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6 Reasons People With Anxiety Are More Likely to Be Successful

6 Reasons People With Anxiety Are More Likely to Be Successful

Having anxiety can make all the areas of life more difficult, whether you are at work or at a social event. It creates issues with how you relate to others (whether in your personal or professional relationships), results in unwanted physical symptoms, and makes your life in general a whole lot more stressful than it should be. The good news is that there is an upside to having an anxious mind. With a little practice and patience you can use anxiety to your advantage and be able to manage aspects of your life in a healthier fashion.

Here are some reasons that people with anxiety can use their state of mind to work in their favor.

1. They are always the first ones to have assignments finished

Anxiety can be a perfect motivational tool for someone to get an assignment done, whether it is a term paper or a mid-year report for work. It is rare to see anxious people procrastinating and being able to tell themselves that they can get something done last minute. Having work done on time or early is a perk that anxiety brings — and no one will ever complain about. This also means that anxious people are usually well-prepared for a presentation or a test — meaning they make great co-workers and study partners.

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2. They make great leaders

Anxiety can make people highly in-tune to the world around them and sensitive to people’s thoughts and actions. This can be a draining way to move through your day, but it can also be a personal attribute that will give you great leadership qualities. Being compassionate is important for a leader, because they are easily attuned to what others truly need.

From the workplace to a local community, there have been so many impactful leaders that were able to turn their anxiety into great positives.

3. They make thoughtful decisions

If you know someone who has a reputation for thinking before acting, at first glance it may seem like they do not value spontaneity. But don’t forget: Foresight can be a major blessing. Anxious people often make decisions without first weighting the pros and cons and then choosing a path which they think will most benefit them.

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Being spontaneous seems to be more fun, but well-thought out decisions will prove more beneficial in the long run.

4. They inspire you to be more empathetic

Those individuals who have to deal with anxiety on a daily basis know what it is like to struggle with an illness. This usually makes them more empathetic towards people of all types of different, difficult situations.

They also make great friends, because they know that it is not important to preach, but instead to show continual support to someone who is going through a hard time.

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5. They excel in creative thinking

When they are able to harness some of that nervous energy, those suffering from anxiety often make great artists and innovators. Anxious individuals have thought-processes that often go to unique tangents. If used correctly, this ability is greatly beneficial for work or school projects and many other areas in their lives.

6. They are great at putting things in perspective

When you suffer from debilitating anxiety attacks, you learn that other things in life are not so bad in perspective. People suffering from anxiety may find many situations stressful, but with practice they will also realize that things are not as bad as they seem.

Being able to make it to the other side of a panic attack or anxiety-filled event can be a great opportunity to look back and realize just how strong you really are.

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Last Updated on September 17, 2018

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

7 Signs of an Unhappy Relationship That Makes You Feel Stuck

Relationships are complicated and when you’re unhappy, it can be difficult to tell what’s causing it and what needs to change.

Sometimes it’s as easy as opening up to your partner about your problems, while other times it may be necessary to switch partners or roll solo to get your mind straight.

When you’re in the thick of things, it can be difficult to tell if you’re unhappy in your relationship or just unhappy in general (in which case, a relationship may be just the cure you need).

Here’re signs of an unhappy relationship that is possibly making you feel stuck:

1. You’re depressed about your home life.

No matter what you do in life, you’re going to have good and bad days. Your relationship is no different.

However, no matter what you’re going through at home, you have to feel comfortable in your own home.

If you constantly dread going home because your significant other is there, there’s a problem. Maybe it’s something you already know about, everyone has an argument or just needs some alone time.

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When that yearning to be alone becomes an insatiable obsession over the course of months and years, it’s time to realize you’re not the exception to the rule.

You’re unhappy in your relationship, and you need to take a look in the mirror and do whatever it takes to make yourself smile.

2. You aren’t comfortable being yourself.

Remember all those things you discovered about yourself when you first got together? The way your partner made you feel when you met that made you fall in love with him or her in the first place.

If they don’t make you feel that way anymore, it’s not the end of the world. If your partner makes you uncomfortable about being you, then her or she is only dragging you down. It’s up to you to decide how to handle that.

You need to be comfortable with who you are. This means being comfortable in your skin and with the way you walk, talk, look, breath, move, and all the other things that make you uniquely you.

If the person who supposedly loves you doesn’t make you feel good about yourself, know that you can do better. They’re not even one in a billion.

3. You can’t stop snooping.

Mutual trust is necessary in any relationship. The only way to get that trust is with respect.

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I can find you anywhere online, no matter how private and secure you think you are. The odds of you having a password I can’t crack are slim. If we’ve met in person, I could install a remote key logger on your device without even touching it.

Finding your information online hardly takes a clandestine organization. Any idiot with a Wi-Fi-enabled device can cyberstalk you. I’m just the only idiot in the village admitting it.

So now that we know everyone snoops, it’s time to address your personal habits. Governments snoop because they don’t trust us. If you’re snooping on your partner, it’s because you don’t trust them.

It’s ok to have doubts, and it’s perfectly normal to look into anything that looks weird, but keep in mind that data collection is only half of an investigation.

If you find yourself constantly snooping and questioning everything, clearly there’s a trust issue and the relationship likely needs to end.

4. You’re afraid of commitment.

If you’ve been dating longer than a year and you aren’t engaged, it’s never going to happen.

Commitment is important. People will come up with a million ways to describe why they can’t be committed.

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No matter who you are if you like it, you need to put a ring on it. Find an engagement ring, stick a gemstone in it and marry the person. If you’re not legally able to get married or you don’t believe in it for one reason or another, have a child (or adopt one, however you’re able to) or treat your partner’s family like your own. It’s a huge financial and mental commitment.

If you’re not ready for one or the other after some time, don’t waste anymore of your precious life on the relationship.

Your relationship should be something that propels you forward. If it’s not going anywhere, make it an open relationship and call it what it is—dating multiple people.

5. You imagine a happier life without your partner.

If all you’re doing is imagining a happier life without your partner, it’s a sign that you’re in the wrong relationship. You’re unhappy and you need to get out.

Your partner should be included in your dreams. There’s nothing wrong with wanting a future with someone.

Try to remember what you dreamed of before you got your heart broken by the realities of life, love and the pursuit of human success.

Remember when you would crush on that cute kid in class? You would secretly imagine marrying him or her and going on an adventure—that’s the way life should be.

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If you’re not at least imagining adventures together, then why are you in that relationship?

6. You resent, rather than love your partner.

When a relationship starts to crumble, you begin to resent your partner for all the things you once loved about him or her.

When you’ve reached this point, your partner has reached at least No. 2 on this list. From your partner’s perspective, your unhappiness with them is picked up as bashing them for being who they are.

If you’re both unhappy in the relationship, it’s better if it ends as quickly and painlessly as possible.

7. You chase past feelings.

It’s okay to reminisce about the past, but if all you do is wish things were like they used to be, it’s a sign you’re not on the right path.

You’re unhappy and, at the very least, you need to have an open dialogue about it. This isn’t necessarily a sign that the relationship should end, but it definitely needs a spark.

When you talk to your partner candidly about what it is you’re looking for, you never know how they’ll react. The risk alone is worth it, good or bad.

Final thoughts

If you’re feeling stuck in your current relationship, it’s time to reflect about it with your partner. Don’t ignore these signs of an unhappy relationship as they will slowly go worse and harm both you and your partner in long-term.

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