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17 “It’s so True” Facts About Being the Only Child at Home

17 “It’s so True” Facts About Being the Only Child at Home

You are now grown up and it is hard to forget what it was like when you were growing up in the house as the only child. You wished you had siblings around who would have helped you see the world in a different light. But such is life. Being the only child must have come with its nightmares and splendors. Here are seventeen facts about being the only child at home.

1. You are the only one your parents have to call upon.

You seem to be the one that has to do everything for your parents. You are their only hope when it comes to taking care of their needs.

2. You don’t seem to grow up in anyone’s eyes.

No matter how old you are, you are regarded as the child and referred to as one.

3. You learn to be alone.

Sometimes, your time is  your own. You do not have anyone to call upon and suddenly you appreciate solitude.

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4. You seem to be overly cared for.

Even when you are not spoiled, you somehow seem to have abundance of those items you truly desire whether they are emotional or physical.

5. You are not so comfortable with sharing.

Sharing is not your thing. You do not need to share. Your possessions are yours, so why would you let anyone else use them?

6. You will always be considered to be spoiled.

People will think you are spoiled anytime you tell them that you are the only child.

7. Your parents call you a lot.

Well, it may just be a protective instinct by your parents, but your mom in particular will be happy to call you as many times as possible even in a single day.

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8. Your grandparents spoil you.

You will have grandparents who are overly concerned about you since you are the only one who can be recipient of their advanced love and care.

9. You spend a lot of time with your parents.

There is no one sharing this task with you, but that’s okay because you are happy to be there for your parents—most of the time.

10. You seem to be the future hope of your parents.

The sole responsibility of continuing your parent’s lineage falls on you. This can be a lot of pressure.

11. You never have the opportunity to blame anyone for your mistakes.

If there was something that went wrong in the house and was caused by you, you just had to take the blame alone. There was no one else around to blame.

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12. You find it hard to make a fine line between friends and family.

You sometimes take friends for family, and this could become eccentric as friends can’t figure out why you actually treat them like family.

13. You had less embarrassing moments as a kid.

There was no one in the house to tease you, give you a nickname, or make fun at you.

14. You are awkward around kids.

You seem to be more comfortable with yourself and adults rather than being with kids. Because in a real sense, you are still a kid to a lot of people.

15. You are mediator between your parents when they fight.

Your parents would fight to get your love and support. But beyond that you will be the one to help mediate during any of their battles.

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16. You really wish you had someone to play with while growing up.

You had to play alone. And while this may have been fun since you had all the toys and video games to yourself, you sometimes wished you had someone you could play with.

17. You are really terrible at babysitting.

No matter what age you are, you’ll always suck at babysitting.

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Last Updated on January 21, 2020

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

How to Motivate People Around You and Inspire Them

If I was a super hero I’d want my super power to be the ability to motivate everyone around me. Think of how many problems you could solve just by being able to motivate people towards their goals. You wouldn’t be frustrated by lazy co-workers. You wouldn’t be mad at your partner for wasting the weekend in front of the TV. Also, the more people around you are motivated toward their dreams, the more you can capitalize off their successes.

Being able to motivate people is key to your success at work, at home, and in the future because no one can achieve anything alone. We all need the help of others.

So, how to motivate people? Here are 7 ways to motivate others even you can do.

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1. Listen

Most people start out trying to motivate someone by giving them a lengthy speech, but this rarely works because motivation has to start inside others. The best way to motivate others is to start by listening to what they want to do. Find out what the person’s goals and dreams are. If it’s something you want to encourage, then continue through these steps.

2. Ask Open-Ended Questions

Open-ended questions are the best way to figure out what someone’s dreams are. If you can’t think of anything to ask, start with, “What have you always wanted to do?”

“Why do you want to do that?”

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“What makes you so excited about it?”

“How long has that been your dream?”

You need this information the help you with the following steps.

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3. Encourage

This is the most important step, because starting a dream is scary. People are so scared they will fail or look stupid, many never try to reach their goals, so this is where you come in. You must encourage them. Say things like, “I think you will be great at that.” Better yet, say, “I think your skills in X will help you succeed.” For example if you have a friend who wants to own a pet store, say, “You are so great with animals, I think you will be excellent at running a pet store.”

4. Ask About What the First Step Will Be

After you’ve encouraged them, find how they will start. If they don’t know, you can make suggestions, but it’s better to let the person figure out the first step themselves so they can be committed to the process.

5. Dream

This is the most fun step, because you can dream about success. Say things like, “Wouldn’t it be cool if your business took off, and you didn’t have to work at that job you hate?” By allowing others to dream, you solidify the motivation in place and connect their dreams to a future reality.

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6. Ask How You Can Help

Most of the time, others won’t need anything from you, but it’s always good to offer. Just letting the person know you’re there will help motivate them to start. And, who knows, maybe your skills can help.

7. Follow Up

Periodically, over the course of the next year, ask them how their goal is going. This way you can find out what progress has been made. You may need to do the seven steps again, or they may need motivation in another area of their life.

Final Thoughts

By following these seven steps, you’ll be able to encourage the people around you to achieve their dreams and goals. In return, you’ll be more passionate about getting to your goals, you’ll be surrounded by successful people, and others will want to help you reach your dreams …

Oh, and you’ll become a motivational super hero. Time to get a cape!

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