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Duplicating The Common Traits of Successful People

Duplicating The Common Traits of Successful People

Success is a path everyone wants to stay on. However, does everyone have the motivation to go on with the journey for success? That’s why only a few people succeed in following their goals. This handful of people generates the determination to start and continue the journey of success.

There are always good days and bad days, but the firm beliefs of motivated people make them go on and on without stopping.

Coming to study the traits of successful people I noted that, interestingly, there are some common things they do – which have a massive effect on their success. I’m sharing a comprehensive list of these traits to help you achieve your goals:

1. They Know Their “Why”

Imagine what would happen to a person wandering in a place who doesn’t know where to go. Yes, that person will never find the destination because the person doesn’t even know where to go.

Same goes for achieving success and reaching goals. If you haven’t addressed your “why” of your goals, you are already failing yourself from becoming someone massively successful.

That’s because, if you don’t address the “why” of your goals, you don’t know what you will get from them – and that leads to uncertainty. What is uncertainty? It’s nowhere.

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“You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You’re on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who’ll decide where to go.” Dr. Seuss

Moreover, successful people know this key point and they work on it. They go with their intuition and get an answer.

2. They Know that Quitting Means Failing

No one likes to fail. However, when we try to start something new which seems hard to peruse, we tend to quit it. That’s because, we are afraid of failing – but what we don’t understand is that quitting also means failing.

When you are quitting, you are not diverting yourself to anything better or saving your time, you are actually failing yourself.

Follow the footprints of successful people and don’t get frightened by your fears. The fear that you might fail in doing this. That you might not be able to complete what you have started. These are the fears you have to overcome by starting to believe that you can set and achieve goals on your own.

3. They Focus On Small Steps

We all think that people at the top of the ladder never get sad or frustrated and that’s why they are successful. Well, they do get frustrated, but they know why resentment happens.

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It happens when we think about the big picture and get overwhelmed by the sheer size of our goals. We start getting anxious by this and feel that these are impossible to achieve.

To solve this, great people focus on small goals. This doesn’t mean that they don’t create big goals. This only means that they divide their goal into small parts and start doing one at a time. This makes things easier to follow and achieve.

The rule here is to do things regularly, to keep following the small steps every day. These may look so small that you might think these steps are negligible, but the same negligible steps if done regularly will make you achieve your goals.

4. They Can Feel Their Goals

To successful people, it is like having a vision that they have achieved their goals and they can feel the immense satisfaction the success brought to them. They can see it. They can touch it. They can feel it.

When you are really feeling your goals happening, you will never get disheartened. It is like a natural way of keeping you motivated. Because no matter what you argue, the brain can’t differentiate between reality and a mere perception. If you truly picture yourself achieving the goal, your mind will believe it and will start telling you that your goals are not impossible, but, in fact, achievable.

“Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve.” Napoleon Hill

5. They Also Visualize Failure

How many times you have done things only when you knew you would get punished if you didn’t? Remember your school days when you didn’t want to do homework, but when you pictured your humiliation at class, you immediately opened your notebook and completed your homework?

Your dreams and goals work the similar way. If you want to stay motivated and not get despaired by frequent setbacks, you have to give yourself a little fear of failure. You can do that by thinking what would happen if you fail. You will feel an immense pain within you. Then you will do anything to not feel that pain which you have felt. That way you will give your full effort to your goal and that is what you need.

If you were looking for an answer to the question, how to achieve goals. Now you have it.

6. They Network with Positive People

It is possible that you have a friend or colleague who is disappointed with everything. If that person gets a promotion, the only thing uttered from the person’s mouth would be “My apartment is so small”.

Many of the studies have shown that what other people say can directly affect your thinking process. So, to keep yourself clean from toxic thoughts, you have to create a distance from these types of people.

That’s why successful people only connect with positive people. That way they train their mind to stay on track and not lose its way.

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7. They Know That Thinking Is Also Real

The people who are ahead of the game know the working of the mind. They have understood that the human brain works in a simple way. It expands the thoughts that are coming in. So, they start thinking about building and achieving goals.

When they do that, their mind stimulates and expands that information. By continually doing this, they start developing their personalities and that helps in the way of achieving success.

“You become what you think about all day long” Ralph Waldo Emerson

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Last Updated on December 17, 2018

Read this and stop feeling overwhelmed…for good!

Read this and stop feeling overwhelmed…for good!

We live in a time of productivity overload.

Everywhere you turn are articles and books about how to be more productive, how to squeeze 27 hours of work out of every 24, how to double your work pace, how to do more and more all in the name of someday getting out of the rat race. Well this is about the side effects of those ideas. If we aren’t multitasking, we feel lazy. If we aren’t doing everything, we feel like we’re slacking. We compare ourselves to others who we think are doing more, having more, getting more and achieving more, and it’s driving us crazy. We feel overwhelmed when we think we have too much to do, too much is expected of us, or that a stressor is too much for us to handle. And we respond by lashing out with emotions of anger, irritability, anxiety, doubt and helplessness.

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This season especially is the most stressful time of year. Between the holidays, final exams, family gatherings and general feelings of guilt that it’s the end of the year, it’s easy to get overwhelmed thinking of all the things you still need to get done. But if you use these tips, not only will you get the important stuff done, you’ll keep your sanity while doing it!

    Is this you?

    Change your thought pattern-stop thinking negatively

    When you feel overwhelmed, the first thing you do is start thinking negatively or begin to resent why it’s your responsibility in the first place! The first thing you have to do is to stop! Stop thinking negatively immediately. Instead, focus on the positive. If you’re stuck in traffic, think of how great it is to have some time to yourself. If you’re rushing trying to get things done by a deadline, think how lucky you are to have a purpose and to be working towards it. If you’re stressing about a final exam, think of how fortunate you are to be given the opportunity of higher education. After you’ve changed your thought patterns, you must then say to yourself “I can do this.” Keep saying it until you believe it and you’re more than halfway to ending feeling overwhelmed.

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    Take a deep breath/change your body posture

    When you’re stressed certain things happen to your body. You start to breath shallowly, you hunch over, you immediately tense up and all that tension drives your feelings of stress even more. Relax! Straighten your posture and take at least ten deep, cleansing, breaths. Force yourself to smile and do something to change your state. It could be as simple as giving yourself a hug or as silly as clapping your hands three times, throwing them up in the air and shouting “I GOT THIS!” Think to yourself, how would I sit/stand if I had perfect confidence and control of the situation?

    Focus on right now

    Now that you are in a better state of mind and are no longer thinking negatively, you need to focus on the here and now. Ask yourself this question: What is the most important thing I have control of and can act on right now? Keep asking yourself this until you have a concrete next step.

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    Take Action

    Now that you know what’s most important and what to do about it, do it! Start with the first step and focus on getting that done. Don’t worry about anything else right now, just on what your first step is and how to get it done. Once that’s done with, determine the next most important step and get that done.

    Let go of what you can’t control (the gambler’s theory)

    Seasoned gamblers understand the importance of due diligence and knowing when to let go. The Gambler’s Theory is that once your bet is placed there is nothing you can do, so you might as well relax and enjoy the process. The time to worry is when you’re figuring out the best odds and making the decision of what to bet when you can actually take action. I used this one a lot in college. After an exam, there is absolutely no point in stressing about it. There’s nothing you can do. And the same goes for feeling overwhelmed. If you can do something about your situation, do it, focus and take action. But if you’ve done what you could and now are just waiting, or if you’re worried about something you have no control over, realize that there’s no point. You might as well relax and enjoy the moment.

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      Relax and enjoy the moment

      Stop feeling guilty

      Finally, stop comparing yourself to others. If you are at your wits end trying to keep up with what you think you should be doing, you aren’t being fair to yourself. This isn’t to say that you shouldn’t strive for improvement, just don’t go overboard because you feel like you have to. Only you know what’s really important to you, and your personal success journey so focus on what your top priorities are, not someone else’s.

      Everyone feels overwhelmed sometimes. The important thing is to realize it’s normal and that you can do something about it by taking focused and deliberate action. Happy Holidays!

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