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This Is Why You Should Let Go Of A Wrong Relationship

This Is Why You Should Let Go Of A Wrong Relationship

Every now and then people stumble into a wrong relationship. While people may not know how important their relationships can be to their mental and physical well-being, we all deserve to be happy. And through this requirement of being around the people that makes us feel great, we have to know the borderline between a terrible relationship and a wonderful one. Yes, you will be happier if you can identify what sort of relationship makes you happy and why it is important to let go of the wrong ones.

I have had my tears and wounds from a bad relationship. It is hard getting out if you find yourself stuck in it. You feel you have so much invested in the relationship and walking away from it may not be the right decision. It takes some responsibility and self-awareness for you to realize that walking away from a bad relationship could be the best choice you have. This is what I learned when I made this decision.

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“One of the simplest ways to stay happy is to just let go of the things that makes you sad.” – Nishan Panwar

You grow

A wrong relationship never offers you the space or the opportunity to grow. You are stressed and tortured. And being in such a relationship doesn’t help you appreciate your true being or discover more interesting areas you may be good at. In my own experience I believed letting go, although not easy, afforded me the opportunity to learn and evolve into becoming a happier and more loving person.

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You should not allow a relationship to make you so bitter and sad that you cannot recognize the elements of gladness that exists in your world.

You become responsible

Being in a wrong relationship can be an ugly reality and one we do not want to admit to. You hope and yearn that the other person changes and perhaps sees things from your own view. But sticking it out and having such hope just keeps one engaged and imprisoned. Getting out of a wrong relationship makes you more in charge and responsible of your own emotions. You realize that it is not the other person you should change because you really can’t change someone else. You have to know what is right and be responsible for yourself!

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You deserve to be happy

Everyone deserves to be happy. There is no reason for someone to cling on to pain. Life is too short to be in a relationship that makes one hurt or unhappy. You have to be happy and the best way to attain that is to let go.

You can open the doors for a healthier and more interesting relationship

The truth is that there is someone out there who is looking for somebody just like you. If you are caged in a wrong relationship it will be hard for you to be with someone who will respect and appreciate you for who you are.

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You have to give yourself the permission to live life fully and experience the freedom of the wonderful gifts that come from being in a loving and healthy relationship. You do not need someone who tries to control your every move or who doesn’t allow you to be who you are.

You start loving yourself

You do not need to adjust yourself to someone else’s standard. Such can demean and hurt your self-esteem. Leaving a wrong relationship offers you the chance to appreciate who you are. When I was in the wrong relationship I tried adjusting myself to the other person’s expectation of me. But it was a simple waste of time. People have to learn to love you and be comfortable with being around you. any relationship that falls short of that is certainly not right for you.

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Casey Imafidon

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Last Updated on October 18, 2018

50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

50+ Best Motivational Quotes To Prepare You For Any Challenges In Life

Life is filled with highs and lows —happiness and struggles that will test your resilience and integrity, push you to overcome challenges and leave you with lessons that will make you even stronger on your way up.

It’s the way you feel and think about yourself, including your expectations and beliefs about what is possible to you, greatly determines everything that happens to you.

It all starts with your thoughts. When you change your thoughts, you transform the quality of your life. (Right, Nancy’s story is a typical example!)

Below is a list of the best motivational quotes to inspire you to start your day with a blast:

Quotes for self-assurance

1. Don’t downgrade your dream just to fit your reality, upgrade your conviction to match your destiny.

    2. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think.

      3. You are confined only by the walls you build yourself.

        4. The man who has confidence in himself gains the confidence of others

          5. You attract what you are, not what you want. If you want great, then be great.

            6. It’s not who you are that holds you behind, it’s who you think your are not.

              Quotes about positivity

              7. Stop being afraid of what could go wrong and think of what could go right.

                8. You should never regret anything in life. If it’s good, it’s wonderful. If it’s bad, it is experience.

                  9. Falling down is an accident, staying down is a choice.

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                    10. If you have the power to make someone happy, do it. The world needs more of that.

                      11. Always believe that something wonderful is about to happen.

                        12. Don’t be afraid to give up the good and go for great.

                          13. Remember that life’s greatest lessons are usually learned from worst times and from the worst mistakes.

                            Quotes for work and success

                            14. Don’t talk, just act. Don’t say, just show. Don’t promise, just prove.

                              15. Never stop doing great just because someone doesn’t give you credit.

                                16. Discipline is doing what needs to be done, even if you don’t want to.

                                  17. Work while they sleep. Learn while they party. Save while they spend. Live like they dream.

                                    18. The key to success is to focus our conscious mind on things we desire, not things we fear.

                                      19. Never apologize for having high standards, people who really want to be in your life will rise to meet them.

                                        20. If it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you.

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                                          21. Never give up on a dream just because of the time it will take to accomplish it, time will pass anyway.

                                            22. Don’t fear failure. Fear being in the exact same place next year as you are today.

                                              23. A hill is just another opportunity to leave your competition behind.

                                                24. Don’t quit. You’re already in pain. You’re already hurt. Get a reward from it.

                                                  25. Hustle until you no longer need to introduce yourself.

                                                    26. You didn’t come this far only to come this far.

                                                      27. Be selective in your battles for sometimes peace is better than being right.

                                                        28 If we keep doing what we are doing, we’re going to keep getting what we’re getting.

                                                          29. You will never know your limits until you push yourself to them.

                                                            30. Do what you have to do until you can do what you want to do.

                                                              31. The man on top of the mountain didn’t fall there.

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                                                                32. If your dreams don’t scare you, they are not big enough.

                                                                  33. If you can’t handle stress, you won’t manage success.

                                                                    34. Don’t be pushed by your problems, be led by your dreams.

                                                                      35. Don’t mistake silence for weakness. Smart people don’t plan big moves out loud.

                                                                        36. Simplicity is the ultimate sophistication.

                                                                          37. Obsessed is the word the lazy use to describe dedicated.

                                                                            38. You become who you spend your time with.

                                                                              39. Be stubborn about your goals and flexible about your methods.

                                                                                40. Hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work hard.

                                                                                  41. If you don’t build your dreams, someone else will hire you to build theirs.

                                                                                    42. Between stimulus and response is our greatest power –the freedom to choose.

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                                                                                      43. What comes easy won’t last, what lasts won’t come easy.

                                                                                        44. Don’t limit your challenges, challenge your limits.

                                                                                          45. Work until your idols become your rivals.

                                                                                            Quotes about money

                                                                                            46. Formal education will make you a living. Self-education will make you a fortune.

                                                                                              47. I create new enemies every day, it’s called business.

                                                                                                48. When you have a Million Dollar vision, don’t surround yourself with 1 cent minds.

                                                                                                  49. You can’t get rich thinking poor.

                                                                                                    50. Doing what is comfortable is rarely profitable.

                                                                                                      51. If you can count your money, work harder.

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