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9 Reasons You Can’t Resist Dating A Dreamer

9 Reasons You Can’t Resist Dating A Dreamer

Have you ever stopped to watch someone blow bubbles? These soapy bubbles are colorful and beautiful. Even though you know that all bubbles will burst in the end, you will still stop and follow each bubble to see where it goes.

Dating a dreamer is like watching bubbles float in the air. There’s something irresistible and enigmatic about dreamers that makes you stall for a moment. Why are dreamers so irresistible? Here are 9 reasons why you can’t resist dating a dreamer.

1. You can’t stop looking into their dreamy eyes.

There is something intriguing about a dreamer’s eyes. You can spend a lot of time getting lost in their eyes and still be fascinated by them. Through their beautiful eyes, you feel a deep connection with their souls, yet they still remain somewhat mysterious to you.

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2. You feel special around them.

When you date a dreamer, you finally know what it means to be special. Dreamers treat you like a prince or princess from the fairy tales. You will be loved because dreamers believe in love. Once they have decided that you are the one, they will fight for you despite all obstacles and challenges.

3. You always have surprises.

You never know what’s going on inside a dreamer’s head. They are full of surprises. Dating a dreamer means you will never have a boring date again and will soon forget what boring is. They are hopelessly romantic and they sure know how to surprise you when you least expected it. You won’t know where they will take you for a date or what they will give you next.

4. You have someone who believes in you.

Dreamers believe in the impossible. They see potential in everything, including you. If you have a dream, they will encourage and inspire you to take action. They are positive and optimistic not only towards their own dreams, but also towards yours too.

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5. You are amused by his absent-mindedness.

There is a certain cuteness and charm when dreamers get absent-minded. They might wear unmatched socks or shoes. They might search for an item that they already have with them. They might not be aware of what’s going on in their surroundings. It’s pure joy to look at them dream and live inside their own head.

6. You are dating more than one person.

Dreamers are imaginative. When you date a dreamer, it feels like you are dating more than one person. They can be naughty and fun, romantic and loving, intelligent and confident. They are everything you wish for in a partner. Dating a dreamer means you just bought a ticket to fantasy-land. You don’t get the best of both worlds. You get the best of all worlds.

7. You feel like a kid again.

Have you seen a kid fall down and cry, only to later get up on his feet and start laughing and having fun again? That’s what dating a dreamer is like. You momentarily forget what unhappiness is. Ask dreamers about their dreams, you will see a big kid with wide-opened eyes talking about his or her aspirations. Their positivity and kid-like excitement is infectious, making you feel like a kid again.

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8. You are blessed with endless creative solutions to your problems.

Dreamers may not seem to possess the conventional wisdom that people admire, but they are actually very creative and smart. In fact, with their heads in the clouds all the time, they are able to see solutions that most people normally won’t. They have visions beyond what currently exists. They also always find ways to improve your life and theirs.

9. You are dating someone who is potentially very successful.

For realists out there who think that dreamers are not worth dating because they wouldn’t be financially stable in the long run, you couldn’t be more wrong.

Yes, some dreamers never took off with their dreams. However, some of the most successful people in the world are dreamers. Walt Disney, Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Albert Einstein, and Thomas Edison are all dreamers.

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Without dreamers, there wouldn’t be any new inventions or progress. Dreamers don’t follow the crowd. Their ideas may not be the most popular at first. However, you won’t know what you have missed if you give up on a dreamer who has ambition.

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Last Updated on November 5, 2018

8 Powerful Reasons to Love Your Enemies

8 Powerful Reasons to Love Your Enemies

We’ve all got our enemies; people who take pleasure in causing us pain and misery. Sometimes, the development of an enemy is due to certain differences in your characters and events have led to that. Other times, some people end up hating you for apparently no reason at all.

Regardless of how you got this enemy, as opposed to the paradigm of fighting fire with fire, consider the following reasons and see why you should actually appreciate your enemies. This article will show you not only how to not be bothered by your enemies, but how to actually foster love for them.

Read on to learn the secret.

1. It’s a practical lesson in anger management

To be honest, your enemies are the best people to help you understand your sense of anger management. When it might be true that your enemies have a way of bringing out the worst in you as regards anger, it is also true that they can help you in your quest to have that anger managed. You can’t get truly angry at someone you love and it is only in that time when you get truly annoyed that you learn how to manage it.

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Anger management is more effective when it is in practice and not in theory

Your enemies are like the therapists who you need, but actually don’t want. Inasmuch as you might want to hate them, they provide you an opportunity to control the anger impulse that you have.

2. It’s an opportunity for healthy competition

You might not know it, but your enemies make for great rivals as they help harness the competitor in you (sometimes, you might not even know or bee conversant with this competitive side until you come across an adversary). You get the right motivation to compete and this can go a long way to spur you to victory.

However, while doing so, it is also essential that you remember not to become a worse version of yourself while competing. Working against an adversary is tricky, and you need to ensure that you don’t cause harm to yourself or your morals in the process. Healthy competition is all you need to get out of this.

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3. Their negative comments can help you make a breakthrough

It is true that your enemies never really have much good to say about you. However, in as much as they might be talking out of a place of hate, there might be some truth to what they’re saying.

To wit, whenever you hear something mean or nasty from an enemy, you might want to take a step back and evaluate yourself. There is a chance that what this enemy is saying is true and coming to face that fact is a major step in helping you to become a better person overall. This is another testament to the fact that enemies can be therapists in their own way.

4. Enemies can also be powerful allies

Loving your enemies can also mean making an effort to interact and make peace with them. In the end, if you are able to establish some common ground and patch things up, you’ll have succeeded in making another friend. And who doesn’t need friends?

This can also help you in working with people in the long run. You get to hone your inter-personal skills, and that can be a big plus to your ledger.

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5. It gives you the ability to realize positivity

In a multitude of negativity, a speck of positivity always seems to find its way through.

Sometimes, a knowledge of the fact that you have enemies will also help you to focus on the many positives and good things that are in your life. A lot of times, we neglect what really matters in life. This can be due to being overly concerned with the enemies we have.

However, it is also possible for this acknowledgement to spur you to take a step back and appreciate the goo things (and people who surround you).

6. There might just be a misunderstanding

Sometimes, the reason why you have an enemy might be something very innocuous. You might not have known the cause of this fractured relationship and your enemy will help complete the picture.

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Simply approaching them will help you to understand the reason for the fracture. This, in turn, can help you to work towards healing your relationship moving forward. Misunderstandings happen, and you need to be able to work around them.

7. You learn to appreciate love as well

A constant reminder of the fact that there are enemies will also help you not to take those who love you for granted. Love and hate are two opposing emotions and it is possible for one to momentarily overshadow the other.

However, while you’ll always have enemies, there will also always be people who love you. These people need to be appreciated for what they do for you. Never let the hate projected to you from your enemies take the place of that.

8. Do you really need the hate?

The truth is that enemies bring only toxic emotions and generate bad reactions from you. If you’re truly to live a prosperous life, you can’t really be carrying all this baggage around.

Hate is bad and you should try all you can to get rid of it. It is a well-known fact that nobody can get really far in life while carrying a lot of emotional baggage. Well, hate is the biggest form of emotional baggage there is.

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