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Pregnancy At Week 23

Pregnancy At Week 23

Week 23 of pregnancy is well over half-way! Congratulations on surviving the first big phase of parenting. This week marks the beginning of some serious weight gain for the baby (and maybe for you too! That’s okay!), and the reality of your precious little baby is becoming more and more present.

Changes with Baby

Your baby is now approximately 8 inches long and weighs just over a pound. About the size of a mango! This week begins a serious growth spurt and your baby will just about double in size in the next four weeks. That is some serious weight gain-but don’t worry mama, your body can handle it. Your babies skin is a little saggy right now because their skin grows faster than their fat does. But they will soon fill out and be a cute plump and full little baby by the time they are born. Right now your babies skin has a reddish hue because of the developing arteries and veins underneath the surface. You can see your baby’s vital organs through her skin because it is so thin at this point, but that will go away as your baby fattens up.

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    Your baby is big enough now to hear her heart beat through a stethescope! You’ve probably heard it through a Doppler machine, but now that your baby has grown, it’s easy to hear that beautiful little rhythmic flutter that will make your own heart melt.

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    Your babies limbs are longer and stronger now and you will probably be able to see baby moving and grooving underneath your shirt. So turn on some music and dance along with your babies movements! Sounds like music, your partner’s voice, and your dog barking will all be familiar sounds to your baby by the time they are born.

    Changes with You

    By pregnancy week 23 every square inch of your body is probably feeling the effects of your pregnancy. Your baby may be cuddled up cozily in your abdomen, but your entire body is pregnant. Your mind is probably fuzzy from the waves of progesterone washing over your brain. Ever lose your keys and find them in the freezer? This is called “pregnancy brain”. Once the baby comes you will be so tired that you will be living with Mommy Brain. Basically, expect to never remember where your keys are. But it’s worth it.

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    Your feet and ankles may swollen by this point, and your ankles will almost certainly begin to swell at night after a long day or in the summer heat. Blood circulation changes and water retention can account for these changes. This water retention is called edema. Your body will flush out all of your excess water once you have the baby. Expect to sweat and pee a lot during this first few days post-delivery!

    Another big change with your body might be the new arrival of a dark, inexplicable line down the middle of your belly. This line, called the linea nigra, is a super common symptom of pregnancy. Women with darker skin are more likely to see this change. This line is caused by the same pregnancy hormones that cause the darkening of your areolas and freckles. Some women also experience a darkening of the skin on their faces. Not to fear-these changes won’t last forever! A few weeks after you deliver the baby your skin will go back to it’s normal coloration.

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    What do to this week

    This week is a great time to begin taking your labor plans seriously. I’m not saying your should expect to go into labor soon, but thinking about it and preparing is an important part of the process. Visualizing what you want and processing your expectations for your labor and delivery take some time. Begin now by simply practicing relaxation techniques. Whether you intend to labor and deliver naturally or not, odds are you will experience a fair few contractions. I don’t know any women who would consider contractions to be a relaxing experience, so it’s a good idea to have some techniques up your sleeve to help you relax through the pain.

    Simple breathing exercises are a great place to start. Not only will this help you prepare for labor, but it will also have positive benefits for you during your pregnancy too. Stress hormones aren’t good for you or the baby. When you feel the normal anxieties associated with bringing a new little human into the world, take a minute and breathe. Try breathing in through your nose for 8 counts and out through your mouth for 8 counts. Repeat this cycle five times. You should feel your heart rate reduce, your mind clear a bit and your thoughts come back under control. This trick will help you through those shocking early contractions as well!

    Some more tips for this week

    • Keep drinking water! Staying hydrated is so important for the development of the baby and your own health. Your body is working hard. Give it what it needs!
    • Look into your insurance policy and make sure you complete all of the necessary paperwork for when baby arrives. If you haven’t do this already, it is extremely important to begin this conversation!
    • Contact HR if you’re working and begin planning for your maternity leave.
    • Don’t forget about paternity leave! Have your partner communicate with their place of work and see what their options are for time off when the baby comes.
    • Keep breathing! You’re getting there!

    Featured photo credit: Kelly Hunter via flickr.com

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    Published on April 9, 2021

    50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

    50 Single Mom Quotes On Staying Strong And Loving

    Being a mom is not easy. Being a single mom is even more challenging. Having children means you are on the job 24/7. Even while you are sleeping, you are still ready to wake at the slightest peep because that is what moms do.

    Moms, especially single moms, need more people cheering them on. Your love and care matter to your kids. You are their superhero. I think single moms are superheroes, too.

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    The quotes below are words of encouragement for all of the single moms out there. Keep up the great work! Your hard work will pay off. Someday, they will be grown up and living on their own. Your job will never truly be done as a mom, but you can pat yourself on the back today and every day for doing mom duty day in and day out.

    Here are 50 single mom quotes to encourage all the single moms out there.

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    1. “Being raised by a single mother, I learned to appreciate and value independent women.”—Kenny Conley
    2. “As a single mum you’ll discover inner strengths and capabilities you never knew you had.”—Emma-Louise Smith
    3. “One thing I know for sure – this motherhood thing is not for sissies.”—Jennifer Nettles
    4. “Mothers and their children are in a category all their own. There’s no bond so strong in the entire world. No love so instantaneous and forgiving.”—Gail Tsukiyama
    5. “And one day she discovered that she was fierce and strong, and full of fire and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears.”—Mark Anthony
    6. “She never quite leaves her children at home, even when she doesn’t take them along.”—Margaret Culkin Banning
    7. “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.”—Alice Walker
    8. “Everyone has inside of her a piece of good news. The good news is that you don’t know how great you can be, how much you can love, what you can accomplish, and what your potential is.”—Anne Frank
    9. “Doubt is a killer. You just have to know who you are and what you stand for.”—Jennifer Lopez
    10. “You are more powerful than you know; you are beautiful just as you are.”—Melissa Etheridge
    11. “Motherhood is the greatest thing and the hardest thing.”—Ricki Lake
    12. “You don’t take a class; you’re thrown into motherhood and learn from experience.”—Jennie Finch
    13. “If you look at what you have in life, you’ll always have more. If you look at what you don’t have in life, you’ll never have enough.”—Oprah Winfrey
    14. “I am no bird; and no net ensnares me: I am a free human being with an independent will.”—Charlotte Brontë
    15. “Above all, be the heroine of your life, not the victim.”—Nora Ephron
    16. “When a woman becomes her own best friend life is easier.”—Diane Von Furstenberg
    17. “If you want something said, ask a man; if you want something done, ask a woman.”—Margaret Thatcher
    18. “Women have discovered that they cannot rely on men’s chivalry to give them justice.”—Helen Keller
    19. “Successful mothers are not the ones that have never struggled. They are the ones that never give up, despite the struggles.”—Sharon Jaynes
    20. “Success, they taught me, is built on the foundation of courage, hard work, and individual responsibility. Despite what some would have us believe, success is not built on resentment and fears.”—Susana Martinez
    21. “You may not control all the events that happen to you, but you can decide not to be reduced by them.”—Maya Angelou
    22. “The question isn’t who’s going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me.”—Ayn Rand
    23. “God could not be everywhere, and therefore he made mothers.”—Rudyard Kipling
    24. “The women whom I love and admire for their strength and grace did not get that way because stuff worked out. They got that way because stuff went wrong, and they handled it. They handled it in a thousand different ways on a thousand different days, but they handled it. Those women are my superheroes.”—Elizabeth Gilbert
    25. “There will be so many times you feel like you failed. But in the eyes, ears, and mind of your child, you are a SUPER MOM.”—Stephanie Precourt
    26. “Motherhood is the ultimate call to sacrifice.”—Wangechi Mutu
    27. “We may encounter many defeats but we must not be defeated.”—Maya Angelou
    28. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
    29. “There’s no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one.”—Jill Churchill
    30. “There’s no doubt that motherhood is the best thing in my life. It’s all that really matters.”—Courtney Cox
    31. “I realized when you look at your mother, you are looking at the purest love you will ever know.”—Mitch Albom
    32. “I have found being a mother has made me emotionally raw in many situations. Your heart is beating outside your body when you have a baby.”—Kate Beckinsale
    33. “Single moms, you are a doctor, a teacher, a nurse, a maid, a cook, a referee, a heroine, a provider, a defender, a protector, a true Superwoman. Wear your cape proudly.”—Mandy Hale
    34. “I’m not really single. I mean, I am, but I have a son. Being a single mother is different from being a single woman.”—Kate Hudson
    35. “Being a single parent is twice the work, twice the stress, and twice the tears but also twice the hugs, twice the love, and twice the pride.”—Unknown
    36. “For me, motherhood is learning about the strengths I didn’t know I had, and dealing with the fears I didn’t know existed.”—Halle Berry
    37. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things… a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Denice Williams
    38. “You do the best you can. Some days you feel really good about yourself and some days you don’t.”—Katie Holmes
    39. “I would say to any single parent currently feeling the weight of stereotype or stigmatization that I am prouder of my years as a single mother than of any other part of my life.”JK Rowling
    40. “Just because I am a single mother doesn’t mean I cannot be a success.”—Yvonne Kaloki
    41. “I didn’t plan on being a single mom, but you have to deal with the cards you are dealt the best way you can.”—Tichina Arnold
    42. “Nothing you do for children is ever wasted.”—Garrison Keillor
    43. “A single mom tries when things are hard. She never gives up. She believes in her family, even when things are tough. She knows that above all things, a mother’s love is more than enough.”—Deniece Williams
    44. “Motherhood has a very humanizing effect. Everything gets reduced to essentials.”—Meryl Streep
    45. “Having kids—the responsibility of rearing good, kind, ethical, responsible human beings—is the biggest job anyone can embark on.”—Maria Shriver
    46. “Mother is a verb. It’s something you do. Not just who you are.”—Cheryl Lacey Donovan
    47. “A mother’s love for her child is like nothing else in the world. It knows no law, no pity, it dates all things and crushes down remorselessly all that stands in its path.”—Agatha Christie
    48. “A mother’s arms are more comforting than anyone else’s.”—Princess Diana
    49. “The hand that rocks the cradle is the hand that rules the world.”—W.R. Wallace
    50. “Being a mother is the greatest blessing and the hardest challenge in all of life.”—Dr. Magdalena Battles

    Final Thoughts

    Single moms are remarkable women. They are to be respected and honored for all that they do. If you know a single mom, then share this article with them. Tell them “you are doing a great job as a single mom.” They need our encouragement and support.

    They may be parenting alone, but it is good to let them know that there are people in their life who care for them. We can all be there for the single moms out there. Even if it is just to say, “keep up the great work, you are an amazing woman!”

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    If you are a single mom, keep up the good work! You are amazing, and your kids are lucky to have you!

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