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3 Signs It’s Time To Dump Your Job For A Better One

3 Signs It’s Time To Dump Your Job For A Better One

It’s a familiar story: job seeker finds job, falls madly in love, and thinks they’ll be happy together forever. But then, slowly, things start to change. They aren’t as passionate about the job as when they first met. It might happen after a few years or after just one month, but eventually the honeymoon period ends and it becomes obvious this may not be the right employment relationship after all.

It happens to the best of us: A job doesn’t turn out like we’d hoped or a position fails to keep up with our personal development, yet we don’t leave. Maybe it’s insecurity, fear, or just finding comfort in the monotony that’s holding us back. Or maybe we’re just worried that there’s nothing better out there.

There is.

But you’ve got to be willing to put yourself out there. Here are three signs it’s time to break up with your job and go after the career you really want.

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1. Time is not your friend.

Depending on how badly your mother wants grandkids, you’ve probably already begun to feel some pressure about your biological clock. But have you ever thought about your professional career clock?

Now let me be clear: it’s never too late to make a career change. It takes some people decades of trying out different jobs before they find the right one for them. However, staying in an unfulfilling job is a waste of time. Period.

If your daily duties and responsibilities bore you today, they won’t suddenly be your life’s passion next year. Instead of going into work every morning waiting for things to get better, your time would be better spent exploring new opportunities.

That’s not to say you need to jump into a new job right away. You could spend your time taking a class or freelancing in order to further develop your skills. There are countless options that will help your long-term career more than sticking with a dead-end job.

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2. You’re stuck in your comfort zone.

As underwhelming as it can be, being stuck in a professional rut does provide a sense of comfort. Sure, there may be nothing challenging or exciting about your job, but there’s also little chance of failure. And as long as that safety net is there, you’ll never step out of your comfort zone and find what you really were meant to do.

It’s scary to suddenly give up a steady paycheck in order to find something better, something you’re not even positive is out there. But fear can be a great motivator. Without the crutch you’re used to, you’ll have to get creative about deciding what to do next. And you might be surprised where your instincts take you.

Not to mention, once the initial shock wears off after you quit your job, you’ll feel an incredible sense of liberty. That will let you examine your career choices with fresh eyes so you can figure out what went wrong and what type of path will lead you to the success you want.

3. You’ve got a wandering eye.

One of the biggest signs that a relationship is over is when one of the parties starts to check out what other options are out there. If you perk up when you hear about your friends’ jobs or catch yourself daydreaming about an entirely different industry, it’s time to admit the truth: you and your job just aren’t meant to be.

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Once you face that fact, you’ll be free to truly examine all the options that are available to you. You can peruse job boards or go out on informational interviews without feeling guilty.

Your perfect career path is out there. You just have to know what resources are also out there and how you can best use them.

Don’t be afraid to take the time to get to know yourself a little better. Take an online personality quiz or try out the free career assessment available on my app, PathSource. After all, you’ll never know what job will bring you long-term happiness unless you know what it is that you really want.

Breakups are never easy. Especially when you’ve invested as much time and energy as many of us do in our careers. But, hey, you and your job aren’t married and there are plenty of other careers out there. You’ve just got to be brave enough to go out and find them.

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What are some other signs that it’s time to quit your job? Share in the comments below!

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Last Updated on June 19, 2019

8 Life-Changing Skills You Can Learn in Less Than 6 Months

8 Life-Changing Skills You Can Learn in Less Than 6 Months

Everyone has the ability to learn a life-changing skill not just this year, but in the next 6 months.

By life-changing, I mean something that can have a positive impact in your life moving forward, even if it’s something you can’t envision today. Certain skills we can immediately reap the benefits of, while others will be life-changing when we least expect it.

In this article, we’ll share 8 life-changing skills you can learn in 6 months, where you can learn them, and how you can get started today.

1. Speed reading

Bill Gates has been known to state that if he had one superpower, it would be the ability to read faster. What Bill and the rest of the mega-successful understand is that knowledge is power. The ability to process information faster from books, articles, and reports is what will help us learn faster, and therefore improve each aspect of our life faster as well.

Where you can start learning: Speed reading courses are becoming more popular, as more people realize how important it is with the limited time we have. You can check out free courses like Read Speeder or you can start learning how to use Spritzlet, which allows you to speed read articles online with a browser extension.

2. Public speaking

Research shows that people fear public speaking more than death itself. There’s something terrifying about being in front of dozens or hundreds of people, and exposing yourself completely. It’s when you’re most vulnerable, but learning how to public speak is a life-changer.

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Warren Buffett has given advice to recent graduates that the number one skill you can have to succeed is public speaking skills. Everything from communication, confidence, and sales is developed when you develop your public speaking skills.

Where you can start learning: Luckily, there are great communities out there like Toastmasters that organize local meetups all around the world. You’ll find amazing public speakers that are looking to get to the next level to beginners that are just getting started. Check out Toastmasters’ website here.

3. Spanish

As the third most spoken language in the world, the ability to speak Spanish will allow you to reach over 500M people around the world. No matter where you live, knowing how to speak Spanish is becoming increasingly more important, with the Hispanic population and economy spreading quickly worldwide. If you’re living in the US, this is even more important, with over 30% of the population being Hispanic.

Spanish is also on this list, because it’s one of the easiest languages to learn. Sure, Mandarin is an important language to learn, but it’s an incredibly difficult one to learn. If we were to measure the level of importance and the time to learn for all the languages available, Spanish would make it to the top of the list.

One of the biggest reasons why people never reach fluency in any foreign language is: using the wrong method, and lack of time.

It turns out that humans retain only 5% of what we learn from lectures, 20% of what we learn from apps (visual cues), and 90% of what we learn from immediate immersion. Yet, how do 90% of learn a new foreign language? Language schools (lectures), books, Duolingo (apps), etc that don’t provide the real-life immersion required for our brains to learn faster.

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Where to get started: If you want the most effective way to learn a language, learning from real-life interactions is the best way to do it. There are great websites like Rype, which offers Spanish coaching for busy people, solving the issue of lack of time and bringing real-life immersion to your screen. With Rype, you can book as many lessons as you want, at any time of the day, any day of the week, allowing you to fit it into your schedule, no matter how busy you are.

4. Accounting

If you’re looking to get into business, accounting is one of the core fundamentals you’ll need to succeed. While you don’t need to be an expert, you definitely should understand the basics.

This skill can also be used to manage your personal finances, to meet your financial goals, and having more control over your life.

Where to get started learning: If you didn’t learn accounting in school, no worries. You can either teach yourself using books, or check out free accounting courses online.

5. Microsoft Excel

Most people reading this probably have a basic understanding of Microsoft Excel Spreadsheet. While this is a good start, there are so many powerful functionalities that are hidden, which could make your life a lot easier.

Excel is also a great asset to have whenever you’re looking for a job, as many corporations rely on Excel to organize and manage multiple parts of the business.

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Where to get started learning: With the popularity of Excel, you can find tons of free resources and videos online to learn. Check out Excel Exposure, Lynda, and Excel with Business.

6. Blogging/Vlogging

Blogging is a powerful tool if you want to spread your ideas, build your brand, or grow your business. Since it was introduced, blogging has taken on a life of its own, and today there are ~2M blog posts being written on a daily basis.

Where to get started learning: Anyone can start blogging today. All you need is a content-management system like WordPress, which is completely free. Personally, I think the best way to start learning how to blog is to just start writing. There are techniques you can learn on how to promote your blog, but the best way to grow your blog is to write great content.

7. Weight training

Yes, weight training is a skill. It’s not as advanced as learning how to code, nor will it take as long as learning a new language, if you just want to learn the basics.

We’re not promising that you’ll get a body like Arnold Schwarzenegger, but you will see much faster results for whatever goal you have, just by understanding how to workout properly. And of course, when you’re dealing with an activity that involves physical strain, you’ll always want to caution yourself.

Where to get started learning: There are amazing body builders that are sharing all of their secrets for free on Youtube. You can check out Bodybuilding.com’s Youtube channel to get started.

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8. Photo and video editing

In the digital world that we live in, from Youtube, Instagram, and Facebook, there is no avoiding photos and videos. In fact, social media has increasingly gone away from text sharing and almost everything to photo and video editing.

Where to get started learning: For photo editing, you can use Photoshop. For video editing, you can use iMovie or Final Cut Pro. Keep in mind, there are dozens of editing software tools for video and photo editing, but what’s more important are your editing skills, not the tool itself.

Check out education websites like CreativeLIVE or Skillshare, where you can learn from experts themselves on how to best use design and software tools.

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