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17 “It’s so True” Facts About Being the Only Child at Home

17 “It’s so True” Facts About Being the Only Child at Home

You are now grown up and it is hard to forget what it was like when you were growing up in the house as the only child. You wished you had siblings around who would have helped you see the world in a different light. But such is life. Being the only child must have come with its nightmares and splendors. Here are seventeen facts about being the only child at home.

1. You are the only one your parents have to call upon.

You seem to be the one that has to do everything for your parents. You are their only hope when it comes to taking care of their needs.

2. You don’t seem to grow up in anyone’s eyes.

No matter how old you are, you are regarded as the child and referred to as one.

3. You learn to be alone.

Sometimes, your time is  your own. You do not have anyone to call upon and suddenly you appreciate solitude.

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4. You seem to be overly cared for.

Even when you are not spoiled, you somehow seem to have abundance of those items you truly desire whether they are emotional or physical.

5. You are not so comfortable with sharing.

Sharing is not your thing. You do not need to share. Your possessions are yours, so why would you let anyone else use them?

6. You will always be considered to be spoiled.

People will think you are spoiled anytime you tell them that you are the only child.

7. Your parents call you a lot.

Well, it may just be a protective instinct by your parents, but your mom in particular will be happy to call you as many times as possible even in a single day.

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8. Your grandparents spoil you.

You will have grandparents who are overly concerned about you since you are the only one who can be recipient of their advanced love and care.

9. You spend a lot of time with your parents.

There is no one sharing this task with you, but that’s okay because you are happy to be there for your parents—most of the time.

10. You seem to be the future hope of your parents.

The sole responsibility of continuing your parent’s lineage falls on you. This can be a lot of pressure.

11. You never have the opportunity to blame anyone for your mistakes.

If there was something that went wrong in the house and was caused by you, you just had to take the blame alone. There was no one else around to blame.

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12. You find it hard to make a fine line between friends and family.

You sometimes take friends for family, and this could become eccentric as friends can’t figure out why you actually treat them like family.

13. You had less embarrassing moments as a kid.

There was no one in the house to tease you, give you a nickname, or make fun at you.

14. You are awkward around kids.

You seem to be more comfortable with yourself and adults rather than being with kids. Because in a real sense, you are still a kid to a lot of people.

15. You are mediator between your parents when they fight.

Your parents would fight to get your love and support. But beyond that you will be the one to help mediate during any of their battles.

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16. You really wish you had someone to play with while growing up.

You had to play alone. And while this may have been fun since you had all the toys and video games to yourself, you sometimes wished you had someone you could play with.

17. You are really terrible at babysitting.

No matter what age you are, you’ll always suck at babysitting.

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Last Updated on October 9, 2018

27 Ways to Instantly Feel Better When You’re Down

27 Ways to Instantly Feel Better When You’re Down

Who has never gone through some ups and downs in the life? But some people can feel better in a quicker way than others because they’ve found their own remedies to heal the bad feelings.

If you haven’t found yours, these ways will help you instantly feel better and ditch that negative self talk when you’re feeling bad about yourself:

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  1. Listen to the songs you loved when you were in high school or university, this will recall you of the old good times.
  2. Write something. Write down how you feel as a way to express your thoughts if you don’t feel like talking to anyone.
  3. Draw something. Draw anything you want because no one’s going to judge your drawing skills.
  4. Read the postcards or letters your friends or family sent you before, remind yourself there are people who always remember you.
  5. Silently think of a day or moment which you truly enjoyed and try to recapture that very first feeling. Was it the day of your graduation? The moment you traveled with your loved one?
  6. Take out your photo albums and go over your childhood photos.
  7. Cry when you feel like doing so. There’s nothing wrong with crying; cry out all your fear and stress and just face the truth after crying.
  8. Sing loudly like no one can hear you. Do you know that in Japan, people always sing karaoke to relieve stress?
  9. Cook a nice meal for yourself or for your family.
  10. Read your previous diary entries and look at your great memories.
  11. Dress up nicely to feel happier.
  12. Don’t stay in your bed! Get your laptop or a book and sit in a coffee place.
  13. Take a walk outside and feel the fresh air.
  14. Sweat yourself! Go jogging or play some sports.
  15. Pick up the musical instrument you used to play a lot and start to play it.
  16. Tidy up your desk or wardrobe, you’ll feel good that you’re being productive and actually doing something.
  17. Watch some funny videos, sure you can find a lot of them on Youtube.
  18. Eat something you like, be it a chocolate cake, or an ice-cream. Just please yourself with the flavour you like.
  19. Re-read your favorite book and write down the sentences or passages that you love.
  20. Watch a new movie, there must be a movie which you’ve always interested in but had no time to watch it.
  21. Do something nice that no one will notice, say picking up a rubbish in the street and throw it to a trash bin.
  22. Call your best friend and just talk whatever you want! Human beings are social animals after all, connecting with people close to you will make you feel better.
  23. Do voluntary work and help people in need, you’ll feel happy and satisfied.
  24. Get drunk with your close friends at home – a safe place for you to get drunk and get crazy. Let loose and have fun with your very close friends.
  25. Write an email or a note to a friend who you care about.
  26. Get out of your routine life and meet new friends. Get out of your comfort zone! Meeting new people can give you new inspirations in life.
  27. Look into the mirror and smile. Act like today’s already a wonderful day. How we act affects how we feel. It’s difficult to go on feeling sad if you’re trying to smile!

Remember:

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It’s not what happens to you, but how you react to it that matters.  — Epictetus

If you want to feel better, change what you’re doing because obviously what you’re doing doesn’t make you happy!

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