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25 Things That People Who’re In Their Late 20s Know So Well

25 Things That People Who’re In Their Late 20s Know So Well

I just turned 29 and for me it seems the years rolled by so fast that I didn’t get the chance to make every minute count. And that sucks. Between all that this has meant that I have had to go through some pretty decent challenges that sort of redefined me and make me know how being a 20-something can set the tone for living a great life. These are some of the things everyone in their late 20s knows so well. And you know why we know these things? Because we have passed through the period of expectations and growth, we are now becoming who we should be.

1. A lot of people are full of it. Promises will be made and many of them won’t be kept. Even by the people you thought were great.

2. Certain friends will pick money, sex and status over you. Well those friendships were never made to last.

3. You will have your heart broken. You will love some people and unfortunately they may not feel the same way towards you.

4. Not everything will turn out okay. If you thought you will be living the dream life by now, wake up to some realities. It won’t always act out as planned.

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5. You have to learn to speak smartly. You don’t need to win every argument or say everything that comes to your head.

6. You will know that only your parents can love you unconditionally. Truthfully everyone else is after a piece of the pie. But your parents want you to be great.

7. You can never have it all. You will fail and sacrifice some things to live the life you are meant to live.

8. Nothing comes easy. Yes it does take hard work, perseverance and patience to get those things that you desire.

9. You have to become more positive. This singular quality and truth can take you places.

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10. Knowledge is never gotten only from school. Life itself can teach you so much more.

11. The best choices you make are the ones you have said No to.

12. There is joy and accomplishment in taking a break from work and being with those you truly care about.

13. You have to forgive. There is no success in resentment and grudges.

14. Failure is in giving up. Success is in staying the whole nine yards.

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15. The best thing you can be proud of is your own self-worth. Really there is nothing to brag about after all.

16. Not everyone will like you. It is better they don’t.

17. In a world of such media frenzy and information overload everyone will seem to have an opinion. But it is an opinion, it is never a fact.

18. You have to believe in yourself. That is your trademark and your currency to getting anything you really want.

19. Being in a relationship is a full time job. You can’t afford to be in it simply for the thrill. That will get you fired. Be in a relationship because it can make a positive influence in your life and in the life of the other person.

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20. Observe more and talk less. This is the best way to interact with others.

21. Many people don’t care. If you can find a handful of people who do, please cherish them. Because that handful is all that you need.

22. Pursue a career that you love. It will keep you going beyond a paycheck.

23. If you are in your late 20s and you have not figured it out, it is okay. Even some persons at the age of 40 who seem to have it all most times feel that they don’t.

24. Don’t start what you won’t be able to finish.

25. The best things that will happen to you don’t happen in an instance, it takes time.

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Last Updated on January 18, 2019

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

7 Ways To Deal With Negative People

Some people will have a rain cloud hanging over them, no matter what the weather is outside. Their negative attitude is toxic to your own moods, and you probably feel like there is little you can do about it.

But that couldn’t be farther from the truth.

If you want to effectively deal with negative people and be a champion of positivity, then your best route is to take definite action through some of the steps below.

1. Limit the time you spend with them.

First, let’s get this out of the way. You can be more positive than a cartoon sponge, but even your enthusiasm has a chance of being afflicted by the constant negativity of a friend.

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In fact, negativity has been proven to damage your health physically, making you vulnerable to high levels of stress and even cardiac disease. There’s no reason to get hurt because of someone else’s bad mood.

Though this may be a little tricky depending on your situation, working to spend slightly less time around negative people will keep your own spirits from slipping as well.

2. Speak up for yourself.

Don’t just absorb the comments that you are being bombarded with, especially if they are about you. It’s wise to be quick to listen and slow to speak, but being too quiet can give the person the impression that you are accepting what’s being said.

3. Don’t pretend that their behavior is “OK.”

This is an easy trap to fall into. Point out to the person that their constant negativity isn’t a good thing. We don’t want to do this because it’s far easier to let someone sit in their woes, and we’d rather just stay out of it.

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But if you want the best for this person, avoid giving the false impression that their negativity is normal.

4. Don’t make their problems your problems.

Though I consider empathy a gift, it can be a dangerous thing. When we hear the complaints of a friend or family member, we typically start to take on their burdens with them.

This is a bad habit to get into, especially if this is a person who is almost exclusively negative. These types of people are prone to embellishing and altering a story in order to gain sympathy.

Why else would they be sharing this with you?

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5. Change the subject.

When you suspect that a conversation is starting to take a turn for the negative, be a champion of positivity by changing the subject. Of course, you have to do this without ignoring what the other person said.

Acknowledge their comment, but move the conversation forward before the euphoric pleasure gained from complaining takes hold of either of you.

6. Talk about solutions, not problems.

Sometimes, changing the subject isn’t an option if you want to deal with negative people, but that doesn’t mean you can’t still be positive.

I know that when someone begins dumping complaints on me, I have a hard time knowing exactly what to say. The key is to measure your responses as solution-based.

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You can do this by asking questions like, “Well, how could this be resolved?” or, “How do you think they feel about it?”

Use discernment to find an appropriate response that will help your friend manage their perspectives.

7. Leave them behind.

Sadly, there are times when we have to move on without these friends, especially if you have exhausted your best efforts toward building a positive relationship.

If this person is a family member, you can still have a functioning relationship with them, of course, but you may still have to limit the influence they have over your wellbeing.

That being said, what are some steps you’ve taken to deal with negative people? Let us know in the comments.

You may also want to read: How to Stop the Negative Spin of Thoughts, Emotions and Actions.

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