to plan ahead. Who doesn’t want to be a lady of leisure? Lounging around in your comfy clothes all day while reading a book or maybe even hanging out in a hammock all day listening to ocean waves. If this sounds like your kind of lifestyle, here are some fun steps to get you there.

1. Get a second income.

While it may not be your favorite idea to add more responsibility to your life, getting a second income can be really relaxing. Your second income should be something you really like to do. If you can find a way to make money from the hobby or skill you adore, you’ll have ample energy to do it. For example, if you’re really good at making lavender pillows, then make a bunch. Sell them on Etsy or get a booth at a farmer’s market on weekends. You’ll spend less and make a bit of extra income that won’t be taxed.

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2. Buy stuff and sell it.

This is similar to the first point but if you’re more of an analytical person than a creative one, you might like to buy for cheap and sell for more. This can be easily done on platforms like eBay. To get familiar with how things work on eBay like price points to start with and when people buy what, sell some of the things around the house you’re not using anymore. When you’ve got it figured out, you can start to buy things on eBay for a cheap price. For example, buy up snowboard jackets in the spring and hold onto them until the winter.

3. Be mindful of your expenses.

It takes dedication to become a lady of leisure so you’ll want to reduce your spending in order to put money away. It doesn’t have to be boring, if you’re creative you can still spoil yourself. Instead of spending a day at the spa, make your own natural products at home. Instead of going out for pricey dinner with your friends, invite them over for gourmet dinners at your place. If you love fancy coffees, invest in an espresso machine and make them yourself.

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4. Develop your own business slowly.

The goal here is to create something that will give you recurring monthly income later on. For example, you can start your own blog, get lots of followers, and use Google AdWords to make money. You can also create your own ebook and sell that too (on your super popular blog). Brand yourself daily through Instagram, Facebook, Pinterest, and other social media sites. Do something that doesn’t cost a lot of money and work on it consistently.

5. Get someone else to take care of your thriving business.

If your business doesn’t self manage, you’ll want to find someone who can manage it at some point. When you’re ready to lay in a hammock for the rest of your life, find an operations manager to handle your business. Find someone bright and reliable and integrate them into the business at least six months before you’re ready to walk away from it. That way, they’ll know what they’re doing and can run your business effectively.

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6. Work at a place that saves money.

If you love the finer things in life and don’t want to give them up, work in that sector. For example, if you can’t live without expensive clothes, work part time at your favorite design house. You’re already passionate about their clothing so you’ll probably make great money in commissions. You’ll also get decent discounts that will allow you to purchase your favorite clothes at a price you can afford.

7. Buy something that will increase in value later.

A good example of something that increased in value is the Cabbage Patch Kid. They were a big deal in the 80’s and today, the original doll is worth up to $50,000. Look around for the hot item of today in toys, cars that will become vintage in a few years, beauty products that don’t expire or jewelry. You can find random items at antique stores, second hand stores, eBay, and yard sales. Hold onto your investment for the next few years and resell them when they’re a hot item again.

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8. Figure out which affordable tropical location you want to call home.

Unless you’re really lucky with all of the above, your lady of leisure lifestyle probably won’t land you an apartment in the middle of Manhattan. With that said, there are wonderful places all around the world that allow you to live a laid back lifestyle for much cheaper. Source out what time zone you want to live in, how much you can afford to spend monthly and start looking for a warm location to enjoy. The nice thing about being a lady of leisure is you aren’t tied down to any one spot.

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Last Updated on March 13, 2019

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

How to Get out of a Rut: 12 Useful Ways to Get Unstuck

Have you gotten into a rut before? Or are you in a rut right now?

You know you’re in a rut when you run out of ideas and inspiration. I personally see a rut as a productivity vacuum. It might very well be a reason why you aren’t getting results. Even as you spend more time on your work, you can’t seem to get anything constructive done. While I’m normally productive, I get into occasional ruts (especially when I’ve been working back-to-back without rest). During those times, I can spend an entire day in front of the computer and get nothing done. It can be quite frustrating.

Over time, I have tried and found several methods that are helpful to pull me out of a rut. If you experience ruts too, whether as a working professional, a writer, a blogger, a student or other work, you will find these useful. Here are 12 of my personal tips to get out of ruts:

1. Work on the small tasks.

When you are in a rut, tackle it by starting small. Clear away your smaller tasks which have been piling up. Reply to your emails, organize your documents, declutter your work space, and reply to private messages.

Whenever I finish doing that, I generate a positive momentum which I bring forward to my work.

2. Take a break from your work desk.

Get yourself away from your desk and go take a walk. Go to the washroom, walk around the office, go out and get a snack.

Your mind is too bogged down and needs some airing. Sometimes I get new ideas right after I walk away from my computer.

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3. Upgrade yourself

Take the down time to upgrade yourself. Go to a seminar. Read up on new materials (#7). Pick up a new language. Or any of the 42 ways here to improve yourself.

The modern computer uses different typefaces because Steve Jobs dropped in on a calligraphy class back in college. How’s that for inspiration?

4. Talk to a friend.

Talk to someone and get your mind off work for a while.

Talk about anything, from casual chatting to a deep conversation about something you really care about. You will be surprised at how the short encounter can be rejuvenating in its own way.

5. Forget about trying to be perfect.

If you are in a rut, the last thing you want to do is step on your own toes with perfectionist tendencies.

Just start small. Do what you can, at your own pace. Let yourself make mistakes.

Soon, a little trickle of inspiration will come. And then it’ll build up with more trickles. Before you know it, you have a whole stream of ideas.

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6. Paint a vision to work towards.

If you are continuously getting in a rut with your work, maybe there’s no vision inspiring you to move forward.

Think about why you are doing this, and what you are doing it for. What is the end vision in mind?

Make it as vivid as possible. Make sure it’s a vision that inspires you and use that to trigger you to action.

7. Read a book (or blog).

The things we read are like food to our brain. If you are out of ideas, it’s time to feed your brain with great materials.

Here’s a list of 40 books you can start off with. Stock your browser with only the feeds of high quality blogs, such as Lifehack.org, DumbLittleMan, Seth Godin’s Blog, Tim Ferris’ Blog, Zen Habits or The Personal Excellence Blog.

Check out the best selling books; those are generally packed with great wisdom.

8. Have a quick nap.

If you are at home, take a quick nap for about 20-30 minutes. This clears up your mind and gives you a quick boost. Nothing quite like starting off on a fresh start after catching up on sleep.

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9. Remember why you are doing this.

Sometimes we lose sight of why we do what we do, and after a while we become jaded. A quick refresher on why you even started on this project will help.

What were you thinking when you thought of doing this? Retrace your thoughts back to that moment. Recall why you are doing this. Then reconnect with your muse.

10. Find some competition.

Nothing quite like healthy competition to spur us forward. If you are out of ideas, then check up on what people are doing in your space.

Colleagues at work, competitors in the industry, competitors’ products and websites, networking conventions.. you get the drill.

11. Go exercise.

Since you are not making headway at work, might as well spend the time shaping yourself up.

Sometimes we work so much that we neglect our health and fitness. Go jog, swim, cycle, whichever exercise you prefer.

As you improve your physical health, your mental health will improve, too. The different facets of ourselves are all interlinked.

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Here’re 15 Tips to Restart the Exercise Habit (and How to Keep It).

12. Take a good break.

Ruts are usually signs that you have been working too long and too hard. It’s time to get a break.

Beyond the quick tips above, arrange for a 1-day or 2-days of break from your work. Don’t check your (work) emails or do anything work-related. Relax and do your favorite activities. You will return to your work recharged and ready to start.

Contrary to popular belief, the world will not end from taking a break from your work. In fact, you will be much more ready to make an impact after proper rest. My best ideas and inspiration always hit me whenever I’m away from my work.

Take a look at this to learn the importance of rest: The Importance of Scheduling Downtime

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