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7 Traits Separating an Entrepreneur from a Wantrepreneur

7 Traits Separating an Entrepreneur from a Wantrepreneur

Most of you say you’re an entrepreneur, or planning to become an entrepreneur, but are you really who you think you are?

Most of the people don’t want to be an entrepreneur, they just kinda-want it. They put half-hearted efforts into their business and are not really passionate. Also, in most cases, they do it because these days society has created a notion that ‘entrepreneurship is cool’.

Well, sorry to disappoint, but that’s so not the case. If you’re anything like what I mentioned above, you’re a wantrepreneur. What that means is you just want to be an entrepreneur but don’t have the following traits that separate a wanna-be from the real thing.

An Absolute Purpose

Real entrepreneurs have a purpose embedded deep within themselves which holds greater importance to them than anything else. They’re willing to sacrifice anything at all. Unlike, wantrepreneurs who have no purpose and give up easily on themselves, no storm is strong enough to waver them from their path.

Elon Musk’s purpose is to increase the human life span. A purpose so strong is what keeps this man’s drive alive allowing him to hustle all out 80-100 hours a week.

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Remember this: Motivation is doomed to exhaust sooner or later. Purpose is what keeps one going.

Focus On Opportunities Not The Risk

Unlike wantrepreneurs, who usually tend to avoid things because ‘it’s risky’ and ‘unpredictable’; entrepreneurs have the courage to take the plunge. They’re not afraid of new opportunities and are willing to risk almost anything regardless of how irrational it may seem to anyone else.

They don’t skip or intentionally overlook opportunities just because their hands will get dirty. An entrepreneur just believes in themselves and takes the plunge. If it resonates with an entrepreneur — it has to be done.

Sense of Urgency

Entrepreneurs have this unfathomable sense of urgency that makes them unstoppable and many times apparently unreasonable. They have a drive to do stuff. Wantreprenuers plan on doing things, umm.. later? Don’t stay stuck in the idea stage. If you wait until the right time, you’re a wantrepreneur. By the time you’re ‘ready’ the market is out there already on fire and entrepreneurs who took action when you were planning are leveraging it.

The richest place on Earth is the graveyard, because in the graveyard you’ll find ideas that never became reality. Be impatient. If you think something can be done, just do it. You’re not the only one, believe me.

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Sleep is for Suckers

They don’t care if they’ve to run short of some sleep for a day, week, month, or even year. They know, their dream is more important and they cannot afford to waste their time dreaming when they can just get up and make it a reality.

Thomas Edison slept only for 3 hours and his success is evident. He had more hours than any average purpose to go after his goals. You don’t have to be that extreme. Plan for yourself and see if you can manage well with less sleep. Try to push yourself.

When the situation demands it make sure you don’t fall short of the necessary hours. This doesn’t mean you don’t prioritize the time your body needs to recuperate but never lose on an opportunity because you choose to hit that snooze button.

They Know Nothing

Socrates said, “I know that I am intelligent, because I know that I know nothing.”  The wisest people know they know nothing. Unfortunately, a wantrepreneur is complacent and believes that they know ‘enough’. The very day you believe that you know enough, you’ll inevitably fail.

Warren Buffett, one of the greatest investors this world has ever seen, spends 80% of his working time reading. Now, pause and reflect. What is that something this 85 year old legend doesn’t know?

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Read books, attend seminars, go to workshops — just continue to learn.

They Don’t Give Their Best

What I mean is, they don’t believe “I’ll just give my best; it’s cool if it works out” or “I’ll try”. That’s a big no-no. They haven’t taken the entrepreneurial path to foster their ego and boast on social media like a wantrepreneur, but to do something, to get something, and to give something.

Real entrepreneurs, as Grant Cardone says, “Approach every situation with a whatever it takes mindset”. Yes, many times things may not work, but that doesn’t mean you’ll give up.

Henry Ford was building cars with technology that didn’t exist in his time. He just knew he had to create cars a middle-class person could own no matter what it took. He kept forging on, and today he’s a legend whose work is never to be forgotten.

Tomorrow is Not in Their Calendar

Whatever is supposed to be done, it’ll be done today. As my high-school teacher used to say, “tomorrow is just a convenient excuse.” A wantrepreneur will always seek reasons as to why they can’t start today. The only reason why you’ll not start today is you, no one else.

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If you believe in your idea and have a strong purpose driving it then you’re unstoppable. Don’t wait until you get your company certificate or reply back from the investor or anything. Let no excuse be a hindrance to your success.

Change today. It’s possible. Scrutinize the above points and contemplate who you are.

“Do what you can with what you have and where you are because what you’ve is plenty.” — Theodore Roosevelt

Manifest your dream. Five years down the line you will wish you started today. If it’s hard, then do it hard. Don’t get beaten because you beat yourself.

Get started TODAY!

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Last Updated on October 16, 2019

How to Bounce Back Gracefully After Getting Fired

How to Bounce Back Gracefully After Getting Fired

Whether you saw it coming or not, getting fired is a real shock and its impact is daunting. What did you do wrong? What are you supposed to do next? When will you stop feeling so angry?

But there are ways to deal with a layoff.

The most important thing is to remain calm and see it as an opportunity to reflect, change and improve. This is a great time to consider what happened, look again at your needs and desires and start afresh on a stronger, more constructive basis.

Let’s take a look at how you can bounce back gracefully after getting fired.

1. Deal with the Shock of Getting Fired

To lose your job is to lose your identity as a worker and as a person. Debbie Mandel, author of Addicted to Stress, states that 7 out of 10 of us define ourselves by our job titles, since work is where we spend the majority of our time and energy.

Being laid off affronts your sense of self-worth—it implies that you simply are not good enough. It’s no wonder you feel confused and emotional.

The first thing, then, is to take some time to digest what happened and deal with the overflow of sensations. People who quickly recover from the pain of a job loss tend to do two things very well:

First, they accept their feelings of sadness, anger, fear and shame as a part of the natural healing process.

Second, they do their complaining to a friend.

Never call out your boss in the office or on social media. It’s a bad form to speak ill of the company you work for. Stay stylish, and your employer will speak better of you when you need a reference.

2. Stay Away from the Drama Queens

Mass layoffs are, unfortunately, very common. If this is your situation, then you may be surrounded by a lot of angry people, ruminating and lamenting their fate.

“It’s not fair!” they say. “After everything we did for this company! We don’t deserve this!”

You’ve lost your job and that’s tough. But please resist the urge to join in the negativity. Positivity is by far the most important attitude to apply right now. If staying upbeat means you have to limit your exposure to the Negative Nellies, then that’s what you have to do.

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Remember, life is not harder for you than it is for other people on this planet. You live in a democracy, you have freedom of choice and you enjoy a certain material abundance.

Stay positive and focus on what’s going well in your life and the exciting future opportunities available to you. Getting fired is only a temporary setback.

Staying positing could be challenging in a difficult situation, so these tips can help:

10 Questions To Ask Yourself To Stay Positive When Facing Difficulties

3. Take a Break and Let the Dust Settle

Instead of running straight into another job that may not be the right one either, take a short break to recover from the job loss. You need a week or two to de-stress and meditate on the next step.

Be attentive to your need for self-care during this interlude. Everything goes so fast these days that we often do not stop to think or give ourselves the permission to do a little mourning.

Getting fired is a big shock: you need time to refocus and take stock of the new reality. Do not make things harder for yourself!

What you need is to pause a while and do some self reflection:

How Self-Reflection Gives You a Happier and More Successful Life

4. Be Anchored in the Present

Since you no longer have a hold on the past, but have not yet designed your future, try to build yourself up with the present. What do we mean by that?

We mean that right now is the only time you have any control over. Focus on that instead of losing yourself in memories or reliving the awful day you got fired over and over in your head.

Get up at 7 a.m. each day, whatever happens. The body needs rhythm and habits. You will feel much more energized if you keep a consistent routine. Maintain a healthy lifestyle, revisit your budget, play sports, volunteer. Take care of the practical stuff like claiming unemployment. Enjoy the small pleasures of everyday life.

When you’re busy, there’s no room for the inner critic to raise up and derail you. Keep active, and you will gain more of the precious energy you need so much to move forward.

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Try these things to help you live in the moment:

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5. Understand the “Why”

There are lots of reasons why people are fired. Sometimes the mistake is yours and it’s embarrassing to admit you backed yourself into this corner.

Other times, it’s not your fault. Businesses change direction all the time—maybe yours is going through a major transition or merger and your job is disappearing.

Either way, to give the situation some closure, you need to understand why you were dismissed. What slipped? What could you have done differently? Was your boss really out to get you or did you do something to put your job in jeopardy?

Be honest with yourself. It’s not easy to admit that you might have dropped the ball but it’s the only way to turn the situation into a learning experience. Ask yourself:

What skills do you need to improve?

Is there training you can access, or learning you can do?

In the end, did this job suit you that much? Were you happy there?

Reflecting on these questions can help you put things into perspective. What lessons can you learn to avoid reproducing the same pattern in your next job?

6. Find out If You Were the Right Fit

Hiring decisions ultimately come down to personality. You can study for an interview all you like, but every candidate who is chosen for interview has the right credentials for the job.

The final decision comes down to personality. Who does the recruiter like the best? Who is a better fit for the company culture? That’s the person who strikes it lucky.

Firing decisions are based on personality, too. Slacking off, insubordination and playing fast and loose with the company rules—these are the official reasons why people are getting fired.

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But all of these reasons boil down to one thing: personality. Specifically, they signal a personality clash between an employee and a manager, or an employee’s fit with the company’s culture.

Here’s an example:

Suppose you were fired for “not being a team player.” Some people, namely introverts, lose energy when they are surrounded by other people and gain energy when they are on their own. Forcing an introvert to continuously work on a busy, noisy team without any solitary rest periods means the job is a mission impossible. This employee will never perform at her best.

Or how about the time the Kansas City Star newspaper fired Walt Disney for a perceived lack of imagination? Talk about a clash of personalities![1]

Getting fired can be a signal to turn inward and do some self-reflection so you can better understand your personality and how it might fit in with corporate culture.

In particular, personality assessments based on Isabel Briggs Myers’ sixteen personality types can help you to understand your own work style and how you can find a job and workplace that better match who you truly are.

In many cases, it is totally liberating to realize that all the crap you had to deal with was just down to a clash of work styles and not something you did wrong!

7. Rediscover Your Strengths and Talents

A personality test can also give you clear insights into your strengths, weaknesses, motivations and work potential. Do you have leadership abilities? How do you communicate and manage conflict? What benefits do you add to an organization?

Identifying your working style should be your top priority right now, otherwise you risk accepting a new position that has all the same problems as before. The last thing you want is to reproduce the same old dramas the next time around.

When you become aware of your potential, you will have the confidence to search and find the type of work you love.

For example, getting fired from your banking job may have knocked you sideways. But you have some stellar home decorating skills, and a personality test shows that you are curious, flexible, rational and resilient—all the traits of successful entrepreneurs. Maybe this dismissal is an opportunity to launch the business you’ve always dreamed of but never dared to admit to yourself?

By considering all your special skills and talents, you increase your chances of finding a job you would really enjoy, and not just the one you can do.

8. Get the Word Out

At this point, you should be ready to take action and move forward with your job search. Let’s not sugarcoat the situation: getting a new job is tough. It helps to have a clear idea of the direction you want to go in, a list of all your crossover skills and a freshly polished resume.

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Look around for inspiration. Talk to recruiters in your sector to establish what they consider to be your most valuable skills. Use all the resources at your disposal: job search agencies, headhunters, work coaches, careers websites and so on. These resources can help you match your qualifications to the job requirements and ensure you have the right keywords on your resume.

Don’t hold back on marshaling your networks. Put friends and family to work to pop up leads, and don’t be afraid to ask for referrals. Sometimes the simple act of getting the word out to the people who know you is the surest way to find work fast.

9. Anticipate Questions and Know How to Answer Them

Even if it wasn’t your fault, getting fired can hurt you if you don’t know how to explain why you were let go. You have to be honest here and tell recruiters the truth. Even if a would-be employer does not specifically ask why you left your previous job, it is better to clarify the situation upfront before it comes out in your references.

The best approach is to take your share of responsibility and show that you want to go forward and that you understand the lesson.

For example, suppose you got fired for asking the difficult questions that no one wanted to answer and your candidness set people on edge. Acknowledge that some people perceive your communication style as abrupt and explain how you’re taking steps to increase your diplomacy skills.

A recruiter can be seduced by someone who knows how to evolve and who shows a great energy for personal development.

10. Adapt and Persist

Throughout this journey, you inevitably will go through moments of self-doubt and disappointment. There are undulations in every road, and these are the normal steps for regaining self-confidence after getting fired.

Stay tough! Don’t conclude that your future is hopeless just because the dream job doesn’t land straightaway. You open a positive path when you maintain focus. Have the confidence to know that the perfect job for you is out there.

Remember, you are not alone. Many people walked this road and they would urge you to keep the momentum. Stay open-minded and go where the opportunities take you: it will bring you closer to the job you really want.

Coming Out on Top

While getting fired isn’t the ideal situation, it isn’t the end of the world either. Even if feels like a doozy right now, you will get through it and emerge happier on the other side.

Be clear on what you want, have courage and believe in yourself. In the end, you may decide that getting fired was the best thing that ever happened to you. It can be the catalyst for a powerful, career-fulfilling change.

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