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This Is What It’s Like To Be Raised By Hipster Parents

This Is What It’s Like To Be Raised By Hipster Parents

You always knew your parents were different, from the type of music they preferred to the way they dressed. It was normal to be surrounded by artist friends drinking craft beer or fair-trade coffee. When you were younger, you never realized there was actually a title for your parent’s lifestyle. But now you are in the know.

Here are some dead giveaways that you were raised by hipster parents:

1. Your main mode of transportation was a bicycle

Even when your family had a perfectly functional car, most destinations were reached by being strapped to the back of one of your parent’s bikes. Your house was always filled with bumper stickers that supported biking coalitions…and instead of getting a car for your 16th birthday you got a 3-speed.

At least it had a nice horn.

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2. You listened to music that none of your friends’ parents did

There was a constant stream of obscure bands playing in your house at all times. Forget listening to pop or rock music–your parents would never be caught dead with any of those mainstream artists.

Instead, music in your home was like listening to the indie radio station.

3. You lived in a gentrifying neighborhood

The neighborhood you grew up in was labeled as questionable and known for its high rate of crime. After your family moved there, the place went through rapid changes–including the rise of a whole slew of new coffee shops and bars.

4. Your parents got ecstatic when a new Trader Joe’s opened up

The exact day is stamped into your mind, when your parents found out that a Trader Joe’s was the newest addition to your neighborhood. Bring on all the wasabi-flavored snacks and frozen potstickers.

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5. Your parents had unique professions

Maybe your mother was a part-time florist and an artist on the side. Your father managed a coffee shop, but practiced with his band at night. The friends from school had parents with jobs like lawyer or doctor, but your parents wouldn’t be caught dead in a “regular profession.”

“Do what you love, and you’ll never have to work a day in your life,” they would say.

6. You spent a lot of time at the local coffee shop

Lazy Sunday afternoons would consist of bringing a book to a nearby cafe and drinking a hot chocolate (or lemonade if the weather was hot), while your parents drank their coffee and read novels.

You started drinking coffee at a very, very young age.

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7. Your father had facial hair. A lot of it.

You can’t remember a time when your dad wasn’t sporting a mustache or beard (or both). He was already a part of Movemeber, even before it existed.

8. You have a unique name

Forget those common names like Sarah or Ethan; your parents made sure that you had a one-of-a-kind moniker. Maybe Dawn or Sunshine, Dakota or Spirit.

Or your name is most likely from a pop culture reference, as your parents thought it would be cool to have the only kid in the world with such a unique name. Mainly, though, it was an easy way to be made fun of in school.

9. You always had Apple products in your house

Apple products were always abundant. Everyone else had PCs, but you had the Macintosh. As a consequence, you currently possess an iPhone, an iPad and a MacBook and refuse to buy any other brand for your electronics.

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10. You always wore stylish accessories

Since you can remember, your parents made you wear great looking hats, like a slouch beanie or a fedora. You weren’t allowed to leave the house without some type of jewelry–mostly hand made, of course.

And they never forgot the sunglasses. Neither do you.

Featured photo credit: Flickr via flickr.com

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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