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Last Updated on September 27, 2017

20 Dalai Lama Quotes To Change The Way You Think

20 Dalai Lama Quotes To Change The Way You Think

In light of recent events around the world; considering the state of the planet and our humanity; when we think about all the suffering inflicted on the innocent by the tyranny of a few; now more than ever, we need to consider what it means to be compassionate. It really isn’t that complicated to reflect on what we all want as individuals; peace, safety, security, shelter, nutrition, love; and to want that for all humanity and living creatures. If everyone acted with intent to fulfill the needs of all living things equally and behaved with compassion as the primary driving force of all action, we could eradicate suffering in a very short time. The Dalai Lama’s words of wisdom are indeed powerful, yet very simple.

He has written many books and given countless talks about the nature of humanity, happiness, death, compassion and living well. In the book the Dalai Lama’s Book of Wisdom he gives advice on four main areas: 1. Dealing with Anger and Emotion, 2. Joy and Living Well, 3. Facing Death and Dying, and 4. Giving and Receiving.

Here are 20 Dalai Lama quotes to change the way you think; five from each category respectively.

I consider hatred to be the ultimate enemy.

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    The ultimate source of my mental happiness is my peace of mind. Nothing can destroy this except my own anger.

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      Dissatisfaction is the seed of anger.

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        Only an enemy gives us the opportunity to practice patience.

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          My attitude towards other people is to always look at them from the human level.

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            Humans have the potential not only to create happy lives for themselves, but also to help other beings.

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              There are always extremes, but the middle way is the proper way.

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                Contentment is the key.

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                  Much depends on our own attitude.

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                    Good conduct is the way in which life becomes more meaningful, more constructive and more peaceful.

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                      Illness happens. When illness happens, it is better to accept it.

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                        Death is a part of all our lives.

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                          The unfortunate event can be a source of inner strength.

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                            Some suffering can be a good lesson for life.

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                              Looking at problems from different angles actually lessons the mental burden.

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                                Compassion is the most wonderful and precious thing.

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                                  With genuine compassion you view others as more important than yourself.

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                                    Just as you have the instinctive natural desire to be happy and overcome suffering, so do all sentient beings; just as you have the right to fulfil this innate aspiration, so do all sentient beings. So on what exact grounds do you discriminate?

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                                      The only option is to live and work together harmoniously and keep in our minds the interest of the whole of humanity. That is the only outlook and way we must adopt for our survival.

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                                        A true friendship develops on the basis of human affection, not money or power.

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                                          Last Updated on September 20, 2018

                                          7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

                                          7 Powerful Questions To Find Out What You Want To Do With Your Life

                                          What do I want to do with my life? It’s a question all of us think about at one point or another.

                                          For some, the answer comes easily. For others, it takes a lifetime to figure out.

                                          It’s easy to just go through the motions and continue to do what’s comfortable and familiar. But for those of you who seek fulfillment, who want to do more, these questions will help you paint a clearer picture of what you want to do with your life.

                                          1. What are the things I’m most passionate about?

                                          The first step to living a more fulfilling life is to think about the things that you’re passionate about.

                                          What do you love? What fulfills you? What “work” do you do that doesn’t feel like work? Maybe you enjoy writing, maybe you love working with animals or maybe you have a knack for photography.

                                          The point is, figure out what you love doing, then do more of it.

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                                          2. What are my greatest accomplishments in life so far?

                                          Think about your past experiences and the things in your life you’re most proud of.

                                          How did those accomplishments make you feel? Pretty darn good, right? So why not try and emulate those experiences and feelings?

                                          If you ran a marathon once and loved the feeling you had afterwards, start training for another one. If your child grew up to be a star athlete or musician because of your teachings, then be a coach or mentor for other kids.

                                          Continue to do the things that have been most fulfilling for you.

                                          3. If my life had absolutely no limits, what would I choose to have and what would I choose to do?

                                          Here’s a cool exercise: Think about what you would do if you had no limits.

                                          If you had all the money and time in the world, where would you go? What would you do? Who would you spend time with?

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                                          These answers can help you figure out what you want to do with your life. It doesn’t mean you need millions of dollars to be happy though.

                                          What it does mean is answering these questions will help you set goals to reach certain milestones and create a path toward happiness and fulfillment. Which leads to our next question …

                                          4. What are my goals in life?

                                          Goals are a necessary component to set you up for a happy future. So answer these questions:

                                          Once you figure out the answers to each of these, you’ll have a much better idea of what you should do with your life.

                                          5. Whom do I admire most in the world?

                                          Following the path of successful people can set you up for success.

                                          Think about the people you respect and admire most. What are their best qualities? Why do you respect them? What can you learn from them?

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                                          You’re the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.[1] So don’t waste your time with people who hold you back from achieving your dreams.

                                          Spend more time with happy, successful, optimistic people and you’ll become one of them.

                                          6. What do I not like to do?

                                          An important part of figuring out what you want to do with your life is honestly assessing what you don’t want to do.

                                          What are the things you despise? What bugs you the most about your current job?

                                          Maybe you hate meetings even though you sit through 6 hours of them every day. If that’s the case, find a job where you can work more independently.

                                          The point is, if you want something to change in your life, you need to take action. Which leads to our final question …

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                                          7. How hard am I willing to work to get what I want?

                                          Great accomplishments never come easy. If you want to do great things with your life, you’re going to have to make a great effort. That will probably mean putting in more hours the average person, getting outside your comfort zone and learning as much as you can to achieve as much as you can.

                                          But here’s the cool part: it’s often the journey that is the most fulfilling part. It’s during these seemingly small, insignificant moments that you’ll often find that “aha” moments that helps you answer the question,

                                          “What do I want to do with my life?”

                                          So take the first step toward improving your life. You won’t regret it.

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