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This Is Why You Should Let Go Of A Wrong Relationship

This Is Why You Should Let Go Of A Wrong Relationship

Every now and then people stumble into a wrong relationship. While people may not know how important their relationships can be to their mental and physical well-being, we all deserve to be happy. And through this requirement of being around the people that makes us feel great, we have to know the borderline between a terrible relationship and a wonderful one. Yes, you will be happier if you can identify what sort of relationship makes you happy and why it is important to let go of the wrong ones.

I have had my tears and wounds from a bad relationship. It is hard getting out if you find yourself stuck in it. You feel you have so much invested in the relationship and walking away from it may not be the right decision. It takes some responsibility and self-awareness for you to realize that walking away from a bad relationship could be the best choice you have. This is what I learned when I made this decision.

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“One of the simplest ways to stay happy is to just let go of the things that makes you sad.” – Nishan Panwar

You grow

A wrong relationship never offers you the space or the opportunity to grow. You are stressed and tortured. And being in such a relationship doesn’t help you appreciate your true being or discover more interesting areas you may be good at. In my own experience I believed letting go, although not easy, afforded me the opportunity to learn and evolve into becoming a happier and more loving person.

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You should not allow a relationship to make you so bitter and sad that you cannot recognize the elements of gladness that exists in your world.

You become responsible

Being in a wrong relationship can be an ugly reality and one we do not want to admit to. You hope and yearn that the other person changes and perhaps sees things from your own view. But sticking it out and having such hope just keeps one engaged and imprisoned. Getting out of a wrong relationship makes you more in charge and responsible of your own emotions. You realize that it is not the other person you should change because you really can’t change someone else. You have to know what is right and be responsible for yourself!

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You deserve to be happy

Everyone deserves to be happy. There is no reason for someone to cling on to pain. Life is too short to be in a relationship that makes one hurt or unhappy. You have to be happy and the best way to attain that is to let go.

You can open the doors for a healthier and more interesting relationship

The truth is that there is someone out there who is looking for somebody just like you. If you are caged in a wrong relationship it will be hard for you to be with someone who will respect and appreciate you for who you are.

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You have to give yourself the permission to live life fully and experience the freedom of the wonderful gifts that come from being in a loving and healthy relationship. You do not need someone who tries to control your every move or who doesn’t allow you to be who you are.

You start loving yourself

You do not need to adjust yourself to someone else’s standard. Such can demean and hurt your self-esteem. Leaving a wrong relationship offers you the chance to appreciate who you are. When I was in the wrong relationship I tried adjusting myself to the other person’s expectation of me. But it was a simple waste of time. People have to learn to love you and be comfortable with being around you. any relationship that falls short of that is certainly not right for you.

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Last Updated on February 13, 2019

10 Things Happy People Do Differently

10 Things Happy People Do Differently

Think being happy is something that happens as a result of luck, circumstance, having money, etc.? Think again.

Happiness is a mindset. And if you’re looking to improve your ability to find happiness, then check out these 10 things happy people do differently.

Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions. -Dalai Lama

1. Happy people find balance in their lives.

Folks who are happy have this in common: they’re content with what they have, and don’t waste a whole lot of time worrying and stressing over things they don’t. Unhappy people do the opposite: they spend too much time thinking about what they don’t have. Happy people lead balanced lives. This means they make time for all the things that are important to them, whether it’s family, friends, career, health, religion, etc.

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2. Happy people abide by the golden rule.

You know that saying you heard when you were a kid, “Do unto others as you would have them do to you.” Well, happy people truly embody this principle. They treat others with respect. They’re sensitive to the thoughts and feelings of other people. They’re compassionate. And they get treated this way (most of the time) in return.

3. Happy people don’t sweat the small stuff.

One of the biggest things happy people do differently compared to unhappy people is they let stuff go. Bad things happen to good people sometimes. Happy people realize this, are able to take things in stride, and move on. Unhappy people tend to dwell on minor inconveniences and issues, which can perpetuate feelings of sadness, guilt, resentment, greed, and anger.

4. Happy people take responsibility for their actions.

Happy people aren’t perfect, and they’re well aware of that. When they screw up, they admit it. They recognize their faults and work to improve on them. Unhappy people tend to blame others and always find an excuse why things aren’t going their way. Happy people, on the other hand, live by the mantra:

“There are two types of people in the world: those that do and those that make excuses why they don’t.”

5. Happy people surround themselves with other happy people.

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    One defining characteristic of happy people is they tend to hang out with other happy people. Misery loves company, and unhappy people gravitate toward others who share their negative sentiments. If you’re struggling with a bout of sadness, depression, worry, or anger, spend more time with your happiest friends or family members. Chances are, you’ll find that their positive attitude rubs off on you.

    6. Happy people are honest with themselves and others.

    People who are happy often exhibit the virtues of honesty and trustworthiness. They would rather give you candid feedback, even when the truth hurts, and they expect the same in return. Happy people respect people who give them an honest opinion.

    7. Happy people show signs of happiness.

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      This one may sound obvious but it’s a key differentiator between happy and unhappy people. Think about your happiest friends. Chances are, the mental image you form is of them smiling, laughing, and appearing genuinely happy. On the flip side, those who aren’t happy tend to look the part. Their posture may be slouched and you may perceive a lack of confidence.

      8. Happy people are passionate.

      Another thing happy people have in common is their ability to find their passions in life and pursue those passions to the fullest. Happy people have found what they’re looking for, and they spend their time doing what they love.

      9. Happy people see challenges as opportunities.

      Folks who are happy accept challenges and use them as opportunities to learn and grow. They turn negatives into positives and make the best out of seemingly bad situations. They don’t dwell on things that are out of their control; rather, they seek solutions and creative ways of overcoming obstacles.

      10. Happy people live in the present.

      While unhappy people tend to dwell on the past and worry about the future, happy people live in the moment. They are grateful for “the now” and focus their efforts on living life to the fullest in the present. Their philosophy is:

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      There’s a reason it’s called “the present.” Because life is a gift.

      So if you’d like to bring a little more happiness into your life, think about the 10 principles above and how you can use them to make yourself better.

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