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10 Ways Successful People Communicate With Others

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10 Ways Successful People Communicate With Others

Every great leader is a great communicator. Great leaders are intentional about their communication. They know how they show up matters, every single day. They strive to form connections with others. They influence and inspire others to do their best. Master these ways successful people communicate and watch your leadership skills soar.

1. They Are Skilled at Reading Body Language

Successful communicators know that posture doesn’t always provide good indications about someone’s feelings. Instead, they learn to pick up on subtle cues. They are experts at picking up on micro expressions, which are very brief facial expressions that occur when people conceal their feelings. Excellent communicators have learned to read these very slight facial cues that last only a fraction of a second. They tailor their messages as they go, based on these tiny cues, in order to maximize their influence. Dr. Paul Ekman, a prominent psychologist and researcher, has studied nonverbal behavior and has developed a training program to read micro expressions. Check out www.paulekman.com to learn more.

2. They Are Honest

Great leaders know that information full of half-truths causes mistrust. They are honest with others. When they’re unable to share classified information, they say exactly that. When they are able to relay messages, they give concise and clear messages without a bunch of fluff.

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3. They Don’t Micromanage

Great communicators don’t demand control of the details. They delegate effectively. They instill a sense of confidence in others, empowering them to do their best. They are positive and encouraging. They enable others to expand beyond their comfort zones to achieve their goals.

4. They Don’t Waste Other People’s Time

Excellent communicators don’t hold meetings just for the sake of holding meetings. They understand the value of someone else’s time. They inform others of their clear agendas and specific goals for each meeting they lead.

5. They Hold Themselves Accountable

The best leaders know they’re not perfect. They don’t wait for the general public to discover their blunders before admitting them. They don’t conceal when they’ve wronged others. Great communicators say things like “I’m sorry,” and “It was my fault.”

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6. They Give Credit

Great communicators give credit where it’s due. They know the significance of making others feel valued, important, and appreciated. They take time to thank others privately and publicly.

7. They Speak with Confidence

Successful leaders speak with authority and confidence. They understand the value of appropriate tone and effectively timed pauses. They don’t bury their heads in the sand when tough messages need to be delivered. They deliver information powerfully, tactfully, and poised.

8. They Are Excellent Listeners

Great leaders have mastered their listening skills. They are actively engaged in every conversation. They don’t let their minds wander when someone is talking to them. They focus on understanding what the other person is saying instead of thinking about what they’re going to say next.

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9. They Ask Questions

The best communicators ask questions to make sure they’ve heard someone’s message correctly. They realize pertinent information can get lost if it’s not fully understood, so they ask for clarification when needed. They also realize they don’t have all the answers on every subject.They recognize when they need the expertise of others, and ask questions for guidance when appropriate.

10. They Invest in Others

Great leaders strive to learn what motivates and inspires others. They invest time and energy into learning what lights people on fire. They know that building up someone’s strengths and fueling their passion promotes innovation. Successful communicators cultivate an environment where others can maximize their natural talents as they work toward achieving their goals.

In Conclusion

Successful people have mastered the art of communication. They value honesty and authenticity in relationships. They lead with intention and clarity and fully understand the importance of excellent communication. By developing your communication skills, your success will soar.

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Featured photo credit: Steve Jurvetson/Planet Explorers debut with Will Marshall’s TED Talk via flickr.com

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Last Updated on January 13, 2022

How to Use Travel Time Effectively

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How to Use Travel Time Effectively

Most of us associate travel and time with what we’re going to do one we get to our destination. Planning and mapping out what to do once you arrive can certainly make for a more pleasurable vacation, but there are things you can do while you are on your way that can make it even better.

Sure, you can plan for the things you’re going to do on your vacation while you are travelling en route – but what about making use of that time for other things that you don’t usually do when you’re at home? You don’t need to have your gadgets with you to do it, and you can really connect with yourself if you take the time to manage your life while heading towards your vacation destination.

Here are some great tips to help you with your time management while you travel, some of which are more conventional than others. Nonetheless, you can find out what works best for you and apply them accordingly depending on when and how you are travelling.

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1. Take Your Time Getting There

As I write this, I’m on a flight to San Francisco. Flying is the fastest way to get from place to place, and for many people it’s really the only way to travel.

But I’ve often taken the train or ferry on trips so that I have extra time without distraction to get more done. I’m not worrying about navigation or lack of space to do what I want to do. Instead I’m able to focus on getting stuff done during the time I’ve got without feeling rushed. For example, when I took the train from Vancouver to Portland, it was an eight hour trip and I managed to get a ton of writing done and closed a lot of open loops. It also was less expensive than flying, which was a bonus.

Sometimes taking the long way to get somewhere on vacation can be the best thing for you to get somewhere with your life.

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2. Go Gadget-Free

This is going to be a tough one for a lot of you. But why do you need to bring your gadgets with you when you go on vacation? It isn’t be a bad idea to leave all but one of them behind, and only pull out that one when you absolutely need to do so. In some countries, you’d be wise to be discreet with them anyway since flaunting them in front of those that are less fortunate than you isn’t a good practice. While it may not seem like flaunting to you, in different cultures it can definitely come across that way.

If you can’t go gadget-free, then at least go Internet-free. If you use a task management app that requires syncing across your multiple devices to be effective, remember that if you only have the one device with you then it can be the “master device” for the time being and will store your data locally anyway. Just sync up when you get home.

3. Reflect and Prepare

Finally, going on any sort of excursion gives you the perfect opportunity to reflect on where you’ve been. The fact you have removed yourself from where you usually are can give you a perspective that you simply can’t get when you’re at home. You may want to journal your thoughts during this time – and by taking more time to get to your destination you’ll have more time to dig deeper into it.

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After a period of reflection – however long that happens to be – you can then begin to not only prepare for the rest of your travels, you can prepare for the rest of what happens afterward. The reflection period is important, though. You need to really know where you’ve been in order to properly look at where you want to be. Time away from things gives you that chance.

Conclusion

Traveling isn’t always about where you’re going and how quickly you can get there. In fact, it’s rarely about that at all.

More often it’s where you’re at in your head that will dictate how much you benefit from traveling. So don’t just go somewhere fast. Instead, take your time on the way there and take the time to connect with not only where you are but who are while you’re there.

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If you do that, you’ll have a better chance to be who you want to be when you leave.

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