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25 Things That People Who’re In Their Late 20s Know So Well

25 Things That People Who’re In Their Late 20s Know So Well

I just turned 29 and for me it seems the years rolled by so fast that I didn’t get the chance to make every minute count. And that sucks. Between all that this has meant that I have had to go through some pretty decent challenges that sort of redefined me and make me know how being a 20-something can set the tone for living a great life. These are some of the things everyone in their late 20s knows so well. And you know why we know these things? Because we have passed through the period of expectations and growth, we are now becoming who we should be.

1. A lot of people are full of it. Promises will be made and many of them won’t be kept. Even by the people you thought were great.

2. Certain friends will pick money, sex and status over you. Well those friendships were never made to last.

3. You will have your heart broken. You will love some people and unfortunately they may not feel the same way towards you.

4. Not everything will turn out okay. If you thought you will be living the dream life by now, wake up to some realities. It won’t always act out as planned.

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5. You have to learn to speak smartly. You don’t need to win every argument or say everything that comes to your head.

6. You will know that only your parents can love you unconditionally. Truthfully everyone else is after a piece of the pie. But your parents want you to be great.

7. You can never have it all. You will fail and sacrifice some things to live the life you are meant to live.

8. Nothing comes easy. Yes it does take hard work, perseverance and patience to get those things that you desire.

9. You have to become more positive. This singular quality and truth can take you places.

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10. Knowledge is never gotten only from school. Life itself can teach you so much more.

11. The best choices you make are the ones you have said No to.

12. There is joy and accomplishment in taking a break from work and being with those you truly care about.

13. You have to forgive. There is no success in resentment and grudges.

14. Failure is in giving up. Success is in staying the whole nine yards.

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15. The best thing you can be proud of is your own self-worth. Really there is nothing to brag about after all.

16. Not everyone will like you. It is better they don’t.

17. In a world of such media frenzy and information overload everyone will seem to have an opinion. But it is an opinion, it is never a fact.

18. You have to believe in yourself. That is your trademark and your currency to getting anything you really want.

19. Being in a relationship is a full time job. You can’t afford to be in it simply for the thrill. That will get you fired. Be in a relationship because it can make a positive influence in your life and in the life of the other person.

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20. Observe more and talk less. This is the best way to interact with others.

21. Many people don’t care. If you can find a handful of people who do, please cherish them. Because that handful is all that you need.

22. Pursue a career that you love. It will keep you going beyond a paycheck.

23. If you are in your late 20s and you have not figured it out, it is okay. Even some persons at the age of 40 who seem to have it all most times feel that they don’t.

24. Don’t start what you won’t be able to finish.

25. The best things that will happen to you don’t happen in an instance, it takes time.

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Last Updated on April 9, 2020

How to Think Positive Thoughts When Feeling Negative

How to Think Positive Thoughts When Feeling Negative

Positive thinking can lead to a lot of positive change in your life. Developing an optimistic outlook can be good for both your physical and mental health.

But sometimes, certain situations arise in life that makes it hard to keep a positive outlook. Take steps to make positive thinking become more like your second nature and you’ll reap the biggest benefits.

Here are 10 ways to make thinking positive thoughts easy:

1. Spend Time with Positive People

If you surround yourself with constant complainers, their negativity is likely to rub off on you.

Spend time with positive friends and family members to increase the likelihood that their positive thinking habits will become yours too. It’s hard to be negative when everyone around you is so positive.

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Learn How to Surround Yourself With Positive People.

2. Take Responsibility for Your Behavior

When you encounter problems and difficulties in life, don’t play the role of the victim. Acknowledge your role in the situation and take responsibility for your behavior.

Accepting responsibility can help you learn from mistakes and prevent you from blaming others unfairly.

3. Contribute to the Community

One of the best ways to feel good about what you have, is to focus on what you have to give.

Volunteer in some manner and give back to the community. Helping others can give you a new outlook on the world and can assist you with positive thinking.

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4. Read Positive and Inspirational Materials

Spend time each day reading something that encourages positive thinking. Read the Bible, spiritual material, or inspirational quotes to help you focus on what’s important to you in life. It can be a great way to start and end your day.

Some recommendations for you:

5. Recognize and Replace Negative Thoughts

You won’t be successful at positive thinking if you’re still plagued by frequent negative thoughts. Learn to recognize and replace thoughts that are overly negative. Often, thoughts that include words like “always” and “never” signal that they aren’t true.

If you find yourself thinking something such as, “I always mess everything up,” replace it with something more realistic such as, “Sometimes I make mistakes but I learn from them.”

There’s no need to make your thoughts unrealistically positive, but instead, make them more realistic.

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6. Establish and Work Toward Goals

It’s easier to be positive about problems and setbacks when you have goals that you’re working toward. Goals will give you motivation to overcome those obstacles when you encounter problems along the way. Without clear goals, it’s harder to make decisions and gauge your progress.

Learn to set SMART goals to help you achieve more.

7. Consider the Consequences of Negativity

Spend some time thinking about the consequences of negative thinking. Often, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy.

For example, a person who thinks, “I probably won’t get this job interview,” may put less effort into the interview. As a result, he may decrease his chances of getting the job.

Create a list of all the ways negative thinking impacts your life. It likely influences your behavior, your relationships, and your feelings. Then, create a list of the ways in which positive thinking could be beneficial.

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8. Offer Compliments to Others

Look for reasons to compliment others. Be genuine in your praise and compliments, but offer it frequently. This will help you look for the good in other people.

9. Create a Daily Gratitude List

If you start keeping a daily gratitude list, you’ll start noticing exactly how much you have to be thankful for. This can help you focus on the positive in your life instead of thinking about all the bad things that have happened in the day.

Getting in the habit of showing an attitude of gratitude makes positive thinking more of a habit. Here’re 40 Simple Ways To Practice Gratitude.

10. Practice Self-Care

Take good care of yourself and you’ll be more equipped to think positively.

Get plenty of rest and exercise and practice managing your stress well. Taking care of your physical and mental health will provide you with more energy to focus on positive thinking.

Learn about these 30 Self-Care Habits for a Strong and Healthy Mind, Body and Spirit.

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