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13 Things Only People With A Work BFF Would Understand

13 Things Only People With A Work BFF Would Understand

Do you have a best friend at work? Having a work BFF makes work much easier and more fun. It also means you always have someone to chat with while you’re at work.

Check out these 13 things you will be able to relate to if you have a work BFF.

1. You And Your Work BFF Have Loads Of Inside Jokes

You and your Best Friend Forever from work have so many inside jokes that you struggle to remember them all. Once you joked about writing them all down because there would probably be enough to fill a book. You only have to say one sentence with an inside joke in it and your work BFF will start cracking up.

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2. You Always Visit Your Work BFF’s Desk

You visit each other’s desks every day, normally multiple times. You have stopped pretending it is for work reasons. Now you unashamedly go over to show your work BFF a cute video of puppies you found on Instagram.

3. You Hate It When They Go On Vacation

When your work BFF is on holiday, work becomes just work – and nothing else. The day they come back is like Christmas coming early. You can’t wait to get to the office to hear all of their holiday stories.

4. You Experience Bad Days Together

If you’re having a stressful day, your BFF will empathize and end up having a stressful day too. It’s nice to be in it together. Plus, you can complain to each other on the way out of the door.

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5. You Discuss Office Gossip Together

There is so much drama in your office, it’s often more exciting than Game Of Thrones. You always update each other on the latest office going-ons through email, text, phone, and whispered conversations while your boss isn’t looking.

6. You Know Each Other’s Worst Habits

Why does your work BFF have to type so loudly? You can hear it from the other side of the office. Then again, they don’t judge you for never washing your coffee cup. Like literally – you’ve never washed it.

7. You Talk About Mean Co-Workers Together

Your work BFF has a boss who never listens, and you have a lazy co-worker. The easiest way to deal with them is to rant about them to each other. It may feel mean, but it helps both of you deal with it. After all, you have to stick together against the forces of office evil.

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8. You Hang Out Together Outside Of Work

You both go for a glass of wine together after work. In fact, you do this a lot. After a long day at work complaining to each other, all you both want to do is have a laugh together.

9. You Know What They Like For Lunch

You know your work BFF hates mayo, and they know you love olives on everything – mainly because you eat lunch together 5 days out of 7.

10. You And Your Work BFF Have Nicknames For Everyone Else In The Office

This is mainly so you can whisper about people in the office, while you’re still in the office. Did you see what loud shoes just did?!

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11. You Text And Call Each Other On The Evenings And Weekends

40 hours a week together just isn’t enough. Your  work bestie NEEDS to know what is going on with your relationship drama.

12. You Can Have Conversations Without Talking

You and your work BFF often have full conversations in facial expressions – especially during meetings.

13. You Only Go To Work Parties If Your Work BFF Will Be There

You won’t to go to a work party if they aren’t going, because without them you would sit alone, eating all of the snacks, and feeling awkward.

What do you think of this list? Do you have a work BFF? Share this with your work BFF and see what they think!

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Amy is a writer who blogs about relationships and lifestyle advice.

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Last Updated on August 14, 2020

How to Find a Career That Is Right For You

How to Find a Career That Is Right For You

There are thousands of careers to choose from. No wonder finding the one that’s right for you can feel like a guessing game.

Choosing or changing careers can be scary. Even if it’s right for you now, you might wonder, who says it’ll still be a fit in the future?

The truth is, you have to start somewhere. Whether you’re looking for a first job out of college or need a new career, follow this process to find the right one for you:

1. List Out Careers You Could Pursue

It sounds simple, but it’s good advice: Start with what you like. Even before you begin looking for the right career, you probably have an idea of what you’re interested in.

Next, make a second list, this one including your strengths. If you aren’t sure whether you’re actually good at something, ask someone close to you who’ll give you a truthful answer.

Once your lists are made, cross-reference them: What do you like to do and do well?

In a third list, rank these. If you’re skilled at something you don’t particularly like, for instance, that should fall lower on the list.

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2. Take a Career Assessment

Standardized tests shouldn’t make decisions for you, but they can get you pointed in the right direction. Career assessment tests gauge your abilities and interests and make recommendations for career paths based on the answers you give.[1]

Before reviewing your results, take a break. Getting some perspective can help you see whether your answers were guided by your mood. Look at the percentage match and ask yourself whether you could see yourself doing the work of the career or role every day.

For example, if your responses emphasized helping others, the test might point you to a medical career. However, if you don’t want to work in a hospital or clinical environment, you might cut that option or place it lower on your list.

3. Sweat the Details

Every career has gratifying and frustrating things about it. Before you choose one, you need to be clear on those. Reading reviews and job descriptions you find related to each career, make a list of its pros and cons.

There are a lot of factors to think through. Key questions to ask yourself include:

  • What are the hours required by this type of work? Can they be flexible?
  • What skills are required? Do I possess them, or would I be willing to learn them?
  • What are the education requirements? Can I afford to go back to school?
  • How much do jobs in the field pay? Is the payscale top-heavy or evenly distributed?
  • What does job growth in this sector look like? Are they traditional or contracted roles?
  • Are opportunities in the field available in my area? If not, would I be willing to move?
  • Would I be working solo or on a team?

In answering these questions, you’ll find yourself crossing a lot of careers off your list. Remember, that’s a good thing: You’d rather find out a career isn’t right for you now than after you’ve put yourself on that path.

4. Find the Sweet Spot

The crux of the career question is this: What’s the “sweet spot” between your interests and strengths and the market’s needs? The greater the overlap, the better.

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Be warned that you’ll have to compromise. Perhaps you enjoy working with animals, but there’s no demand for that line of work in your area. You might be good at math, but you wouldn’t want to crunch numbers in a cubicle for a living. Finding balance is crucial.

5. Start Networking

What’s the best way to get the real story about the careers you’re interested in? Talking to professionals in the field.

Where should you find these people?

  • Reach out to local businesses.
  • Scour your social media networks, particularly LinkedIn.
  • Ask a past employer for recommendations.
  • Sign up for industry events and conferences.

Schedule a short interview with each of your new connections. Ask them to weigh in on the comments you see online. Every role and company is a bit different, so don’t be surprised if their responses don’t align.

Regardless of who you find or what they say, write it down. If one interviewee’s responses differ wildly from online responses, chat with someone else in the field. Do your best to find out what’s the rule and what’s the exception.

6. Shadow and Volunteer

As valuable as networking can be, you need a firsthand glimpse of the work. If you hit it off with one of your interviewees, ask to do some job shadowing. Sitting beside someone as they work can help you understand not just the pay and the responsibilities but also the culture and work environment associated with each career.

Job shadowing is a good way to get your feet wet before taking a career plunge. If you felt uninterested or unhappy during your shadowing experience, it’s a good sign that you should ponder a different career path. If your shadowing experience made you want to come back for more, you may have found your calling.

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Volunteer work is an alternative to job shadowing that can get you the experience you need as you analyze your career options. As a volunteer, you can be more flexible with your time and get opportunities you wouldn’t find elsewhere.

7. Sign Up for Classes

Many careers have an academic component that you can’t ignore. If you decide you want to be a lawyer, for instance, you might want to know you can survive law school first.

Sign up for an introductory class or two related to each career you’re interested in. The earlier you do this, the better. If you’re still in college, the class will count as an elective and may be covered by your scholarship, but if not, look for a community college option to keep costs low.

Taking a single class is not the same as earning a degree in the field. With that said, it’s a good way to test the waters before you invest thousands of dollars.

If the content interests you and you look forward to class each week, that’s a good sign. If you start dreading the class or choose to drop it, focus your attention elsewhere.

8. Enter the Gig Economy

Contracted work is a great “try it before you buy it” career tactic. Skipping to an entry-level role requires more commitment than you might want to give while you’re still investigating your options. The gig economy offers the best of both worlds: paid work as well as flexibility.[2]

Gig workers take work from companies or individuals that do not directly employ them. Plumbers and artists are good examples. Rather than receiving a regular paycheck, they sell their services by the task or deliverable.

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In the gig economy, you aren’t bound by long-term agreements. If you don’t like the experience, you can simply move on.

You never know if you’ll enjoy something until you try it. And because contractors work with professionals in the field, gig workers naturally get networking and shadowing opportunities.

9. Market Yourself

As you zero in on your dream career, there’s one final test you can use to find out whether you’ll be successful: marketing yourself as a candidate for hire. Whether you get bites is a key indicator of how you’ll fare in the field.

Beware that, as someone without much experience in the field, you’re going to get a lot of rejections. Don’t be discouraged. If you get two interviews out of 50 applications, think of it as two opportunities you didn’t have before to find your ideal career.

Just as important as outreach is a good inbound strategy. Set up a website, and post your portfolio on it. Describe your dream job on your social media.

Recruiters are constantly on the lookout for candidates that fit their company. The more exposure you get, the more people will be interested in what you have to offer. Put yourself out there, and you just might find the perfect fit.

Don’t Give Up!

Nobody ever said it was easy to find a career that’s right for you. Finding one is tough enough, and even then, you may find yourself looking for a new field ten years into your career.

Whatever you want from your professional life, you have to be willing to put in the time. Don’t hesitate, and don’t give up. Start your search today.

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