Have you ever stopped to watch someone blow bubbles? These soapy bubbles are colorful and beautiful. Even though you know that all bubbles will burst in the end, you will still stop and follow each bubble to see where it goes.
Dating a dreamer is like watching bubbles float in the air. There’s something irresistible and enigmatic about dreamers that makes you stall for a moment. Why are dreamers so irresistible? Here are 9 reasons why you can’t resist dating a dreamer.
1. You can’t stop looking into their dreamy eyes.
There is something intriguing about a dreamer’s eyes. You can spend a lot of time getting lost in their eyes and still be fascinated by them. Through their beautiful eyes, you feel a deep connection with their souls, yet they still remain somewhat mysterious to you.
2. You feel special around them.
When you date a dreamer, you finally know what it means to be special. Dreamers treat you like a prince or princess from the fairy tales. You will be loved because dreamers believe in love. Once they have decided that you are the one, they will fight for you despite all obstacles and challenges.
3. You always have surprises.
You never know what’s going on inside a dreamer’s head. They are full of surprises. Dating a dreamer means you will never have a boring date again and will soon forget what boring is. They are hopelessly romantic and they sure know how to surprise you when you least expected it. You won’t know where they will take you for a date or what they will give you next.
4. You have someone who believes in you.
Dreamers believe in the impossible. They see potential in everything, including you. If you have a dream, they will encourage and inspire you to take action. They are positive and optimistic not only towards their own dreams, but also towards yours too.
5. You are amused by his absent-mindedness.
There is a certain cuteness and charm when dreamers get absent-minded. They might wear unmatched socks or shoes. They might search for an item that they already have with them. They might not be aware of what’s going on in their surroundings. It’s pure joy to look at them dream and live inside their own head.
6. You are dating more than one person.
Dreamers are imaginative. When you date a dreamer, it feels like you are dating more than one person. They can be naughty and fun, romantic and loving, intelligent and confident. They are everything you wish for in a partner. Dating a dreamer means you just bought a ticket to fantasy-land. You don’t get the best of both worlds. You get the best of all worlds.
7. You feel like a kid again.
Have you seen a kid fall down and cry, only to later get up on his feet and start laughing and having fun again? That’s what dating a dreamer is like. You momentarily forget what unhappiness is. Ask dreamers about their dreams, you will see a big kid with wide-opened eyes talking about his or her aspirations. Their positivity and kid-like excitement is infectious, making you feel like a kid again.
8. You are blessed with endless creative solutions to your problems.
Dreamers may not seem to possess the conventional wisdom that people admire, but they are actually very creative and smart. In fact, with their heads in the clouds all the time, they are able to see solutions that most people normally won’t. They have visions beyond what currently exists. They also always find ways to improve your life and theirs.
9. You are dating someone who is potentially very successful.
For realists out there who think that dreamers are not worth dating because they wouldn’t be financially stable in the long run, you couldn’t be more wrong.
Yes, some dreamers never took off with their dreams. However, some of the most successful people in the world are dreamers. Walt Disney, Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Albert Einstein, and Thomas Edison are all dreamers.
Without dreamers, there wouldn’t be any new inventions or progress. Dreamers don’t follow the crowd. Their ideas may not be the most popular at first. However, you won’t know what you have missed if you give up on a dreamer who has ambition.
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