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20 Dalai Lama Quotes To Change The Way You Think

20 Dalai Lama Quotes To Change The Way You Think

In light of recent events around the world; considering the state of the planet and our humanity; when we think about all the suffering inflicted on the innocent by the tyranny of a few; now more than ever, we need to consider what it means to be compassionate. It really isn’t that complicated to reflect on what we all want as individuals; peace, safety, security, shelter, nutrition, love; and to want that for all humanity and living creatures. If everyone acted with intent to fulfill the needs of all living things equally and behaved with compassion as the primary driving force of all action, we could eradicate suffering in a very short time. The Dalai Lama’s words of wisdom are indeed powerful, yet very simple.

He has written many books and given countless talks about the nature of humanity, happiness, death, compassion and living well. In the book the Dalai Lama’s Book of Wisdom he gives advice on four main areas: 1. Dealing with Anger and Emotion, 2. Joy and Living Well, 3. Facing Death and Dying, and 4. Giving and Receiving.

Here are 20 Dalai Lama quotes to change the way you think; five from each category respectively.

I consider hatred to be the ultimate enemy.

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    The ultimate source of my mental happiness is my peace of mind. Nothing can destroy this except my own anger.

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      Dissatisfaction is the seed of anger.

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        Only an enemy gives us the opportunity to practice patience.

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          My attitude towards other people is to always look at them from the human level.

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            Humans have the potential not only to create happy lives for themselves, but also to help other beings.

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              There are always extremes, but the middle way is the proper way.

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              2

                Contentment is the key.

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                  Much depends on our own attitude.

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                    Good conduct is the way in which life becomes more meaningful, more constructive and more peaceful.

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                      Illness happens. When illness happens, it is better to accept it.

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                        Death is a part of all our lives.

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                        7

                          The unfortunate event can be a source of inner strength.

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                            Some suffering can be a good lesson for life.

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                              Looking at problems from different angles actually lessons the mental burden.

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                                Compassion is the most wonderful and precious thing.

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                                  With genuine compassion you view others as more important than yourself.

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                                    Just as you have the instinctive natural desire to be happy and overcome suffering, so do all sentient beings; just as you have the right to fulfil this innate aspiration, so do all sentient beings. So on what exact grounds do you discriminate?

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                                      The only option is to live and work together harmoniously and keep in our minds the interest of the whole of humanity. That is the only outlook and way we must adopt for our survival.

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                                        A true friendship develops on the basis of human affection, not money or power.

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                                          Last Updated on January 21, 2020

                                          How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

                                          How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

                                          If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

                                          Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

                                          So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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                                          1. Listen

                                          Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

                                          2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

                                          Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

                                          “Why do you want to do that?”

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                                          “What makes you so excited about it?”

                                          “How long has that been your dream?”

                                          You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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                                          3. Encourage

                                          This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

                                          4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

                                          After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

                                          5. Dream

                                          This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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                                          6. Ask How You Can Help

                                          Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

                                          7. Follow Up

                                          Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

                                          Final Thoughts

                                          By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

                                          Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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